So progressing toward not giving a fuck is going quite well to me. Truly embracing outcome independence has been key to me. Letting go of the things you cling to or are afraid of losing would come in 2nd.

I’m stumbling at one point though which honestly shows I haven’t truly embraced outcome independence or internalized it yet. I’m not sure how this is going to play out with work. The truth is I honestly do not care what my coworkers think. I’m thinking it comes across arrogant versus confidence. Now I don’t mind how they feel. It’s whatever, but I do want to progress in my career, and people matter. Going to need that job reference 10 years down the road or be perceived as likeable to get promoted.

Ultimately I’ll probably end up in business for myself at some point, but I’ve got to be able to be me and still be likable. For context I’ve had people tell me they thought I just didn’t GAF at work BEFORE red pill. It’s been peers who thought it was funny or were envious, but also a psycho cunt of a boss. That was BEFORE. Now I care so much less. If I got fired today I can’t see myself reacting too much. Not like before.

Anyone encountered this? I could be just reading things wrong and overthinking. Just looking to hear others experience.