After rolling off my latest plate, I felt a serious sense of shame. My N is getting higher than I planned -- that's not a humblebrag, but something more like disgust. I realized furthermore that going into my thirties, I will face societal scorn for spinning plates. And really, do I want to be some rootless asshole running around in his thirties fucking random women? No.

My own issues aside, I'm of the opinion that society should bring back shaming for both sluts and "man-whores". Lout-shaming (namely a stern talk from Pops about the value of commitment, and how a woman's looks aren't all she's got to offer) would drastically lower the supply of Alpha males and force women back into a less hypergamous position.

What's TRP's perspective?