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| 31 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Right? I'm depressed, too. Like, actually diagnosed by a doctor but if I don't get off my ass and go to work I'm not going to eat, my dog isn't going to eat, and I'm going to be homeless. No one is going to support me. Depression isn't an excuse. She did right by sending him back to his mommy. Chadwick Boseman had fucking cancer and went to work pretty much until he died. It's entitled to act like you deserve to be supported and cleaned up after and everyone else can just work and do everything … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 28 | Blaming women for their own sexual exploitation and somehow making it about how oppressed men are... just what?"To manipulate men into being further trapped into pornography and fucked sexual exploitation" Yeah, like women should cover up while outside to not distract men, right? Fuck off. I'm anti sex work, but if you're buying into it it's your own damn fault. A fool and his money are easily parted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:25 PM |
| 18 | I'm loving social distancingMe too. I feel like Cartman with his social distancing song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 28 | Check on a Pick Me Friend Todaylmao the end expression with the mouth is just incredible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:12 PM |
| 21 | FDS philosophy basically teaches us to value the man that most values us, that is also a person of integrity, makes us feel most safe and valued. It's rewiring our own brains to recognize healthy behaviors and recognize and acknowledge red flags.100% how I view FDS. You have to love yourself first, and respect yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 41 | "I Can Get Sex Anytime"The question is: What are we going to do about it? Have an amazing, full life and don't allow low value people to take up your time. Marie Kondo your life: if it doesn't spark joy, out it goes. Ignore temporary wants in order to eventually satisfy your actual needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 27 | Why it's never 'just a joke', based on science.I include the disgusting jokes and negging to be part of the same thing: mate-guarding. I believe that's why men don't really get why that shit isn't funny. And often, they are straight-up insults and then when you call them on it they say it's a joke, but it's not. I've linked this study before, but: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/257045423_Why_do_men_insult_their_intimate_partners It demonstrates what you've shown in the above - men who engage in disparagement whether it be a "joke" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I am actively in couples counselling now. I believe in it for pre-marital counselling. Catholics and Jewish actually require it before you get married (at least in my area). And I know a lot of long-time married, successful (medical doctors) people who recommend it and wish they had gone before they got married. You should ask yourself why you are going, and what would be the purpose of it. What is the end goal? You should ask these of yourself and of your partner. If it is anything other than p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Matchmaking servicesMost legit matchmaking services will set women up on dates for free. There's a couple in my area and they say women are welcome to apply to be placed in their database as a potential match for their male clients, but they don't take women as actual clients. If you want to go this route, see if there is one in your area and then get some nice photos done and apply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 118 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrative100%. I don't really know this dude and don't agree with the whole article, but this quote: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ex-girlfriend/when-you-delayed-marriage/ There has to be some reason why they would invest in you after all the butterflies in the stomach disappear. And if you don’t give them that reason or that hope, and if you don’t commit and you give them a long time, like two years – it’s just like you’re not going to wait two years to have sex. I mean, you might wait, but it’s very tem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 163 | Men on Reddit are MAD at these tweets yet fail to understand that these girls are trolling and are repeating excuses and lies men tell women when they cheat 🤣It didn't mean anything though, it was just sex. You're the one she really loves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:25 PM |
| 84 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!Yeah, this has been me for the last seven months. I've been on/off with someone I already know this month but it's been completely platonic and not even hand-holding or any kind of touching lmao. Sometimes I really wish I had a boyfriend to cuddle with, but at this point I'm done actively looking and I've realised dating has never done anything good for my life, really. I've accomplished far more just being on my own. And I don't feel a sense of sadness or anxiety every waking day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:50 PM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I haven't been feeling so great this week (mood wise) and I'm so thankful for my dog. He's such a silly boy and everything he does is hilarious to me. I can be in the worst mood and he'll still make me laugh. I owe him an extra long walk this weekend. I'm also trying extra hard to eat enough, which I think is also helping me stay level-headed right now. I'm going to make myself a really good snack tray to eat over the weekend with a nice brie, some triscuits and cream cheese, fruit, and some fre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:46 PM |
| 48 | This poor girl, her column each week is like "why are men awful when I allow obviously awful men to consistently and repeatedly disrespect me?" hope she discovers FDS soonI thought I was giving nothing this time, but still a man manages to give less. She writes, like it's a surprise lmao A man that doesn't put in effort with women will always give less and take more. It doesn't matter what the arrangement is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 26 | What made you question or doubt if your abuse was abuse?He told me things that happened didn't happen. To the point where I really thought I was going nuts and had to start recording things to give myself proof - luckily where I live it's one part consent. I probably would never have done this, but my dad was physically abusive and would always pull the "you're making it up, stop lying, that didn't happen" bullshit. So, when it happened with someone who was just verbally abusive it took me a while to clue in. Now, I screenshot and record everything. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 32 | I'm at a loss.TIL! Thank you. I've never even seen lambskin at any stores near me ever tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:50 PM |
| 111 | I'm at a loss.She wouldn't care about the 0.1 perfect chance of getting pregnant Actually, it's more than that lmao. "Typical use: around 91% effective. Around 9 in 100 women using the combined pill will get pregnant in a year." That's 9% chance. Not 0.9. 9.0% Source: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/how-effective-contraception/ Risk of getting an STD from a plate spinner? Highly likely. "It can be sexually transmitted by vaginal, oral, or anal means. After just one episode of sex with an infected … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 7 | On a Facebook Post about an expensive proposal, you're bound to have many Pickmeishas appear in the comments! Some of these are hilarious, some are downright sad.IF iT's oKaY for me TO acCept TRAsh EVeRy wOMAN ShouLd ACCepT tRaSH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I would say yes, if it's blatant mistreatment and intolerable to you. If someone just makes you feel bad and you can tell it's a neg or outright boundary-stomping, absolutely. And you don't have to over-analyse it either - better to move on and wait for a guy who doesn't create uneasy feelings in you. It's been a while since I read the book, but the examples the authour outlines aren't really blatant mistreatment - it's guys being dumb or clueless or just trying to get what they can without effo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:19 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Leap Year, The Break-Up, Crazy Rich Asians, The Vow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I don't really view it as "training", as when you think about it - a lot of these things are just things that work on people. We are always teaching others how to treat us. If we allow a female friend to disrespect us, she will likely continue doing so if you don't "correct" the treatment. This is a witty comeback, making light of the situation, being sarcastic, etc - however you would handle a miniscule conflict while still maintaining the friendship. It's the same in romantic relationships. Yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Read the handbook, and read the recommended material like "Why Men Love Bitches" and "The Rules". I've seen people say you should also read "Not Your Mother's Rules", but from what I understand the latter is just an updated version of the former, and the former is cheaper. Basically, you need to stop chasing this man. Stop reaching out to him. I'd say drop him altogether, but you may not be ready for that. But by hooking up with him without being a relationship, you've established a precedence t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 175 | FDS Responds to Media Accusations of “Pick Up Artistry”"Put-Him-Back-Artistry" lmao I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 82 | Took a stroll through MGTOW this morning, thought I would share the worst of the worst for the laughs. Discuss!Will future societies look back on this time as a major fuck up - and look upon the feminists as we see the Nazis these days? Did I miss the part where us womenz are loading the men up into gas chambers and sending them off to labour camps to starve and die and shit themselves to death with dysentery? Because I thought men work and get paid a wage for it and still expect to sit on their ass with their PS5 while expecting their woman to fetch them beer and sandwiches? AND buy said PS5 for him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Pathetic, dramatic LVM cries on reddit over his GF existing before she met himbUT shE WaS an AnGEL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 293 | Scrote trying to get marriage benefits without marriage!CommItMENt As faR as mArrIage iS sTUpiD So Why BoTHeR Then why do you need to be added to the insurance or the house? IT's JUST a PIeCE of pApER why gET tHe govERnment InVOlved I love it when men tell on themselves lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 45 | Respect - A view on men who change it up after you reject a lowball offer/dateUltimately, whatever reasons (justifications/excuses/rationalisations) a man has for making you feel disrespected are his business. It took me a while to learn this, and I'm much happier now that I have. I used to find it reasonable when someone would ask "well, what do you bring to the table" and now I don't. It's a man's job to decide if I "bring enough to the table" for him, and it's my job to evaluate if I like what he's bringing to the table. Thank you for your post - it was very thoughtful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Pathetic, dramatic LVM cries on reddit over his GF existing before she met himlmaoo how sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 39 | Can We Talk About FDS Use of "Wife Privileges"?I've posted this link before and got mixed responses, but I agree with most of it: https://thegritandgraceproject.org/askdrzoe/ask-dr-zoe-how-do-i-progress-in-a-relationship-from-girlfriend-to-wife As with anything, take what works for you and disregard the rest. But basically, there's really no point in getting married if both parties (male and female) aren't willing to support each other and make life easier for each other. The woman shouldn't be doing the bulk of everything. There is zero poi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:32 PM |
| 30 | Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.I've read about how some of the men are during childbirth over at /breakingmom and I'm like... yikes. I'll have a doula in the room with me before a man, I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 81 | Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor."She should've just been happy to have him by her side" ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!! She's pushing out HIS FUCKING BABY. "A lot of women these days don't get that at all." So either, this person means women don't even have men by their side in this moment at all, in which case OH BOY! Are we supposed to be grateful when a man shows up for the birth of his own damn child? Wow! What the fuck! Just because most men are garbage doesn't mean this should be applauded all on its own. You don't ace a f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 45 | I found the One!!!This was stickied on the sub just yesterday or the day before. You can't know if a guy is high value if you haven't been dating very long. I'm happy that you have found someone that makes you feel good. But you need to continuously vet his behaviour. But the fact he remembers things you said after just saying it once? That sounds pretty legit, and I'm definitely a little jealous haha. Enjoy him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 99 | Stay awareThere are men that do this. I've experienced it. It's called love-bombing. Except I become a raging bitch when I'm pissed off and there won't be no more sex from me, only nasty arguments until one of us gives up and the relationship crumbles and dies and becomes the dust it was meant to be. That was before. Now, I just don't deal with it. You don't wanna talk to me? Fine. I'll find someone else who will. Peace, homie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Correct. He is not autistic, neither in universe or out of universe. In-universe, Sheldon's mother had him tested. He is not autistic. The show writers have also said they never intended him to come across as autistic, and they never wrote him to be autistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*lol this is great well done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 23 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin outYes, but people who make that argument are arguing in bad faith. There are so many more risks to women engaging in sex work, even outside getting killed or getting an STD. Even women who do pornography willingly are subject to abuse, but people write that off because "oh they made good money" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:59 PM |
| 56 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin out"ownership and toxic monogamy shit" LMAO how about if a woman doesn't want her boyfriend to watch porn he just doesn't date her if that's an issue? Also, I could argue the same thing to this woman: you want men to cheat on their SOs so that you can take resources. If all the truly monogamous men actually honoured their commitment to their SOs, I bet this woman would lose a ton of money. I'm also against the exploitation of all women, and newsflash, a lot of that is sex-related. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 153 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...INFO: Is your ex Sheldon Cooper? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 64 | These are the kind of pickmes who are detrimental to other womeneQuAL RiGHtS EqUaL fiGHTs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 52 | These are the kind of pickmes who are detrimental to other womenlmao the irony in that comment being incredibly sexist is sending my sides into orbit. Men couldn't possibly claim themselves to be feminist to charm you into bed, miss. Nope. Not at all. "act with true feminism at heart" slayed me though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Society treat woman who want financially stable partners as “Gold-Diggers” & “humbled” woman who choose broke men as trashyYep. If a woman does anything, someone will tell her she's wrong. So just live your life to what you find fulfilling, don't settle or adjust or compromise, and it's no one else's business. It's not worth it to care what others think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 7 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.I agree with you. My mom for years told me that my dad just "changed" right after they got married. Then, when I got older, I pressed her for more information about how he was when they were dating. Nope. He was always like that, she just dismissed every single red flag. Some of them glaring red flags. I said to her and she said yeah, I was right and that her own mother always hated my dad for those reasons. There are always signs. No one suddenly just "turns" one day. And this isn't victim-blam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 48 | His friends are right though.Why does he capitalise words like that...? I feel like I'm having an aneurysm trying to read his formatting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 58 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾FDS helped me find myself again. The values that FDS touts about dating and relationships were something that I always related to and kept close to me, given that I was raised in a very religious household. In fact, my earliest relationships were my healthiest relationships, and I used to be really good at shutting down behaviour from men that I didn't like. Then, as I got older, I dated men that told me I was too "uptight about morality" (literally, some scrote shamed me for being "too moral"),… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 28 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Officially six digits! Congrats and thank you to everyone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Yet another one getting offended instead of recognizing the truth - dead giveaway he is a deadweight in a relationship (if he has one)Innocuous comment: "I say this to ladies..." Men: BUT WHAT ABOUT TEH MENZ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 11 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersAlmost there you guys <33 Thank you so much for being part of this community. The community really enabled me to work through so many feelings I've had built up over time, and the change in myself in just under a year has been incredible. Thank you to everyone who participates <3 Edit: 100K exactly at the moment of this edit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 13 | How long should I date him before moving on?Everyone else has already said good things, especially about the future-faking. Don't get caught up in that! You're wife or you're not wife - anything else in that regard really doesn't matter. I had a boyfriend who literally called me his wife. When I pressed him for timelines on really getting married, he suddenly wasn't so sure. We were together three years. This: While he stated that he's not dating anyone else, he expressed that he's afraid of the title (he is still scarred from his last re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 39 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?Why do MGTOW keep talking about women? Like bro, go to redpill or some shit. If you're going your own way stop obsessing over women and dating holy fuck. I don't date women, so I have no idea how different women really are from the next ones. However, I am friends with a large number of women and men, and I would say people are quite different from the next. Bringing a non-nerdy female friend to one of our nerdy parties really demonstrates that. But perhaps I'm just being too basic in my assessm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 41 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfSame. The last one would say he was too scared to move in with me because of his last ex (which I brought up to him recently and of course now he has a new excuse). The one before that literally came to me crying when he found out his ex was dating a new man and I was like "why the fuck do you care??" Now that I'm older and wiser I'm like... no, that shit is not okay and no, I shouldn't fucking care. It's not my problem, it's his problem, and any problem he has with another woman is certainly no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 111 | this one’s been making the rounds on facebook... 🤦♀️Women are giving them children, sex, cleaning, cooking, living together - all of it without marriage nowadays. So quite frankly, they're kinda right, if they can find a woman who's willing to give it all up with no legal protections for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 27 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingYeah I really thought so too just reading it. I had an ex who would talk like that so it immediately screamed "male" to me. Fucking gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 174 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfIf I ever hear another man claim a previous woman he dated is the reason he can't do X, Y, or Z, I'm telling him to take a long hike by himself. If you haven't dealt with issues from your previous relationships you don't need to be dating me. I'm not accepting less just because of your ex. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 128 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingHis... "precious bits"? jfc, you're so empowered but you can't even type what "bits" are in your mouth? This ain't it, sis. I'm with the other commenter. I really don't care, but I don't think it's empowering lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Men I Trust: I Wanted to Hear Your Voice - Interesting short art comic on independence, loneliness, and codependency in relationships and friendshipsThis was sad. But it was a beautiful comic - the art style really suits the mood. I'm not a mom, but I've definitely felt like both of the women at different points in my life. Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 71 | Why do women reproduce with these LVM?!Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 7 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.I've heard of this before. It's fucking gross and I think it comes from a place of immaturity. I didn't really understand why some men hate dating single women with dogs until I got one. I had always wanted my own dog, and I finally got one after my ex chose to move in with his mother over me. I was tired of living alone, so I made the decision to get my dog (best decision of my life). My ex got fucking weird and jealous over my dog. My dad has done the same thing to my mother in the past, so I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples?I watch Pretty Pastel Please a lot, and I love the relationship she and her husband have. They are such a cute couple <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 14 | Is approaching men in good faith a futile endeavor? Women are socialized to make men happy. Men are socialized to have sex with us against our will and better judgment, no matter how much abject misery it causes us. In fact, the misery is part of the appeal. Why bother?The Red Pill and MGTOW blackpilled me on the true nature of men. FDS just makes it easier to take the black pill. Not like it was a surprise. I've always spent too much time on internet forums, so the way men talk about women is nothing new. But after how the women in my family have been treated by their men (including my mother), and after the men I've dated... TRP just confirmed it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Just a rant about comments on makeupAdding this to my affirmations. Perfect lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 21 | LVM shows his true colors, pickmeishas are in the comments blaming his reaction on women🙄Good for her not letting him talk her into his plan. If he think it's unfair he's welcome to not keep pestering her when she refused. He didn't respect her refusal. They also had already pre-arranged a time and he tried to change it on her, clearly not caring if she was preoccupied with something else before their arranged time. He's a selfish, power-tripping tool and she can do better and will do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020I'm a recovering anorexic, so I've had to go through the gain weight phase. On top of what others are saying, add almond flour to your food, enough until you can barely taste it - or more if you like the flavour. And when you make meals, take a bite of the protein or most calorie dense thing before anything else. Have a snack or a meal before you go to bed, too. And carry nuts with you to snack on through the day. And try to get as many liquid calories in as you can (but healthy calories, not so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 124 | This is an honest look at how LVM think.He went from: I am extremely self conscious, introverted and I've never considered myself a good-looking guy. The fact that I landed a GF is amazing to me. To this: I've never thought about it before, but I'm worried I settled for my GF. I am attracted to her, get along with her great, we click, but we don't share a lot of the same interests and sometimes I feel awkward being with her. If I had to guess, I would think that she is more into me than I am into her. This is why you should never give… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 14 | Pickme culture is so pathetic. “Act like puppies”? Like pee on the floor in excitement for a trip to Target? 