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Yeah, it’s never that simple if his kid is disabled, on the spectrum, whatever. One of my stepkids is out of her fucking mind. I never even believed in PTSD, pediatric bipolar, rage filled ADD, etc. But it’s WAY more complicated than just “put them in time outs.”
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 10:58 PM
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Wife is sleeping with someone else. Which sounds like it’s pretty fair overall.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 10:56 PM
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“I don’t want you to become a plate spinner.” OMFG dying laughing at the thought of that coming out of a woman’s mouth. Did she look confused when she said it? Like she was a cow chewing her cud? You’re crushing the frame game. What she wants to say = If you cheat on me, I’ll leave you. What she actually says in the end = Will you TRY not to cheat on me? (Aka, if you don’t rub it in my face, it’s okay, it’s what men do) The question now is do you level up? You can push this into threesomes and/o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 10:29 PM
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First Lieutenant going to war for you. That’s seriously some good shit. That speaks 100x louder than all the sex. Nice job.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 10:22 PM
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Absolutely agree. You get snipped yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 10:20 PM
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You mad bro? Why you mad? You spelled fungible wrong, if you’re going to use big words at least calm down enough to spell them right. Later faggot. Edit: More insulting to RStone
/r/askMRP28/06/19 08:44 PM
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Hmmmm, so maybe RStone specifically wouldn’t think anything. But if a guy writes “had sex with my wife twice and she didn’t cum either time” there will be a slew of responses, primarily focused around him being a small dicked faggot that should go kill himself before Chad steals his wife. I liked the post overall, and at the beginning-middle stages of RP, I think this post-play analysis is ideal. What he’s saying is “I took this bad situation, and used RP theory, and had a great result. I’m pret…
/r/askMRP28/06/19 08:35 PM
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Maybe? I’m not a fan of lying. Unless I’m going to get a little side action, and then fuck it.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 05:39 PM
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Yeah, this is huge. The apps are free, and it totally helps you be aware. I used to get so annoyed with the comfort tests, like fuck how many times do I have to hug you? But then realized she was PMSing.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 05:33 PM
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Yes, I think it’s pertinent. The whole post is about sex, so it’s another piece of the puzzle. No, I don’t think he’s seeking validation.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 05:27 PM
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That’s why I got a vasectomy post divorce. New girl asks me every couple months to get it reversed and make a baby. No thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 05:24 PM
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Ehhhhh, I can see your point. But for me, having total sexual freedom is worth it for her to go bang one of her loser orbiters. Monogamy is a dysfunctional sexual pattern (for most men). Men are biologically polygamous/polyamorous, women are biologically monogamous. A guys prime directive is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible. A woman’s prime directive is to mate with the best available male and grow his offspring, securing his time, attention and resources in the process. Back to my…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 05:23 PM
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That’s why it’s called AskMRP? But it’s cool, most of us need to be called faggot pussies every once in awhile. I think that’s where you come in.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 05:02 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 04:10 PM
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Oh good, no more throat punches.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 04:07 PM
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Ooooh, I love the initiate before gym. Or whatever prior commitment you have. Instant withdrawal of attention with plausible deniability. And I know we’re all supposedly super badasses on here, but we’ve all been bothered by rejection at some point. So now JUST IN CASE you get butthurt, it’s way less noticeable. All the upvotes. Last point, I think when you’re starting out, you have to overanalyze. So not a bad thing for now
/r/askMRP28/06/19 03:12 PM
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If you don’t make your woman cum, someone else will. That’s why he should care. NOT saying he should resolve his sex life around her, but yeah you want to be getting your wife off.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 03:07 PM
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I don’t have a wife. Are you special?
/r/askMRP28/06/19 02:54 PM
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He doesn’t know. And video game playing suggests low T? What’s his source for that? He sounds like an angry spurned one night stand. That hate posts all over your Facebook account.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 02:53 PM
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Yeah, 10-11 year olds are weird. Sometimes they need 11 hours of sleep, sometimes they need 8. My 10 year old sleeps from 10 pm - 7 am, wakes up no alarm clock, totally rested, zero fatigue issues. To clarify, she’s in bed around 9, but doesn’t fall asleep till 10 pm. I think it just depends if they’re growing or not. It’s like their bodies are trying to figure out if they’re adults or little kids still, which probably isn’t that far off.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:50 PM
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None of that is accurate. But good job making shit up to try and prove your point faggot.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:12 PM
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Lol, yeah man, just wait till you kids only need 7-8 hours of sleep. Fuckers are ALWAYS awake.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:08 PM
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I have three kids, 13 10 8. I totally understand about the older kids going to sleep same time as adults, you don’t realize how much easier it is when the kids are younger. Bedtime doesn’t have to be RIGHT when the kids go to sleep. We put our oldest two in their bedrooms approx an hour before lights out. They used to ask why the change, and I always said some variant “I want to make out with your hot mom.” Obviously they’re old enough to know what sex is, so they would just go upstairs in disgu…
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:07 PM
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That’s because all the answers he’s gotten so far are stupid, and from people that obviously have no kids, or have super little kids that sleep 12 hours a day.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:01 PM
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This was like 6 paragraphs of you bragging about your life with zero useful information. He can’t fuck his wife on the kitchen counter when his 10 year old is watching TV. Downvote.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:00 PM
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No, you didn’t fuck up. And denying her sex would have been a mistake. You handled it perfectly when you cave manned and then forced doggy style out of her. Essentially, “if you want the D, we are doing it MY WAY.” Good recovery.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 11:55 AM
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Cops don’t care about safe words. If she has a mark, you’re getting arrested. To clarify. I’m in a D/S relationship as well. I choke the shit out of her, piss on her face and smack her around. But saying No to me isn’t an option. I don’t like brats, and the point of being a sub isn’t to fight it. It’s to willingly give in to your master’s pleasure. But you do you.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 03:09 AM
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I’m in a (99%) one sided open relationship. I fuck other women on the regular, she bangs another guy like once a year. Yes yes yes, she could be fucking a football team behind my back. But I highly doubt it. And I would probably laugh if she did and say “Hey that’s fair, I’ve fucked four of your friends.” Point being, Beta men get scared of competition, Alpha’s don’t. So I believe “Poly relationships facilitate a woman’s sexual strategy” is only true for Beta fags who were going to get cheated o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 02:41 AM
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That’s not a submissive. It’s like you’re wrestling with a dog, and it keeps biting you, so you wrestle harder. It might be fun, but one day the dog is going to bite you in the fucking throat. Analogy you ask? All it takes is a bruise, a mark on her ass, and her to get pissed off and call 911. Now your dumb ass is sleeping on a futon while she rapes your bank accounts. And you’re also busy wondering if you’re going to jail or not. Brats aren’t submissive. It’s not cute, and it’s not funny. Unacc…
/r/askMRP28/06/19 02:10 AM
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MGTOW isn’t about zero sex. Just about not buying into a woman’s BS to get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 05:30 PM
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Pretty normal phase post divorce. Lift hard, pound sluts, DGAF. Anger is strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 05:29 PM
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I’m in a one sided open relationship. I fuck other women, she fucks me. You can’t be covert about that shit. “This is what I envision for the perfect wife. I’m excited about you being that for me.” And they fall into line, or they cry and leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 04:56 PM
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Dom / Sub relationships are the best. I love that 50 Shades paved the way for the discussion. It’s what most women want, once you take away the bullshit feminism has brainwashed them into.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 04:53 PM
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STFU applies to you and your wife. This is more like a tribe, where you can share your fuckups and it doesn’t matter (beyond everyone calling you a faggot of course).
/r/askMRP27/06/19 04:47 PM
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Good job.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 03:28 PM
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That’s called being in love.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 03:25 PM
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That’s called being in love.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 03:13 PM
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AWALT is real. And yeah, the pill can be bitter.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 05:26 PM
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6 weeks, wtf dude. “If she wants you to wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait.” Rollo Tomassi
/r/askMRP07/02/19 05:25 PM
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Retarded to fault the guy for hustling and working his ass off to get what he wants out of life. If that’s how he wants to live his life, have at it. I’m with you though, I max out at 30 hours.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:33 PM
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Best comment. The woman is making decisions in her life that are best for HER. OP needs to do the same.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:31 PM
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What’s OP income? That’s all it comes down to. If he wants to work 70 hours/week to make $150k have at it. Or if there’s an ultimate goal in mind (opening own business whatever), so be it. But if he’s running 70 hours a week to make $60k, then chump.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:27 PM
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Never understood why guys on TRT upgrade to Tren/roids. If you can’t build huge muscle at 20 year old test levels, tripling that isn’t going to change anything. I’m on TRT, put on 10 pounds of muscle in 6 months, 3x gym nothing crazy.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 05:23 PM
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Biologically, it is a race. Rollo Tomassi - Men's biological imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. (paraphrased) Lizard brain wants to beat out all the other Alpha's. But damn good point about the wife work.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 12:55 AM
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My current LTR likes it when I fuck her in the wet spot after the Tinder sluts leave. One-sided open relationship. She asks me if she should go get counseling because she likes it so much, I tell her "You're perfect, never change."
/r/askMRP01/02/19 12:51 AM
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First off 80+45=125, not 145. Good catch. Top 20% of wage earners then. ​ Next, you don't bring home 72k if you report 80k gross income to the IRS. It's called a mileage write-off, triple child tax credits and home office deduction. Don't comment if you don't understand how businesses work. ​ Chicks have sky-high expectations when they take on a guy with kids. Fear projection. You contradict yourself in the very next paragraph when you said his LTR became perfect 1950's housewife. Also, LTR has …
/r/askMRP01/02/19 12:43 AM
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Sex not as often as I want, but better than some I’ve seen. Avg about 2x per week Not saying I disagree with you, but she's fucking him. Read the whole post (assuming he's being factual).
/r/askMRP01/02/19 12:31 AM
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Brazillian Chad, nice term. Feeling a little semi down below actually.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 12:29 AM
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I spent 2018 learning how to meet her emotional needs. Did the marriage counselor tell you to do this? Faggot blue pill motherfuckers, all of them. Anyhow wife’s words and actions(the ones I can see) now suggest she’s in this marriage. I'm confident you're about to get the shit kicked out of you by the guys on here, but I will say this. Only YOU can decide if you to stay in the marriage or not. There's a saying from Rollo Tomassi, Be Your Own Mental Point of Origin So absolutely ask for advice, …
/r/askMRP31/01/19 09:49 PM
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Are these girls young? I’ve never had a woman show up unannounced, but I’m 38, women I dated were usually mid 20s to early 30s
/r/askMRP31/01/19 09:39 PM
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All the upvotes.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 08:51 PM
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Thank you, absolutely agree. I make $50/hour right now, and it was seriously that crazy story about them melting lead toothpaste caps into nickels, in their driveway, that got me there.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:57 PM
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$145k isn’t going to increase our standard of living? We will be in the top 15% of income earners in our zip code. Maybe you live in DC or San Diego, but where I’m at, that’s above average income. I can’t support her on $80k? Maybe you spend a shIt ton of money on shit you don’t need, but my monthly bills are $4000/month (all in-dates included), and I bring home $6000/month due to business write offs. $45k annual isn’t amazing, but it’s better than plenty of women I’ve dated. Average personal in…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:53 PM
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Men’s thong. Yes, be your mental point of origin. Just don’t come crying when she cheats on you for dressing like a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 07:18 PM
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Absolutely. Number one inspiration for starting my own business(es). I’ve read the whole series, and they’re amazing.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:12 PM
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Nope. Just pointing out the fallacies in all your statements. We’re done here.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:03 PM
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The primary business is an Amazon business, there’s a variety of software tools I use and training classes I’ve taken. Approx $130/month and $2000 cash direct I’ve spent to get it to current level. Direct education? None. Goal was to find a Red Pill recommended Financial Education/Literacy book to invest/learn from.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:54 PM
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Nah, I’m not done making you my bitch. 15% body fat at 39 years old does not make for a beer gut. I don’t blame you for smashing on every beta in here, but try to work on your reading comp before opening your mouth. I don’t have all the answers, but other commenters have provided great ideas. Why is that so hard for you? Chief Autist indeed.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:38 PM
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That article is great and recently posted. Upvote.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:06 PM
