I have had a couple of women in my life who I have wanted to get with sexually that will contact me abruptly to "check in" or "see how I'm doing" or "talk" or whatever.

How do you get rid of this? The biggest problem is that I try to convert them into being in my frame, but somehow or another they manage to consciously escape. They all have one thing in common: intelligent/educated (med school), and strong displays of compassionate behavior followed by unexplained actions/methods of jumping out. That jumping out thing always seems to be accompanied by a bit of anxiety or exaggerated "niceness" at the end.

Neither of these two have responded to my attempts to initiate sexual activity, they always seem to shake it somehow even when straight up in person. They just wanna taaalllllkkkkkk. I have been trying to break free of these people and I don't really want them there. But every time they try to contact me, I play the game.

Both of them are attractive, extremely intelligent women. They play the game like it's their lifestyle, and have lots of beta's in line including other people I have seen display significant alpha behavior in other circumstances. They consciously evade circumstances which diminish their control.

I've even led the conversation on several occasions to a significant degree, bringing about a strong sense of ownership and positive conversation. And yet, somehow or another they manage to throw down escape velocity. I want it to stop.

What tactics would you recommend for dealing with this situation? Would it be wisest to discontinue contact? Or is it somehow possibly to strategically beat these women? Their orbiting gives them ample room to attack and then back away at the last minute, putting me at a disadvantage.

I understand that cutting them out is one obvious option. But if there's something trickier, I would be interested. Trying to think of some strategy here, not concerned with any sense of how "normal" this strategy is. After all, this is a game, and I like to win.