🤮Okay but a puppy is a lot of work and commitment. To have and raise a puppy you need to be reliable and consistent and we all know LVM hate that shit. Dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 242 | Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”?He went through 200 profiles. Great use of time there lmao Also creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | If you find yourself ruminating over your abusive banana slug...Ha! The woman is wearing my favourite expression. I think it's going to permanently just become my face because men are constantly making me do this now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Charlize Theron Reveals She Hasn't Dated Anyone In 5 Years: 'I Don’t Feel Lonely'“Dated” a few flakes that could neither commit nor let me go What is this mentality? I've been dealing with this now as I'm hitting the age where just dating/hanging out doesn't cut it for me anymore, and these guys are so annoying. If they can't offer what the other person wants, why do they keep trying to waste each other's time? I don't get it. Even if they kept getting "benefits", the woman is just miserable and no one's really getting anything valuable from it at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 30 | Typical Scrote attitude right here. It’s not fair that I don’t get sex right away when she had sex with other people! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/iv4itd/a_lot_of_cynicism_from_men_about_dating_revolves/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfThis is a stupid fucking analogy. If they insist on comparing us to cars - inanimate objects that can be bought and sold... I'll bite. If you insist on test driving a car, you are free to go to a dealership that will allow you to test drive. If you are unhappy with the dealership's policies, you are free to take your business elsewhere. There are plenty of dealerships in the world just as there are women. So fuck off. No one is desperate for your business nor your crusty dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 51 | is there anything scarier than male entitlement?Wannabe DJs are the literal worst. Closely followed by actual DJs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 15 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.Bet he thought if he just held off on telling you he would win you over with his oh-so-wonderful personality. Men continue to prove they have no fucking problem whatsoever with wasting a woman's time if they think they have something to gain. He lied by omission. Especially so if this was on a dating app and he could have put it right there for women to read before even deciding to swipe on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 7 | How many Aspies/Autustic women are on here? I’m struggling with relationships due to my condition.Same. If anything, FDS has helped me because it's like having a little rubric to refer to when I'm questioning the intentions of a man I'm seeing. I'm not great in social situations and FDS is nice for giving me a guideline. I've definitely been a lot more confident and been having a lot more fun dating since I've found FDS, because now I only do things on my terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 120 | They're insulting themselves at this pointAt least they acknowledge that most of the men pursuing women aren't relationship material lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Scrote of the dayI don't understand why dudes get turned off by expectations for the future. It's fucking weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020FDS mods can't do that. Sounds like Reddit. That's really strange. If you think/know that's what got you a 3 day suspension maybe you should write an angry letter to Reddit about it. I used to mod for /banfemalehatesubs and read way worse shit than that and Reddit did nothing about it despite mass reporting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Were you banned from posting everywhere or just on FDS? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 75 | OMG All that for $20?? 😩🤮"I could meet u half way Juss not doing it" Lazy dudes. Lazy dudes everywhere. How much you wanna bet he pays for food delivery? Men value us less than UberEats McDonald's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 76 | This is scary. We need to secure our rights.Oh I bet this is already in the works. I read that viagra is covered under many insurance plans, but birth control isn't. Cuz, y'know, men getting their peepee hard is way more important than the birth control pill which helps a lot of women who have hormonal problems leading to health issues, debilitating periods, or need help regulating their cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Thank you, fds. My ex who broke up with me 3 times, lied throughout relationship, and ultimately cheated and left me came back. I had the strength to turn him awayOh no, I feel it was totally reasonable that you replied. I did the same, initially, as I felt vindicated. Just know that, with how you've described him, he will likely escalate his attempts to harass you and get a rise out of you. No matter what he says or does, ignore him. Save everything in case you need to try to get a court order against him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Thank you, fds. My ex who broke up with me 3 times, lied throughout relationship, and ultimately cheated and left me came back. I had the strength to turn him awayYeah, keep him blocked. An ex of mine did this. It's an attempt at triangulation, and they will keep coming back until they realise they won't get any attention from you. No matter what you reply, it feeds into their need for attention. I had to completely ignore my ex for over a year until he finally stopped talking about me/trying to get at me. If you ever respond to him, it just teaches him he just needs to send ten, twenty, a hundred messages until you respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020This is amazing! What sorts of recommendations could you give to other single women who might want to do the same thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020You go for what your maximum personal benefit would be for this stage in your life. The FDS ideology even references FWB, so this sub is not hardline against FWB. Please note an FWB needs to provide you with real, tangible personal benefits. Personally, that sounds like something more difficult to find than a reliable boyfriend, though. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/ideology If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 11 | Ambitious, High Achieving MenWell, he clearly did hesitate to tell me how he really felt because when we met he knew I wanted marriage and kids. He was my ex's boss and knew of me because of the guy I dated before him. He told me he wanted a family. Three years later, do you think he ever tried to talk about it with me seriously? Nope. He future-faked a lot and would be late to see me all the time. That is not being honest. When I broke up with him, he would come crawling back and promise to do better only to start it all o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 54 | Ambitious, High Achieving MenThis was my most recent ex. Hard-working and ambitious, but with pretty much everyone in his life except his romantic partner. Work would be a priority over me literally without exception. He stopped in the middle of sex at one point to answer his fucking phone. He treated me and his mother like employees, except at least his mother got the emotional parts of him, too. I was just something he did when he was bored, and he never tried to connect with me on an emotional level. Somehow him not seei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 9 | This subreddit helped me leave my bf of 5 years the other day! Thank you:)Absolutely! Just stay strong and you'll make it through! I still resist urges to try to reach out to him even months later. Nice! Thanks for the recommendation, I will defo check it out. I am also aiming for early prevention haha. $24 is do-able. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 23 | This subreddit helped me leave my bf of 5 years the other day! Thank you:)Literally same! Only I was with my ex for three years. I even said to him "if you wanted to, you would" in our final conversation while I was crying, and he just agreed with me. It fucking sucks, but it's better than constantly feeling like you aren't good enough. What retinol product are you using? I've resumed my skincare routine, but I think I should add retinol yet the more I read about it the more I'm confused about it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 11 | A FDS-Friendly Dating Approach That Will Get You A Quality, Long-Lasting RelationshipHoly fuck this is the best article about dating that I have ever read. Saved! Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 21 | Hinder: A Dating App for Emotionally Unavailable Menomg same. He'd scream at me that I don't eat very much when I'm a small female so I obviously don't need nearly the amount of calories his working out, 6 foot frame did. But he also didn't like fat women?? So not sure where he thought those calories would go even if I did want to eat more. Plus he'd constantly talk about how he needed to cut out bread and eat more meat and veg, and then we'd go out to eat and he'd order a fucking sandwich with fries, then proceed to bitch about it and eat my foo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 36 | Hinder: A Dating App for Emotionally Unavailable MenScreaming at "Distant Dave" lmao. Are there more of these anywhere? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 6 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.I agree with most, but I've only ever had long-term relationships (5 years being the longest, followed by 3 and 2), and if the man is decent in bed I don't get bored of him. I have a problem when his drive drops off. The main appeal of a monogamous relationship to me is frequent access to decent sex, and building and maintaining a home and family together. If he refuses to provide me EACH of those things then there is no point in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 12 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.Given that said connection is impossible because he will always want someone else, if a man wants to be exclusive, he needs to provide - improve your life in measurable ways and be agreeable. He needs to spend all of his time proving that he's invested so you have no reason to bail. A+++ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 39 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.All of your comments are absolutely savage and I'm loving it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 25 | Have a good day everyone! (some things I’ve found that everyone can relate to)I want a security guard to greet me at work every morning with "good morning princess". That sounds bomb. God knows, the men I've dated have only called me princess sarcastically lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 57 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.I really wish there was an answer for this. Like a strong, scientific answer that is mostly agreed upon. Because if this is the case, it would settle so much for me. I wouldn't have to feel like my clock is running out for having a family because... I would no longer want one. If this is truly the case for males, I would be able to rest easy and just date around for fun, with no desire to ever shack up with a man, get married, or have his children. I hold out in hope that there is a faithful man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I don't really have access to a car I can borrow regularly so if I want to be able to practice driving I need to own one. My friend was offering to take me driving, but she lives too far away for me to do that often. I'm lucky because the area I live in doesn't require me to drive many places, but being in Canada (and not BC), it's kinda necessary if I want to accomplish anything lmao Thanks for the well wishes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Video titled "Men will be men..." romanticising men manipulating and cheating on wife with a lucky, elated pickme.I'm worried I'll lose brain cells by watching. Does the cheating scrote cry about "divorce rape" after he gets caught? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 85 | Refers to my last post here"Less uncomfortable working conditions" He doesn't proof read because I think he doesn't mean what he said here. Or I can't read. "Different career choices" Oh? Like what? What about that glass escalator effect? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glass_escalator#:~:text=The%20glass%20escalator%20refers%20to,healthcare%20work%20or%20school%20teaching - feel free to refer to sources cited in the wikipedia entry There isn't an equivalent effect for women who enter into male dominated professions. In fac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I'm buying my first car! I was talking to the manager at the dealership yesterday and he's handling the issues I noticed with the car on my test drive before I take it for third-party inspection - I've been having a hard time not feeling bad about it, but he's been nice and I'm really hopeful about this experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 81 | Saw this literally just this morning in r/AskWomenOver30I'm with you. My favourite thing on Reddit is the men who beg and beg their SO to open up the relationship only to find that she is much, much busier than he is lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 143 | Saw this literally just this morning in r/AskWomenOver30lol, one moment men have urges because biology, the next moment they're REEing that not all men are violent and rape-y. Men can control their urges or they can't. Pick one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020This weekend has been crazy for me. I was planning to get a car in May but a car I really wanted popped up - it's not fancy but it's rare and hard to find in my area. It's barely been driven. So I put a deposit on it and I'm taking it to a mechanic to have it checked out. If it's in good shape, I'm buying one of my dream cars!! For my first car! Also I finally got to watch "Into the Dark: Good Boy" and I loved it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 11 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?I gave this another watch after I saw your comment, and you are so right! Especially with her on the phone to her friend. "I asked him to do one thing and he didn't do it, then he complained that he had to do anything and I felt like I had no choice" "No, sweetie, you did have a choice and you chose to respect yourself" "But it's not what I want. I don't want to break up with him. I don't! I just want him to care enough about this relationship to work on it." Now that I'm older this movie hurts … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 7 | Can we normalize dating multiple men at once?That makes sense! I won't move in with a guy unless engaged so for me, engaged means he's serious about me and we can fully put our relationship to the test. If it doesn't work out he can have the ring back no problem (unless he cheats). I also don't want a real wedding. I want to be married at the courthouse and have a nice honeymoon. Or elope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 10 | Can we normalize dating multiple men at once?I want a long engagement so I expect shorter dating period of 6 months to a year. But I'm also 29. I don't recommend my approach for younger women, personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Can we normalize dating multiple men at once?If he books up my time before another man, me seeing him and only him won't be a problem. But I'm not doing girlfriend again. If that means I don't get married I'm also fine with that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:13 PM |
| 54 | Can we normalize dating multiple men at once?When they ask if I want to be exclusive, I tell them. Because I'm not playing stupid games anymore - they can date as many women as they want to. Not my problem if he's not my husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 50 | Dumped him because he didn't get me a b-day giftlmao me too. When mine finally showed up to my place it was to ask me if I wanted to go clean up some work site he was on for 20 bucks - which is less than my actual boss pays me per hour. He hadn't even remembered it was my birthday, and he was all butthurt when I told him no, I didn't want to go clean for a measly 20 bucks - he told me I didn't know the value of a dollar and that money was money. I broke up with him the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 11 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?Leap Year is my jam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 95 | Can we normalize dating multiple men at once?I firmly now believe in dating more than one man at a time, after having the same experience as your friends. I tell the men upfront of course, and if they want me to commit they have to put a ring on my finger or I'm single. I will never be a girlfriend ever again, or at least while I'm trying this out. They don't like it, but they accept it and it's definitely changed how I get treated. If a guy doesn't like it it's no loss to me - he's welcome to date someone else. I'll see how this strategy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 623 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!It's funny we're called judgmental but there's plenty of men on Reddit and irl who talk about deciding if a woman is "wife material" or just fuck material. Talking about how they have such high standards for their wife. Shit, just go read /datingoverthirty and read some of the shit the guys say about the women they're dating. I've also had men on OLD tell me they "don't commit unless she's worth it" But women are supposed to just go out with a man just because he might be nice. And his value as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020So, had a brief date with a guy that cold-approached me. He has just completed his PhD and is applying for med school. I'm not even sure if I like him yet, but I also don't really want to put much into someone who is pursuing such a long and intensive program as I want to settle down and have kids before he'd even be done med school. I know some people would be like "well it's too soon to think about that because you don't know him", but I don't even want to get to know him if there's no point l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Try not to take low value behaviour personally. They’ve treated women badly before you and it’s very likely they will treat women badly after you. THEY are the problem.Yeah, I believe that would be the case. Knowing him, if he married and knocked some woman up she'd be stuck doing literally everything by herself or he'd try to pawn his mother off to do it. He didn't want a girlfriend/wife, he wanted an employee. But still, it hurts, even though I know the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 13 | Try not to take low value behaviour personally. They’ve treated women badly before you and it’s very likely they will treat women badly after you. THEY are the problem.I try to remind myself of this often, because part of me often wonders if my recent ex is going to give the next woman the time and affirmation I always wanted from him and the thought of that always upsets me. That old "he'll marry the woman after you" saying fucking kills me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 10 | Seen on a dating site, this man is looking for a follower and he is not subtle...at all.Bro should just look for a "taken in hand" relationship and call it a day. That's creepy on a normal dating site. But at least he's upfront about it unlike so many other men online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 9 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.lmao! True! They can pay for Reddit badges but don't want to pay to take a woman on a date lmao truly i cannot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 12 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Post this on /unpopularopinion and get all the upvotes! Karma farm, fam! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 19 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.misogynistic... how? I just have a strong distaste for manipulative people, one of those groups being women who manipulate men for free dinners. One of the comments from the OP of the post. Fucking hilarious. Yes, I'm taking time out of my day to get ready and travel to you so I can sit across from some guy I barely know and let him watch me eat - all for a free dinner, which is usually, what? $30? LMAO I make more than that in an hour at my job. Also, have a peek at some other comments from the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 27 | If he wants you to have an OnlyFans or is okay with you having an OnlyFans = LV?It also hasn’t been unusual for guys to ask me if I have an OnlyFans on a date or make jokes about me having an OnlyFans (I don’t have one) Wow. Men really aren't funny at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020“If you’re a man looking for no strings attached sex on here, support the economy and hire a sex worker instead. No woman needs an app to get laid.” I wouldn't add that. I'm active on /datingoverthirty and I've seen several men on there state that the women who have something like that on their profile on the ones most likely to "put out" right away. Just block dudes that are inappropriate or not what you're looking for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020This week's been really weird. I've gone on a couple dates with a guy I have a lot in common with but am not super sure about yet. And then I had a weird dream about reaching out to my ex to ask him if he wanted to talk on Friday? It seemed so real I legit woke up and reached for my phone and was like "wtf did I do that?!" And then I got asked out* by some random dude I just ran into, who is totally my physical type. I wasn't even wearing makeup! So I have a quick date after work tonight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsDoes this mean the throwaway account flair is no longer to be used? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:43 PM |
| 25 | Which one of you is this red chick? I found you in the wild.Nope. And it totally is. At least over dinner we can have awkward small talk about the food, enjoy the atmosphere of the restaurant, etc etc. Plus you can fill the gaps in conversation with consuming your food. Even just going for coffee with friends I'm not super close to is awkward sometimes. Like, okay, I drank my coffee. Now what? Idk. I just find dinner is so much less awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:08 PM |
| 14 | ‘Most of words we use for sex are violent, not just fuck. Think about it…. bang, screw, hit it, pound, smash, rail, plow, pound, like our entire culture has tried to remove the concept of intimacy/vulnerability/emotion from sex by associating violent words with the action.An ex of mine called having sex "laying pipe" I still feel gross when I think about that. That was probably the first hint that he was a skeaze lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Woman threatened with knife during dating app meet upBecause poor behaviour as a little boy is written off as "boys will be boys", so of course they'll continue that behaviour into adulthood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 13 | Woman threatened with knife during dating app meet upThat's where I saw it and thought "I know a more useful place to put this" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 21 | Woman threatened with knife during dating app meet upPolice say when the woman tried to end the date shortly before 11 p.m., the man allegedly took out a knife and brandished it at her, telling her she couldn’t leave. The woman was able to escape by distracting the man, running, and flagging down a passing vehicle. The bystander then drove her to a nearby OPP station, where she reported the incident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 53 | “A very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.”This really hits home for me. I grew up thinking that being "selfless" was the most virtuous thing that I could be, and now I know why. I cannot tell you how much damage that kind of thinking has caused me. Same. I grew up with a strict Catholic father who was also a misogynist and went to Catholic school my whole life. Be seen, not heard. My only value as a woman was to serve men and never say no when people ask you for things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 21 | Ahhh yes, you’re quite the prize indeed, sir 🙄I screamed This is so true these days Especially the pocket watching and hanging with the boys lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 15 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.Always have a fuck-off bag ready with a few basic clothes and your necessary documents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Has anyone read 'Find a Husband After 35' by Rachel Greenwald? I was reading a news article about how dating has changed over the years and this book was linked in the article as a discussion of how dating is being turned into another capitalist venture (I mean, obviously). But, the description of the book is incredibly bizarre. I'm not even 30 yet but, look at this: In this practical no-nonsense guide, Greenwald tells women how to package their assets, develop a personal brand, leverage niche m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 75 | I....this woman tweeted that her date insulted her body and the amount of men defending in the comments.....I’m done with men FOREVER. No way in hell any of them are worth dealing with.I would have lost it on him. A first date and you put your hands on me like that? He'd get pinched right back, and hard. Nope. Fuck off. I'm so done with men's shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Heartbreak - One Year LaterThanks for your comment! I felt the same way about this video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:33 PM |
