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There is no spoon - why you fail despite doing everything "right"

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September 16, 2014
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Title There is no spoon - why you fail despite doing everything "right"
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Upvotes 5
Comments 11
Date September 16, 2014 5:04 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]amerryunbirthday 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

First of all, great post.

I am curious what you mean by this line though

'a woman is disgusted with herself for experiencing an orgasm'.

For example, my LTR masturbates a lot more often than I do, so I think she is pretty comfortable having an orgasm. Can you explain what you mean by this?

[–]sierra_tc -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Interesting post. Some examples would help give it the depth the subject deserves.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What kind of examples would you prefer?

[–]sierra_tc 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank-you. Well, I'm intrigued by the emotional algebra principles which could unify so many things, and emotional intention/planning, and I'd like to be able to construct something beyond a bank robbery, test it out, and have fun.. so perhaps a few examples to illustrate the emotional dynamic range to help unlock the imagination. Something that's a baby step, something that's a crawl, something that's a walk, in the context of emotional storytelling and spiking.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah, in that case, you should check out 'Tank, load the "emotion" program - the basic strategy'.

That will get you going on how to begin using this concept.

Please don't hesitate to post examples there or start new threads, so we can diagnose it where you may seem to go wrong.

[–]1oldredder -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most excellent. I just realized one particular friend of mine does all this, has all this, and has Aspergers. He doesn't even think of any of it as success. He can't keep his emotions under control. Powerful artistic flair - painting & photography, and I'm talking top-level pro. He will never fully get over the One that Got AwayTM. What you're saying has got him pussy in so many situations it's absurd.

He gives himself no credit at all really for it, it "just happened". I'm almost willing to bet the emotion he drives him them from the emotions he has of the one that got away keeps him both humble and interesting. To those girls.

Annoying as it is I think I'm going to have to watch some of those chickflicks. I will hate it but it appears you are right. Those emotions, scripted but intense, varied & proven (by sales/repeat watching) are the one. I get impressed by the first time Bullet-Time was used in the Matrix. One of these (or all of these!) chickflicks has the emotional equivalent of how a man appreciates Bullet-Time but it's for the wimmenz.

Much thanks.

Next up on my list then is You're not You (Emmy Rossum, Hilary Swank). 2 female leads - there's no way gold isn't in there, it's just not the amalgam of gold I've been looking for in the past.

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[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Please give me some time to find the studies. I'll post asap.

Would you mind telling/linking me the rules to putting links in posts? One was autodeleted because I had a link in it.

As for technique, please check out 'Tank, load the "emotion" program - the basic strategy'.

[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

now the content of this post is erased too, if you go back to the top & peek.

Same with Tank, Load the Emotion Program. Content empty. Which sucks because it was 100% spot on stuff.

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