Gents, I don't have the energy to bring you all up on the back story, long story short,after 4 years of trying, no point. Its a bit of a rant, sorry for context, but I have no place else to unload but here, i'm sorry, this image / text says it all, stay strong, I'm 42 years old, and I'm DONE....

jstrockmeyer · 2020-08-30T21:21:02+00:00

Glad for you, but reading this it seems you should have run earlier.

In any case, dont look back.

PS: I would not stay friends with her, ghost if there are no kids.

Blissbynature · 2020-08-30T22:59:41+00:00

"We can still be friends"

That didn't belong in there. Besides that, good letter.

jws755 · 2020-08-30T23:07:09+00:00

Just ghost her. Your paragraph is for you, not her.
She won’t get a word of it.
And don’t even friend zone her. The way she acts? You think she would stop shopping for attention when you put a ring on her? I find the most satisfying breakup is one where she never knows why you left. Never give her a bit of attention or energy again.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-08-30T21:44:38+00:00

a classic !!

you need grief , and reach that point where you realize she doesnt not matter , she is just one vagina in an ocean of vaginas

learn to see women as an utility in your life, or she is useful or she is not

the feelings come from a dirty trick of nature associated with massive love propaganda

its just a woman, time will fix it , i've been there

plainnsimpleforever · 2020-08-30T23:29:35+00:00

By your own admission, you wasted years with this girl. Don't do this again. Relationships are like hiring employees: hire slow, fire fast.

lampshade757 · 2020-08-31T00:30:39+00:00

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Me2Brah · 2020-08-31T03:55:39+00:00

I think you over explained. For women the shorter and emotionless the breakup, the less satisfying it is for them.

If your ex wife is a narcissist or high in psychopathic traits, all your message does is reaffirms she still has power over you because she caused such a strong emotional reaction in you.

Next time (and there probably will be a next time) just say: it won’t work out and I’m not interested in a relationship or friendship. All the best.

That will drive her insane especially if you just repeat it over and over and over.

p3b234cw4z2 · 2020-08-31T04:31:43+00:00

Oh man. You are making a mistake by telling her once in an while ''You are her best option"

If I am in your position and find out my gf is a thot, I would silently leave her.l and maintain no contact. At least, this gets her thinking why?

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-08-31T01:29:30+00:00

Great letter only change is I would not try to stay friends, that shit never works but however it goes I hope you come out on top my friend.

MuricanCapitalist97 · 2020-08-31T15:02:45+00:00

While I agree with the comments that point out going no contact or being brief as possible is best case scenario, I also understand how many times you must've let her berate and walk all over you, with you feeling pressure to concede that she was right or apologize in order to avoid an emotionally exhausting confrontation. I've been there. Sometimes, for your sake and sanity, you just need to set the record straight after holding it all in and remind her and yourself that YOU were the one that provided substantially everything of value in the relationship. Best of luck brother

Middle_Fingers · 2020-09-01T21:28:14+00:00

One of these days we'll learn to save our breath, dont create text walls for women who wont read or even have the proper mental faculties to understand the point your trying to make, save your energy for yourself, ghost these bitches with no explanation next time, if she doesnt figure it out, who cares, its not your problem...we've spent our whole lives trying to solve Problems for Women, that we do it subconsciously now, find a way to turn that off, cause they're on their own now.

lampshade757 · 2020-08-31T07:00:59+00:00

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Undeadtaker · 2020-08-31T09:39:16+00:00

You would have said so much more, if you didn't send her anything.

RaiderBoyComingIn · 2020-08-31T12:17:03+00:00

You're 42, it will be really hard to rewire an older brain like that. I am afraid the chance's of you actually escaping your own biology and the female lure is really low. You are porbably gonna start with going to pornsites, then stripclubs, and then you will meat the extremely rare but extremely dangerous highlevel chameleon that will disguise herself as an unicorn and you will move together with her and then you are done for.

After this loop has repeated itself a few times you will be too old to live your life freely because your new prison is not females and society, it's your body.

Good luck, lmao, you're gonna need it.

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