| 13 | Exceptions to FDS rules, and the problem with dogma?Based on your comment history, you seem to already know the answer. I’m very social and confident, and have certainly tried the direct route with guys in the past...and it either hasn’t worked, or I’ve ended up with guys who lack initiative or aren’t as in to me as I was into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:38 AM |
| 33 | Heartbreak - One Year LaterWhether you were in a situationship, dating, engaged, or married... you will find peace when you move on from someone who is not caring about or even attempting to meet your needs. You will find yourself again. It will hurt. You will feel like you're dying. But you will find fulfillment and happiness again. If someone refuses to grow the relationship with you, you can move on and continue to grow and develop as a person. Leave anyone who is holding you emotionally hostage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:49 AM |
| 6 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.This makes me so angry. This was my ex. He wanted a woman to cook and clean for him but he wouldn't provide for me. He wouldn't even move in with me and split the bills. I work more than full time hours but I was still somehow a shitty girlfriend for not cooking for him... when he didn't even live with me. And I barely had the time to do the things I needed to do for myself at my own damn house and for my dog. He had his mom come by to clean his place for him - which he had asked me to do for hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 13 | ‘Eleven-year-old Amy (..) enthusiastically embrace an increasingly sensual dance routine’- Jeffrey would be so happy... 🤮4chan has, since its inception, brought many 4chan users to band together to fight against pedophilia and other such stuff. But there's also plenty of degenerates on there, especially if you go through /b/. 4chan can't really be painted with any particular brush due to the huge variety of users on that site. Their moderation seems to have ramped up, though. Maybe them ad dollars aren't rolling in so much anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionI'm not disagreeing with that point. I disagree with aiding the misogynist agenda in any capacity. And I disagree with your opinion on Ariana Grande's 'God is a Woman' - human life is brought by the woman, not the man. While the song is about "sexual empowerment", I think it also acknowledges the huge responsibility women have in that regard. But I'm not here to debate that song. The tone of that song is also much different from WAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:55 PM |
| 47 | I had not texted him back for over a week, he sends this message todaysomeone who just assumes I wanna be with his dirty ass. This is probably literally true. These kinds of guys probably think it's gay to properly clean their own asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 49 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionBut it's not the call-outs against the male hiphop community getting attention. It's the call-outs against women that are getting mainstream attention. I feel like, in instances like this, feminists calling out against this does nothing about the men calling this out for their misogynistic reasons. Men don't care about the reasons feminists have a problem with this song, so long as their own agenda is met - which is silencing and shaming these women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:39 PM |
| 147 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionI agree with the overall tone of this post, and I am also grossed out by the song. However, male rappers are never called out for their disgusting shit in their songs. Everyone gets called out, or no one should be called out. That's my opinion. And that's the issue I've seen a lot of women have - why should it only be women who are getting beat with the morality stick in regards to sexuality and sexual pandering? I know men and women are different, at least with how we are raised and socialised.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:19 PM |
| 74 | ‘Eleven-year-old Amy (..) enthusiastically embrace an increasingly sensual dance routine’- Jeffrey would be so happy... 🤮It's funny because even 4chan isn't allowing screengrabs of this film to be posted there. Congrats Netflix, you even made 4chinz uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 231 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.lol this was one of my exes. We weren't even married but my money was his money and his money was his money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 32 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?Gross. I don't understand why modern men are so obsessed with anal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 12 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?They don't read profiles. I say I'm looking for a marriage-minded man and 80% of the dudes that try to match with me/message me are fbois in their thirties who want to "see where it goes" or "something casual" or are also in "open relationships". Reading is very difficult, apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 25 | Another serious in r/ComMuNiCaTe. This woman rightly wants a divorce from her husbands selfish behavior, and everyone’s telling her he might have PPD from the pregnancy. They’re encouraging her to go to therapy.Right? A good man is happy to see his wife is a good mother. He should be proud he chose a good woman to have a baby with. Instead he's having a mantrum. Fucking gross. Despicable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:59 PM |
| 84 | Another serious in r/ComMuNiCaTe. This woman rightly wants a divorce from her husbands selfish behavior, and everyone’s telling her he might have PPD from the pregnancy. They’re encouraging her to go to therapy.That second comment is such fucking bullshit. Oh, a baby just suddenly goes to "that thing that screams constantly and keeps us up at night"? Umm... did you and your own idiot husband not know what a baby does before you decided to have one? Are you fucking dumb? Just because your husband is an idiot doesn't mean it's acceptable, nor should another woman accept that. A woman's priorities shift drastically and suddenly and the man's absolutely should, too. It takes two to make a baby. They are a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 110 | PLEASE IF YOU READ ANYTHING TODAY LET IT BE THIS. Every single woman needs to read this: Andrea Dworkin's testimony to the Attorney General's commission on pornography. Absolutely stunning and devastatingThen this entertainment is taken, and it is used on other women, women who aren't in the pornography, to force those women into prostitution, to make them imitate the acts in the pornography. The women in the pornography, sixty-five to seventy percent of them we believe, are victims of incest or child sexual abuse. They are poor women; they are not women who have opportunities in this society. They are frequently runaways who are picked up by pimps and exploited. They are frequently raped, the r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 10 | Woman's 'nightmare' as stranger from dating app she deleted turns up at her workAccording to the article she was on Tinder. The League doesn't require LinkedIn, at least when I used it. But I had to pay to get entrance to the app without it. Never heard of InnerCircle. If it does require LinkedIn though I wouldn't be able to join. I don't have any social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:06 PM |
| 31 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.That's like dudes I encounter on OLD. I state I want marriage in my future and am only looking for long-term dating because I'm busy. So many scrotes "oh, but I'm a lot of fun" "don't you need to relax?" "why can't you have fun while you look for mr.right?" They don't care. They're selfish and they always think they know better and should tell how to live your life, even when they don't even know you personally. They think with their penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some commonly held FDS talking points do you disagree with?Yes, plenty of users here get uppity about FWBs. I personally do not want a FWB. But, FDS itself is not intrinsically against it. I, too, would like something added to the handbook to clarify or add further info/guidance about FWBs, as FDS users seem to think it's a blanket "no" according to the handbook when it isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 27 | Woman's 'nightmare' as stranger from dating app she deleted turns up at her workVery spooky. She said she refused to tell him where she worked, and he said he had been trying to contact her for ages. Probably a mix of both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 60 | Woman's 'nightmare' as stranger from dating app she deleted turns up at her work"I had never met this man but he felt comfortable and entitled enough to me – a woman he had never met – to show up at my JOB. Demanding my time? Demanding to know if I was lying about meeting someone?" "I walked away hot and sweaty and scared. How did he find me? Why did he show up at my job, out of the blue months later? What was this supposed to accomplish? What if I had gone on a date with him? " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 249 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.because bangmaid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 8 | What are some commonly held FDS talking points do you disagree with?Yes it does. It is mentioned* in the FDS ideology https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/ideology Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value and investment (if you're looking for FWBs). If a man is really into you and sees you as girlfriend material, he will commit to you in two months (or three months max). If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 13 | Hi ladies. Whenever I tell someone I blocked my ex after an ‘amicable’ breakup they tell me I’m over the top and rudeI mean, if you're going no contact what's wrong with blocking? I don't understand our generation thinking we always need to leave the door open. Why? I blocked my ex because I had kept hoping he would contact me and tell me he was wrong, he finally understood, etc (LOL). I figured it was better to just block and live in blissful ignorance than to look at my phone and sigh at seeing nothing, or worse than nothing. Your friends strike me as the immature ones. What difference does it make? Why woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 33 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Ah, another male who doesn't want a girlfriend or wife, he wants an employee he can fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 26 | This girl is about to become a forever girlfriend and the commenters are telling her to CoMmUnIcAtE. Waiting 5+ years before talking about marriage? No thanks.Sis should leave. Two years is long enough to know. I really, really regret wasting three years on a man who wouldn't even give me a timeline by that point. But sadly, some lessons are only learned the hard way. 25 years old is old enough to start seriously thinking about marriage and children. If he's that spooked by even talking about engagement, he's not all in. No woman should wait around on a man who isn't all in for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 129 | Spot the guyLMFAOOO she gives her boyfriend a task list and he wonders if she TrieD tO CommunIcATe bro, did it ever occur to you that maybe you're just stupid and no one wants your dumb advice? Did you miss the context cues of her comment that she has clearly already talked to him multiple fucking times? Maybe you need to go back to high school Language Arts class to learn how to read again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 4 | The message I got after the last comment I posted here...I just noticed the username of the dude. I want to know why he has a girly kpop username. Ashamed to have him in the Suju fam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 36 | The message I got after the last comment I posted here...Yeah, she looks fit as fuck. Congrats OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:59 PM |
| 32 | The message I got after the last comment I posted here...I mean, I don't think it's a good idea for anyone to date co-workers or potential co-workers... so.... scrote logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 76 | HVW ActivitiesDamn, OP is getting chewed. I don't think this needs to be taken super literally - this is a list of potential activities to help you outside of a relationship. She isn't saying get yo ass to church if you aren't religious. Some women don't know what to do with themselves to get out there, meet new people, or work on themselves. Even reminding women that it's okay to go to a restaurant or happy hour by themselves is a good thing. It's good to just chill once in a while. That said, I sure miss go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 69 | #MudSharkWeek is trending on Twitter. Apparently, White Scrotes are pressed over interracial relationships. Luckily, KPOP stans came to the rescue to drown out the racists. Controversial Opinion: Racism is a male sexual strategy to mate guard & discourage women from finding better deals elsewhere.A lot of men dislike "their" women dating outside their race. When I lived in Korea, many Korean men were pressed about Korean women dating white guys, but those same dudes praised the white women who were dating Korean men. I don't think it's a white guy thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 97 | “I usually paid on the first dates because I was the one asking them out. That simple.” - another pickme in the commentsI mean, I do understand the second comment's view point because I used to think the same. But then, regardless of how much a dude chooses to spend on a woman she never owes him sex, and if he acts like it then congrats - you just weeded out another frog! Plus, I solve the 'terrible date' problem by just doing things I want to do for a first date. Then either way it's not a loss of time for me. And then as far as the 'asker always pays' rule? Just don't ask a man out. Even if he was going to pay,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 22 | The woman that was kicked out of Paradise and snuck back inYou got me very curious, as I do know a bit about her but not that much. In a lot of vampire stories I used to read, Lilith is often depicted as the leader or mother of vampires. I also found this quote that I love lmao: According to medieval Jewish tradition, Lilith was Adam’s first wife, before Eve. When Adam insisted she play a subservient role, Lilith grew wings and flew away from Eden. https://www.biblicalarchaeology.org/daily/people-cultures-in-the-bible/people-in-the-bible/lilith/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 38 | 9 Most common Mixed Signals you can get from a man and their meaningYeah, it's amazing how many grown-ass men use the "oh my ex so-and-so did this to me so I don't want to do that anymore" or "I got hurt real bad and I need my time" blah blah blah. Then like... take your time? But why does that mean you should have any right to another person's time? Like, if you can't move in with someone or date someone or tell someone you love them because you got hurt before then maybe you need therapy and not a fucking relationship right now? Everyone has had their heart br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Has anyone here gotten a spa facial done before? Anyone here getting regular facials? What kind of spa facials would you recommend? I have no real skin concerns. I have a regular skincare routine, and I frequently get compliments on my skin. No frequent breakouts, very little scarring, etc. But I'm wondering if regular facials would be a good addition to my routine as I'm getting closer to 30. I'm getting a lash lift soon so I was debating also booking in for a facial lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restI'm screaming at how he capitalised 'Men' and 'Women' lmfaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 17 | For all the pickmeishas and LVMs in the backWow... I didn't even make this connection myself. I dote on my dog and I spend a lot of money on activities (classes) and fancy toys for him, and taking him places. He's a border collie and I don't have a farm, so I do my best to give him a good life and keep him entertained. If I can do that for my dog, a man should absolutely have no problem occasionally doting on a woman he claims he loves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Refusing to date a man with social mediaI won't date men with social media like Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Tiktok, whatever-the-fuck-else. I just won't. I don't use those services myself anymore, and haven't in about a year, and I just won't date someone who has them. I'm not asking any man I may date to stop using it, either. I want him to be like me in that regard, in that he just naturally has very little or no interest in it. If he uses internet forums, I don't mind. I know I may end up alone but that's fine. I would rather be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Update On Pickmeisha of the Decade From My Last Post About Dating Over Thirty-Someone Direct Messaged Me To Tell Me Picmeisha is Known For Flirting With the Mods And She Admitted To Being Misogynistic As Seen In This Post!! Apparently The Mods Ban Anyone Who Goes Against Her-PATHETIC !!!They definitely police anti-male rhetoric way more strictly than they police anti-female rhetoric tho I've totally noticed that, too, but there's a few regulars there that keep me around. I try to ignore the people that are dicks, or just downvote and move along. I also try to phrase things very carefully when I post there. And I have gotten some decent advice and insights there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 17 | Update On Pickmeisha of the Decade From My Last Post About Dating Over Thirty-Someone Direct Messaged Me To Tell Me Picmeisha is Known For Flirting With the Mods And She Admitted To Being Misogynistic As Seen In This Post!! Apparently The Mods Ban Anyone Who Goes Against Her-PATHETIC !!!lmao what. I'm a regular on that sub and I had no idea users were flirting with the mods. Like, why?? Shouldn't you be focusing on doing that with someone irl so you can like... not be posting on dating subs forever? Anyway, that sub hates redpill/fds/mgtow/whatever subs. If you're going to talk about fds ideologies over there, it has to be very subtle. I always try to be careful with the language I use on other subs by lurking and copying the way the other frequent posters write. That said, her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 8 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.Same. I'm not really about that. Being a life partner with someone also comes with a lot of compromises, the ability to work through things you would never be faced with with a best friend, and also marriage/living together long-term as a couple is, in reality, quite comparable to a business partnership. I don't mix friends with business or sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 29 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.What's extremely baffling to me is the amount of men who seem to think they can tell their partner they aren't sexually attracted to her and that the relationship will survive. I see this shit posted in that sub pretty frequently. I mean, she might stay with the relationship, but it will be forever changed. You can't come back from that. You can't un-say those words. And, quite frankly, why would a woman who feels sexual urges even want a man around who isn't sexually attracted to her? Marriage … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 137 | Their opinions change depending on how it benefits themIf men had periods it would be a celebrated time of the month. They would expect a gift for every day of the week they're on their period, and probably cake, too. Y'know, because we owe them for suffering and bleeding out of their bodies for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020The reason you broke up the first time will be the reason you break up again, and it will fail harder and faster. That's my experience anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Man, it sucks trying to date when you have semi-traditional values and aren't religious. The guys that aren't religious don't share the same ideals, and the guys that are religious are controlling weirdos and politically conservative in the worst way. I grew up in suburbia and went to Catholic school my whole life. Now I'm this weird mix of Catholic values but don't believe in religion, and it sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:04 PM |
| 18 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔Nope https://www.cnn.com/2014/05/27/justice/california-elliot-rodger-wealth/index.html But HILARIOUSLY, he shames his mom for not marrying for money: "If only my damnable mother had married into wealth instead of being selfish," he wrote. She dated wealthy men after her divorce, giving her son hope and prompting him to "pester" her to marry one, he said. "I will always resent my mother for refusing to do this. If not for her sake, she should have done it for mine. Joining a family of great wealt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 15 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔Accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 14 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔lol! Burton Batman films reference. Joker says: "This town needs an enema!" so I responded with another quote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 10 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔You ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight? eta: I mean, if we're making references. If we're not, I'll show myself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 11 | Interesting video: Most men are gay-ishThat's possible, but I don't really tell them I hate it or dislike it anymore, because in my experience it goes like this: Me: Oh, I really don't like having oral sex on me Them: That's because you haven't had it done right! I know what I'm doing! I'm really good at it! And they insist on trying and when I still say I don't like it they get so mad lol One of my exes even went to his female friends to ask for tips when we first started having sex, and he hadn't tried going down on me yet. When I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:55 PM |
| 45 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔Yeah, I mean, Elliot Rodger was in 2014. We didn't exist back then, homie LMAO I bet the guy that wrote that is super young. "Incel" culture started back on fucking 4chan, dude. The MRA, mensrights, and incel subs on Reddit existed before FDS. But nope, it's our fault. Of course. Note that he completely ignores the fact that everything in the handbook is to try to get a woman to get a guy that treats her like people, and not like a personal masturbation device to shove in the closet when you're … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 20 | Interesting video: Most men are gay-ishYeah really. I don't understand this. I've seen people on other parts of Reddit bitch that we're demonstrating "homophobia" by saying this when the topic of anal sex and women comes up. But...??? Most guys I've gone out with have tried to push that on me and won't accept me saying 'no' the first time. They keep asking. It's obnoxious. Whereas most of my girl friends are repulsed by the idea, say it's a hard 'no' for them, and are not interested. And I have a really hard time believing the women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 13 | Interesting video: Most men are gay-ishWhile I agree with most of this, in my experience: most men don't want to go down on women, they're repulsed to cunnilungus. I don't agree with this. I actually hate hate hate oral sex performed on me. I do not like it. I do not like how it feels. Yet every guy I've dated and eventually got into a sexual relationship with has insisted on it, been disappointed if I didn't want them to do that, blah blah blah. Seriously. I always thought it wouldn't be a problem for me because I was also always to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 10 | Gaslighting: Table for 3Yeah, how dumb do they think we are? I'm short myself, and I've only dated one short man. All the other guys I've dated were 6 feet or taller - I fucking know what 6 feet looks like. Luckily, if you're OLD and you can see a full body pic of the guy, you can generally tell from his legs how tall he is irl. Some guys have longer torsos and yadda yadda whatever, but it's pretty easy to tell when they're lying lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 35 | Caitlin Roper: That any objection to pornography is characterized as anti-sex puritanism illustrates just how effective the porn industry has been in aligning its product with sexual liberation rather than sexual exploitation.Oh damn, TIL. I will also gladly take it, lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:13 AM |