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Best Red Pill Book for Financial Success/The Mission FFS, its the title of the entire post.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:05 PM
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Agreed. Amazing books, exceptional blogs but commanding an audience presence isn’t on par with books. Zone of Genius = Writing, Blogging and Educating the Manosphere. Zone of Competence = Public Speaking
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 05:56 PM
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Excellent thank you.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 05:32 PM
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I’m triggered. I’m going to my safe space now.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 05:17 PM
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Absolutely agree. “Women want a man that other women want to fuck.” Cuckquean is just an extension of that RP truth.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:59 PM
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Flair? Your videos are great, but that any justification of flair is validation masturbation.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:57 PM
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You mad bro? You sound like a woman, bringing up shit from a year ago because I called you out. And she does love the dick, slut rode the CC HARD in her 20s. Rule Zero of MRP - Stay on Topic.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:49 PM
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Nice thank you
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:36 PM
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No shit? 90% is a bold number. I’m not disagreeing, but wondering if you have any sources to back it up. 62% have rape fantasies, but wasn’t able to find any info on cuckqueans. Makes sense with Hypergamous nature of women.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:29 PM
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I don’t really know. Hoping book can help me attain a mission. I don’t make BAD money (especially only working 30 hours/week), but it is my weakest area in life.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:22 PM
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Lol nice try faggot. Shit works amazing. Have you even read Sex God method?
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:21 PM
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Body Fat is listed dumbass. Contracted Submissive means she has signed written contract stating she will serve me sexually, 50 Shades style. It’s also a one sided open relationship. I’m absolutely Chad in the bedroom. I seek out Red Pill knowledge whenever possible. So if I want to learn about finances, I’m going to seek out Red Pill recommended books. Would MAP be best? Edit: Calling Thundercock a dumbass for not accurately reading OP.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:11 PM
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Never disappoints. I don’t have a distinct financial goal. Our combined income allows us to purchase a $400-$500k home, but my credit needs time to rebuild post foreclosure of marital home. Back Story On Marital Home: Ex wife was a nasty alcoholic, arrested twice for smacking kids/me, both times judge let her off and there was zero I could do. (even with attorneys). Took kids and moved into apartment while she was passed out drunk. Filed divorce paperwork same day. Debts/Liabilities: 170k home l…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 04:04 PM
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Did you enjoy it? It felt like some purple pill motherfucker jerking himself off over how smart he was. Only made it 1/3 of the way through it, but I can try again.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 03:52 PM
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Thank you. Good point in regards to financial goals. Don’t know where I’m going, so I’ll never get there.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 03:51 PM
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LTR used to text me before she came over “Who’s hair am I going to find today?” I dunno, they all look the same after awhile. She also would have me tell her exactly how I fucked the other girl, and then bang her in exactly the same way. Same positions, say the same things, cum the same way. Cuckqueans are real.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 02:12 PM
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Very close, but think you’re slightly off. A woman talking about marriage after 1.5 years is a GOOD thing. Him talking about it is a BAD thing, especially when he has ZERO to offer her.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 05:17 AM
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His Chinese fortune cookie said he would be lucky in love.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 05:05 AM
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I’ve dated a lot of different girls, and I know what I like. Congratulations faggot. How many girls have you FUCKED? If it's less than 10, you don't know shit. ​ I’m wondering if she secretly thinks I’m not going to amount to anything. Probably because you won't. ​ We talk about the possibility of marriage on a regular basis. I never force it. She brings it up more than half of the time. Don't bring it up at all, you don't even have a real fucking job. ​ I still live with my dad for the time bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 04:58 AM
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It’s two months old, but this is one of the best things I’ve ever read.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 03:25 AM
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Why change the sheets? Fucking hysterical when they find some other girls hair in your bed.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 03:19 AM
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One relevant sentence out of the entire reply. I was referring to the majority of his reply where he was projecting.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 03:15 AM
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Most of the time you have a point. No point this time, just a troll reply.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 02:55 AM
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Have you ever spun this many plates? And I mean recently, not 15 years ago or in your young 20s. I had four plates going last year, most Saturdays I would drill three of them in one day. It’s fun as fuck, but it is absolutely physically and mentally exhausting.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 02:50 AM
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I’m in a one sided open relationship, you can pull it off if you stay strong, and find a girl submissive enough to be into it. The plates will help you get there. As far as ranking plates, it’s cliche but I put them all on the Hot Crazy Matrix. Plotted all the pussy out, it does help you rationalize it and keep any feelz away.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 02:46 AM
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I was solo raising three kids (baby mama is 95% out of picture) and ran into same scenarios, especially when dating pre wall women (I’m 38). Her - Omg it’s like SO WEIRD you have THREE kids. Me - Don’t worry, you’re never going to meet them. Insert young girl tantrum and a hard next. I personally was unable to find any women WITHOUT kids that met my qualifications for a LTR. You might have a different outcome given that you only have one kid, but plate spinning does get boring. When I met LTR, I…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 02:40 AM
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Have you ever done it? Done it with every LTR, works amazing, low effort or not.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 07:05 PM
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Good recovery. We’ve seen similar posts where the guy ends up whimpering and crying over his semi drunk just wants to get drilled.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 06:23 PM
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Oneitis brother. Most of us have been there. It’s a bitch, and it’s usually terminal to your relationship. She can sense your neediness, and it’s a huge turn off for her, especially given your (relatively) young age. Sidebar reading is best advice. I would suggest The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It was the most instrumental for me in realizing the true nature of women. Last tip. Every day, 100 times a day if need be, say to yourself She’s Not Mine, It’s Just My Turn. Once you accept the fact…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:56 PM
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Guys usually ego protect, they don’t consciously lie. But good to see you’re working on eliminating need for validation.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:44 PM
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Watch Porn together. Tell her that’s how every man wants to be fucked. Her “Why would you say that to me?” You “Because it is true. Now do what they do.”
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:24 PM
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A little extreme. He needs a healthy dose of The Rationale Male. Women are hypergamous, she was probably in ovulatory stage, but she still went home with him, not Chad. Question would be whether he’s ALWAYS like this, or an isolated incident. Unlikely we will get an honest answer to that.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:09 PM
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Nice. The insecurity was pretty obvious, but he’s responding to her emotions, making it even worse. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:06 PM
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Fair enough. I see victim pukes as having a lot more “Woe is me, how do I keep her, it’s like she doesn’t even care about me anymore.” More emotion, more whining, etc.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 04:24 PM
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I vote Soft next. Which is (more or less) what he’s doing. But we all agree she’s pushing hard for control.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 04:22 PM
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This is the best advice. You can’t “make” anyone do anything they don’t want to. Reward good behavior, withdrawal from bad behavior. If she wants on board she will come around. At 29, you claim to be relatively solid. We could take your word on that, but I’ve NEVER met a 23 year old girl with her shit together. Even if they have all the potential of a solid LTR, the world they live in / all their friends live in pushes instant gratification. If she’s got 15 of her friends telling her to cheat on…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 01:20 PM
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When he’s smart enough not to get tied down like the rest of us chumps?
/r/askMRP30/01/19 01:14 PM
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I’m not seeing a victim puke here. There’s PLENTY of them on here, but this isn’t one of them. Assuming that he is portraying his conversation with her correctly, it sounds solid. “I’m not going to be in a relationship like this, so call me when you’re ready to be a good (aka not cunty) girlfriend. PS I’m not spending a bunch of money on a trip so you can be a bitch.”
/r/askMRP30/01/19 01:12 PM
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No shit, the finances was an opportunity for him to build her up as an amazing First Mate. Instead he’s getting hooked on the power and making her feel useless. “She asked if she did something wrong”. So she’s totally in your frame, wants your approval, you worked diligently as a team to put this together, and you rub her face in shit? Beta Bob might have a chance with this guys wife.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 03:32 PM
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NaF this is some troll shit. Basic Red Pill “You are the Prize” “Irrational Self Confidence is Key” “Be your own Mental Point of Origin” OP isn’t perfect, but he’s got a good head start on the Beta Bitches of the world. You sound like a jealous twat.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 02:31 PM
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I guess? If you want to phrase it differently, just tell her “I only have life, and I want to have the best possible relationship I can” The kicker is you didn’t explicitly include HER in that relationship. Communicating covertly (which women understand) that you want what’s best for you, not necessarily her.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 02:25 PM
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To further this, LTR understanding WHY she was unhappy with drunk captain was a defining moment for us. Her getting the “aha” moment was enlightening to watch. He got lazy, she took over the family, he resented it, they fought all the time, no sex, she divorced him. When she gets uppity, I calmly remind her “This isn’t what you want.” And she clamps her mouth, says I hate it when you’re right, and walks away smiling.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 02:23 PM
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I never understood this one. Who gives a fuck if she knows? I don’t bring it up, but if LTR asks “What are you reading?” I just fucking tell her. “Why are you reading that?” “So I can learn how to make you my submissive little fuck toy. Any other questions?” I DO understand not seeking validation, but LTR knows I’m into red pill and she loves the concept. Her ex husband was a drunk captain, she actually tried to get him to read MRP, but once he found it was from me, he said it was stupid. That’s…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 02:19 PM
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Good job talking about your son. We don’t hear a lot of fatherhood challenges on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 02:02 PM
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Great OYS. I’m guessing part of your reluctance to do Day Game is due to relationship with wife improving? Aka “She’s sucking me more so why bother?” But at the same time she’s fantasizing about you fucking other girls. This is a pretty common progression when guys start getting Alpha hot, their woman want to be Cuckquean/Queen of the Harem. A good test for the “uncharted water” is to see if she thinks it’s hot for you to get a girls number. It’s innocent enough, and ideally she lives vicariousl…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 01:58 PM
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Best advice so far. And with suggestions of further reading.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:27 AM
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Your OP says you’ve been a bad ass your whole life. Now you’re saying you’ve been a drunk captain for “parts” of your 12 years. Chances are good your version of “parts of 12 years” is a lot bigger than you think. That being said, withdrawing attention from BPD women isn’t as effective as it is with normal women. BPD girls just feel abandoned and flip the fuck out. As other posters have said, you need to be the oak and be her mirror so she can she the shit she is saying is retarded. My woman has …
/r/askMRP29/01/19 09:25 AM
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That’s a lot of guessing. You have no idea what XYZ is. Plenty of women try to use “Honey Do” lists to control men, even when nothing on the list is important.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:39 AM
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Are you looking for permission to divorce her? Not sure what the goal is here. Some women are just nasty cunts, maybe you were unlucky/didn’t vet properly. “I appreciate the fuck out of my woman” “I want her to shut the fuck up” Pick one and go with that.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:29 AM
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Agreed. His OP sounds like he is passing shit tests, but failing comfort tests. If his girl is emailing him “I won’t be on Team Hitler” she’s already planning her escape route. If he wants her to stay (unclear), she has to feel “in love” again. So is it gay as fuck? Absolutely. But No Feelz = No Relationship. And maybe he’s okay with that, maybe not. Only he can decide.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:23 AM
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Okay, so your OP didn’t mention that. Maybe she’s just a BPD crazy bitch. Or maybe not. How old are you both? Some guys are fans of this, some aren’t, but when living “the good life” with a guy, some chicks just get bored. In this case, manufactured drama can help.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:21 AM
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Women communicate covertly, men communicate overtly. So if she’s telling you VERY directly how she feels, how she feels the relationship is, what her concerns are, then she’s at her wits end. She feels like she is an accessory to your life (a good thing), but she doesn’t feel like a SPECIAL accessory. They’re women, they want to feel like they’re unique, and magical and wonderful to you, even if we know they’re not. Even the most submissive little cock slut wants to feel like only SHE can be the…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:18 AM
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I wouldn’t worry about that one specific situation, but about your overall relationship. She’s probably been sending you comfort tests for months (if not years), and you’re missing them. If you want her to stay, going to have to open up emotionally and tell her you love her, cherish her, she’s important, etc etc etc The laptop incident was her pushing for a fight so she can leave you. Assuming you don’t beat her, scream at her, cheat on her etc she doesn’t really have a good enough reason to lea…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:08 AM
1

