I mean overall, not just approaching women. .

One thing I find observing myself is a certain emptiness after seeing people my age PURSUING what they want to pursue and seeing success at it. Hint of jealousy and hateful words to rationalize my lack of action.

So, I do have some habits in place such as meditating, reading, gratefulness, training, lifting, eating right and studying for school daily. However, I know that everything I do now is going to pay off in 5-10 years.

However, why can’t I start doing something massive now? Napoleon Bonaparte was a Lieutenant General at 23 and first council of France at 30. Bobby Fischer was a chess grandmaster at 15 years old. Even recent examples of the founder of the largest hotel chain in India, being 22 years old.

We can rationalize them as being special but are they really?

I have a lot of dreams such as starting a supplement brand that leads into a massive biotech gym, starting a shuttle service for space, being a real charmer type James Bond, creating a technologically connected city by using a company’s product I used to work in, being a billionaire, starting a philosophy.

Really anything. I love creating and anything I choose to do something, I get motivated by thinking of the enormous potential for something to change the world. Back at the last company I worked in, right before I quit we were meeting with the largest construction companies in US, to set up massive projects that could change how infrastructure is built.

However, I do also need to face reality, I am currently living with parents after some learning experiences, still in school, with -$500 to my name, and only partially employed.

So what separates those who create massively vs those who dream? When is it time to change something vs just working on the day to day and letting life shape itself?