Do I defer to him for holiday arrangements?

[deleted] · 2018-11-19T16:13:54+00:00

if we do our own thing I will have a lot of fallout from my mother and brother, and they will also take it out on him.

Why? Is this the same brother who is living with you now?

Personally, I feel like if your mom is going to act like that, you should stand up for your boyfriend if you really see him as someone you'd marry. It shouldn't have to be a him vs. them thing. He's your family too.

Holidays can cause people to see things through rose-colored glasses that you otherwise wouldn't put up with.

RubyWooToo · 2018-11-19T17:30:54+00:00

Do you live close enough that you and your brother would be able to stop over your family's house for coffee and dessert by yourselves?

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Title	Do I defer to him for holiday arrangements?
Author	CL111326912
Upvotes	5
Comments	3
Date	November 19, 2018 6:36 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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