Yeah, I try to provide real world responses to situations. As opposed to “Open your mouth again and I’ll stick my dick in it.” You ABSOLUTELY can use those lines, and they work great. But only AFTER you’ve established who’s the dominant partner AND when she knows you’re WAY more likely to divorce her, than her divorcing you.
/r/askMRP27/01/19 10:58 PM
3

This. Height doesn’t mean shit. Prince Harry is 6’1”, has a huge social pre-selection advantage and got his balls chopped off within 9 months of being married. Even IF height means something, there’s nothing you can do about it, so DNGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 02:24 PM
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Recurring theme seems to be whether to bust the wife for cheating to friends/family. Scenarios: 1) You’re a strong alpha male with a vision. You can’t be bothered with the drama, so you divorce her quickly, efficiently and ruthlessly. 2) You’re an emotional mess, and it’s embarrassing (of course it is) that you got cheated on. Maybe she didn’t really mean to, and it was only a couple times, and the kids, and I’ll just lift more, and and and...... You’re back together, trying to pretend like noth…
/r/askMRP26/01/19 06:28 AM
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I’ve stopped affairs with married women. Because they got needy and it was boring. The rest is, as you’ve stated, Bullshit.
/r/askMRP26/01/19 06:14 AM
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I agree with this. Women communicate covertly. Whether you remove yourself from the home office, the couch or the bedroom, she knows exactly what you’re doing (unless she’s a total fucking idiot). The covert/subliminal message you’re telling her is, “If you act like a cunt, I leave.” IDEALLY, you do this enough and her hamster starts running and she realizes that if she’s a cunt all the time, you’ll divorce her. You’re Doing These Two..... Analysis Paralysis - “Should I go to the coffee shop or …
/r/askMRP26/01/19 06:05 AM
1

Rollo Tomassi. One of the three major founders of Red Pill. But you do you.
/r/askMRP26/01/19 02:56 AM
1

I agree with no fap. I don’t agree with fucking your wife if you don’t want to. Barracuda is deviating from a basic RP principle - Be Your Own Mental Point of Origin. If you don’t want to bang your wife, don’t. Why would you? Because you’re worried she (or some faceless stranger on reddit) will think you’re a woman or faggot? Easy conversation.... Her “Babe, you didn’t want me last night?” You “No, not really. Wasn’t in the mood.” Her “You’ve ALWAYS wanted me before. Is there something I’m doing…
/r/askMRP26/01/19 02:28 AM
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It made no fucking sense because you haven’t read the sidebar. Faggot.
/r/askMRP26/01/19 02:21 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/askMRP26/01/19 02:16 AM
2

It’s probably balance related. Ankle strength is more important than you think.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 09:00 PM
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It was his shitty attempt at pulling upvotes.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 07:47 PM
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Because it feels good for him to feel dominant. And it’s his own mental point of origin, so why the fuck do you care?
/r/askMRP18/01/19 07:46 PM
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“They’re very pissed off about it.” Direct quote from the movie, Brad Pitt monologue. Agree with your summary though. Inside is rage, outside is stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:32 PM
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No shit. You know how many fatties I had to go through to find one? It’s like a Women of Walmart convention out there.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 06:03 PM
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No. He’s not going to be bending over backwards to fuck her (hopefully). Not going to help as much as you want. Plus doesn’t incorporate balance work at all (which he’ll need). Front squats, cleans (without the press) and heavy-weight balance work is what you want. Bicep work MIGHT help, but with how close she will be to you (on your dick) it’s going to be more about quad and gluteal strength. Edit: better explanation
/r/askMRP18/01/19 05:27 PM
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Unless you’re squatting 400+, then doing high speed, repetitive front squats with 110 pounds of girl meat in your arms is going to cause muscle fatigue.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 05:14 PM
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“Daddy on their 10th birthday” All the upvotes.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 05:09 PM
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Anytime you pick her up in the air and fuck her, you’re already doing shit that 95% of the guys she’s been with have NEVER done. She won’t care if you only last a few minutes in this position, she’ll be blown away that you pulled it off at all. On the ground, google submission holds. Anything where she is trapped and fully submissive is gold. More along the lines of full nelson, as opposed to arm bars, but you get the idea. If your girl is in decent shape, you can fuck her right off the bed. She…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 04:58 PM
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Or MRP. That’s my favorite personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:26 PM
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Upvote. Guys drawn to “Going Rambo” were beta bob for decades. Just like Fight Club, they’re now very pissed off about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:26 PM
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Maybe Upper Beta then? I don’t think you can group a shift manager at McDonalds, and the CFO of a major corporation in the same category. They both could put women on a pedestal, wives both cheat on them, kids don’t respect them, whatever. But one makes $11/hour, the other makes $400k annual. CFO would be an Alpha to other men, but Beta Bucks to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:23 PM
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I’m open to more scientific methods of identifying the different types of alpha for a woman, but you haven’t provided any, nor have you disputed it’s validity. I’m going to assume you just want to argue for arguments sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:18 PM
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Did you read the full article? Seems accurate to me. I can look back throughout my life at any powerful men I’ve known, and easily line them up into these three categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:01 PM
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In answer to your questions, yes, it’s part of the anger phase. They just tend to be the most vocal about it, equivalent to the new gorilla in charge beating his chest. I would draw a parallel with extreme feminism. The most angry feminists tend to be the most vocal, and once they feel like they’ve been heard, they (hopefully) calm down and start living a normal life with their new found independence. In conclusion, a secure alpha doesn’t come on message boards and condemn all women as sluts, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:58 PM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-three-alphas.html?m=1 Alpha is a pretty broad term, this article goes into detail of the three different types, but to summarize. Bull Alpha = Sex Based Alpha, Playboy/Fuckboy. Great in bed, horrible husband and father. Knows how to fuck you silly, but then gets bored and drops you when you start to fall for him. Bear Alpha = Commitment Based Alpha, CFO/Business Owners/Pastors. Bad in bed, good husband, great fathers. Committed to an ideal greater t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:54 PM
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Interesting point. Don’t know, ask Rollo Tomassi, it’s his theory.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:29 PM
1

I’m considering writing a case study article for MRP. But it’s going to need bullet proof red pill research, which will take more time than I have available right now.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:25 PM
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Cultural influences matter. Afghanistan and Russian cultures are allowed to beat their women if they get out of line (must be nice). Great job on getting your head right early.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:52 AM
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Red Pill is bitter. Best advice? No Porn and No Fap. That will turn any hamburger into a filet mignon.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:50 AM
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Fair enough. I used to think women were fickle liars that didn’t mean what they said, so perhaps the distinction was more important for me than the average beta.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:49 AM
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As with everything, it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. You can say the words “I’m sorry you’re upset” and come across as an absolute asshole, or a sniveling beta bitch. Women communicate covertly, so 80% of her hearing you has nothing to do with words you’re saying. When your wife is talking to you about work shit, she’s normally not looking for advice. Cheer the heroes, demonize the villains. If she actually WAS looking to you for advice, then you fucked up big. She was seeking her cap…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:46 AM
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This absolutely. She was trying to have a normal conversation and he chose to continue teasing/pushing, aka not reading the room.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:31 AM
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Fickle isn’t exactly the correct way of looking at, although most guys would agree with you. Women live in an emotional state. So when she says “I love you” on the altar, that statement ONLY exists within that emotional state. She is truly madly deeply in love with you, but only when she feels that way. When you’re drinking beer, scratching your hairy gut on the couch watching football five years later (and you’ve put on 20 pounds), her emotional state is VASTLY different than it was when you go…
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:17 AM
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Absolutely. There’s two kinds of sex, validational and transactional. Transactional = Be a good little hubby, do the dishes and maybe MAYBE you’ll get lucky. Validational = “Wife gave me starfish this week, so she must love me.” Once you swallow the red pill, you reject transactional sex and you don’t need validational sex. It comes back around, but you’re right, it might not be your wife that you want to fuck anymore.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:08 AM
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Beta guy’s typically have fucked up mindsets, you are correct. Lifting helps them get in the right mind set. It’s the most direct way to get them in that headspace. Given that you’re short and semi-fat, you’re an anomaly. Are you Spanish/Latino/etc? Most white guys are socially feminized, whereas other cultures still have strong male values.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 02:01 AM
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Get married. Get divorced. Doesn’t matter. Fix your finances and keep hitting the gym. You get those two, and life gets a lot fucking better, no matter if you’re married or not.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:48 AM
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He owns it in subsequent paragraphs.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:45 AM
1

I guess? LTR talked during the preview to a movie. Not really sure how you would nuke that shit, but I imagine he’s ripping through Tinder girls right now, so that’s one way to burn through them.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 12:44 AM
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You can probably segue this into threesomes and a one-sided one relationship. Her being dominated will eventually lead into a Stockholm Syndrome set up. Aka you fuck the other girl and she derives true real pleasure from you using the other girl. When’s she horny and drunk, my girl sets up tinder girls for me to fuck, it’s a real thing.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 08:50 PM
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This. My girl cums when I hit her. Feels fucked up unless I have a couple drinks in me. They’re all about the dominance.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 08:46 PM
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Nice job. How’s the SMV comparison? Seems like she views you at the same level.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 08:44 PM
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Roosh actually started to go down the same path. He used to be 100% game, now it’s pseudo-whining about the current feminized state of the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 08:43 PM
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Agreed. I would rather be Alpha in the bedroom than Alpha at work. This is an old, but thought provoking article. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-three-alphas.html?m=1
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 08:39 PM
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Hell yes. The more faggots there are, the easier it is to stand out. Upvote.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 08:37 PM
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James Dobson books. More of a Christian slant, but advocates raising kids in a traditional 1950s fashion.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 08:36 PM
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Lol, okay, fair enough. And yeah, think you’re good, my “If I’m in a relationship....” comeback isn’t great for that. Would be good to see an update as time goes on. Interested to see if she lets herself be “in love” or just runs away from you.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 05:15 PM
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Projection. All of it. You can’t picture yourself having abundance and frame in this scenario, so you assume all of it. “She asks like a high school brat in public” That didn’t happen. “You lack the frame to prevent it from happening....” That she talked during the preview to a movie? “You think she gets wet when you are an asshole?” Yes, because that’s what happens. “You were a butthurt little bitch at the movies.” Nope, that didn’t happen either. “You tolerate this behavior....” Again, that sh…
/r/askMRP15/01/19 05:06 PM
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MORE scarcity mentality/failure mindset. If she’s bored with life, it must be because of me, right? Everything is awful Red, it’s true. OR it could be any of the thousand of reasons why life can be boring. Don’t forget to call me a faggot when you reply.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 03:37 PM
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The worst part is he doesn’t actually quote any red pill theory, just throws a tantrum. It’s noise without substance.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 03:08 PM
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You misunderstood. “Something is wrong with me” = why do I get wet when he is an asshole to me? We already know the answer, but she doesn’t. The event is being brought up three days later because it is STILL giving her feelz. The glass isn’t ALWAYS half empty. Or maybe yours is, but you do you. Edit: You’re displaying a scarcity mentality. Every perceived issue (in your mind) with a woman is grounds for the guy being a faggot, or the girl being trash to be disposed of. This is absolutely the cas…
/r/askMRP15/01/19 02:16 PM
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It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it. Adopt if you want, but do it from a place of strength and decision. If your post it to be believed, then you’re already there. I wouldn’t count on “spreading your superior culture” though. Don’t make outcome based goals based on other people (even your own kids). You could be the most Alpha dad ever, and your son could grow up to love taking black dick in the ass.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 02:08 PM
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Reading comprehension? It was during the previews, not the actual movie. Nice try though. “If you want your mouth open so much I am happy to put your cock in there”. I’m starting to see why you’re divorced. Women value social standing and the respect of the public, their family and their peers. You say that in front of a group of 50+ people, you’re WAY over the top. Rambo drops lines like that, not a confident secure Alpha.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 01:59 PM
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Fair enough. But I believe she’s lacking the “adventure” aspect of that now. If you’re seeing her 3-4 times a week, it’s a given. You meet up, you always fuck. That’s a good thing in a solid relationship, but it does lose the “is this really gonna happen” sexual tension. You don’t see it a lot on here, but I think there’s validity to manufactured drama. My 2 year LTR was getting kind of bored with life, we went out to the movies, and she started talking during the previews. Loudly told her to “S…
/r/askMRP15/01/19 12:19 PM
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I think she was trying the “I love you” on for size, and is now freaking out about the ramifications of saying it. Dropping those words was probably influenced by the New Year Eve’s moment AND a healthy dose of alcohol. Every inch she withdraws, you match her. She will either decide she’s not ready to “be in love” (and then continue to slowly withdraw/break it off), or she will calm down, come back to you and apologize for being an emotional woman. Focus on improving yourself, and being the high…
/r/askMRP15/01/19 12:11 PM
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Agreed. I’m 38, tried dating mid 20s, they were super fun for about a month. Then it was like talking to one of my kids after that.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 04:17 AM
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Rollo doesn’t lie. Upvote.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 04:10 AM
2