| 69 | Caitlin Roper: That any objection to pornography is characterized as anti-sex puritanism illustrates just how effective the porn industry has been in aligning its product with sexual liberation rather than sexual exploitation.Wonderful article. But I don't even care what women say in defense of* porn. If it's so great and liberating go work in the porn industry full-time, otherwise shut the fuck up. I have female family who worked in the sex industry. These libfem women are stupid and fake-woke. Call me a prude, I don't care. I seriously don't care about these middle-class and upper-class women who sit on their asses in their office jobs and claim porn is empowering for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Let's Revitalize This Discussion: Can Men Who Are Bad to Mediocre at Sex Significantly Improve? How Do They React When You Tell Them They're Bad at Sex?Based. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 20 | Let's Revitalize This Discussion: Can Men Who Are Bad to Mediocre at Sex Significantly Improve? How Do They React When You Tell Them They're Bad at Sex?I think they can learn with communication. But in my experience, if you even try to talk to them about what you would prefer, or if they're doing something you don't like they just get all butthurt and the sex gets worse from there because they just feel emasculated or something. imo, if it's not fireworks for both partners after a few sessions, then it's better to dump than try to talk about it. In my experience, guys get passive aggressive or just stopped having sex with me. And I don't want t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:03 PM |
| 20 | Is this method really effective?I'd report him. So sick of these dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:00 PM |
| 14 | This is why when a sex deprived SCROTE comes back in your life you should just BLOCK. They see you explaining things as an attack or challenge. They will not apologize. Cut your losses.There’s no way he doesn’t He seems to think his dick is good enough/he is hot enough to hit you up after two years to get laid. His ego is way too damn big. What an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:46 PM |
| 14 | This is why when a sex deprived SCROTE comes back in your life you should just BLOCK. They see you explaining things as an attack or challenge. They will not apologize. Cut your losses.His nose was bigger than his dick LMAO!! Savage I wish you'd said that before blocking him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 10 | He heard you the first time - don't even trip.Oh yeah. But usually he was "working on it" lmao yeah, for five months? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:12 AM |
| 57 | Straight from the horse’s mouthFacts are facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 48 | How do you approach the « not having sex with a new partner before commitment » thing?You just don't have sex with them. If they push, you say you haven't known each other long enough yet or, if a good amount of time has passed, you say you don't believe you two have reached a place where that's on the table. You don't ask him or hint to him for commitment. He has to come to that decision on his own. I broke the rule with a dude who had previously been my boyfriend, and we were in talks of getting back together. Big mistake. Once I did that, he became an even bigger commitment-ph… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Purple pill is just a place taken over by TRP now. Almost every post is just men pushing their stupid crap. We are supposed to fix their disrespect and laziness now?? LmaoPPD is a waste of time lmao That whole sub is the biggest joke on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:33 PM |
| 42 | My friend's birthday surprise from her boyfriend (who makes less than her and knows this is her favorite brand) 😁🎂Awww <3 Happy Birthday to your friend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:48 PM |
| 49 | He heard you the first time - don't even trip.I remember, in one of my final fights with my most recent ex, I yelled at him exactly that: "I shouldn't need to ask you more than once!" And I won't anymore. If they don't love you enough to respect what you're asking or try to compromise, they aren't worth it. Never try to get attention or respect for someone who makes you feel less than. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Thought this was a joke at first, but there are legitimately lvm in the comments complaining about having to propose? It's a privilege! I'm just at a loss for words.F | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 31 | LVM HALL OF FAME: Bodybuilder Yuri Tolochko to Wed His Sex Doll Girlfriend After 8 Months of DatingOMG - literally a sex doll. I am screaming Is this legit? Like, this isn't a media thing? Like, talking about a sex doll as if she's real... what is this But also le sad because the guy is literally the image of my physical ideal in a dude - a bald buff dude lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 76 | A scrote making dehumanizing joke about women, his defenders whine for attacking his family after being told he's nasty and poorly raisedEvery time you criticise men, you get the same response: "you just hate men" or "REEEEEEE HATE SPEECH" Also, does he think women don't have access to sex toys? Sex toys that don't whine that you didn't remind it of its own appointments that it made itself? Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | President of Heart Magazines, owner of Cosmo, Marie Claire, Seventeen Magazine, just resigned after the NYT just exposed him as a disgusting misogynist. So we're not crazy! Cosmo DOES hate women!lmao cosmo is fucking hilarious. They legit had an article about how to give a great blowjob and one of the tips was "flutter your eyelashes along the shaft for a gentle, tickling sensation" Can't make this up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 12 | Most shocking responses from r/seduction I've seenPlease read the handbook before posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 26 | Wtf, and men complain that women have “impossible” standards.5'3 and 100 pounds would put a woman at 17.7 BMI which is underweight. 5'3 and 105 is 18.6, which is just at the healthy range. BMI is important for a lot of people, and even being sightly underweight can have consequences if you have any health issues. I know, as I struggle with anorexia and have been told by doctors to gain weight, even when I was only at 17 BMI. Women need more fat on their bodies than men do, and naturally retain more. This man is stupid, misogynistic, and deeply disrespectf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | notice the double standardWell yeah, a little bit of muscle of course. But obviously it's a reference to the instagram model body popularised by the Kardashians. As you said yourself, you aren't getting Kim K's or Kylie Jenner's ass just by squatting lmao I'm not even bitter. I'm hourglass with wide hips and a larger butt and wish it was smaller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 160 | notice the double standardlol they don't even know that. So many guys think you can just squat and bench press your way into big butt/boobs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:03 PM |
| 19 | Do they really not see their own misogyny?Yes and yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 24 | Do they really not see their own misogyny?That's a whole lot of words to just explain 'patriarchy'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 44 | Let's talk prenupsI am 100% about including lifestyle clauses like 'no cheating' into a prenup BUT In many jurisdictions those aren't actually held up in court, especially if that jurisdiction has no-fault divorce laws (because supposedly a marriage breaking down is the fault of 'both parties'). If you do include one, you'll also have to specify what counts as cheating, otherwise that can be weaseled out of in court, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Never Ever Text First?You said the answer to all of my questions was yes, but here you are very clearly saying that it is not a yes. If those things were 'yes' then you wouldn't be wondering. Confusion = he's not that into you Any time you aren't sure about a man's feelings, you either step back and wait for him to prove otherwise or you take your leave from the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Never Ever Text First?You read the handbook. If you're willing to risk a situationship/fwb scenario then go for it. But once you get into that zone, it's almost impossible to get to girlfriend status. Men will absolutely take what you offer, and you are the one setting the standard of acceptable treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Never Ever Text First?Then don't text him. Absolutely not without official commitment. Especially if that is what you are wanting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Never Ever Text First?Has he proven he's interested in you properly? Has he been good about scheduling dates and making time for you? Has he been considerate of your schedule and what's going on in your life? Does he reply to you within a reasonable period of time? Have you guys made an official commitment and has he still been consistent in his affection since? If all of the above is not a 'yes', then signs point to no - do not ever text first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 127 | This is what pickmeishas and LVM do to families. I am so glad I don't have any brothersExcuse me what the fuck? Call the cops on your nasty ass brother! What the fuck! Who wants to bet there's CP on his devices? Jesus Christ. And the mom has "already forgiven him"????? What a disgusting family! It's not her who was abused so mom can't forgive shit. Fucking gross. All of them. Including the OP. Call the police | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:24 PM |
| 260 | Why buy the cow...Why buy the pig just for a little sausage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 29 | Ladies, how do we feel about this post? Until he renders the ring, he’s not my man and isn’t entitled to my time and energy 🤷🏻♀️ Men go throw money at women in strip clubs because they look good to them, so miss me with that logic SIR!!!! 💅🏽If he can pay for onlyfans Any man paying for porn or strippers immediately has no say in the discussion. His "opinion" is just stupid at that point lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 22 | Ladies, how do we feel about this post? Until he renders the ring, he’s not my man and isn’t entitled to my time and energy 🤷🏻♀️ Men go throw money at women in strip clubs because they look good to them, so miss me with that logic SIR!!!! 💅🏽In a way, I kind of agree, even though the way the OP image is phrased just reeks of bitterness. But, I had this same thought myself yesterday Until a man puts a ring on my finger, I am not obligated to answer his calls in a timely manner, make time for him if he didn't make plans with me, give two shits about his family, or clean/cook/or anything for him. While in the dating stage, a man is supposed to pursue me, we are supposed to entertain each other, and have fun. But if he wants anything se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:33 PM |
| 88 | LVM can't handle rejection 🤦♀️Male: -starts the chat- Woman: I don't want to talk to a guy I don't know. Stop trying to chat me up. Male: -sputters- I wasn't trying to chat you up! Crazy bitch! Why are they so fucking stupid I just can't eta: I'm so triggered. Males really will call women crazy for anything. Anything! It's literally code for "you stood up to me and I don't like it". I just can't be convinced it means anything other than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 78 | A full grown tape wormlol and men always accuse women of gold-digging projection. always projection. Men will stay with a woman he doesn't even love/like anymore until the next one comes along. such trash. If a woman wants to be married, dump him right at the two year mark if he doesn't propose. Or else you're just wasting time on a man who does not want to be with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder in Ethereal Light. It's fairly translucent and not very shiny. It gives the Korean "dewy" look. It's also the finest powder I've ever used. They've since come out with an actual setting powder that I haven't tried, but I love all their powders that I have tried so I'm assuming it's great, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 24 | American Culture - Does it teach men to do the chasing? Or does it teach women to do the chasing?This. I've noticed some male relationship bloggers talking about this recently, too, that more and more men expect to be chased. And... I'm not about it. I want a masculine man, and that means he needs to be actively doing the pursuing. I do think wanting to be 'chased' gives off a feminine energy. I've noticed when men want me to chase them, it brings out a more maternal instinct in me, but quells any sexual energy I felt toward them. If a man wants to play hot and cold, he can go bother women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:33 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I've decided to stop trying to date for a while. I went on several first dates, a couple second dates, and one third date. And I just can't feel excited about any of this right now. I'll try again after my Denver trip (if that happens), otherwise maybe I'll try to start dating in September or October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Your bf sounds similar to my ex - kept moving the goal posts of our relationship. A red flag for me, even when I had just started dating him, was that he had lived with his previous GF for five years and never proposed to her. He complained to me all the time that she eventually stopped cooking for him and things like that - to which I actually think is because he probably did the same shit to her that he did to me. Engagement is just expressing his intent to marry you. It doesn't equal marriage… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 33 | 🤡 and pickmeisha 👹looking for another 👹 to join their circus 🎪Oh man, same. I met my ex at 26. He was 33. He'd always told me he wanted to get married, have kids, settle down. At 36 he still couldn't give me a timeline, despite me asking since 9 months into the relationship. On my 29th birthday, I asked him again. He still waffled around, no straight answer. I realised I'd wasted three years of my life - my mid-twenties - with him and told him to leave. He hasn't spoken to me since. I'm still sad about it, but it is what it is I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 54 | Gaslighting us to believe sex starts early for us by choice. This is in regards to Jenna Jameson coming forward about her abuse. Clearly hes a rapist.Yeah, I saw something about this on the 'hot' page of FDS. I'm glad she's speaking out. So many scrotes on Reddit go on about defending a woman's right to participate in porn and how anyone who disagrees is just a slut-shamer who doesn't believe in a woman's right to choose. All while more and more women in the porn industry speak out about how shit it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 54 | 🤡 and pickmeisha 👹looking for another 👹 to join their circus 🎪omg it's an epidemic for older guys with the kids someday thing. Like, I get we're pushing it older and older but damn - sperm starts degrading at 35 for men. Yet, I even see dudes in their 40s wanting kids "some day" but aren't ready to settle down yet lmao https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/05/190513081409.htm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 64 | When they care more about their penises than they care about your wellbeing, RUN!r/badwomensanatomy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 133 | Gaslighting us to believe sex starts early for us by choice. This is in regards to Jenna Jameson coming forward about her abuse. Clearly hes a rapist.Oh, you felt degraded and abused? But you made money! Tool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 33 | 'Ouch my ego'(he does this thing where he freaks out and go off and then tries to tell me that he was speaking normal and that I started going off for no reason if I finally react..) I had a guy do this shit to me. I started recording all of my phone calls because he would say he didn't do this or say that. Plus, it's legal where I live for only one person to consent to the recording. When I told him I was recording my phone calls and that I'd play it back for him if he needed proof he was talking that way, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 36 | 'Ouch my ego'lol. My most recent ex claimed he was a great communicator. But whenever I tried to talk about shit he was doing that was upsetting me or that I wanted to work on he would be all "Stop talking about the past!" Even if he did it yesterday. And one time, I shit you not, he did something that I'd been trying to deal with for forever so I brought it up. He'd done it just ten minutes ago. Convo literally went like this: Me: I want to talk about X thing Him: Stop talking about the past! Me: But... it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.That's what I mean. It's a stupid gimmick and not any different than a brain-dead swipe. If they wanted to be different they could force people to say something when they like. Plus, the guys on Hinge are on all the other apps too and not necessarily looking for a relationship. I've straight up seen them say "not here for long-term" in their profiles. Horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 43 | From a potential date before we’d even gone out once: Sure you were joking...testing the waters then backtracking, gaslighting and when neither worked hitting me with the oh so classic angry tirade of abuse 👌I wonder what his male friends would say if they made plans to hang and then he said "haha wish were meeting up sooner so I can choke you!" Oh wait, he wouldn't say that to a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:47 PM |
| 29 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.Tbh, all the apps are the same now. They all go by photo and give you three damn lines to fill out a profile with. "Hinge" isn't great either - the questions it lets you choose from are stupid and pointless small talk, and you can't even write much even if you wanted to. Even OKC, since they got rid of the search function, has become filled with lazy dudes who just swipe on everything and then standard shame you when it turns out they didn't even read your profile. Every app has become Tinder be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Hes doing fineI'm sure my ex is with the chick he was seeing on the side, stringing her along the same way he did me with false promises, all while letting his mommy clean up after him while he smokes weed and drinks and plays vidya in her basement every night. At 36. And wondering why he can't find a "good woman" to marry. Fuck you, Daniel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:41 PM |
| 14 | Another TINDER trashHis face would look better with a paper bag over it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Is Derrick Jaxn as legit as he seems? Because damn he is good looking and classy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 41 | UPDATE: How do I walk away strongStay gone. Never reply to him again, ever. He'll be looking for you in the daylight with a flashlight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:35 AM |
| 58 | And they wonder why they never get matches.This triggered me lmao Always with the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 132 | All I see is red flags. 🚩Translation: I am looking for a girl who will accept my incessant love-bombing. She must be reliable aka won't ghost me when I'm making myself a fool. She should be trustworthy, meaning trusting because I am 100% gonna step out on her ass. I want a wife at home to cook and clean for me because I'm going to be busy working and dating other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 31 | Share your WORST date story.Right? I listen to a ton of DJs as I really like EDM. But... his music was pretty boring or just outright terrible. He claimed it was "niche" lmao Like homie, even if that were true a niche market probably won't pay your bills lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:14 PM |
| 87 | Share your WORST date story.So I went out with this guy I had met through a fandom I was pretty into at the time. First date he took me to this vegan restaurant. I didn't mind - I'm not vegan, but whatever. But it turned out the restaurant didn't even have vegan versions of normal food. It was like a trendy spot, and the food was all... genuinely weird. The most 'normal' thing I could find was this strange mushroom pasta that was strangely chewy and kind of grainy in my mouth. Then we went for a walk around the city, and I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 13 | Is a vehicle necessary?Yeah, and that's always a possibility. But the second they even slightly complain about it, next him. It's not worth it. Multi-date and make it clear that's what you are doing. And then when you commit to a guy, he'll appreciate you more because he had to work for you. I have friends who don't drive and their now spouses still don't complain about it. One couple in particular can afford multiple vehicles now but the woman still doesn't want to drive and that's just how it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 37 | Is a vehicle necessary?If all of everything else you said about yourself is true, it's not a problem that you don't have a vehicle. I am always upfront with men I'm dating that I don't have a vehicle. They're always quick to say something like "That's okay, I like driving!" or "It makes me feel like a man to do the driving, so that doesn't bother me". Date those men. For every man that bitches you don't drive, five more will be okay with taking his place. As opposed to my last ex who knew I didn't drive when he met me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 66 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.Never had a guest in his nest before... this is gold lmao fake or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Sunk Cost FallacyAh, thanks. I thought we were roasting different male celebs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:09 PM |
| 17 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseSo... I tried NSA after a relationship ended where he just... stopped having sex with me. I felt terrible about myself, because I felt rejected by him, but also because NSA was against my values, but I felt that that was all I was missing in my life at the time because I was truly feeling "men suck, I don't need one in my life for real". If it is something you pursue, please be careful and make sure you'll feel okay with yourself with it. And just be upfront with dudes when you match with them. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 6 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Ah yes, but I meant what their "official" reason would have been. You know if they were forced to release a statement they wouldn't admit that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:46 PM |
| 34 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseIs that something you're actively looking for, though? Personally, I think NSA sex isn't worth anything to me as I don't find it enjoyable. But if that is something you are pursuing, just be upfront with the guys you would be interested in that with. The uglier dudes are always the most arrogant lmao they never learned any social grace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Sunk Cost FallacyWhat??? I loved Steve Carrell! Where can I read about this?? I am le sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:40 PM |
| 76 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseLOL like NSA sex is a "prize" or hard to obtain for women. Ghost him. Unmatch/block/whatever and forget about this loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 134 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseBecause he's lazy. He can't even put in the effort to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:53 PM |
| 13 | “DoNt LoOk FoR a SeRiOuS rElAtIoNsHiP oN tInDeR”Because so many low value scrotes think Tinder is for free prostitution. You aren't in the wrong. Many people look for different things on Tinder. I'd like to say the hookup people all go there, but they're on most of the big apps anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:11 PM |
| 38 | First datelmao, he just reached over and grabbed a boob? Disrespectful and weird as hell Don't overthink it. Block and move on. What a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:06 PM |
| 5 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!The website looks great! Congrats guys. I know that must have been a lot of work, but I hope everything works out. I noticed a cart page, too! Super cool to see we may have the option to support the page in other ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:04 PM |
