Is it over if you dont k close on first date?

Big_Red_suppository · 2019-02-03T19:07:33+00:00

That's not really a deal breaker unless you went for a kiss and she pulled away.

People will say stuff like "if she didnt kiss you or invite herself over she doesnt think you're attractive enough" which is pretty much bullshit.

You can be attractive enough and be so autistic they nope out. Keep getting out there and gauge when a girl is into you and when it's a good opportunity to go for it.

This is why you want to escalate physically and why first dates should be some sort of activity where you're close to one another. You can get an arm around her and see how she reacts and go from there. Waiting til the end of a date expecting a kiss means you didnt escalate physically and or you chose a venue that didnt put you in a good position to.

revaforce · 2019-02-03T18:40:59+00:00

Go out with her again, and go for the kiss after building more rapport and kino

Flamethrowa21 · 2019-02-03T18:58:20+00:00

We're not all viewed as high value males, so sleeping with women on the first date isn't always realistic. Try to escalate things next time.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2019-02-03T19:22:00+00:00

RELAX man. It's all good. There is so much more important things. Patience is very important. As long as you had good eye contact and intent it's all good.

TheLongerCon · 2019-02-03T19:24:12+00:00

There are no hard rules with women. I hooked up with plently of girls I didn’t kclose the first date, if fact some guys recommend not going for the kclose until you’re in a place where you can have sex.

While I don’t agree with that in all cases, forces a kclose too soon will lead to you getting ghosted.

Title	Is it over if you dont k close on first date?
Author	throwayxxxxxx
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	February 3, 2019 6:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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