6 foot and 245 pounds??? Holy christ you’re fat. Take your shirt off. Would you fuck yourself? I’m guessing No. Why would she want to fuck you then? In answer to your question, Yes, all this “stuff” can rebuild desire. But only if you do it for you, not for her.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 04:06 AM
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Lowering your body fat is more critical for dread game. You have a small gut right now, and no chick gives a fuck how much you can lift. You want to be around 12% or lower (as you’ve probably determined) to get visible abs. I started out at 25% a year ago, now down to 15% (I’m 38, age does play a factor). WAY more IOI’s at this level regardless.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 03:57 AM
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This, life’s too short and you barely have anytime invested. I’m guessing she wants to go to Cancun and fuck Chad, but you’re probably too intelligent/stable/boring/hopefully following your mission, to do it for her.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 03:44 AM
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Age of you and LTR? Big difference between a 25 year old and a 45 year old doing this.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 03:42 AM
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Would need the context of how he said it, which we’re unlikely to get from an internet reply. Whenever I get these, I always put “I won’t be in a relationship where X happens.” Women communicate covertly, and I’m “covertly” saying knock it off or you’re out.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 03:41 AM
1

Expand on her leaving? Pretty surprising outcome, usually the rope tightens (slowly or quickly), and they come right along. Would be interested to hear synopsis of the story.
/r/askMRP14/01/19 09:28 PM
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Amen brother. If you don’t need her to clean, and you’re hot enough to fuck other women, then truly what do you need her for? And that’s a perfect place to be. “Follow my lead, or someone else will.”
/r/askMRP14/01/19 09:26 PM
3

Pain in the ass. Your words, not mine, but fair enough “not a bitch”. Yeah, as you will probably hear in numerous ways, it’s on you to let the past go.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 07:46 PM
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Search the Reddit for Covert Contracts, there will be methods on removing them. And you’re going to be full of them. I can’t believe she’s still with you. You’ve been communicating that her value as a woman (sex appeal) is worthless for years, no wonder she is a bitch.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 07:09 PM
1

Just to clarify, you moved Girl B in and the very same night cheated (red pill is amoral, doesn’t matter, but if LTR didn’t know it’s cheating) with Girl A? You do you, but I predict this will blow up in your face. My LTR likes it when I fuck other girls, but she picks them off Tinder, she texts them for me and she sets up the time for me to go fuck them. She thinks it’s hot, and I get to fuck other girls, and she still feels in control/gets to be Queen of the Harem. That being said, this would …
/r/askMRP11/01/19 04:11 PM
1

“I’m not going to be in a relationship like this.” Make sure you mean it.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 02:56 PM
3

Red blows up a lot, aka hard time controlling his feelz. I think it’s funny as shit that she realizes how screwed she is with your pre nup. Imagine the look on her face when she is ready to cash in big, and her lawyer tells her she doesn’t get shit. Priceless.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 02:08 PM
2

This. She may be regretting her decision. I would be very open, straight up “Do you still want to live out here with me?” Her - Why do you ask that? “Because when we’re out with friends, you act like a cunt, and I’m not going to be in a relationship like that.” She apologizes, starts crying and gives you all the feelz of missing her friends/family. OR she pushes back hard and says “Fuck you motherfucker, I moved my whole life for you.... blah blah blah...” and she’s just being the controlling ha…
/r/askMRP11/01/19 02:05 PM
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Both great responses. I like the implied/covert “you first”. Covertly placing her at a higher level of importance than your LTR. Doesn’t matter if it’s true, but their female competitive nature is going to eat that up and push through any last minute guilt/asd they have. Any response that makes her laugh, while still avoiding any guilt-inducing statements. You don’t want her identifying with your gf/wife.
/r/askMRP11/01/19 12:00 PM
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“Consenting”? Holy Fuck, never use that word. Why don’t you just tell her to contact MeToo and set up the blackmail now. Jesus Christ. That being said, we can assume OP has a decently high SMV (or the confidence of one) to get side pieces, given that it’s come up repeatedly throughout his life. So I doubt whether knowing his bench press is 180 or 240 is going to help us answer his question. I agree with previous posters, this is standard ASD. AND they’re concerned about some crazy bitch coming a…
/r/askMRP11/01/19 11:56 AM
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It’s ironic that your friend needed “permission” to not be into her. The feminine imperative is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:48 AM
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You’re less hot at 32. That’s the main component of what men are looking for, hotness. So no, you will have less to offer than a 22 year old version of yourself. That being said, I’m 38 and my LTR is 33. Any woman I dated (with kids) that was under 30 drove me crazy. Couldn’t stand to be around them. But she was hot AND 33, so went for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:05 AM
2

Just to clarify, not being sarcastic. You’re 100% good. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP11/01/19 03:24 AM
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You’re good man. “I’m not sure if I want to go or not” is her covertly asking your permission to go. She is in YOUR frame brother.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 06:35 PM
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Agree with all. AA it all the way. Maintains frame, avoids butt hurt. Just be prepared for the shit tests to increase the more she realizes you aren’t on her leash anymore.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 06:21 PM
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2, fucking hysterical. “Red Pill is Amoral.” I love it.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 06:06 PM
2

80% of divorces are initiated by women. And women plan that shit WAY in advance. Women are social creatures, and she just announced to her entire world her intentions. Your marriage is over. You can do it on your terms, or wait for her to fuck Chad for a couple months and shit test you to death so she can absolve herself of the guilt, aka “We just fought all the time.” Pay attention to what they do, not what they say. In this case, she did BOTH. Marriage is over brother.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:59 PM
1

All of what Seamus said. Google Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. You are the beta bucks brother.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:46 PM
1

Incorrect. I know plenty of couples who both sleep with other people.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:45 PM
1

I’m guessing you didn’t find any factual reasons a woman should marry a man? It’s absolutely a Lose-Lose proposition for a guy.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:43 PM
1

Agreed. Stay Plan = Go Plan. I’ll laugh if it plays out exactly the same way.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:35 PM
1

I have. But to list my reasons here will just invite a rash of comments that aren’t beneficial. If you dig through all the responses on here, you’ll find some of them.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:34 PM
1

Makes sense. And I understand why some commenters are advocating AA or other tactics whenever she asks, but with something of this nature, I feel it’s better to lay it out straight, so there’s NO room for mis-interpretation.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:32 PM
1

Sorry your Mom sucked at raising you. Nuff said.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:30 PM
1

The hate is a snapshot of why the original MRP got kicked off Reddit. I’m probably halfway in between your idealism and their cynicism. Which I think is the whole point of Married Red Pill. Okay to be married and love her, but understand that she is a woman, and subject to all the fallacies thereof.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:29 PM
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Your understanding of basic child raising is poor. Kids want firm boundaries, and strong father figures in their lives. They don’t resent them. The rest of it just fear, strange analogies and you still sound like a valley girl.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 01:49 PM
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You’re contradicting yourself. We know shit tests increase upon moving in, but it’s a red flag when we can see them coming? That’s the point of red pill, understanding the nature of women. Fake tits are awesome, they look great and feel better. She wanted to improve her SMV, so she saved up and paid for them? Not seeing the problem here either. I’ll grant you she is post wall. I plated plenty of women in their 20s (I’m 38), but they all annoyed the fuck out of me and/or had bad long term potenti…
/r/askMRP04/01/19 01:08 PM
1

Red, you forgot to give Bob his “Touché fucker” for his below comment.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 12:58 PM
1

Thank you for your feedback. Those are all super good points, and yes, the major concern is mitigation of risk. Weird, didn’t think actually marrying her would ever be anyone’s advice, I’m going to ponder this one.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 12:42 PM
1

I don’t see anything your buddy did wrong? Draw the boundary, keep frame. She accepted it, but then used the feminine imperative to say she “changed her mind” or “he didn’t really love me enough to fully commit”. They’re women, social proof allows them to do that at any time, to any man, for far stupider reasons. He knew what he wanted, stayed strong, and was probably fucking plates the weekend after she moved out. Edit - Super good real life example though. I’m calling that one a happy ending.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 12:37 PM
5

I’ve posted some nice stuff, but I’m going to hit you with a hard truth. In INITIAL attraction, how attractive you are is the ONLY thing that matters. That’s it, nothing else. If you want a gem of a guy, being hot as possible is going to help immensely.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:41 AM
3

This. Solid reliable men with kids WANT a woman with kids. A guy can find a club girl anywhere, but a woman to trust with raising his own children? Hard to find, and well worth the search.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:38 AM
2

I’m a divorced dad that raises three kids on my own. My LTR/gf raises three kids on her own. Yes, we have six kids total and are moving in together this summer. Online dating is the perfect place for you to be. Match can give you attractiveness, income, how many kids they have, do they WANT more kids (hugely important), location and a general “feel” for their personality.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:36 AM
1

Guys and girls can’t be friends. Someone always covertly (or overtly) wants more. If you have a guy that is your friend, and you don’t want more from him, then he’s the one who wants more from you. 😁
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:29 AM
1

If you think it will make you feel better, but...... telling somebody off usually looks A LOT different than what you wrote. How about “You’re insecure and you have a lot of growing up to do. I gave you the opportunity to do so, but I’m not waiting forever. No need to contact me, best of luck.”
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:27 AM
1

Because she’s implying (correctly or not) that he should be taking care of business. Aka “you’re too stupid/forgetful/lazy to remember this, so I’ll tell you 500 times.” That being said, it’s entirely possible that a wife will nag about everything, BUT that’s also on the guy for not defining boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:24 AM
2

1) Asking her parents to marry her is weird af unless she’s super religious and/or living at home. 2) A submissive woman will be totally on board with taking the man’s last name. An independent woman may not be. I would only marry a submissive woman (personal preference, to each their own), so if she balked at this, it would be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:20 AM
1

Professional women (including teachers and nurses) work in primarily female environments. Food service is usually 50/50. You probably see more male construction workers in Tinder than cooks from your local Applebee’s. Same principle. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:13 AM
1

You’re seeking closure from him. But closure comes within you, not something he can give you. Also, read up on attachment theories, he could be fearful-avoidant or dismissive-avoidant. Disclaimer - I’m a guy. 👍🏻
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:08 AM
1

OP states “I will NEVER sign paperwork.” That means never, I don’t see what you’re getting at.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 02:05 AM
1

I think you missed the point of the post. I’ll give her the dress, the ring and the party but NOT sign the marriage certificate. Therefore never legally married. But thanks for the warning.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 02:00 AM
3

I raise three kids solo right now (mom isn’t involved). She does the same with her kids (dad is every other weekend guy). So YES, it’s absolutely a lot. But not as much as you might think at first glance.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 01:54 AM
1

Thank you for your feedback. 6 kids is a lot, but I raise my three kids solo, and she raises her three kids solo. So not QUITE as bad as you may initially think.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 01:52 AM
1

Good analysis. I’m going to disagree with you on DEERing though. “Fundamentally DEERing comes from a lack of confidence or a fear of judgement.” https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/53ozx7/mrp_99_remedial_mrp_the_basics_of_deer/#ampf=undefined She was at her breaking point (as evidenced by her communicating overtly after failed shit tests), and I took control before she tried to initiate a main event. I’ve thought over the interaction and reread my words on here …
/r/askMRP04/01/19 01:49 AM
2

Nice projection.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 01:31 AM
1

It was her idea, so probably. I’ll let you know.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 10:11 PM
3

That must be it. Just a sniveling chump begging for the chance to move in with any single mom. Or we are in a long term Dom/Sub relationship and she texts Tinder sluts for me, gets them to come over, and then plays with herself in the closet while I fuck them on the floor. That could be it too.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 09:52 PM
2

Pretty sure the point of his reply was DON’T FUCKING MOVE IN WITH HER. Not to discuss the merits of buying vs renting. And I used to follow red way back when, his money game is on lock.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 09:48 PM
1

Moving in with a woman never makes financial sense unless she makes more than you (exceedingly rare). I’m confident if you read my comments this is not some beta game attempt at locking down a high SMV woman. But I appreciate the warning all the same. The risk of the combined mortgage is worth the benefit to the kids getting a new real mother. I discussed in other comments, but essentially she’s a dirtbag alcoholic that almost died from it. Thank you for feedback.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 09:33 PM
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The tests always increase when you move in together. Have you even read the Sidebar? This is basic Rational Male. Nice try faggot. Good tip on the palimony though. Your reference was solely for California, but I’ll absolutely consult further with divorce lawyer.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 09:31 PM
3

