I having a question?

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-09-07T17:04:21+00:00

Just tell them you are looking and simply havent found THE ONE...keep them in hope...

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-09-07T17:54:44+00:00

Some details will help us to help you, dont you think?

What country/culture you are from?

Is it kind of societal/cultural for parents to look a partner for their son in your country? Or is your case a special one?

And most importantly, are they tradcons?

silly_birb · 2020-09-07T21:37:22+00:00

I usually say that i will date a woman if she's young, virgin, attractive, debt free and if her parents are not divorced.

Nowadays almost no woman is like this and those that are will look to get married to rich guys.

2020-09-07T18:23:12+00:00

You have a few options:

Moved out your parents home, live alone. This finally helped me to have a quiet life as a introvert. You will again have to deal with the questions and pressure when you have family gathering, holidays.
- You can avoid going on every gathering or on every holiday, By being busy or have things to do.
- Or you go, and say that you have dates and you will see how things will go
If they ask they want to meet her, tell me them is too early and is nothing serious yet
Play smart and say i am looking for, i have a few dates, i am interest in some girl..
.If you cant move out. You can say that you go on date, take your laptop and go somewhere else and come back later. Or come early and come up with a story, that she actually have a boyfriend bla bla.
Lastly i think you should honestly tell them you are not interest in relationship or having kids or marriage, and want to focus on you. And be ready to hear all cluster fuck conversations from them and smell their disappointment from you
- You should do this if you can move out and live on your own and have decent salary

John_Oakman · 2020-09-07T19:27:30+00:00

Tell them that you are not good enough yyet and that you are trying your best to better yourself so that someday you will be good enough for that special someone... of course don't mention that you will never be good enough to fulfill the minimum social expectations to be a financial/economic provider to start a family (I have posted here & elsewhere of how expensive it is to start and raise a family, though fi they don't buy that they just point out how much you need to save for retirement).

The trick is to frame it in such a way that it makes you look mature and responsible (rather than "don't wanna") and working towards a goal while the same steps could be used to achieve another goal entirely.

Blissbynature · 2020-09-08T01:22:40+00:00

How about putting up a big picture of Kim Jong-un in your room and wreathing it with a bunch of flowers?

If you create enough distractionary drama about your political beliefs then they may forget about putting you in a relationship.

flaxenlearner69 · 2020-09-08T04:41:47+00:00

They will not understand MGTOW

Tell them you are GAE

Friendly-Casper · 2020-09-07T19:44:14+00:00

It's not their decision to make. That's your responsibility like it is for every individual and you clearly have decided that you don't want or need a girlfriend. Just tell them to kindly stay out of your personal affairs unless you decide to ask them for help.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-09-07T22:59:20+00:00

Tell you're seeing someone. And you aren't even lying: you are looking at them when saying that.

Morb357 · 2020-09-08T04:51:16+00:00

Ask for a puppy.

marenostrum93 · 2020-09-09T13:21:06+00:00

How old are you?

Just play along and then once you'll get a date you'll just "accidentally" screw it up. They'll figure it out.

Title	I having a question?
Author	LostWaferer
Upvotes	31
Comments	28
Date	September 7, 2020 5:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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