| 16 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!I saw the /banfemalehatesubs and was very sad - I was a mod there. Maybe we were brigading? I'm not sure. I wish we'd get the full reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:48 PM |
| 7 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMWelp. This just woke me the hell up. I've had this pattern happen to me twice now. Time to break the cycle, I guess. Thanks for breaking this down so succinctly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:45 AM |
| 33 | Oh you know, just a standard day in the life of a pickme..... Are we living in the wrong multiverse? smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 56 | I’m sorry, he what?lmao Imagine your boyfriend disrespecting something so incredibly sentimental and then wondering what you should do about it You call him an animal and tell him to get the fuck out of your house and never come back how is this even a question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:16 PM |
| 19 | I LOVE seeing women looking out for each other elsewhere on redditMaybe we dated the same guy lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:34 AM |
| 72 | I LOVE seeing women looking out for each other elsewhere on redditActually, women on Reddit are surprisingly good at picking up on little comments. I posted a similar thing in the femalefashionadvice sub at one point about my (then) boyfriend wishing I dressed more mature because I looked so young compared to him and he hated the dirty looks he got. I usually just wore jeans and a hoodie or a big sweater, which I guess makes me look like a kid? Lmao I dunno But a few of the women commented saying that didn't sound right. I defended him at the time but... yeah.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:19 AM |
| 16 | Pickemeisha in the wild, under a post on AITA cause a woman got a 70$ engagement ring with no stone.Aww that's so sweet! I've never heard of an eternity ring, but I love that he honoured her for the birth of their child like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:10 AM |
| 18 | Racist LVM Scrote blogs about FDS and claims that FDS Women are delusional and mostly blackLOOLLLLL his editing skills are so superior that he has sections where he put brackets to remind him to put his screenshots and he couldn't even do that properly. Also, he's just an idiot. He has not mental fortitude or ability to look five years, ten years, twenty years into the future. He does not plan for a future with a woman, or he simply doesn't want one. And if it is the latter then he also lacks empathy. He measures dating "success" in getting laid. He isn't out here looking for a good i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Pickemeisha in the wild, under a post on AITA cause a woman got a 70$ engagement ring with no stone.OT but I love your username! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:12 AM |
| 155 | Pickemeisha in the wild, under a post on AITA cause a woman got a 70$ engagement ring with no stone.I checked out the post history. I think she's actually a woman, but she definitely needs therapy. She sounds like she feels no self-worth for herself. Many many posts detailing her history of abuse under the hands of way more than one man. She believes she has no worth so she doesn't demand anything of her partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:51 AM |
| 8 | OLD and the Fed Up WomanI'm in the same boat. Been trying OLD because of covid. If you can afford a matchmaking service, you should give it a try! Report back to us with what happened and what you think of it! In the /datingoverthirty sub, there was a woman who tried a matchmaker and had good success with the matches she was set up with. I don't know how far it got, but she said the dates were at least enjoyable. But oh man I need to rant. The other day I was in a bad mood and I matched with some guy who I knew had not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 45 | Let them know you are smarter than they are...lmao! I have definitely done this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 91 | yOuRE DaMAGinG hiM bY nOt ALLowiNg hiM tO fUcK yOu wHeNeVer He wAntS reGardLess Of yOuR fEELingSlmao. Even Pickmes don't expect maturity or kindness from men. I think this woman thinks less of men than I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Because this was being discussed: Expectations from dating, to girlfriend, to fiance, to wifeI don't think it needs to be taken that literally. But when cohabiting with anyone, finances are shared to some degree, even if not literally. My personal preference would be husband and wife each have separate accounts. They have one shared account where a set portion from each of their incomes is moved into the shared account to pay bills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:36 AM |
| 11 | Please Join r/BanFemaleHateSubs, a place for us to track all the misogyny, rape, and abuse of women on Reddit to bring to the Admins attention. No more feigning ignorance, Reddit needs to be held accountable for their content.Yes! I want a list of all the real gender-based hate subs on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Oh man, I think about this sometimes, too! If I can't find a partner by the timeline I have for myself, I would like to join a commune or get a big place and share it with other women who are also not planning on trying to have a family anymore. I think it'd be great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:27 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I don't talk to my friends about dating so you guys will get all the updates! To be honest, I don't have high expectations. But I haven't tried this approach before, so it's worth experimenting. Lots of guys my age around here are also hippies who "don't believe in the institution of marriage", and I tend to match a lot with hippies... so this filters them, too. To your edit: A lot of men do not believe in marriage. It's very common. So you could end up a forever girlfriend or with a man who doe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:59 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I'm sorry you've seen that! I'll be honest and say I haven't seen such posts/responses, but it's not something I actively look out for. If anything, I've seen women here defending single moms. imo only a LVM would leave a woman he impregnated and had a child with. I do think the sub skews very young, though. Which makes it hard to talk about the particulars of dating. Young women have different goals than older women, and single moms have different goals from either of those. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020It's been working for me so far. I'm dating several guys at once and also going to singles mixers. I'll be trying speed-dating once that's available again, too. And I'll make that clear to every guy that takes me out so not sure why the other responder said guys will think I'll just take whatever. I dated a commitment-phobe before and I'm not down for that again. If this approach doesn't work I'll try something else. But my first goal is to scare off guys that are afraid of the 'M' word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I'm not going to do that. It is what I'm looking for. I think I will waste more time dating guys that "wanna see where things go" lmao. And I'm not going to commit to the first guy that comes along. And I won't be sleeping with anyone before we've been committed for three months. If a guy wants to take me out and he hopes that's what I'll do then he'll be sorely disappointed. Not my problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 27 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Why are so many guys so daft. I have on my OLD profile "looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship that will lead to marriage". And guys message me. I see their profile that they are pretty much open to any kind of relationship with a woman. So I say point blank: "I see you are looking for many things. I am looking for one specific thing. Is that okay for you?" Every time the guy responds he's open to whatever, and okay to go with the flow and see what happens. As I predict. LMFAOOO So I t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:11 PM |
| 12 | Unpopular opinion: I love how Jordan Peterson describes hypergamy, it's origins and the need for hypergamy as a society. He quite frequently calls out LVM for what they are.Jordan Peterson is still garbage. I personally don't believe in female hypergamy, as the earliest cases of this were actually performed by men. Men marrying women for their dowry or what their father could offer them for marrying their daughter. Women, especially women of 'higher society', never had much choice in choosing their partners until recently - and those that did often struggled with their family if they chose to marry down. And poorer women were often stuck in their own social class b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 36 | Ladies, how long would you wait for a second date before the ship sails?Stop talking to him every day or even every other day if it's been more than a week since your last date. If he asks why, you can be as vague or direct as you want. But I'm assuming you're looking for a relationship and not a friend. You should be talking to/having plans with other men, anyway, so that it doesn't matter if one or two don't get back to you/make plans for another date with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 180 | Dinner + “Movie” = Sex"To watch a movie" "Already our 4th date" WOW. The entitlement is off the charts. Girl sounds like a damn queen, though. She probably knew if she gave him an inch he'd try to take a mile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 86 | Yet Another Kinkmeisha Learns the Hard WayI mean, I have no idea what position she was in but if some dude ignored me telling him to stop I would put up a fight and lose my damn mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 25 | Newsflash dude: You are not a prize! Stop trying to neg women with your "not like other girls" bs and shut the hell up."Wifey" literally makes me gag. Any man who says that unironically is a nasty scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:57 PM |
| 39 | Newsflash dude: You are not a prize! Stop trying to neg women with your "not like other girls" bs and shut the hell up.Also he's stupid. That's a terrible comparison. What about private WiFi? Depending on what you're doing on your network, you don't want every jackass that visits your house to have your WiFi password. Plus, you don't know what your neighbours are doing if you give them your WiFi password - what if they're looking at/downloading some shady shit. I hate stupid men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:56 PM |
| 111 | His response back was “cunt” and I was promptly unmatched 🤣 the trash takes itself out ladies!That's the nastiest pickup line I've seen in a while... vomit-inducing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | The girl in the photos is my sister. Yeah, sure bud.lol, they literally aren't even worth talking to about it. Somehow you are the problem, even though it's not like you had dated other men before with normal family relationships lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:23 PM |
| 3 | The girl in the photos is my sister. Yeah, sure bud.If you're still tempted to try OLD at all, maybe try OKCupid? I know OKC gets some hate, too, but I like to utilise the web browser version and really fill out my profile. Like, my profile is obnoxiously long for a modern OLD profile. I've actually gotten some good responses from some decent guys on it. I am paid for the premium version, so I never even bother looking at any guys to 'swipe' on. I very rarely check out who's liked me and I may like them back to see if they message, but mostly I'v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 38 | The girl in the photos is my sister. Yeah, sure bud.I don't match with men who have women in their photos with them. Especially just him and some other girl. Not worth the risk. And if it is his sister or even his mom, I'm still not down. I've dated one too many dudes who rely on their mom/sister for emotional support and socialisation and just use me for sexual gratification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 10 | The lesbian wage premium - Evidence for the wife (or husband) penalty shows up in what researchers call the “lesbian wage premium.” Across years of research, women who have never lived with a male partner make more money than women who have.LOL do you have a citation? According to this study: there were no significant differences in happiness between participants with lifelong different-sex partners, participants with lifelong same-sex partners, and participants who transitioned to only same-sex partners. Also, according to Wikipedia (and the sources of the wiki article look legit): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_lesbian_relationships Some sources state that gay and lesbian couples experience domestic violence a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 11 | 😳It's funny because if you look at that user's post/comment history, they too spend just as much time in these types of subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 63 | Why do (older) men have trouble telling apart “I am attracted in her” from “She is attracted to me”?Some men think if a woman responds to them in a positive/not negative manner, then their advances are being received well. When in fact, most women are socialised to just tolerate/smile politely at a man being rude/flirtatious. I've seen this way too many times to count. A guy I'm on a date with thinking the waitress/server is flirting with him just because she was doing her job. My dad thinking the cashier who is obviously less than half his age thinking he's cute just because she smiled at his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Being upfront about wanting a HVMMaybe, but to me it just seems like a standard online dating question. Back in the day before apps were a thing, all the dating sites had a mandatory section that required you to put what you were looking for on your profile. And I don't write them an essay. I say "I am looking for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage". Everything else is time will tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:04 PM |
| 22 | Being upfront about wanting a HVMI always ask what a man is looking for before a date. I'm close to thirty and it's not even worth it going on a date with a guy who can't even pretend to be looking for marriage. Forcing him to wait for sex will weed out the liars. I really don't believe you should be waiting to ask this question unless you are very young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 36 | "Even tho you not my girl, I don't want you out here acting single"Mate-guarding behaviour can be observed in both males and females. It's actually extremely interesting to read about. "Negging" is part of mate guarding behaviour as well. Here's two links to two studies I had saved: Mate Guarding, Male Attractiveness, and Paternity Under Social Monogamy: https://academic.oup.com/beheco/article/16/4/724/214882 Why Do Men Insult Their Intimate Partners: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/257045423_Why_do_men_insult_their_intimate_partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:30 AM |
| -2 | Catch 22 of my life. Need serious advice.You know you can write curse words on the internet, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 42 | Shera is a queen. 💅🏼 Follow her on insta and youtube!The bottom line is a man should be investing in you in some way. Maybe it's time, maybe it's money. But you should be getting something from him, or he doesn't care. But you're right - as soon as you know he's not a catch, next him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 44 | Catch 22 of my life. Need serious advice.Hey, OP. There's not a lot of advice people can give you in this situation. Because I am the same way: did not receive support from family, and do not have any family. I really relate to a lot of what you are saying. You tend to get involved with and stay involved with men who are abusive or unavailable, because you don't know any better. It's not necessarily that you attract them, but that you don't know how to set healthy boundaries, and you don't know which glaring red flags mean a relationsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 67 | Shera is a queen. 💅🏼 Follow her on insta and youtube!This kind of attitude, unfortunately, comes from learned experience. Where you give a lot to a man you love, but you find out he was lying to you about his intentions, or he betrayed you, or simply never cared about you that way. If you find a man that you genuinely believe loves you, that's all you need. But I think we're all here because we've been burned before, and it's hard to know if real love is even a thing. You should always look out for your interests, and not sacrifice until he's made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:01 PM |
| 8 | FDS thoughts on starting a business with your boyfriend/significant other?I wouldn't do it unless you are married and you have equal stake in it, and have a contract in place for what happens if you split up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:26 PM |
| 3 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’This is stemming from you accusing his girlfriend of being jealous and insecure, when you really don't know the inner workings of their relationship. In my experience, men treat their girlfriends badly and then accuse them of acting some type of way. And then all you see is her clear dislike of you. If he is just your friend, you have no way of knowing how he behaves toward a woman he is sexually involved with. Maybe she is jealous and insecure, but I somehow doubt that. And men and women can on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020My opinion is that you should just straight up say what you want. Don't beat around the bush. If they dislike your answer, oh well. No point wasting time on someone who doesn't want the same things. Every dude you dismiss is one closer to the right guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 114 | Shera is a queen. 💅🏼 Follow her on insta and youtube!Learned this the hard way. I let some guy string me along for years. He said we were in a committed relationship but he never even spent a single weekend with me in that time. (Yes, I'm a clown) He paid for some things for me I was supposed to pay him back for. I don't even feel bad about it. If you aren't investing your life and time into me, you can invest some damn money. Cheap dude only ever bought me a meal every once in a while and called me a gold digger for it. I know a real "gold digger… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:01 PM |
| 52 | Bet this guy would have 0 qualms about having sex while “hanging out”Now going on a date is too much commitment. Whew, lads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’I disagree. I used to be so chill until I "grew up". Been screwed over one too many times by a man who was "friends with his ex" or had a female best friend. I'm almost thirty. I won't fuck with that. If the girlfriend got into a relationship with your friend, he either hid that his best friend was female or one of you two is actually a problem. She probably thought she could deal with the shit from you two until she actually saw how you two are together. Also, I have male friends. With healthy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:50 PM |
| 44 | TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentionsI totally agree. Like, obviously everyone wants be wanted. But it's actually such a turn-off to be around a dude like that because these guys don't exude that quiet confidence of a put-together man. It's as you said, very princess-y. I went out with a guy like this and he was always seethingly jealous of pretty girls because of the attention they got online. It was gross lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:36 AM |
| 34 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’Never doubt your gut. If you think a woman is into your man, she 100% is. Let the trash take itself out. You should always be the priority over another woman, or he's not life material anyway. Ask yourself - would you treat him like that? Would you put a male friend before the man you love and trust? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:52 AM |
| 76 | TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentionsI've always thought this, too. Some of the shit I've read for male red pillers is just disgusting, because it's all lying. You aren't woke. You didn't discover anything magical about women. You are a liar - just like every other nasty scrote before you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Thank you for this, Cook. I feel very much the same about the "five year plan". I guess I always did, and it was me not believing in myself that made me put myself through more shit lol And I have started SheraSeven today. I especially appreciate this recommendation. Her video "When To Give Up On a Man" really helped me solidify I made the right choices for myself, even if I'm struggling with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:50 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Ladies, I have four first dates coming up. This time, I have asked each dude before meeting them what they are looking for. Give me all your best cues to sniff out who's lying about looking for a long-term, marriage potential relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 68 | What’s the betting she’s been brainwashed by LVM into believing this?lol. This isn't even true, though. You can see plenty of stories on Reddit about men who would rather get off to porn than even bother approaching their SOs. These women often post in deadbedrooms or relationship subs, lamenting what's wrong with them and why their SO has no interest in touching them at all. But sure, let's find a way to blame women for men watching porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Thanks! Good luck to you, too! I hope you'll post your updates, because I need all the good news I can get lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Oh, I absolutely do. I'm an extreme introvert. I've struggled with agoraphobia, and lockdown made my agoraphobia so bad I couldn't even walk my dog. So dating a bunch of dudes isn't really my thing. I also hate the initial phase of dating. But, I realised I've only ever accomplished things by going at them 100%. I've accomplished everything I've wanted by having extreme tunnel vision about it. I want to at least try to have the chance to have a family by 35. So, I'm all in until then. I have oth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Had a brunch date today. Guy was super nice but said we were looking for different things... then said I could hit him up if I was looking to get laid. At least he paid for the meal. I have first dates again on Tuesday and Wednesday. The guy on Wednesday said he's looking to build a life with someone, so we'll see. He's closer to my age, too. I don't have high hopes, but maybe he won't be as crass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | A message from a pickmeisha..I curse like a sailor. I use a lot of ugly words. But I provide entirely for myself, I have a home, a dog, I work my ass off. I'm kind. But I love offensive humour. Just like I love horror films. You standard shame other women and then go around calling yourself HVW when, from your comments, it seems you don't even have much real world experience being around/involved with men. Get off your high horse. You're trying to police an entire community when you haven't even been here that long. Edit: A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Yeah, I don't think the people downvoting me realise how bad it is. Like, I have matched with 10 guys who had a dog pic and only one ACTUALLY owned a dog. Like, people think this isn't a big deal but it is to me. My dog is NOT a normal dog. He is a working farm dog and I live in the city, so a lot of my time goes toward my dog. I very much feel it would be in my best interest to date a man who has real experience with dogs. And I greatly feel that a man who raised a normal dog would still have d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Well I do and it bothers me. A pic of you at the dog park is way different than a pic of a dude snuggled up in a bed with a dog that isn't his lmao Also, growing up with dogs doesn't mean anything. I did, too. Raising a dog on your own with no help is way different than growing up with your family and your family dogs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:38 AM |