Thank you, all good points. The mortgage is a concern, definitely increases financial risk, but I believe it is worth the positive effect of a female role model for my daughters. I’ve researched the effects of an alcoholic mother on her kids and it’s fucking scary. I will research further as you suggest in my attempt not to be an idiot. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP03/01/19 08:57 PM
1

Good advice, thank you.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 08:20 PM
5

You’re projecting. You can’t see yourself being Alpha in this situation, therefore I’m just “posturing”. I’ve spun plenty of plates. I can pull childless women who are down with three kids, but I have zero faith in their long term ability to be a good role model for MY kids. And it’s definitely a trade off in attractiveness. Less attractive = more likely to commit to a guy with three kids (who never wants anymore). As far as post wall, I’m 39, she’s 33 and a 8/10, maybe 9/10. And yes, she is abs…
/r/askMRP03/01/19 08:18 PM
2

I’m open to criticism of the moving in, but spit some red pill theory, not just a line of “Chicken Little” questioning. Omg, what if her kids get slightly better clothes than they would have living on their own? FFS.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 07:23 PM
2

Good story. And accurate. As we both know from Rational Male, there are no accidental pregnancies, he broke an Iron Rule by allowing her control of the birth control. If you want to call me a schmuck, I’m open to the criticism, but you haven’t provided any reasoning behind it.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 07:19 PM
3

Nice! I’ll be right over. Let Shelly know. 😁
/r/askMRP03/01/19 07:10 PM
0

Okay, I changed my mind, you must be a woman. But she does love threesomes. That being said, please name one definable statistical benefit to being married for a man?
/r/askMRP03/01/19 07:02 PM
2

If “just fine” is good enough for your kids, by all means. I’m guessing your kids are younger, and they don’t live with you full time. Additionally, they probably have a functioning co parent. I won’t bore you with sources of happier children being raised in dual parent households. But feel free to google it. I’m unimpressed by all your responses. Reading your previous posts, you seem pretty game aware, but you still haven’t been able to answer the question of frame in the OP. I picture you sitt…
/r/askMRP03/01/19 06:55 PM
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I’m not a woman, I don’t communicate covertly. Read the OP, there’s a question at the end of it. You can answer it, or run your mouth on a bunch of unrelated points. Or are you still mad that a poster called you out on your incorrect definition of beta bucks?
/r/askMRP03/01/19 06:48 PM
3

Ahhhh got it. Hoping to make Alice a 20 year old thot. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP03/01/19 06:17 PM
0

Damn. Maybe I should let you marry her. You are seriously in this girl’s frame. You can even beta fuck her once in awhile. I dictate the terms of my life, if she wants in, then she can eat her imagined “humiliation”. She’s a complement, and her happiness isn’t the goal.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 06:07 PM
2

Maybe? I don’t feel like I’m sitting on a fence at all, but I’ll think about it more now. Thank you
/r/askMRP03/01/19 06:02 PM
1

There’s a book with title about a 15 year old daughter running away to do drugs? Not sure if that’s your reference. Any break up my kids stay with me, her kids go with her.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 05:57 PM
2

Thank you for feedback, and I absolutely agree, this will be a recurring frame test.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 05:28 PM
2

Absolutely agree with your wedding synopsis. It’s the ultimate social proof for a woman. And if she leaves me because I wouldn’t make it “official” I would laugh my ass off. “Three fuck trophy’s that need a new dad.” Hysterical, and so very true. But I have three kids of my own that need a new mom, so I’m going to call that one even. Most of your other stuff is cynical fear and baseless conjecture. Girl would branch swing if I betazied, absolutely, but staying strong and alpha is going to greatl…
/r/askMRP03/01/19 05:27 PM
1

She’s hot with a boob job. Absolutely agree kids makes her options more limited though.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 05:22 PM
5

1) Yes, I could walk away. A couple weeks ago, she started pushing for “tell me you need me” and I held frame through her subsequent tears when it became clear I didn’t “need” her. (A different test, unrelated to the marriage test). She’s also asked me “What would you ever do without me?” Sample reply is “Find a younger dumber version of you that doesn’t ask so many questions.” 2) When there’s kids involved, it’s always hard to walk away (IMO). I talked about this in another reply, but big part …
/r/askMRP03/01/19 04:09 PM
2

Agreed. Thank you for your feedback.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 04:07 PM
2

Marry her within six months? I am marrying her, just on MY TERMS. Open to feedback of course. I see it as a gift to her that I offer willingly, because I want to. Not because it’s a condition.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 04:07 PM
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I disagree with your statement (due to lack of facts) but my salary should be higher, it’s a weak area for me. Thank you for your feedback.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:31 PM
2

No, it’s not. Median salary is DFW is $60k, so I’m 33% higher than the average already. Do your research.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:26 PM
1

You mad bro? Yes, I’m asking for your source that I need a cohabitation agreement.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:21 PM
1

Agreed. I’m not in a credit position to purchase house on my own. So yes, being on a mortgage together is a deeper legal commitment. LTR provides value as a mother to my children. Their biological mother is a shitbag alcoholic that almost died from it. She’s now using a cane to walk at 44 years old. My children still love her, so I’m seeking to replace her with LTR as a woman for my children to look up to. Obviously there’s other attributes about her I value, but irrelevant to convo given I have…
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:20 PM
1

Thank you for your feedback. Source? Edit = Are you implying a cohabitation agreement automatically occurs? I can’t imagine why I would ever want one, given my higher income stream.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:13 PM
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Side Note = There is no common law marriage in my state.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:05 PM
5

Nice job looking years out. Most of us didn’t think that far ahead, to our dismay and financial pain. What are reasons for divorce planning? I don’t have a source, but the value of a wife nosedives once kids are grown up. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP03/01/19 04:08 AM
1

Sometimes you can’t balance with people, it’s just too rawly emotional. Or you subconsciously knew you didn’t want to be with an alcoholic harpy, and you knew STFU would cause her to blow out. My ex wife was drinking two handles a week by the end (that’s 15 drinks a day), and I never bothered to talk to her because she wouldn’t remember shit anyhow.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 02:40 AM
2

Have you heard of cuck’s? If those are possible, then so are cuckqueans. Just google it and/or do research before you discredit it. There’s even a Cuckquean Reddit. Or just don’t believe it all, you do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 12:24 AM
2

I’m interested in why you feel that way? We all have heard of cuck’s, guys who like watching their woman get drilled by Chad. OP might be one, or he might be bi, or he might be straight and bored, we won’t know till he does it. The theory of cuck’s is that their hindbrain knows they’re not Alpha enough for their woman. So his hindbrain wants her to get impregnated by the Alpha of the group. He willingly offers up his woman in tribute to the silverback gorilla. That being said, why wouldn’t the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 11:28 PM
2

Upvote for honesty.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:40 PM
5

Projection. You can’t picture yourself pulling it off, so there must be something “wrong” with the woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:38 PM
5

No. This is real. My LTR is this way, she views herself as the Queen of the Harem. “Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled with a faithful loser.” - Rolli Tomassi (I think) As a side note, my LTR wants us to get a babysitter so she can train her how to fuck me when she’s on Shark Week (I hate Shark Week). Crazy part is, it was her idea. Also she thinks MMF is gross, because like OP, I know that’s where most commentators go right away.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:37 PM
2

I wanted to draw a picture of a deer with asterisks, but I have other shit to do.
/r/askMRP02/01/19 08:59 PM
2

Okay good point financially. But I believe it’s short term thinking. Five months isn’t “Sorry honey, I got really drunk at the bar with the girls and jumped in Chad’s dick.” She’s checked out emotionally and physically. Better to get the divorce of his own initiation, than wait around for her to end it (which she will once she feels confident in branch swing). Now he walks away on two feet, instead of waiting for the ax on his knees. Depending on state he lives in, evidence of adultery might giv…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 08:53 PM
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This has been covered in another post, but no. Middle aged overweight loser men don’t go shoot up Chad. They cry. They pout. They go to worthless couple counseling sessions and try to negotiate desire. Their wife “tries counseling” for a couple months to absolve herself of guilt and then she tells her family and friends that “we just didn’t communicate anymore”, all the while still taking Chad’s dick on the side. Then, if they’re lucky, the overweight middle aged guy ends up on here with his sob…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 08:37 PM
1

Hypergamy doesn’t care. AWALT is real. The point isn’t to judge women as a whole (although you certainly could), the point is to become Chad so even if she does, you DNGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 05:59 PM
3

The older and wealthier the husband is, the less likely that is to happen. Young poor boyfriends with nothing to lose are the most dangerous.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 05:54 PM
1

No. Negotiate from a position of power. She was cheating, he wasn’t. Therefore he is (currently) in a position of weakness. You only open your relationship up because it’s what YOU want, not to make it easier for her to keep fucking other guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 03:26 PM
1

Agreed. You could be alpha as fuck, but you didn’t vet properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 03:25 PM
0

Is it because I gain validation from trolling online? Oh wait, that’s you. Bye sexy.......
/r/askMRP19/06/18 03:35 AM
2

In response to your question, no, Deplorable has nothing specific to add.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:49 PM
2

Nice backpedal. You were butthurt brother, happens. You put a disturbing amount of effort into hyperlinks, capitalization, bold text, and a couple swear words for emphasis are fine. But every other word being “fuck” just shows your emotion got the best of you. Deny if that’s the way you want to play it. But it’s all on the page for us to see.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:37 PM
1

Quotations please. Find the specific parts of his post where he lacks frame, or it’s meaningless.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:29 PM
5

Butthurt Feral? Hyperlinks, Bold Text, capital letters, tons of profanity that add nothing to the context. Serious butthurt going on. You’re totally in his frame now brother.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:24 PM
1

Agreed. Better to speak calmly and rationally than roll over in bed and play the autistic mute.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:21 PM
4

You’ve read more of the sidebar than I have, but here’s my theory. She WANTS you to be butthurt, thereby establishing the power of pussy that she’s had over other guys before you. Her hamster brain is saying “He MUST be mad that he didn’t get my vagina. How can he NOT be upset? He’s obviously just hiding that he’s MAD.” So she goes emotionally fishing for the answer she wants. Like most emotions of women, she’s not doing it maliciously, but is nonetheless CONFUSED AS FUCK. Which means you are cr…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:16 PM
2

This. If your wife is a badass FO, I would take her words into consideration. But sounds unlikely, and I think Two Kids nailed a perfect response.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 02:44 PM
1

If it wasn’t for that damn “red pill” verbiage attached to it. 😂. If I ever make a Purple Pill Marriage, you’ll be the first to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:43 AM
10

Fail. Complete fail. 1) Report is from 1999. 2) Number one listed reason for divorce is COMMUNICATION problems. Not any of the more dramatic reasons you previously gave. 3) Report is from Australia (if that’s where you’re from so be it, but most users are US based). 4) The very title of the report (PERCEIVED reasons) gives credence to it being subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:41 AM
0

I won’t actually read TRP for precisely that reason. Married Red Pill is superb though. Primary concern is owning your shit (masculinity), but knowing that if you’re killing yourself to make a better life, don’t bring a woman along who just wants a free ride. (Same advice I would give my daughters about a guy wanting a free ride). There are some guys who truly struggle on there. Inspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:14 AM
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You state facts, but provide none. Women are twice as likely to develop anxiety and depression. Women are more likely to develop borderline personality disorder (manipulation). https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/biology-is-partly-to-blame-for-high-rates-of-mental-illness-in-women-the-rest-is-social-75700 Married women are now FORTY percent more likely to cheat on their husbands (research book written by a woman). While the incidence of married men cheating has remained stable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 07:10 AM
1

Your first paragraph accurately summarizes TRP in its purest sense. Thereby proving its efficacy. Yes, you could take specific comments from angry male TRP’s, and angry feminists for that matter, but the principles of BOTH movements are sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:38 AM
3

Agreed. If their goals no longer aligned (and sounds like polar opposites), then no choice but to end relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:35 AM
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Agreed. Women initiate divorce are TWICE the rate of men. They are much more likely to “search for something better” than men. You can debate the reasons for this, but it’s irrelevant. Facts back up his statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:34 AM
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If she wanted babies/marriage, then it wasn’t very smart to be with him for 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:31 AM
3

