Red pill rage 19yo

GayLubeOil · 2019-02-01T19:41:37+00:00

All of us have a deep feeling that which is happening should not be happening (trannies) and that which isn't happening ( stable families) should be happening. Since your 19 and haven't fully come into adulthood, haven't fully developed emotionally this realization is expressed via rage.

And that's perfectly valid.

However what you need to understand moving forward is that unless you channel this rage into growth physical and intellectual you will be pulled down into the NPC Normi consciousness of the general public.

LokiWantsToPlay · 2019-02-01T18:21:58+00:00

Stop looking at love/relationships from a philosophical perspective and take a more pragmatic approach.

Does love exist, yes but the reason it's damn near impossible to explain when asked "What it is?" is because people try to explain the concoction of oxytocin and dopamine. "Love" is awe. That's it, for both sides. Build up a life and personality which inspires awe, you'll be "loved" by most.

edwardhwhite · 2019-02-02T09:37:02+00:00

Get over the anger as fast as you can. It's useless. Let it go and face the world as it is.

effyouasshole · 2019-02-01T18:52:55+00:00

but I still want an LTR and have kids eventually.

An LTR shouldn't be your goal. Your goal should be to follow the path of self-actualization. An LTR may or may not come as a result of you putting in the hard work to forge yourself. It may or may not come as a result of you experiencing many women over time until one stands out as having many green flags and no red.

Hence, kids may or may not become a reality; for the same reason, they should not be your goals.

still am a Christian so I don't like the ideas of hooking up, spinning plates

So don't. RP theory states that you should always be doing what YOU want. However, as time goes on, as your normal urges go unchecked, these options are likely to start looking more and more attractive...

When (not if) that happens, are you going to deny yourself basic human happiness and fulfillment?

It is enraging to finally learn

Ahh, yes... the anger phase. Hopefully it'll run its course and burn out soon. Its normal to feel this way, but results in a lot of toxic thinking and behaviors.

Try to keep in mind that it makes no sense to get angry at a lion when it kills a zebra and eats it. That's what lions do. Similarly, hundreds of thousands of years of evolution taught women to act the way they do; this worked to the benefit of the species as a whole. (Note that evolution does not give a flying fuck about you individually.)

The key is to accept that this is how the world really works. Let go of the judgement. Instead, think: "how can I use this to my advantage?" You've been given a true gift to see what so many others cannot. But this alone is useless power: you have to learn how to harness it.

Do you think "loving" relationships still exist?

Love is a mixture of dopamine and serotonin. So yes, loving relationships do, in fact, exist.

But for the overwhelming percentage of the population, this is a temporary effect. "Men love idealistically, while women love opportunistically."

I don't mean this as an insult to women, but consider them like dogs: they are TONS of fun to have around, and they improve the quality of your life. But they won't give you any kind of deep meaning of life. Unlike dogs, however, she will drop your ass if a better man comes her way. Her loyalty is inversely proportional to her options.

Find a proper mission, raise your SMV, and all your fears about the world crashing down will be solved. You've got a long road ahead...

Title	Red pill rage 19yo
Author	reddit309
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	February 1, 2019 6:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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