| 3 | How do you not get attached so quickly when dating?I live in a city with below a million people. I am selective. I'm rotating between three dudes out of the 50+ matches I had. If I drop one I'll add in another to replace him. Once live events open up I'll drop OLD altogether. But I think most women can find a few dudes to rotate between. It's part of the game if you want to protect yourself from a liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Well, if they're gonna stare they're gonna stare. But if I don't want to be bothered I just wear earbuds and point to them if some dude tries to talk to me. Don't take them out, and keep walking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020It is hard. You just have to rip the band-aid off, so to speak. Make sure ending the relationship is really what you want so that you don't get into an on/off dynamic as it's really emotionally damaging to get back together only to see it's all the usual bullshit. Don't be tempted into phone calls or whatever for "closure". You won't get any real answers from him for his shit behaviour. It's over. Block, delete. Cry it out for as much time as you need. You are permanently losing a person you car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I need to vent about men in OLD posting pics of them with other people's dogs. Like, what the fuck is that about? I'm trying to date guys who have a dog already, because my dog is an energetic breed and I don't want to date a guy who has little experience with dogs. I don't care how much you love your friend's dog. You don't have to train it, clean up after it, or deal with it being a moody asshole. You have no idea what it's like to actually live with that dog. I also don't trust dudes with wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 36 | There’s clownery going on in this relationship. He’s lied to her like 10 times 🙄He thinks it's funny she even does this. He doesn't take her seriously at all. He has no respect for her. What a tool. Although, I do like her 'chart' idea - I think I'll keep a log of things I notice/question about the dudes I'm going out with. Keep things straight, and will help me notice shady patterns a lot faster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 22 | Sounds like his mama didn’t teach him how to behave.Aunty, come get your crotch goblin please!!Does his shirt say "I love patriarchy" ?? lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:52 PM |
| 77 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*This. Plus, I've decided I'm not gonna even bother dating a guy who accuses me of being "too sensitive". I'll just annoy the hell out of him if he really believes that, anyway. Better for both of us to walk away if he's gonna say shit like that : ^ ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:16 PM |
| 36 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*He says he's part of the "pickup community" - like, a guy who's just a pickup artist isn't going to be getting with women who have the best judgement. He also says he didn't always have his own place and often had to go to the woman's place LMAO He's a real prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 61 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*No, it's because he probably believes shit like this: https://www.girlschase.com/content/when-psycho-women-leave-stuff-your-place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 36 | Ironically, TheRedPill "redpilled" me about male nature and made me realize that I was a pickmeisha.But the funny thing is that even RPW acknowledge that "redpilled" men aren't always the best fit for them due to the bullshit they spew/believe in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:34 PM |
| 238 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Wow, what a fucking asshole. Glad you ended things with him. Any guy that's ever talked to me like that has turned out to be a cheater or has serious commitment issues. As if a girl would leave her makeup bag behind on purpose. Those are the essentials! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 25 | How do you not get attached so quickly when dating?Never date the same guy twice until you've established you're in a committed relationship. And do not let a guy put you into 'exclusively dating' but not 'in a relationship'. It's committed relationship or nothing. So if you go on a date with Bill on Friday, you need to go on a date with Bob or George before you can date Bill again. So, if you wanted to see Bill again on Sunday, you'd have to have a date with one of the other men on Saturday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:03 PM |
| 61 | “My (24F) [pedophile] husband (38M) keeps sexualising my childhood trauma even tho I’ve asked him not to.” Further analyses of the husband in the comments are even more disturbing.Omg. I know he’s older but he looks very youthful for his age and he’s super fit and active so honestly the age was never an issue, ever. LOL as if people are concerned about the age gap because of physical appearance. No, it's because of shit you are finding out now. He's a predator. I’m not a prude Said as if sexual boundaries are a bad thing. As if having shit you don't want to do sexually makes you somehow less than a chick who has no problem being tossed around like a ragdoll He always apol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 189 | A post where a woman asks men to stop mansplaining on a female orientated subreddit and the responses by angry scrotes.That's why female-oriented spaces who allow men to respond are a joke. If I wanted a man's opinion I could go anywhere else on reddit and be given it without even asking for it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I was freaking out over what to wear for a first date on Sunday, but then noticed the weather - rainy and not that hot. Others may be saddened by that, but this works greatly in my wardrobe's favour. I'm thinking some nice jeans, and a neat, simple top with a simple necklace. I'll focus on my face instead, and make sure I have a good base with some BB cream, highlighter, and draw attention to my eyes. I'm really excited! Texting with him has been pretty easy, no weird gaps in our convos. And mid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Thanks for the encouragement <3 it's kinda geeky but any new location is worth exploring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Past few months have been rough on me. I'm not sure what the travel situation is going to be like in the future, but I needed something to look forward to. So, I booked a trip to Denver in mid-September. Just a couple days. I'm super obsessed with South Park and I want to go to Casa Bonita. I got a return flight and a private room at a hostel for a few hundred dollars. Paid extra for reimbursement in case I decide to cancel. I haven't traveled on my own in a long time. I'm excited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:48 AM |
| 34 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.he legit wore pajamas oh. my. god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 40 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.Ha! My last ex was always over an hour late. And even when he started showing up on time near the final leg of our relationship, he'd make me wait in his damn car on date night for over an hour so he could go "talk to a friend real quick". No point crying about it, though. Like, a first date and he stood you up? You're already ready - go out to a nice restaurant, sit at the bar and get an appetizer and a drink and treat yourself. See if there's a paint night going on. See if there's a local musi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:38 PM |
| 122 | So much projection..."Men fall in love with the girl next door" Yeah, maybe if she looks like Betty lmfao. I've read countless stories of girls who grew up liking the neighbour boy and he never had any interest in her. Stop watching porn. Also love at first sight isn't a real thing. That's called lust. Grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:31 AM |
| 12 | On a post about a heroic woman who saved over 800 children from child marriages with pedophile men. This is how men of reddit respond:Men aren't funny. And the female comedians who try to mimic male humour aren't funny, either. A good joke has subtext and nuance. Male humour is just trash disguised as "it's just a joke, brah" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I see throwaway flairs participating as normal. Shouldn't be a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Check the wiki: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/flair_guide Your account isn't old enough to be assigned flair at this time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Don't feel bad about backsliding. It happens. And during lockdown, you need to do what you need to do to make it through. I understand, because I went through quarantine for over two months, completely alone. I barely talked to anyone in that time and only went to the stores twice in that period. The loneliness was crippling and I cried a lot. But, you need to know that every time you open yourself up to your exes you are resetting the pain you will endure when things inevitably don't work out. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who wear the "I tell truth, take it or leave it, I dont care if you dont like it!!!" badge. Honest or emotionally immature?It's immature. These are the guys who think they're always right and that their way is the only way. And even if that is a huge personality trait of theirs, why do they need to announce it like that? An actual 'honesty is the best policy' person isn't going to be such a prick about it. I'm not giving one of those dudes a chance ever again, so as soon as a guy says that to me it's an instant dump. I really don't care what anyone else thinks about me, so some douche who thinks his 'truth' is impor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 26 | Y'all... WTF?! How has she not broken up with him yet?! (Spotted on r/Dentistry)How are his teeth not hurting? The plaque would be getting deep into the gums by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Yeah, I usually do that. Just bizarre. I thought it was me lmao I don't think you're thinking of me? I was in a relationship that ended a while ago. We got back together under the agreement that he would propose after a few more months. He didn't propose but got mad I wouldn't have sex with him anymore. So I told him to fuck off. He hasn't called or anything since then lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:34 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Yeah, I would actually argue that most people who say that haven't read FDS or TRP extensively. I've read a lot of red pill theory, and once you look into it they are not similar. They do both push bettering yourself, but I would argue that the gender roles TRP pushes are much more harmful than FDS. FDS acknowledges gender differences (both biologically and socially), but I don't believe FDS encourages it. FDS merely seeks to help women maintain themselves and navigate what we've been exposed to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:29 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Interesting. I'd never heard of "The League" before. I downloaded it and took a look. I don't do social media outside of reddit so I don't have a linkedin or fb for the app to source info from, and it looks like a one month subscription to the app is $130. So, I don't think I'll be going for it. I wouldn't mind being waitlisted but I don't have that many pics to share. I might check it out in a couple months, but I don't want to pay that much if I'm kinda eh about dating right now. It is definit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 36 | Girls, HVM behaviour?I just cringed because absolutely - have done this x.x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:11 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I've never really used the apps for dating before, and never planned to. But due to covid, I thought it might be okay to see who's around to chat with and maybe meet in the future. But, I can't figure out if I'm socially retarded or not. I try to start chatting with a dude and they... never ask me anything about myself? Is this not how a conversation is supposed to go? I eventually get tired of trying to keep a convo going. I told one guy I got Subway and he asked me what I get on my sub and I j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 15 | Update to last week's postCongrats! I just went through something similar, but it took me much longer than it did for you. I don't think the ultimatum/deadline thing was dumb - I think that, when used for your own peace of mind, it is a good tool to keep. But, I much prefer things to be black/white. I don't believe in complicating things, and with an ultimatum/deadline everything is there and quite clear for both parties what the expectation is. However, when it comes to this that usually means the relationship is dead a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 219 | Girls, HVM behaviour?I wax my arms and shave everything but my head/face, but contrary to popular belief it's actually more hygienic to have at least some pubic hair. It protects against friction, which can cause its own issues. A man can admit he likes a clean-shaven woman, but if he claims it's due to "hygiene" then he's a fucking idiot and you should stop seeing him just because he's stupid. Own your preferences and don't try to be a little bitch ass justifying your shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:15 PM |
| 90 | Feminist spaces are not necessarily FDS spaces. Beware of the wolves in such subsI think this is obvious, isn't it? There are feminist subs on Reddit that don't see outside their brand of feminism and would call a lot of other forms of feminism "misandry". LibFems in particular believe their form of feminism is the only right form. PinkpillFeminism is one of my favourite subs, because I see it as a merging of many forms of feminism. In particular, there are a lot of radfems on that sub, and a LOT of radfems believe men are inherently worthless. They believe that if a human i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 07:25 AM |
| 19 | Boys after you treat them how they treat your u me?? Literally same! Caught him cheating SIX times and said fuck this, so I rebounded fast after I finally found my spine again because who needs that shit. Somehow I was BIGGEST BITCH EVER because I moved on right away. Like ??? Cheating men are just... pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:54 PM |
| 180 | I Love Men: An Open LetterMen know. They aren't stupid. They just pretend to be stupid so that when they're called out on their shit they can act like they didn't know better, so his mommy-girlfriend can stop yelling at him and bring him another sandwich. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:11 AM |
| 17 | She's buying a HOUSE, asks him to go on the mortgage, asks for nothing towards down payment, he says no... because he's her estate agent and wants the commission. Whole load of NAH.And I hope she picks a house she loves. Who cares what he wants if she's the one buying and he can't even talk to her. He sounds like scum, and he's too close to her to be doing his job for her anyway. He should be looking out for her best interests as a boyfriend and as a real estate agent. He sucks at everything. He should be fired from both positions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:01 AM |
| 45 | She's buying a HOUSE, asks him to go on the mortgage, asks for nothing towards down payment, he says no... because he's her estate agent and wants the commission. Whole load of NAH.Last week we came to a disagreement on our future. I wanna settle down and start a family. He wants to live together for a while ( I don’t know what he means by that and he didn’t answer how long he needs) before he commits. The tone of the entire post sounds like she senses he's quite non-committal toward her in general, but this line says it all. If he hasn't even committed why she is wanting to put his name on anything?? STUPID. And if he hasn't proposed, don't live with him. If he hasn't exp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:56 AM |
| 10 | All women need to be woken up so that we can raise our standards as a collective. Let's present a unified front, with a steady increase in required investment from men. One that reflects our worth. Every woman we can wake up, adds to our momentum. We can be an unstoppable force for change, together.Where is there blame? Where did I blame anyone for anything? They are free to behave however they want, but I'm not going to go to bat for them. Some women are not allies. So many women tried to help me in my last abusive relationship, but I didn't listen to anyone. This is true for most women, which is why stats say it takes a woman an average of 7 attempts to leave an abuser before they finally do. Women will only wake up if they want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 7 | All women need to be woken up so that we can raise our standards as a collective. Let's present a unified front, with a steady increase in required investment from men. One that reflects our worth. Every woman we can wake up, adds to our momentum. We can be an unstoppable force for change, together.I agree, plus women who engage in extensive pickme behaviour often don't care about what they are doing. Some of them are legitimately trying to do their best in the hopes of attaining the long-term goal of a family or whatever, but there are others that don't consider long-term consequences of their behaviour and don't seem to care. Trying to make a change by even arguing some of the points FDS talks about just gets you call a "slut-shamer" or a "misandrist", or you're defying "my body my choic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:04 AM |
| 26 | More Bad Advice From RPWRight? I cackled. Like, talk about getting a man to commit to you when he's actually married you. No one gives a fuck about your stupid boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:54 PM |
| 32 | More Bad Advice From RPWThey will commit to you once you show them you are a keeper Not true. I slaved over the last two men I dated, and got nothing. When I was pissed the fuck off they would dangle fake promises of moving in together or marriage, but nothing would ever come of it. If anything, my slaving away over their shit just proved to them how desperate I was to be picked by some dude. Never do wife shit if you aren't a wife! Ever! Let a man see how you run your own life and he can decide if he wants to be part … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Hey, thanks for your concern! I have worked things out with my employer - I do pretty much everything around here, as it was an agreement for them to pay for my dental assistant training and education. I have to go in regardless to keep everything up to date and make sure patients are being updated or contacted if they have emergencies. They floated me a small loan until we're all back to work. Anything I work will be taken off what I owe them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Hey! Thanks for replying! Yes, we did watch it and it was actually amazing! I didn't become bored once during that time. I should have expected it, as I did love everyone involved. Just had no idea a movie could be consistently entertaining for so long. So well-written! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Kind of pissed that I'm temporarily laid off according to my employer, but that they still expect me to go into the office a few days a week to check up on things. One of my off days (I wasn't expected to go in) I was just so bored I came into work anyway to do some tidying. But still. Also, the lack of communication and expectations for all of this is absolutely stupid. I get that no one knows what to expect, but no one is communicating what I'm even supposed to be doing with our patients. Also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 06:00 PM |
| 27 | Lvm as negligent fathers!!I read that and instantly thought of a friend I have. Her and her child's father had split, and he would leave the baby alone like this when it was his turn to have the kid. He left the baby crying in his crib for so long that someone had called the cops. When the cops arrived they found the baby unattended to in a disgusting diaper with a rash all over his body. The father had been smoking pot and playing video games. That kid was immediately taken away from both parents and placed into foster … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:59 PM |
| 50 | More kneejerk defenses of porn and threats we’re all going to die alone unless we accept it. “Nice Guys” don’t make overt threats, they wrap it up in some concern trolling.Of all the things that could have been said, he chose to attack FDS' dislike of porn. Priorities, much? Also, I was unable to find an accurate statistic for the percentage of men that use porn. I only found one website that cited "over 98 percent of men watch porn". Others that I found cited anywhere from 76 percent - 92 percent, with an interesting point that 22% of the percentage of males using porn are under the age of 10. I do not believe the number is anywhere around 98 percent. I do believ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:50 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Well, it's official, my workplace is officially shut down. I'm on reduced hours to catch up on odds-and-ends, and I'm still getting paid regularly, but anything they over-pay me in this time period will be slowly docked from my paycheques once normal hours resume. Not gonna lie, this whole thing is starting to freak me out, so I likely won't be posting much on reddit for now. Dating and gender politics is one of the last things on my mind right now. I have an autoimmune disorder, so I'm trying t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:48 PM |
| 91 | nOWhat the absolute fuck? That's a good way to get in with a real control freak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Struggling to Understand something about FDSSis, you didn't read the handbook. Some of your questions and statements are really bizarre. If you'd like to believe a HVM is just a simp, you do you, but don't come at other users here who have done the reading. Maybe redpillwomen is better suited to your belief system. edit: lmfao she deletes the comment. But according to her a HVM just can't do better than us and is someone who jumps when we tell them to jump. Troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:04 AM |
| 15 | I feel ill after reading this, especially with all these children involved.mte. I somehow doubt whatever arrangement she attempted to get with the lawyer will protect her if those other women come at him to try to get child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 10:53 PM |
| 83 | I feel ill after reading this, especially with all these children involved.It also feels weird because he's going to strangers homes and passing off his sperm. I guess it could be worse. He could be having sex with them... I don't usually like to respond to anything like this, but: Oh, honey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 15 | Struggling to Understand something about FDSThen aren't we kind of circling back to this incel-y idea that feminism and strong boundaries have ruined women and set up wrong expectations? What? What's the point of having these strong rules if you'll end up alone? So that you'll never stand for being treated like shit ever again. I've had one decent relationship in the four long term relationships I've had. I've had many more dudes than that be disrespectful in the first couple of dates. You have to be secure in yourself and your own value … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 12 | Struggling to Understand something about FDSI've met a couple. One of them is one of my dearest friends and he really relates to the struggle of trying to find someone who dates explicitly with the purpose of potential marriage. We're in different life stages right now. Another I think tried some dumb shit when he was younger, but he's grown into a dude with good values, if a bit worried about dating a bad chick again. Keep in mind my group runs in late twenties - mid thirties. No young'ns around here. But I absolutely do believe that any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:37 PM |
| 6 | Struggling to Understand something about FDSBeautiful comment. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Because asking for a financially stable man who truly loves and respects me, as well as treats me like his equal and puts in effort into grooming himself and is not a psychopath is not a hypocritical demand (this was in reaction to my last post here btw).r/FDSSuperFans Thank god we have MuscleT to tell it like it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 36 | Struggling to Understand something about FDSA true man who is really valued, say, wealthy, handsome, good social standing, etc, is probably not going to want to go through all these hoops of no hookups, etc, when life comes so easily to them. There are men who don't believe in casual sex, even for themselves. And there are men who have tried hookups and realise that isn't what they want in their lives. Not all good-looking, decent men are manwhores. And having some serious coin in the bank doesn't make a man high value. A high value man i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 31 | Wtf happened to men?The answer is not putting money above human dignity. It has very little to do with what economic model is chosen. Pornography is not dignified for anyone. Facts. | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 10 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorI'm sorry about your update, OP. I hope you can move on from this and find someone who makes you a priority and makes you very happy and feel loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:01 PM |
| 20 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorLook, I've done LDRs. Twice. With men literally halfway across the world in opposite day/night cycles where seeing each other every few weeks was not an option. Not once did one of them ever turn me down or make alternate plans for talking on the phone/video-calling. One man I was with for five years. The other was over a year. He isn't serious about this. I'm fairly certain of that. You would do better to find someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:53 PM |