My LTR is the same way. Doesn’t agree with any extremist views. Feminism, TRP, Islam, even Christianity has been historically used to the extremes. TRP is a backlash to the misandrist society we currently live in. As feminism was a rebuttal to the TRULY misogynistic society of the 1920s-1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:29 AM
1

TRP is amoral. As in the morals don’t pertain to the effectiveness. I would classify it in the same extremism as some hard core feminist ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:10 AM
2

Married Red Pill is the middle ground, at least for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:08 AM
1

You asked her to lick whip cream off your cock and she replied “I’m going to divorce your ass.” But you say she’s a high quality woman??? She’s not bro. A high quality woman would have done it for you OR rolled her eyes at you, laughed, and then done it later that night anyway. You’ve got terminal oneitis, and if you’ve already been RP for a year, then there’s no cure.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 03:19 AM
1

Because thinking or saying it means he’s insecure as fuck. It’s like the guy who took his wife’s cell phone away, not going to stop her if she wants to fuck around.
/r/askMRP17/06/18 08:33 PM
1

You’re projecting. She has stated neither of those.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 02:05 AM
1

Acta non verba. She’s ten months pregnant, not going anywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 01:29 AM
1

It is working. She is supposed to be worried about him leaving. He’s not about to lose his wife, regardless of whether he should or not. And if he’s getting “porn star” sex, then it’s ABSOLUTELY working. I’m not saying it’s right, but it is working exactly the way it’s supposed to.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 12:59 AM
1

I occasionally have jealousy issues with Beta orbiters. Just say to myself “I’m not hers, it’s just her turn.” Or the more BP version “She’s not mine, it’s just my turn.” Either way, it’s detaching yourself emotionally and realizing that nothing is forever. Read some of your previous posts. I don’t think it’s a realistic expectation to move in with a woman and expect to screw twice a day for the foreseeable future. You don’t want her as bad, she doesn’t want you as bad. Regardless, it’s bad ass …
/r/askMRP17/06/18 12:30 AM
1

I would have kept the plates around. Open relationship. Keeps her on her toes, and if she’s THAT crazy about you, she won’t even bother sleeping with the other men. She was amazingly excited to be “chosen” against all the other plates. Amazing job btw. But NOW, there’s no more competition. Hence not as exciting. And not as exciting for you either, aka same pussy as always. To put numbers to what could happen, my SO has slept with other guys twice in the last year. I’ve had sex TWENTY times with …
/r/askMRP16/06/18 10:49 PM
1

How old are you, why are you living in an apartment? I would focus on kicking ass at work/financial success. Home ownership is a big psychological step towards being independent. Go work a night job bartending or serving tables, instead of being home arguing with her. You will be MORE financially successful, meet MORE attractive women, and be MORE ready to leave if it comes to that. Plus you don’t really like being around her anyhow. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP16/06/18 10:41 PM
0

I can’t imagine living with a “screeching, shit-testing wife”. Is she REALLY worth it? What value does she add to your life? Value TODAY. Not the fact that you’ve been married for 20 years, raised kids together, built a house together, what the fuck ever. Sounds like you’re pretty familiar with these shit tests. Also sounds like you’ve been strong headway into the path of RP. Why not “I love you, but if you speak to me in that tone again, we’re going to have a conversation that you won’t like.” …
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:58 PM
1

This. I have a side girl, absolutely keeps the shit tests to a minimum. I get more comfort tests, but those are easier to pass.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:11 PM
2

Agreed. I was on Clomid for three months. Yes, my test levels were high, but holy fuck I was a mess. Estrogen was within normal limits but would cry daily and sleep 12 hours a day. Nasty shit, for me at least.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:09 PM
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336 is NOT FINE. That’s the average testosterone level of a 85 year old man. I started TRT about 6 weeks ago, levels around 900 right now (20 year old). You will feel a HUNDRED TIMES BETTER on TRT. Better sex, lifting will drastically improve, attitude better, it has been a legit miracle cure for me. My previous levels were in the high 400s, so you’re worse off than I was. Will you ever be able to convince your PCP of that? Doubtful. But he’s probably in his 50s and fat as fuck (at least mine wa…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 05:32 PM
2

Asking for a friend? 😂
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:13 PM
1

It only fucks with your ego if you get butthurt. My SO asks my advice and then occasionally goes against it. If it doesn’t work out, I just sit back and wait. Within a day she’s says “Yeah, you were right.” I don’t rub her face in it, just play it cool. And I’m sure she does the exact same with me. 😁
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 02:09 AM
2

This. When your metabolism crashes, your body stores fat. That’s why you’re at 30% body fat. It’s like the anorexic chicks that don’t eat, but still have a pooch.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 01:39 AM
3

Maybe don’t try to “fake it”? It’s obviously not working, and she’s picking up on your lack of congruency. That might be what’s frustrating her the most. Like a beta going Rambo, it’s mostly false and she’s known you long enough to know better. A good FO knows when it’s appropriate to step up and help lead for the success of the team.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 01:34 AM
1

Consequences of your actions. Playbook stays the same, but you’ve got a shit test AND a comfort test now. Red Pill is amoral, but her hamster is losing its mind right now.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 12:53 AM
1

Or Beta Bob goes through with the divorce. We can play what if all day. The rest TLDR.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 09:35 PM
1

If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t be posting for advice. Chad doesn’t post on AskMRP. If you want to do more for her, then DO MORE. Not because she “expects” you to, but because you want to. You can do nice shit for her, and still be in your frame. Most guys on here (myself included) have a blue pill background and are fighting to get out of it. Maybe you’ve transcended that?
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:32 PM
0

Comfort Test. And yeah, sounds like you know you’re failing them.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:24 PM
1

What would your life be without her? Can you CLEARLY see what it would like? I did this exercise, wrote it out step by step, word for word. Once I accepted that EITHER reality was okay (her here, or her gone), then I was better able to maintain frame. Not perfect, but it has much improved because I was okay with her being gone. So when her shit tests start up, my non verbal/covert communication says “If you don’t like this, you can leave whenever you want”.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:42 PM
1

Agree with the vast majority of your response. But hard boundaries only work for hard men? Even the most submissive female, or bluest pill guy will have hard lines they will never cross. Some guys like getting their nuts stepped on by a woman in heels. Some girls like scat play (google that, you won’t like what you find). Absolutely agree with 10X better to get walked on until you know what hill you will die on. My SO could choose to cross the hard lines, but she knows there will be fallout and …
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:04 PM
2

Great response. If she is questioning the very integrity of you as a man, then the time for AA is over. Firmly stating that she isn’t allowed to speak that way to you isn’t breaking frame. You’re drawing a deep dark line in the sand and communicating that there’s no crossing it.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:27 AM
0

No. Just no. Horrible advice. Anything with a paper trail is obvious.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 04:08 PM
1

Good job pulling real data from a legit source. Upvote.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 02:11 AM
7

I love it when you yell at me Daddy
/r/askMRP12/06/18 05:27 PM
2

You make $300k annual? If you’re pulling that, you’re smart enough to not be fishing for advice from a Reddit community.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 12:38 PM
1

OP body weight of 140. It’s still low, but we’ve seen guys posting that weigh 200 and only squat 165. Same percentages of body weight.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 12:33 PM
1

Daycare abuse happens regardless of the cost of the school. If you choose to entrust the safety of your children to strangers, then it’s on you for any ramifications.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 12:31 PM
1

Why would you assume it’s a cheap ass daycare? It wasn’t, but it’s irrelevant to the point of your zero facts assumptions. Daycare abuse happens regardless of the cost. It’s your choice, but I would never voluntarily choose to place the safety of my children in a random person’s care. But the risk is mitigated if you feel confident in the quality.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 10:46 PM
1

So do I
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:43 PM
1

You’re taking the ideal daycare experience, and comparing it to a horrible SAHM experience. Which could absolutely be accurate. I had an awful daycare experience when my kids were young, and my ex wife (at the time) was a great SAHM. Might be difficult to quantitatively measure these, but why are you home all day watching the SAHM’s?
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:31 PM
1

Agreed. Good explanation from both. I went to marriage counseling with my ex wife (we both agreed it was stupid), but I never knew WHY it was stupid.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:28 PM
1

Agreed. I don’t think he can yet.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:26 PM
1

Best response so far. You slapped him in the face with the truth, and then told him why it hurt.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:25 PM
2

It’s best for the kids. Not so good for the couple.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:45 PM
2

TLDR is understandable. He does go on to say a soccer mom would fuck him within 30 days, but it’s not congruent with “I’m still fat, etc etc”
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:49 PM
8

Sounds like the outcome was overall positive. I like the implied threat (find other things to do outside the house), good plausible deniability. I would have destroyed her in the bedroom that night though. You missed a HUGE opportunity there. She got cunty, you withdrew. She cries in your arms and admits you’re right, smash until she doesn’t know her name. Then the pleasure of sex is associated with the positive behaviors of her realizing she needs guidance/realizing her husband is getting more …
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:25 PM
1

Or she didn’t fuck the guy. Therefore not willfully ignorant. Good article though, duly noted.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 04:07 PM
2

I asked my LTR several times, What benefits do I gain by being married? Can you name ANYTHING that will help me throughout my life? She tries to pull the tax write off, but it’s worth almost nothing in the big picture. I would ask her the same. Fun part was when one of her friends asked her at a party, “Are you two going to get married?” She looks right at her says, “Why would he? I’m already his.”
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:01 PM
1

I’m 50/50 on wanting to get married again. But if I do, it will be with ZERO paperwork. LTR knows this, took her a month or two to choke it down, but held frame and she finally realized the paperwork doesn’t mean shit anyhow. Google your state and see if common law marriage applies (mine doesn’t). Only nine states in the US have common law marriage.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 02:56 PM
1

Agreed. The reality of OP’s statement is in question. But not OP’s perception (inaccurate though it may be). My guess is SHE didn’t fuck him 5 years ago, but saving man, not the marriage.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 12:45 PM
2

The fuck is YOUR problem?
/r/askMRP11/06/18 12:17 PM
2

This. He’s obviously excited to meet up with you (he’s texting back in minutes), so if he just throw him a bone once in awhile (ie I suck at texting, but looking forward to date), he will be 100% on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 04:48 AM
1

Agreed. One of the sidebar books states Sex Moratorium though?
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:05 AM
2

My ex played the same communication game with me. Your daughter will be your daughter forever. A few short months of hardship and then you will have the time you need with her. Fatherhood is a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 02:45 AM
1

Agreed
/r/askMRP09/06/18 07:53 PM
2

Why didn’t you just say that in the first place? Judgement without explanation offers no education.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 07:02 PM
2

That’s why it’s called AskMRP
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:50 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:35 PM
1

You can’t. Stop being a loser. You can get a restaurant assistant manager job at Applebee’s, 99, etc with very little experience. Or work as a cook for 6 months, show up on time, work your ASS off and do everything per standard. Then ask for mgmt training. I did exactly this, EXCEPT I was 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:35 PM
1

Irrelevant. For the purposes of SMV, women don’t care if you can squat or deadlift. Anymore than you care how many half marathons she can run.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:32 PM
2

He didn’t defend it. He said he thinks it. Defending it is what he does in a later post.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:30 PM
1

This
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:29 PM
1

Assuming she didn’t fuck him in the last five years, then I would say it was a shit test, and you passed it, so she went mini-nuclear. She’s trying to get Beta You to break frame and a sniveling whiner, and it sounds like you didn’t. There’s probably some attraction there, but I believe she’s getting dragged by the 1000 foot rope, and she doesn’t like it. If she DID cheat on you when you were Beta, then so be it. Stay Plan = Go Plan
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:27 PM
1

Read the post accurately if you’re going to comment. OP is confident that she didn’t fuck him. We can debate on the reality of his statement, but it’s OP viewpoint.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:23 PM
3

She isn’t wrong. 😂
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:20 PM
1

Yes. That’s all I do. Every day. 😁
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:01 PM
1

TLDR
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:00 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:00 PM
1

Who have I judged? And yes, it’s pretty toxic. Married Red Pill is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:59 PM
1

It’s worked in my life. And my friends lives. Like any ideology, it is dangerous when taken to the extreme. The comments of woman-haters don’t reflect he ideology as a whole. Just like the comments of man-hating feminists don’t reflect the movement in its entirety. Why do you feel you can judge a entire set of people you’ve never met? And obviously made an effort to learn about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:05 PM
2

Agreed. If he chooses to live in fear of what MIGHT happen, then it usually DOES happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 12:59 PM
9

