I would post this on r/asktrp, but those guys would simply say “don’t get married”. I’m well aware of the risk. In this sociopolitical climate it’s like diving into shark infested waters. I’m 24, and became red pilled a few years ago.

I’ve dated a lot of different girls, and I know what I like. I found this really sweet 21 year old Christian homeschooled girl from North Carolina. I met her in October of 2017, and weave dated ever since.

Our beliefs match up very well, and so do our personalities and our plans for the future. It’s clear she cares a lot about me. We talk about the possibility of marriage on a regular basis. I never force it. She brings it up more than half of the time. She’s given me strong indications that she would say yes, but I don’t know guys...

She’s still on the younger side and It seems like she is having some unvoiced reservations. I’m wondering if she secretly thinks I’m not going to amount to anything, or I won’t be a good provider. She’s got a nice full time job she could make into a career. I’m in my senior year Of college, and I graduate in May. I’ve got a part time job, but I still live with my dad for the time being. I don’t really have much of a savings. Though, I work out 5-6 times a week. I have vision for my future. I’m much stronger emotionally than I was when we first started dating.

I don’t know guys, she’s sweet but she’s not a unicorn. I know all girls are like that, and at the end of the day they want the full package. We both theoretically want to marry while we’re young because we want to have a big family, but how can I invite her to come live in my world if it isn’t set up yet?

Thank you for your patience, Men.