| 24 | Wtf happened to men?All of the above is now becoming socially acceptable. Men don't hold themselves accountable for anything. Which is why they are falling behind in schools and in universities compared to women. And with all of this liberalism bullshit, all of this is allowed to continue. It's just accountability. The majority of people do what feels good in the moment without considering others, or even the potential negative effects on their own lives. They probably don't consider five or ten years ahead. | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 55 | Wtf happened to men?Porn is a huge industry. It makes bank. There's plenty of statistics you can look at for yourself. Even the lowest estimates of how much money it makes are in the billions. And the resulting ED and all the issues that come with it can be "fixed" by big pharma. So, now big pharma has a hand in the pot. This is just capitalism. That's how it works. It matters very little what the effects on the general population are. As long as the majority of people keep going to work and participating in the ma… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceBut yet your own bias toward childless women* demonstrates that while you may find it hypocritical, you don't care to the extent that you would shoo away a childless woman under 30 who may want to date you, despite the intense baggage and red flags you're demonstrating as clearly listed by u/curlygirl507 I don't care if you address the questions. But you should definitely consider what you, a man over 40 and probably closer to 50, would offer a childless woman. And I don't respect divorced men w… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 06:20 PM |
| 24 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorIt doesn't matter. If he wants this to be a thing he should be more serious about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:59 PM |
| 38 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorWait, this is literally a new relationship? Not newly LDR? Then this is the point where he should be most excited to see you. Men usually do the "I wanna ditch you to spend time with my bros" thing later in the relationship, not when it's fresh. I don't think he's as serious about this relationship as you want him to be. Don't waste your time in an LDR like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:54 PM |
| 63 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorIn his mind, that meant his duty to date me once a week was checked off the list, and he could go out with a friend tonight. Dump. Once a week is not enough, and he clearly doesn't even want to see you more. A man should want to spend time with you, especially if it's already so limited. Fuck that shit. Just ghost and block. He can have all the space he wants lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:40 PM |
| 40 | Male lurkers are pathetic.It's the funniest thing in the world. My own father claims to be MGTOW, but he's literally always trying to keep a girlfriend around and is super bitchy when he doesn't have one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:05 PM |
| 21 | Male lurkers are pathetic.Oh absolutely, he's trolling. And if you did answer his question with one of his options, he can fly back into the hive and REEEE about your answer with the other worker bees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:03 PM |
| 87 | Male lurkers are pathetic.I actually don't have a problem with any male lurkers aside from MGTOW. They are literally supposed to be going their own way, why the fuck do you care what women are talking about or doing? And then every time I ask one they just say "Oh, like I haven't heard that one before" without answering why they even bother Son, it doesn't make my question less funny or the way you utilise your time less hilarious. I don't go lurk around in your garbage, so stay out of mine lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 14 | Dating with Kids Post-Divorcehow many single women without kids automatically rule out single dads as potential suitors? Why wouldn't you want to date single mothers? You say you would, but why do you prefer women without children? What do you offer single women without children? This SCREAMS entitlement to me. The fact that you're even weighing the pros and cons of this. You already have your own children. You say in a comment that this is about deprogramming TRP and PUA... but clearly some part of you still believes a sin… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 329 | Using the term 'simp' is just another attack on womenMen: women oNLy datE aSSHolEs! tHey DOn'T lIkE me BeCAUSE i'M SucH A niCe gUy! Also men: You brought her food?! Pussy-whipped simp! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 92 | The dangers of BDSM. Woman’s husband slaps her outside of a “scene” and the comments are full of people blaming her and telling her not to “just talk to him”.Tonight I was horny and we were laying in bed watching a tv show. I climbed on top of him and he said he wasn’t in the mood. We had sex last night but before that we had both been sick with the flu and then I had my period. So we hadn’t had sex since February 11. He then tells me I am a sex addict. That's why I'll never initiate sex, ever. I've had similar things said to me the times I did. Or they can't get into it. Men pretend they want women to ask them out, call to see how they are, plan dat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 57 | My selfish ex who called me on my birthday in a really rude way just texted again a month later. I hope the idiot realizes I was such a light in his life but he’s so selfish he probably just thinks he’s bored.You should just block him. But really, it's incredible men are so incapable of letting go of their exes. They always need the last word. And when a woman isn't blowing up his phone trying to get his lame-ass back they can't comprehend it lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 15 | What do you think about have a secret bank account? Husband finds wife’s secret savings account (in case the marriage goes south) and feels betrayed. I’m leaning towards thinking this is fine but I want your takes on this!I agree. That's why separate accounts solves that problem. He has no right to say shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:50 PM |
| 116 | What do you think about have a secret bank account? Husband finds wife’s secret savings account (in case the marriage goes south) and feels betrayed. I’m leaning towards thinking this is fine but I want your takes on this!I think every woman should have a fuck-off-fund available. To what amount? I don't know. But it should be a thing. And I don't believe in having completely joint finances. There should be two separate accounts (one yours, one your husband's), and one account that is joint expressly for the purpose of paying bills. All bills are paid out of that account automatically, and husband and wife have their individual accounts set to automatically put a set amount in the shared account to pay for said bi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:41 PM |
| 86 | A list of Liberal Feminism’s Effect on RelationshipsLess pressure for men to provide or contribute to relationships financially They provide less money and still think they can come home and do fuck-all. Even today, there's another post in AITA about some woman who works full time, who has a husband bitching that he shouldn't be expected to work around the house because he works. Well, so does she. Now what? Women being gaslit into pretending the side effects of birth control are minor to serve the narrative that the pill is a miracle cure to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 72 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.Well, at least he's acknowledging men are the problem lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 45 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0inglol well, they can say that but I'm not going to go out with a man who won't take the initiative. Not worth it for me. Oh well, guess I'll be missing out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:51 PM |
| 8 | How many dates do you try to go on a week?I have very limited time during normal people hours lol I work long hours (thankfully with several breaks in between so I can chill on my phone). I go to spin class 2-3 times per week after work. I have agility class once per week after work. So, during those days I'm getting home around 8:00 - 8:30. Still have to make dinner or scarf some leftovers down when I get home. I go on about two dates per week, usually weekends only. Half the time, it's even just one date on the weekend.. I could make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Shitty week. Was dizzy and sick on Wednesday, and took my first day off work in over a year. I couldn't keep much down and basically only ate dry toast. I think it's my bad, though, I haven't been eating much and it probably caught up to me. But, on the plus side, I still got to assist by myself for the first time for two days! I've been training to be a dental assistant for a few months now, so that was interesting. Not as bad as I thought it would be. No idea what I'm doing yet this weekend. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is EstablishedThanks for the linkage. The breakdown in the comments clarified that a bit. I guess it is really just about finding a dude who can jive with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 42 | What would a world without women look like? On March 9, Mexico may find out as women strike"After a string of gruesome killings of women, feminist activists here began wondering: What if we all just disappeared? Mexico is about to find out. Women across the country are being urged to skip work next Monday, stay off the streets and purchase nothing for 24 hours. The March 9 national strike, which is being promoted as #UNDIASINMUJERES, or “a day without women,” is meant to deliver an economic punch to cast light on what activists describe as a crisis of violence." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | And here we have another pickmeisha in the wildAnd the fact that she cares if he thinks that's "weird". Her boundaries and desires are second to his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020True, I can definitely see that. Ironically, 'My Melancholy' is like, the best thing he ever put out imo. 'Privilege' is my jam whenever I'm feeling down - I just drink and listen to that song. Super cringe lmao Don't get me started on Drake!! He goes around hanging out with teenage girls and acts like he's a fucking philanthropist for it. Creepy pervert. Really demonstrates his immaturity and lack of self-awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020LMAO yeah you're true on that. It's just that so-called 'deepness' you mention that pisses me off. Actually, someone I know is a bigger fan of his music than I am and says that most of his songs are supposedly about heroin... like that's better lmao I'm so glad I'm not the only one who enjoys his music and simultaneously finds the lyrics awful. My brain is confused every time I listen to him... which is... actually a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:15 PM |
| 14 | Needing a reality checkSocial media blurs the lines in these circumstances. If not for SM people in these situations (past hookups, etc) would NOT be keeping in touch. Beautifully said and hard agree. I don't have social media and the way people interact with it is seriously bizarre to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:12 PM |
| 147 | Porn has convinced men that violent sex is OK. It ISN'T. A man who wants to strangle during sex has paired sex and violence.This makes me sick. I had a really wonderful teacher in high school. He was our English teacher. One day he came into class really upset about something, and he went on a rant to the entire class about sex and why it was special and it was supposed to be between people who loved each other. He said that no one who loves you will ever try to make you do something you have said you don't want to do. That no one who loves you will ever try to make you do something you are uncomfortable with. And th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:32 PM |
| 15 | Needing a reality checkI don't know what you can do now, as you are already attached to him. But, if it bothers you that much, I don't think this relationship is the right one for you. I used to be chill with dudes being friends with their exes. SO CHILL. But then, that backfired in my face a couple times. I, personally, am never friends with exes. It doesn't interest me, and I'm not the personality type who can be happy my ex is happy with someone else. So I just don't bother. And I expect the same from my partners -… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Am I the only one who thinks The Weeknd's After Hours is the ultimate fuckboy anthem? It's like all the things a stupid fuckboy thinks a woman would want to hear, but really just makes me want to slap him silly. Actually, I really enjoy most of his music but so many of the lyrics are just... skin crawl-y. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Men’s Tendency To Overestimate Women’s Sexual Interest May Not Have A Direct Evolutionary Basis After AllRight? Supposedly it's supposed to make us want to prove ourselves to them lmfao I mean, if a guy believes that shit is supposed to work then he deserves to be filtered out of the gene pool anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:44 PM |
| 65 | I’m being told in the original comments on r/niceguys that I should have been nicer to this guy that is married going behind his wife’s back. Apparently “No thank you” isn’t nice enoughNot as ugly on the inside as Cheaty McCheaterson They have no sense of self-awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 20 | Dating Over Thirty, the shitshowYep, I found FDS because of DoT, tbh. I saw it mentioned in the sidebar and I was like "there must be lulz to be had!", and 'lo and behold it was exactly what I was looking for in DoT. Some of the shit I see posted over there I'm just facepalming. And the advice the women get there is usually terri-bad. I barely even lurk there anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 09:25 PM |
| 86 | Dating Over Thirty, the shitshowlol I scoped your comments to catch some of the shitshow. One of those dudes straight-up said he worries some chick will use him on rotation for a free dinner and a 'glittery' gift? Ain't no self-respecting woman got time to date men just for a dinner and MAYBE a piece of jewelry. SO DUMB. Like, I get paid more per hour than the cost of an entree at a mid-range restaurant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 36 | Men’s Tendency To Overestimate Women’s Sexual Interest May Not Have A Direct Evolutionary Basis After AllLiterally this happened all the time in James Bond films, and still happens in plenty of modern films. The woman repeatedly turns him down, but eventually she just ~can't resist~. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 36 | Men’s Tendency To Overestimate Women’s Sexual Interest May Not Have A Direct Evolutionary Basis After AllLVMs will neg themselves into a corner Oh, they absolutely will. My first encounter with negging was really confusing to me. Even when I was naive and 'pickme', I was still argumentative. Some guy came up to me and made a rude comment about me, comparing me to the girl I had obviously arrived with. I argued with him a bit, asking him why he even gave a shit, and eventually got tired of him. Later he came up and asked me to dance and I was so confused because it hadn't even seemed like he'd liked… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 07:35 PM |
| 120 | Men’s Tendency To Overestimate Women’s Sexual Interest May Not Have A Direct Evolutionary Basis After Alloverall, the men over-perceived their partners’ interest, while the women under-perceived it. I'm a total asshole for this, but I cackled at this line [...] the more interested they were, the more interested they thought the other person was in them This is just ego. I never assume or believe someone is interested me (although my motto is keep your expectations low and you will never be disappointed). This entire study: Men confirmed for having over-inflated egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How to meet guys aside from OLD?That's a great idea! My friend met a really nice (and cute!) guy at a writing camp she went to every year. They didn't work out, but they dated for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:01 PM |
| 16 | When Guys Play the Victim | Shallon LesterI am gonna love this roast, then. He's such a hypocritical dirtbag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 05:50 PM |
| 9 | How to meet guys aside from OLD?I'm gonna repost an old comment of mine: OLD sucks, and I don't even bother with it. I've never met anyone decent on it and all of my friends are with good men they've met in real life. My male friends tried it, but all of them ended up dating women they met in real life (usually introduced to them by friends or co-workers). I think the best option is to just go out and do things you genuinely already enjoy. Are you into politics or the environment? Find a group for that, and don't go into it ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 05:49 PM |
| 78 | When Guys Play the Victim | Shallon LesterI haven't had a chance to watch this as I'm almost done my commute, but Pete's a skeazebag. The shit he's said about Ariana is fucking gross. Even recently he said this: "Can you imagine that? My career would be over tomorrow if I spray-painted myself brown and hopped on the cover of Vogue magazine and just started s****ing on my ex.” So he didn't have a problem with her spray tan when he was the one banging her, but now that they're done suddenly he gets to make shitty comments like that? Nice,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Same answer. I've used it before "Oh, I'm just seeing what's out there, I'm not really sure what I want right now" - and no one can say I didn't warn them because that answer sure isn't leading anyone on. But if you're a few dates in, you should say "I don't want anything serious", and don't be upset if they decide they are no longer interested in you or if they actively start pursuing other people and make that clear to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I would just say "I just want to see what's out there", and see what kind of responses you get. I wouldn't say casual, as I feel that may get you 'that kind of casual', as you said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:59 PM |
| 5 | A men who understands women...I love that this got gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I had a lovely weekend! On Friday, I met up with one of my friends for afternoon mimosas and desserts. Saturday was a wonderful day of resting, and I organised more of my spare room (it's going to be my wardrobe, makeup room, and gaming room). I also ordered a bunch of clothes, and I am very much looking forward to it. Sunday I had a date. Had a couple drinks at dinner, went to a movie, and then had a couple more drinks and appetizers before going home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 37 | Sentient MGTOW trash messaged me this morning. After responding, I thought I'd check his profile and found these. Why don't "MGTOW" ACTUALLY GO THEIR OWN WAY and GTFO of our sub!WiLL sOmEonE tHiNK of tEh WhiTE mENZ?!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 25 | How will you cope if it doesn’t work out?It doesn't bother me. I'm fully aware of the possibility I may never find a life partner. I would rather be alone than deal with lies, cheating, or bad behaviour. I would rather be alone than be someone's clown. I've been hurt real bad, and I don't think I can trust anyone ever again. If a man isn't cheating he's usually lying about something else. After about five months of no sex I barely even miss it anymore. I don't even get myself off, it's just... whatever. Sometimes the desire hits but it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:45 PM |
| 153 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)Ew. His texts are so off-putting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 31 | I’m Not Having Sex Until I Love YouI was thinking of a thread I saw where they were REEE-ing about FDS because of the way demisexuality is talked about here and I all I could do was roll my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:20 PM |
| 15 | Are Asian men normally very distant?I've dated Korean and Filipino men that were not like that. It's not right to generalise. Sure, culture influences a lot of things, but even Chinese & Korean cultures are very different from Japanese. That's something you need to work on with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 11 | I keep meeting LVM with no successful careers to the point where I’m considering trying a sugar daddy dating website.Very, very true. They provide the girlfriend experience and don't get paid hourly for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:53 PM |
| 32 | I keep meeting LVM with no successful careers to the point where I’m considering trying a sugar daddy dating website.I wouldn’t want a guy to ever think I owe him sex just because he’s nice to me Do you really believe a 'sugar daddy' is going to pay to spend time with a woman and not have sex with her? He's going to feel more entitled to get all up in your business and the 'arrangement' will not last if you don't put out. You can think I'm lying, but I've known so-called sugar babies. They are prostitutes with less clients. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 214 | I’m Not Having Sex Until I Love YouIt's fucking sad that this has become something that is portrayed as outlandish or prudish. The absolute state of this world we have created. Then I realised I’d rather be alone forever than let one more man see me naked and touch me when he knows full well he has no intention of speaking to me again once he’s cleared my front stoop. But, he’s going to watch all my Instagram stories and text me in six months and actually expect me to subway to his place in the rain. I couldn’t fucking do it anym… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 24 | Reminder not do date mama boys.I saved your post. I had a workaholic boyfriend and I begged him to move in with me because it was the only way I felt we'd ever actually see each other. I rarely ever saw him. And then one day his mother sent him a bunch of texts crying about how lonely she was and he moved in with her instead. He hid it from me and then tried to surprise me with it one night. I broke down crying in the bathroom over it all but somehow I was the unreasonable one. He was 36! I was trying to have a family of my o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:48 AM |
| 40 | Reminder not do date mama boys.Wife: I told my husband that I want it to be just us two in the hospital and we could have friends and family over the house later Asshole husband: He says that he didn't know how serious I meant it Reddit: wHy Don'T yOU tRY to comMunICatE How about men should fucking listen and ACTUALLY CARE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Sounds delish! I actually hate sharing sushi lmao, I turn into Joey as soon as you put the platter in front of me. I'd rather have it all to myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 45 | Paris Hilton says ending her engagement was 'the best decision I’ve ever made... It feels good to not have someone controlling me,’I watched her vid on youtube (it popped up in my recommends and I was tipsy) where she makes a lasagna and I couldn't tell if it was a joke or not lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Honestly, that's just stuff you have to ask him if you're dating him. And consider for yourself. Do you want that baggage in your life? What about vacations? Do you have to pay for everything fun because all his extra money goes to his mom? If he's uncomfortable with the discussion that says all you need to know. If you see yourself wanting to be married, you deserve to know and as soon as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 82 | LVM thought he could get away with a $6 engagement ring from Amazon. His fiancee found out when she was going to resize it at a jewelry store otherwise she would've been fooled.Why do some dudes think a $6.00 ring is equal in quality to a more expensive one? Even if you disagree with diamonds, you still want a quality band with a stone hard enough to put up with daily wear and use. They're supposed to last decades, which a $6.00 ring will not. It would have become tarnished and ugly very quickly and she would have found out eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Good on you! I love going to movies alone! The first time I ever did it was for the Lion King cartoon re-release. When you think about it, the movie theatre isn't a social activity anyway. It's nice to talk about it with someone when the movie is done, but you should never miss a film you want to see in theatres just because no one wants to go see it. I hope you enjoy the cooking class! Please report back to us, as I've been debating going to some! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020As part of upgrading my wardrobe, I've been wanting to get some professional bags. I'm starting to have a decent handbag collection, and I kind of understand the whole thing with them now! When I go out with a nice, structured bag it really lifts my whole outfit. The past few weekends when I've gone out I've gotten some real props from some nicely dressed ladies and I feel good. The guy I've been dating has been responding well to it, too. I was thinking of finally getting my dream handbag - the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | CringeF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:27 AM |