It’s all in the approach. Annnnnnnd of course if you’re a good looking guy, you have a lot more leeway. 12 million copies sold of 50 Shades taught us that. Dude stalks her, beats her, takes her virginity. Oh wait, but he’s hot and rich, so it’s sexy. 😂 That’s why I’m working on being hot and rich, makes the whole process much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 12:57 PM
1

Relevant regardless. 13% equals about 1 in 8. That’s why I’m in an open relationship. We have guidelines and rules, but when one of us REALLY has the itch, we go scratch it. And every time we say “Wow, my bf/gf is A LOT better than this person.” So I guess that means it’s working.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 12:54 PM
-2

Read my post again, never said don’t work legs. You’re discussing gains. as an overall musculature goal. If you want to maximize your SMV, then focus on the SMV important areas. The rest of your post is basic af and offers nothing I couldn’t have pulled from a 15 second google search.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 12:52 PM
2

Best purple pill post I’ve seen. I’m 38, and lines up with my experiences so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:04 AM
3

What is a signal of interest in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:02 AM
34

Some feminists obviously ARE against casual approaches, since OP gives links to articles written by prominent feminists that detail their experiences. And some guys do throw a hissy fit when they get turned down (never understood why, happens to the best of us).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:01 AM
-5

Girls don’t care about cardio. Girls don’t care about 1000# club vs 1200# club. Almost all of them don’t care if you have skinny legs. Want to maximize your SMV? Arms, chest, back. I’m not saying ignore everything else, but those are your priorities.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 05:58 AM
1

Agreed! This is RP truth without the rhetoric. Don’t act better, BE BETTER. And get better people (women and men) in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:54 AM
3

You’re talking about two dates brother. Ever play poker? Google Theory of Large Numbers. You got a couple bad hands, it’s going to happen. Also, if you’re only average, then stop dating and go hit the gym hard and get rich. That’s 70% of the battle right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:51 AM
1

Correct for some, incorrect for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:47 AM
2

I would say most RP believers got burned by a bad woman, so they are looking for answers as to WHY it happened, and how to prevent it from happening again. Why is it fucking embarrassing for them to want a better life for themselves? And their kids? Sure, there’s extremism, but that happens within any ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:44 AM
1

RO ideology works. It’s just amoral, so vast majority dismiss it. Just because you don’t like it, doesn’t mean it’s not true. What DOESN’T work is some of the women hating comments. And I would say the man hating communes from the extreme feminist community don’t work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:37 AM
2

Yes they do. I got banned from MRP after 12 days because I posted something that was considered too BP. That was after they called me a faggot 5-6 times and then told me I wasn’t really in the military. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:35 AM
1

Agreed. Years of Disney, and we finally realize that it doesn’t work, and it’s not what (most) women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:33 AM
2

You can’t speak for all woman kind. If they are aware they’re sharing, then it’s not begrudgingly. It’s because they would rather take a slim chance on getting an alpha male, than taking a overweight frumpy guy with a good job. That’s on them, and they are fully aware of the dangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:23 AM
1

Rarely do said cheaters leave? Facts please. If you’re going to make statements, please back them up. Google it, come back with relevant data.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:20 AM
1

I’ve done it. Not that hard. You tell them, most say no, some say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:19 AM
3

You don’t get to speak for woman kind as a whole. Is it abnormal? Probably. But there are women and men who get turned on by playing with feces. It’s called scat play, and it’s a real thing. 🤮 So pretty sure there are women (or men) that like being in the spotlight of a celebrity, and don’t care to pursue anything further.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:18 AM
1

Incorrect. Maybe not a LITERAL harem (aka hang around and wait all day for the man to come back), but a soft harem where 3-4 females sleep with one man, and only that man. I know, because I’ve done it. They all knew EXACTLY what was going on, and they all happily agreed to it. Did it last forever? Of course not. Some went their own way, some stuck around, it was up to them what they wanted to do. The world is a crazy place. A guy can get his dick cut off and go pee in the same Target bathroom as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:15 AM
1

You think that’s bad? Just trying rolling over into MRP. Got my account banned after 11 days because I “dared” question a moderators judgement. That was right after four of them called me a faggot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:00 AM
1

Why would I would get screwed over if she leaves? If she goes, she goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 09:46 PM
2

Ugh, yeah, you’re doing everything I could think of. Almost like a victimization complex, “Do you see how much I SACRIFICE for this FAMILY?!?!?!” Interested to see how it develops. Best of luck brother.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:09 PM
2

I think there’s legitimate social pressure for young mothers to be happy at the chance to stay home. “This is everything that should make you happy”. When in reality, it’s the 80th time she’s had to pick the sock up off the floor. Her girl brain is telling her she SHOULD be happy staying home, but she’s not so she feels guilty. Then resents it because she feels guilty. And the vicious cycle continues.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:55 PM
1

I would revisit how much time she has away from the kids. Ie friends, taking herself out for coffee solo, whatever. In your own words “I would rather you be happy and take some time for yourself, than be miserable staying here all the time. Get out of here, I got the kiddos. <smack ass>”
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:51 PM
2

Fair enough. Should I be concerned about her N Count as a predictor of future relationship stability?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:46 PM
1

Why?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:37 PM
1

Why?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:37 PM
3

The 1000 foot rope is pulling on her, and she doesn’t like it? That would be my guess. Although seems like it would have happened earlier than 10 months. You’re higher value than her, and she resents you for it? Tries to drag you back down to her pre-RP guy because of her insecurities? Also, is she a stay at home Mom? Some woman hate it, and I can’t blame them. No sense of independence, crying children all day, changing diapers, almost zero adult interaction. I would be angry as fuck if I had to…
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:33 PM
1

Agreed. AWALT.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:24 PM
1

Best response yet. Upvoted.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:14 PM
1

You can brother. Nobody can tell you what you want, or what you’re going to do.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:52 PM
1

Based on what facts?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:26 PM
2

Just to clarify, LTR is respectably normal in all other areas. Mom of three kiddos (I have three kids as well), accounting job, lives in a townhouse, no drug/alcohol issues. Freely admits she has some “daddy issues”, as expected. 😂
/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:19 PM
3

One point higher. I’m sure it could be a huge issue for some guys, but I used to be a physical therapist so I’m more familiar than the average person about physical impairments/disabilities etc. After the first month, I didn’t even think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 05:13 PM
11

My girlfriend has cerebral palsy. Walks with a limp, not awful, but definitely noticeable. It does lower her attractiveness (which she will freely acknowledge), but she eats crazy healthy, exercises, stretches to reduce the limp, among other great qualities she has. For me, whole package comes out to SMV 7, so worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 05:00 PM
1

Agreed. And I think it’s wise to seek out advice if you’re unsure.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 04:39 PM
2

Way to go. It’s funny, but those few paragraphs of text are actually the result of years of soul searching, frustration and bitter acceptance. Inspiring to hear you are getting your life together, coupled with desire to take care of your son in the best possible way. Usually the 1000 foot rope pulls taut, and the woman comes along for the ride. Why do you think she hasn’t improved and followed your lead?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 03:20 PM
3

Damn brother, that’s a hard story to read. I have three kids, and can’t imagine any of what you went through. In your time of grieving, she wasn’t supportive of you. I think that’s a big difference between the two situations. Your grieving was normal, and to be expected, but your wife doesn’t rate very highly of the supportive, compassionate role. I’m sure she has other great qualities, but that’s definitely not one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 02:49 PM
29

You can’t change your mindset. You got hotter, he got WAY LESS hot. 30 pounds of muscle lost? He’s not even the same guy anymore, his shirts are two sizes smaller at that point. You can’t intellectually “convince” yourself that you want to have sex with a guy. Women communicate covertly, through implications feelings etc. Men communicate overtly, direct statements. Speak in his language, and be extremely honest. “I love you, but you’ve let yourself go. I’m not as attracted to you as I used to be…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 01:51 PM
3

She’ll stay, or she’ll go. You will face this with every woman, in your entire life. Just the parameters of when they leave is different. MRP isn’t about saving the relationship, it’s about saving the man. To go deeper into it, I would say what matters most is how you handle that challenge. I’ve been fired plenty of times (all deserved), but I would tear the world down and come back with a higher paying job a month later. Serious injury (assuming sexual component still works) would be the same. …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 01:19 PM
2

Perhaps you misunderstood his post? He’s staying that women want men that THEY respect and adore. Not that men need to respect and adore their women. Therein lies disaster as we all know. If you DO mean it, then yes, the only requirement for sex is desire. But women will fuck Chad, with no intention of wanting him for the long term. They’re riding the CC, not giving a damn, with zero intentions of any long term prospects. That would be accurate, but not applicable to most of the situations we fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 01:13 PM
3

Absolutely. If you want the hard facts, meet with a divorce lawyer. On your lunch break, when she is working late, whatever. To clarify, I’m not saying get divorced. Just hypothesizing that if you want to protect your assets in case of possible divorce, best speak with an expert in divorce law.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 12:59 PM
5

For sure. Classy Mon-Fri, Slutty Sat-Sun. You might even enjoy the stares you get on those weekend. Everyone likes validation.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 12:53 PM
2

Of course they do. They know we run the world, and they want to fight against it. I don’t blame them for that, but it is super annoying to listen to them rant about it. Their confusion is that they think they’ll be happier then, but they won’t be. I own two businesses, and work alone in both, so unless I read stupid yahoo articles or watch the pointless news, it has zero impact on my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 12:51 PM
0

Respect the cock, tame the cunt. :) Also, do women respect Chad when they get the tingles for him? Guess it would depend on your definition of respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 12:48 PM
1

Agreed. Buuuuuuut, a lot of of us went through similar experiences, and wound up here. I got beta dumped by a woman I thought it was “forever” with, pretty sure I didn’t get cheated, but it wouldn’t surprise me. In the end, it led me to red pill (mostly MRP) and my life is better because of it. As far as STD’s, that’s much less of a problem than you would think. It can happen sure, but I’m in an open relationship and have had a ton of unprotected threesomes (vasectomy), and I’ve never had any is…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 12:42 PM
10

Thanks brother. Could I replace her? Yes, absolutely. But it took me two years of solid dating to find a woman with her qualities, and I would prefer not to repeat that process.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 12:14 PM
1

Pretty sure there is an invisible and powerful patriarchy. Just glad I’m on the correct gender side of the equation. 😁 And yes, I agree with all your statements about feminism.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 12:06 PM
3

Projecting for sure. Nothing about the post describes “deep, long thoughts” about her leaving. I’ve been beta dumped before, but this isn’t it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 11:37 AM
2

Cool. Didn’t even know it was a feminist term.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 04:09 AM
1

If she works hard to please you sexually, sing her praises for it. Reward the behavior you desire from her with positive reinforcement and attention. She’s the biggest child in the house.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:57 AM
1

Negative. Have one, no scar. But I will say this. Dick never worked right after. Doesn’t always happen, but happens a lot more than docs will admit. 5 mg Cialis or I can’t complete. 38 years old, 19% bf, zero blood flow issues, zero dick problems before. Just putting it out there.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:52 AM
1

I thought about this one for awhile. My guess would be lack of congruency. You didn’t especially WANT to sleep with this woman, you wanted to test game theory/see if could/see what it felt like/etc etc. And she picked up on it. In that case, there was nothing you could have done to make it happen. Kind of like if you want to sleep with your wife RIGHT NOW, it almost always happens. But when you half try it, doesn’t go as well.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:33 AM
2

Perhaps? But judge them by their actions, not their words.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 02:10 AM
13

Agreed. It’s moments like these when I realize I’ve been trying to spit the red pill up. Or didn’t have it down as far as I thought. And yeah, their truth is within their emotional context at the moment. Thank you for feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 02:05 AM
4

AWALT. They’re all like that. If I do get married again (doubtful), it would be the ring and the party only. Would never sign a contact saying “I love you”. I was married before, but wasn’t divorce raped. It sounds horrific, and I’ll never allow myself to be in that situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 01:26 AM
1

Truth hurts brother. Great job being man enough to lay it out.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 01:24 AM
3

All the advice is great. But a huge part of reaching for “forever”, is believing that it’s possible. I’m impressed that you’ve asked for advice, and take what makes most sense to you, but sometimes you just have to jump and hope you catch each other.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 12:36 AM
2

