He said he's been looking for me since before covid (I deleted ever form of contact he has with me). His messaged reached my aunt. And my aunt showed my mom. And then my mom woke me up and showed me (none of them knew about my ex).

He said he just wanted to say happy birthday (sure bucko) and check if I was okay. He said that I was in his prayers. I don't remember the full conversation because he deleted the messages after (it was on insta). He wanted me to talk to him so we can be friends. I told him I didn't want to be friends after how he hurt me.

And im cracking up cause he was like "Wow. I thought today would be the we finally started talking again after I've been trying to reach you". Like uhm no. He said "I just wanted to let you know you're a good person". I told him "I already know im a good person. I may be crazy sometimes. But I know im good".

What's funny is on the post he made looking for me some dude commented calling me beautiful. My ex was like "Do you know her? Have you seen her?". And the dude replied saying no 😂. Like yeah I'm beautiful and you can't havea me bitch. He said he wasn't looking to flirt. Well then why is messaging me when he's still with the girl he cheated on me with? That's just stupid. He kept saying he'll leave me alone but kept talking. He even asked me to call him..

Like wtf, he wouldn't call me when we were actually together so why does he suddenly give a shit about my feelings now? Oh right, because he has an ulterior motive. He doesn't actually care. I'm not stupid and I won't be falling for his games anymore. I would post the only screenshot I got but for some reason it won't let me.

I just wanted to give a big thanks to all the wonderful women here who shared their stories and have inspired me to improve myself. I really wasn't expecting him to come back again. I didn't even think I'd have the strength to turn him away. But I did and I'm proud myself. And I'm proud of all the women in this sub. Thank you all so so much.