Background: I was the typical clueless nice guy who, when I did manage to get a date, heard the "you're a really nice guy but let's just be friends" speech too many times. Always on the skinny side which affected my self-confidence. Nice guy, skinny AND no self-confidence? Yeah, that's a ladies man right there. Gave up, quit trying. Couldn't understand women and why they were attracted to assholes only to try to turn them into the kind of guys they never wanted in the first place. Remember the line in Fight Club Edward Norton says in a voice over, "we're a generation of men raised by women." Parents divorced at an early age, raised by my mom, with an older sister. Estrogen overload, and the mom taught me all the wrong things when it came to women. The exact opposite of what I should have been doing.

Fast forward. I'm 41 and my older cousin (who is unhappily married and can't trust his wife, admires my freedom of being single and unencumbered) turned me on the Red Pill a few months ago (although I did get on this path about ten years ago. Either a friend sent me the email or it was spam but David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating got me started. I've since bought more of those types of programs and have learned quite a bit). I've always been the non-conformist especially when it comes to Society and their expectations, i.e. Grow-Up, Get-married, Have-Kids Life Plan. I've been the MGTOW for a long time now. Never been divorced, no child support to pay. It's great.

I've been working out (and at 6'-6" I do get noticed), improving myself, following my passions of playing guitar, writing and recording my own music at home, riding my bike on the weekends. In short doing what I want and love to do, and making myself the best version of me possible. My life is simple and uncomplicated.

I've got TRP attitude and have lifted the veil and now view women and their behavior with a little bit of contempt (my thinking is when seeing a woman "yeah she's pretty but do I want to put up with her inevitable self-created drama and tests?") If I talk to them I am the one doing the qualifying. Maybe it's my don't-give-a-shit, aspiring semi-asshole attitude or I'm attracting lots of post-wall women in my age group, (and lots of young women as well. Too immature. no patience for that) but I do notice a shift has occurred. I'm the prize now, I know it, they know it and they're wanting to find a guy who will put up with their drama and shit-tests and finding it harder and harder to do so. Supply and demand I guess.

TL/DR: I guess it's my mindset and how that affects my behavior that has changed my results with women. Wish I would have learned all this stuff a long time ago.