I'm getting mixed vibes off this girl I'm into. I know there are plenty of other women etc. but I feel this one is worth pursuing. I've bumped into her twice on nights out, and both times stopped at hers - although the second time was admittedly fairly tame as we didn't have sex, and couldn't tell if we were just friends or not. I was ready to just forget about anything with her at that point.

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However, at the weekend I asked her if she was out that night and where she was, and she asked me if I wanted to come over. She even said to wake her up if I wanted to. I declined as I was pretty drunk and having a good time with friends, and knew we were meeting up in a couple of days.

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The following day, she asked me how my night went and said we're still on for tomorrow, and that she wished I had come over. But then the following day, she said she was too hungover and felt horrendous, apologized and asked to reschedule. I said which days I'm free, and for her to let me know if she wanted to do any of those days. She then ignored that part of the message, and the convo died shortly after, and I've not heard from her for a couple of days

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What's with the fluctuating interest levels? I'm guessing she banged someone else and her interest has dropped perhaps. Is this girl worth my time, do I message her in a few days, or just ignore and see if she comes back to me?