She costs more than she makes. Omg, dying laughing. Good job!!! “There are the numbers, I would be better off financially if you weren’t here.” And you could tell you didn’t even say it in a mean or vindictive voice. Just Hey, there it is. Excellent work, best statement I’ve read all day.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 12:17 AM
1

Good job. I’m on Cialis at 38, ED issues due to vasectomy (which no doc will ever admit too, but that’s another story). 40 MG of Cialis is A LOT, so glad to hear it’s improving.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 12:13 AM
4

Best reply I’ve seen. You’re trying to convince yourself that you’re attracted to him, but you’re not. One of my girlfriend’s friends is engaged to a guy just like him. He’s ridiculously nice and thinks the world of her. She started out just like you, but after a year of “trying”, she goes out with her friends to clubs and fucks the best looking guy she can find. And then takes a shower and goes back to him waiting patiently at home. I know you may say “I would NEVER do that!” But it happens to …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 12:10 AM
1

A Woman’s ultimate biological goal is to take children born of Alpha seed and raise them to maturity. A Man’s ultimate biological goal is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible. Aka fuck as many women as possible. Your lizard brain is fighting with your modern day intellect. I’ve been there myself. Only answer is an open relationship.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:31 PM
1

Agreed. Sociopaths lack the basic compassion/remorse to even ask the question. Unless I’m confusing that with psychopaths?
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:28 PM
1

Agreed. She knows your value makes it worth it. I had two girlfriends for awhile, one primary, one secondary. After the first couple times, they didn’t even care, as long as my time with them was “special”.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:27 PM
1

WRONG. Woman will share a high value man vs settling for a low value man. Basic red pill knowledge.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:24 PM
1

There’s nothing there man. She won’t end it, because women have no courage for that, she’ll just implode it through stupid couple fights.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:34 PM
3

Open relationship. I’m one year into with my gf. I don’t think you could pull it off with this girl (requires huge amounts of trust), but it’s the ultimate guy relationship. Only kicker for me it’s best with a girl 2-3 notches below you on SMV. I’m a 8-9, she’s 6-7. More specifically, you need a woman who will worship the ground you walk on, so even when she decides to take new dick, it’s nowhere CLOSE to as good as you. Then you end sleeping with 2-3 different girls, and she stays your faithful…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:33 PM
1

You stated in your OP that you were good looking. You’re not. You’re skinny fat. I don’t follow the 5x5, but if you’re new to lifting, you should be able to increase weights every week (not every four weeks).
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:52 PM
1

MRP saves the Man, not the Marriage. You just started driving the tugboat away, it takes months for the 1000 foot rope to pull taut. She will change, or she will leave. Just do you. There’s a saying on here, Stay Plan = Go Plan. Absolutely nothing you can do if she wants to leave. So stop worrying about her, because there isn’t shit you can do if she wants to go.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:50 PM
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Just started listening to the Jocko podcast. Seriously good stuff, had been searching for good RP podcast for awhile. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 05:24 PM
1

Amazing progress on leading W to the gym. Best possible outcome for everyone involved. Same-sex relationships have always been challenging for me as well. Dad wasn’t around, raised by my Mom, you get the idea. I joined a recreational soccer league that start next month, hoping that will open the door to guy friends. Might work for you as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 05:07 PM
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Shit Test. Just like any other. AA or just ignore. 1000 foot rope is pulling taut. But they fight it all the while. Good job pursuing your dreams..
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:02 PM
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Always date multiple people until you are in a committed relationship. He wants to date other people? That’s totally cool, but you do the same. Doesn’t matter if you don’t like them as much, the point is to match his emotional commitment to you. A woman can have ten dates set up from tinder in about 90 minutes. I’m a good looking guy, but it would take me days to do the same. In all fairness, I would give the same advice to a guy. She still on Tinder? No worries, but do the same. Eventually you’…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 01:23 PM
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Honestly when you start lifting hard and eating clean, it’s AWESOME. All your hard work pays off, and you don’t even have to try to get female attention, it just happens. If it doesn’t, you don’t care, but it’s pretty damn nice when it does.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:58 AM
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This. If you’re here posting, you consciously (or subconsciously) know your life is wrong. And that you’re not happy the way you are.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:55 AM
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Agreed. And I would say AWALT applies if she was willing to stay and kino. Any woman who stays for the date (once she found out he was married), is AWALT for sex if he gives her the tingles.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:53 AM
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I know people will be screaming AWALT at me, but there are women (and men) who will never fuck a married person. Although those same people would have walked out the door as soon as he dropped M word. Okay, so because he wasn’t Chad. 😂
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:39 AM
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It took you years of BP to get here. Not going to change in fifty days. You’re either in monk mode, or spinning plates. Neither of which is the same as a woman shaking your frame. True test will be first new relationship. Glad to hear you’re doing good though.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 01:21 AM
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You don’t know her style. That’s why you got your ass dumped. She’ll be on the CC, whatever version of that is hers. AWALT brother
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:39 AM
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More details of your Rambo actions?
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:30 AM
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This. All the way. If you only touch her when you want sex, she’s going to see you coming a mile away and it won’t feel natural. As many other have posted, you’re currently fat. But to get down to 15% body fat, you’re probably looking at 6 months. Good to work on your game while you’re at it.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:18 AM
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🤦🏻‍♂️. Do your research, then comment. Someone might make the mistake of taking your advice.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 10:57 PM
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You’re entitled to your point of view, but if you do research into impacts of divorce upon children, you will find that you are mistaken in your beliefs. OP could be everything you state. But lazy is not the same as DEERing. And instead of making random guesses about the weight of a user’s non-existent wife, just stay on point next time.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 10:48 PM
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Correct. Questioning whether my wife (I’m not married) is fat or not (gf is 5’2” 105 pounds with fake tits) Is you completely failing to make any sort of logical point. It’s not DEERing for OP to stay in a relationship with a fattie to benefit his children. AS LONG AS, he’s fully aware of his choice, the reasons for it, and has an exit plan if things get worse. Agreed?
/r/askMRP03/06/18 08:44 PM
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She sees the 1000 foot rope moving fast, and she doesn’t like it. She’s shit testing you like any other woman. Just using your daughter as an excuse to test your frame. If YOU feel like you should spend more time with your daughter, then by all means do so. But not because of her requests. That being said, how many times a day does your daughter seek attention from you (wanting to be held, verbalizing, whatever)? I had an epiphany once where I realized my kids weren’t asking to spend any time wi…
/r/askMRP03/06/18 06:03 PM
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I agree with the general content of all the replies so far. It sounds like more of a gray area than most of the AskMRP topics (ie my wife went out for a girls night and came back two days later, what should I do, smh) Sounds like you never took a stand on it, because you were unsure of the right answer. Would say better choices would have been to speak to wife in one of two two ways. 1) I value my Mother being a part of our lives, and I’m not willing to jeopardize that because of her over-buying…
/r/askMRP03/06/18 05:55 PM
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Okay, fair enough. I would never trust any woman who said their “best friend” was a guy. So I was viewing it through my lens on relationships. I would also agree with you on his oneities paranoia IF she hadn’t tried to get a hotel with another guy. Gay or not, it’s a skank move, and their relationship is crumbling quickly. So it’s within the context of her seeking AF.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 05:13 PM
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Reread his post. She is going to visit her sister AND her best friend/best friends boyfriend.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 05:06 PM
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Do you know how to tell when a woman knows your right? When she starts attacking you personally and/or brings up unrelated conversational points. Sound familiar?
/r/askMRP03/06/18 04:55 PM
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Did she go on anti-depressants? I don’t give a damn what the docs say, those make women crazy fat. Ballooning from 140 to 190 is crazy. I was dating a woman who started them, she put on 10 pounds in one month (similar height). Told her she had to get off them or I was out. She tried to start a bunch of drama over how “I didn’t understand mental illness”. Which I don’t, and don’t really care to. Nexted her quick, just glad I wasn’t further in.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 03:48 PM
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Yes. His kids would be happier seeing their dad stay with their mom, even if she is a land whale. And at 5’2” 190 lbs she’s morbidly obese and clinically unhealthy. Regardless, Assuming she’s a good mother (which OP gave no evidence to the contrary), then it absolutely is better for the kids for them to stay together. Is it better for him? Maybe, maybe not. Should be stay within his relationship and work on it? Maybe, maybe not. But divorce does irrevocable, permanent damage to children. I would…
/r/askMRP03/06/18 03:42 PM
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Disrespected you? If you want good advice, you’re going to need to tell the whole story. Feels like I’m watching one of those 15 second videos where some drunk cunt gets her ass beat by the local PD. Then you watch the whole video and it’s totally the girls’ fault.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 02:17 PM
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I haven’t ever had to implement it, but I’ve seen senior guys on MRP stating dread game doesn’t work to get fat women to lose weight.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 02:12 PM
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I’m not a red pill pro, but she doesn’t love you. And she’s also cheating on you right this second. I’ve pulled 3-4 threesomes in the last year, and it’s pretty for the extra girl’s hamster to say “he’s gay, it doesn’t count”, or “it’s a bf/gf combo, it doesn’t count”. You externalized all the red pill concepts, but it takes longer to use them in real life. Break it off, get a new job and chalk this up to a learning experience.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 01:22 AM
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There’s stated and unstated societal rules of any relationship. With open relationships, the only rules are the ones you and your partner agree on. It’s a LOT more work and a LOT more communication. I wouldn’t do it with a woman of equal (or higher) than SMV than me. Way too easy for hypergamy to run its course, and I enjoy the security of knowing I’m one of the best guys she can get. We closed it off for about 5 months over the holidays. Those are stressful times for any couple, and open relati…
/r/askMRP01/06/18 04:51 PM
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I’m in an open relationship for this very reason. When I met my current LTR, I was sleeping with four different women. But I wasn’t happy about it, oddly enough. Fun at first, but you start to feel guilty when they are yearning for more, and you know it’s never going to work. They were all infatuated with me, and I would occasionally try to be monogamous, but it would never hold. Current LTR has friends in open relationships, she introduced me to the concept, and I realized it had potential WITH…
/r/askMRP01/06/18 03:24 PM
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Absolutely agree with not believing “I love you just...”. All of a sudden they realize how fast the 1000 foot rope is moving. Passive dread is definitely my favorite. Once I start lifting hard, the shit tests start to disappear. Or I don’t even notice them anymore. Either way.
/r/askMRP01/06/18 03:14 PM
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Damn, that seriously hit me hard. 5’10” at 178 lbs, but 20% body fat. Been told I was hot by pretty much every woman, but it’s mostly genetically good face. Always felt confident I could easily run dread game, but I’ve got a lot of work to do on the cuts. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP01/06/18 02:32 PM
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My ex wife was a long term alcoholic, who got physical when she got angry. I stayed in there for about three years too long, we had three kids together, and I was trying to “save her”. SMH. Anyway, if a woman ever touches me in anger she’s done. No questions asked. Don’t tolerate that, because it will only get worse if you cohabitate.
/r/askMRP01/06/18 01:37 PM
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Long time lurker on these pages. First time posting on MRP. Dread Game, all the way. I don’t have the link in front of me, but it’s “12 Levels of Dread”. Your post was almost entirely about her and kids. Dread Game has the huge advantage of creating Stay Plan = Go Plan. That way you’re not so focused on everyone else (her being hurt, kids lose in house mother, etc etc). Also gives you time become more Alpha, so if you DO decide to break it off, you will hit the ground running like your separated…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 03:38 AM
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Does MGTOW mean completely ignoring women? Always viewed it as mentally ignoring women and not taking their feelings into account (which they love). But I would never voluntarily live a life without sex. And I think most guys who do are scared of rejection, so they just don’t try. Sound familiar?
/r/MGTOW28/05/18 05:42 PM
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Never claimed to be MGTOW. “Vast majority” is pretty arbitrary. I go to the YMCA, and there’s usually about 8-12 girls working out. Not once have I seen one take a selfie. I have seen a couple Bro’s take selfies, but they’re bro’s, not surprising. If you choose to only see negative aspects to women (or anything else in life), that’s all you’ll see. I’m guessing your game is weak, and you justify this by being in “monk mode” indefinitely.
/r/MGTOW28/05/18 06:29 AM
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How many workout-minded women have you approached? There’s plenty of physically active women that would enjoy being with a guy that works out. My girlfriend and I go to the gym together, it’s that simple. If you’re not finding the correct woman to be with, that’s on YOU, not on womanhood as a whole.
/r/MGTOW28/05/18 05:43 AM
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