Single mother hides old debt from new husband then expects him to help pay it off. "It was I, now it's WE"

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-30T02:54:03+00:00

We don't allow white knighting and that's exactly what the host is doing here.

This also doesn't fit the theme. We're here to display women who can't find a man. This is a woman who is married and has marital strife due to her shit choices. This isn't our thing.

ColonelPrittius · 2020-08-29T19:08:11+00:00

No wonder this guy has almost 2 million subscribers.

The easy key to success in media is to always be on the side of women and blame men for their problems. He says, that only 10% of the blame falls on her husband, but then spends the rest of the clip bashing him. He only comes with TradCuck arguments about the man needing to be a better husband.

The blue pill is strong in this one.

will85319 · 2020-08-29T20:17:13+00:00

Forever single looks better every day.

SoakMyBigCork · 2020-08-29T20:48:39+00:00

What in the absolute fuck, Dave? She ran up nearly $12,000 in debt behind his back (I say nearly because she says there was a small amount of debt before the marriage) and you put blame on the husband for "standing over the side for five years"? What part of "hid the debt" do you not understand? If she had a conversation with her husband about needing to help her kids he very well may have been on board. Instead, she decided to do it on her own and hide it. This is 100% on her.

You just lost any respect I may have had for you, sir.

SkylordAl · 2020-08-29T20:51:31+00:00

No, it's still just YOU, single mother lady. At least in a more fair world.

If the roles were reversed, nobody would expect the single dad to pay his old debt with his new wife without no penalty. He would be admonished/ostracized/dragged through the mud because he had the audacity to hide his old debt from his new wife.

He would be forced to pay it by himself while still providing for his wife if he has the capacity or shamed and emasculated if he cannot do so.

But of course, the mainstream favors the single mom as single motherhood is one their greatest idols, and as such, she gets away relatively scot-free.

Fripiou · 2020-08-29T21:56:02+00:00

Women way of thinking: my money is my money but my debt is your debt.

redmanmonk · 2020-08-29T20:57:52+00:00

what a simp

Pie_sky · 2020-08-29T22:14:38+00:00

What a cuck

TXJohn83 · 2020-08-29T20:48:48+00:00

It’s kind of sad, this man is breeding more simps, and is out supporting cuckold relationships.

plainnsimpleforever · 2020-08-29T23:40:13+00:00

So the husband makes $40K but he is good with finances and saving, and yet she makes $40K and has climbing debt.

She makes the excuse of using the money for her kids but that's just bullshit to play the victim. He should have probed the source of the debt more.

The-truth-hurts1 · 2020-08-29T23:21:49+00:00

Behind the husband.. her problem

iwanttheblanketback · 2020-08-30T01:17:38+00:00

I've lost respect for Dave watching him concentrate on the husband. Where is the advice for HER financial planning?

Title	Single mother hides old debt from new husband then expects him to help pay it off. "It was I, now it's WE"
Author	drummerbig
Upvotes	32
Comments	26
Date	August 29, 2020 6:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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