| 79 | "Good luck finding a guy like that!": Do NOT fall for the LVM Cope."You'll never find a guy like that" is such bullshit For the big reason that: Why does anyone give a single flying fuck about who dies alone? Why does it affect anyone else but the person with the ~standards~? It doesn't. There is more to life than sexual relationships. The people who scream about other people with standards seem deeply insecure to me because... why do you care? If you need someone in your life regardless of what they are or are not adding to your life, that's a you problem. You… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | She needs this sub more than she needs that other sub... seriously. 🤦🏿♀️Ah, gotcha. Admittedly I'm not super duper active on there because it's a slower board. I've seen a little bit of that, but not too much. Makes me sad, I just want a space to talk about beauty in a nice way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 9 | She needs this sub more than she needs that other sub... seriously. 🤦🏿♀️I'm in my 20s and active on Vindicta. What makes you think the older women aren't working on other things like their careers and educations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 52 | Frogs rule, LVMs drool!This seems like a major incompatibility. If he's so bothered by the frogs he doesn't want to even see them, then... nah. The moment he said "he's not a huge fan of animals", he said why it wouldn't work out between them. She loves animals, so much so that it's going to be part of her career. I don't see how that's going to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 48 | She needs this sub more than she needs that other sub... seriously. 🤦🏿♀️I didn't really realise so many girls in that sub were actually doing it just for men. Kinda disappointed. "Loving yourself" doesn't mean look like a slob - it means you love yourself enough to accept all of who you are, and that ability will mean you can pick yourself up and rinse off your wounds when a man hurts you. But you are absolutely correct. Cheating men will cheat even if the woman they're already with is beyond gorgeous. It has nothing to do with not being 'good enough' or 'pretty eno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 6 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡Absolutely, that's the important thing for anything: think for yourself, decide what works for your own circumstances and for your own life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡That's fair, and I did understand where you were coming from. But there are chicks out there who fight against this sub and say tHAt's NoT fEmInISM when, yes, it is lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 39 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡idk, maybe I'm old, but I don't think I'd even want a relationship with a man who tried to sleep with me on the first date. Like, how many other women has he slept with is all I could think of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 11 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡Those women are lying to themselves and they need to be honest about it. I have a friend who would sleep with men and she didn't expect them to call her nor did she care. Half the time she didn't even give her number out if it was a dude she met in a bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 11 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡I think the feminist take is that That's not necessarily true. That's a feminist take, depending on who you ask, but there are so many forms of feminism now that some would argue against you for that. There are feminists who believe all women should ignore men and stay away from men as much as possible, even going to the extreme of cutting off your male family. Just as there are different forms of capitalism, socialism, etc, there are different forms of feminism and it isn't accurate to cut out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 69 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!That's the grossest thing about this! I wouldn't even care much otherwise, but like... it's like she's playing her own violin. "I don't want flowers like those other girls, I don't need expensive handbags like those other girls, I don't need a fancy engagement ring like those other girls so why won't he marry me abloobloobloo" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 97 | Doing the workI do wish we had more posts about our own leveling up, but I think that for some women it's deeply personal. But yeah... I wish there was more strategy talk, a little less memes/screenies, more posts about people's dating updates, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!maybe this? I'm sorry, I just picked the most ridiculous one lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 142 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!Yeah, she has no standards because the man she's with doesn't give a shit what her standards are. She's staying without a ring so why should he change the status quo. I bet they live together too lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 132 | Reddit once again promotes that men's feelings are more important then a woman or his child's life.lol the top comment "whose* wife decided not to get a job while pregnant" Obviously a male. A stupid one. She had just finished grad school. Why bother getting a job for all of a couple months? Her pregnancy sounded rough - I sincerely doubt she could have worked much once her belly started getting bigger and heavier. I sincerely think men need to be educated on pregnancy and childbirth in school - like junior high or something. All the shit I read on reddit just confirms how stupid, unsympathet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 29 | Example number 350,564 why you need a label/clarity ASAP.hahaha that guy is a fucking joke Pathological scammers who will suck you dry like a parasite devouring its host. They give you just enough to keep you going so you can keep bringing them supply. Disgusting. And she's gone along with it for a year, though, so... maybe she should take a hint. He doesn't want a label? Alrighty then, line up the scrotation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:11 AM |
| 46 | Am I taking FDS too far? Can’t get attached to my HV boyfriend of over a yearThe distance may be part of it, imo. I find if I'm not physically interacting with my partner very often then I seem to slowly shut off the passion. I still enjoy being around them, but it feels like I'm hanging out with a friend and not my romantic partner. I did long-distance (literally halfway across the world, completely opposite day/night cycles) for a long time with my first serious boyfriend. And I also had a period where I dated a guy who just barely made time to see me (like a couple ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 7 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Pick-up artists, sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:01 AM |
| 10 | Asking How to have a healthy mindset on loneliness/dating if you’re a child of narcissistic parents ? How to fight Pickmeisha ways ?So, I've been there. You likely need to do some serious self-reflection on your behaviours and what influences them. Every time a negative feeling in you is triggered you will need to do some thought on what is making you feel that way and why. You need to start reading about emotional neglect, and how to work through it. It is very possible you need a therapist for this. But you also need to realise that your upbringing makes you fodder for some men. There are people out there, male and female,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:20 AM |
| 45 | Reminder: we don't want to hear about your kinks or how much you love kink or how sorry you feel for men with tiny dicks and how women should have to date themSo glad someone else noticed this. I wasn't sure if I had just not noticed it before. I'm not trying to be asshole, but I want to read things that are purely FDS. I don't want to discuss its values or principles and the semantics of it. I just want to talk about what is in the sidebar and how it's affecting women out there trying to date, and maybe see some memes. That's all. Like, I'm happy if women see this as an empowering space but there are other female-only subs to discuss non-FDS stuff in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 21 | Asshole boyfriend dumps girlfriend because she still doesn’t look attractive to him after the nose job he pushed her into having.Yeah, then it's gotta be a low-effort post he typed up about his stupid fantasy where he gets to reject a woman who is clamouring desperately for his attention and acceptance pfftt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:08 AM |
| 26 | Reminder: we don't want to hear about your kinks or how much you love kink or how sorry you feel for men with tiny dicks and how women should have to date themPick and choose what you like and don't like. No one knows what to apply to your life but you. No one knows your strengths and weaknesses. I come here because all my friends come from pretty normal families and are starting their own. I just got out of something long-term and am starting to date again and I don't really want to bitch to my friends about it lol. I like that this place is female-only, and I can put all my thoughts here and just be purely positive and focus on non-dating stuff in r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:53 AM |
| 87 | Reminder: we don't want to hear about your kinks or how much you love kink or how sorry you feel for men with tiny dicks and how women should have to date themMaybe off topic, and I've only been here a couple months, but I feel like there's been some odd stuff in here the last two weeks or so. Stuff I just feel isn't really related to the sub, but maybe I'm wrong. I don't really report very often unless I'm just trying to block a user. So, I guess I'll keep an eye out for off-topic stuff because I don't really want to see it, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:38 AM |
| 32 | Asshole boyfriend dumps girlfriend because she still doesn’t look attractive to him after the nose job he pushed her into having.I feel bad about this whole situation, but ultimately I shouldn't be expected to stay with someone I feel no chemistry towards. WHY THE FUCK DID HE DATE HER THEN?! So he's an asshole and he's dumber than a bag of rocks. I hope it's a troll. I refuse to believe there is something this completely stupid in this world. Millions and millions of women on this planet and he dates someone he finds unattractive and goes "gee, why am I not attracted to her" It's not real. He wanted something from her, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 23 | Meeting HVM IRL: What settings to avoid or tryOLD sucks, and I don't even bother with it. I've never met anyone decent on it and all of my friends are with good men they've met in real life. My male friends tried it, but all of them ended up dating women they met in real life (usually introduced to them by friends or co-workers). I think the best option is to just go out and do things you genuinely already enjoy. Are you into politics or the environment? Find a group for that, and don't go into it expressly to date. Techy stuff? Find open d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 82 | Um, hard pass"Let's just see where things go! Keep it light-hearted!" and he proceeds to get salty when you make plans with your real friends (also upvote for the goddess that is Ariana) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:21 AM |
| 103 | Don't do threesomes to appease him - my experience with the fragile male egoHe finally confessed that because I said I wasn't that attracted to him, he couldn't get my comment out of his head. You didn't even say that. You said you were more attracted the the gf. You didn't say he was fugly. You didn't say he was unattractive. In fact, what you did was classy. This other woman is about to enter into a threesome with her man, and you were gracious to her and considerate to her. He's inconsiderate. He should have felt proud to have such a beautiful girlfriend. Instead, he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 13 | r/sex is finally waking up!Waitlist me, please. I'll buy one, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:32 PM |
| 14 | With all the porn they watch you’d think... oh wait.Hahahaha what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:30 PM |
| 110 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Dating multiple people at once, usually not someone even considering a serious relationship. This term is often used by PUAs and redpill men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 41 | How is being single worse than this? Woman’s (27F) husband starts emotional affair with coworker while his wife was pregnant, changed his phone passcode. She built a life with him for 10 years. He doesn’t try in therapy. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN.Right? Homewreckers gonna try to homewreck, but it's the man's job to be faithful to you. She doesn't give a shit about you if she's already going out with a married man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:58 PM |
| 350 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Wow, eating isn't casual anymore? Damn, how many of my friends am I getting serious with? We eat out together all the time. Holy shit. Do I need to put a ring on them soon? Should I tell them we need to slow things down? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:53 PM |
| 5 | LVM prioritizing spending time with his ex. His wife had his baby 4 months ago.Yeah I get that, kinda (I don't have kids or anything), but I wouldn't even want his trashy ass after that. They can leave and have their trashy little family together. I wonder if that other kid is actually his, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:19 AM |
| 8 | LVM prioritizing spending time with his ex. His wife had his baby 4 months ago.I really don't understand why she isn't doing everything in her power to do exactly that. Why put up with this? Drive them both away if you need to, but especially that woman - she's been told she isn't welcome in the home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 6 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themoh of course. FDScabinhomies haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 7 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themI vote we create a new sub called cabinhomies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 8 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themI'm trying to get my finances back together as I want to have an acreage in a couple years (a smaller one). Hopefully as far away from the cities as possible, assuming I can find something to give me an income. Otherwise, just outside the city. I want to build a really huge fence around my future property so my border collie can't wander off to chase cars. Then, I would like to get another border collie and a great pyrenees. Maybe some goats. I also want some chickens for eggs, but I don't think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | What is with Liberal Feminists and their cult-like dedication to bullying everyone into acting like every choice a woman makes is above criticism even when what they’re doing is clearly harmful or stupid as fuck?It's in the comments of pretty much every post by the automod So if you’ve got an XY, don’t reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How much do you spend on beauty?I used to love tallying up the cost of my 'face of the day' and everything, but I don't really think about that anymore. I have a lot of cosmetics. Some high end (Chanel, Shiseido), mid-range brands from Sephora, Korean (high end and low end), and drugstore. I used to be obsessed with makeup. So, now I shop my own stash and replenish what I use up. Skincare is mostly cheap-ish Korean products, outside of a moisturiser I love that costs me $80 every three months. I cut my own hair now. I just lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Because the things that annoy me are not low-value traits. They are just personality differences. Can we work past them? I don't know. He has a therapist for the things I've been talking to him about, and I have a therapist for the things that I'm supposed to be working on. I cried off and on because I was committed to walking away from the relationship if he didn't move things to the level I wanted. It was an ultimatum and I got what I wanted (for now). But I do appreciate your concern. This ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:37 PM |
| 9 | What is with Liberal Feminists and their cult-like dedication to bullying everyone into acting like every choice a woman makes is above criticism even when what they’re doing is clearly harmful or stupid as fuck?I did the legwork! No comments from that user were posted here within the past two months from what I saw. The poster made that post in response to a lot of the users here telling her 'friend' that the man she had sex with in his car on a first meeting who was totally HVM was not necessarily a HVM - you cannot know if someone is high value or not without knowing them for a while. No one called her a whore, they just said not to call some rando dude a HVM. I read that thread. Plus, it's funny she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 66 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"That first comment is savage and so true. I've known a lot of guys who care about having a fancy car that they can't even really afford, or sneakers so expensive I literally thought they were joking when they told me the cost. But a woman's ring that she's supposed to wear for the rest of her life? GaSP! ThE maTEriAlISm! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 5 | My experience using tinder for 4 yearsThis is such a great post. They will never have thoughts like "I wonder how she feels about this," or "I wonder if she would like to do such-and-such." This is very true, and often talked about in dating advice for women. I read the other day that no man has ever gone "gee, I wonder if I can get her to commit to me?". So, in my opinion, the only way to go is to embrace your single life and not really worry about men. A few of us will get lucky and end up with good ones, but most will not because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 53 | What is with Liberal Feminists and their cult-like dedication to bullying everyone into acting like every choice a woman makes is above criticism even when what they’re doing is clearly harmful or stupid as fuck?she'd have a field day with r/nametheproblem I really admire that you go out and try to challenge what people say about the sub and challenge what their line of thinking is like, but I don't think they are open to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:46 AM |
| 20 | Wonder Woman was woke (#32 1948)Yeah, I'm aware of all of this as I looked it up once the new Wonder Woman movie was being made. I grew up watching the original TV show with my dad and reading the comics. I still think a lot of the stuff she's said in the original comics are funny as shit, given that that was her origin story. I can definitely see where he's applied some of those ideas, don't get me wrong, but I also view it as a woman's capacity to love and how it can be used against her. Wonder Woman is truly the most fascin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:31 AM |
| 14 | Wonder Woman was woke (#32 1948)damn, did not expect you to reply like that. thank you :') no sarcasm here. I appreciate you saying that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:19 AM |
| 27 | Wonder Woman was woke (#32 1948)The script for this particular comic was written by a man. That should show you how men view loyal women who act as their servants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:10 AM |
| 9 | How do you stop hoping?I became jaded lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:05 AM |
| 45 | So many men have exes with BPD that it should be considered an epidemic at this pointThis. I love it when men tell me about their ex because then I can compare it how he treats me later in the relationship. Usually, he insults me for the same reasons he insulted his ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:20 AM |
| 101 | So many men have exes with BPD that it should be considered an epidemic at this pointlol, my dad is a total narc. I have watched him lie to women (say he hadn't divorced my mother yet as an excuse to not marry a woman), call a woman he chose to date fat as a reason he wouldn't have sex with her and then proceed to rage out when she left him and immediately started dating a man that appreciated her (and she cooked and cleaned for us every single night). I have watched him date two women at the same time and shame women for moving on from him quickly even though they were obviousl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:12 AM |
| 24 | [Discussion] Are you a feminist, anti-feminist, or neither? How do you think FDS relates to feminism? Do I even belong here?To be honest, depending on what your goal is in a relationship (like do you want kids, marriage, etc), a lot of what is posted here goes with modern dating advice for women. As an example, lots of people like to say the advice we take is from the '90s, but that's not true. Even today I was reading about if walking away from a man who doesn't have a solid timeline to commit to you is a good choice, and every article said that if you are marriage-minded, it is best to walk and see if he follows bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:01 AM |
| 17 | No thanks 🤮stanDaRdS? geT Out Of HeRe, You MAn-HaTiNg fEMiNazI! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:49 AM |
| 19 | No thanks 🤮gross. have some pride, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:22 AM |
| 23 | [Discussion] Are you a feminist, anti-feminist, or neither? How do you think FDS relates to feminism? Do I even belong here?Dammit, I love every single thing you post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:21 AM |
| 25 | [Discussion] Are you a feminist, anti-feminist, or neither? How do you think FDS relates to feminism? Do I even belong here?I'm not liberal even politically*. I think I am socially conservative, and economically socialist. I do not even believe in things like free speech as I am a supporter of hate speech laws which my country does have. As a feminist, I think I am a radical feminist. I do believe in the family unit, which I think is being destroyed - which variables affect this are up for debate. But I think casual sex is a destroyer of this. I am also 100% anti-sex-work, pornography, BDSM, etc. But you are in the r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 41 | One of the most egregious things I’ve read in a long time! LAOP’s husband left her and their 5 young children (1 with special needs), moved in with his girlfriend and cut LAOP off from every bank account, health insurance, and stopped paying the mortgage on the family home.Show me a man that stayed at home with the kids while his wife worked who had his wife walk out on him and their five kids, one with disabilities. Show me. Males are capable of next-level depravity. It sickens me. How do you trust something that can so easily do this kind of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 3 | FDS Rescue Mission: Woman is the third wheel in her bf's relationship with his dog.That's fair. Looks like my comment got removed so I guess moderation was in favour of your viewpoint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | FDS Rescue Mission: Woman is the third wheel in her bf's relationship with his dog.Point being, there was nothing in the thread to really say how uptight this guy is about his dog. She doesn't provide specific details. She says she's a dog hater. He has a dog. 80% sure he won't get rid of the dog. So, why did she start this relationship? Besides, everyone else in this thread is obviously on her side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:42 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Feeling really down. I went to do some weird hippy therapy shit with the guy I've been seeing last night. He's known me for years, and been asking me to go, so I finally did. I thought it was going to be a cute thing for us. As usual, it turned out he didn't view it the way I did. This opened another discussion during the argument. Basically, the relationship isn't where I want it to be. So, I said I thought we had different expectations of one another and I didn't want to continue anymore if th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:26 PM |
| 24 | Being passive aggressive is the keyAh yes, the dumb fox, right from the reading material on this sub: https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e017h7/the_dumb_fox_credo/ I really think it's the best way to get anything done as a female. I don't see any other options. If you directly tell a man what you expect or want, they can usually do it for a little while before they stop or just get resentful. It's better to wait, watch, and see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 66 | Guy tells his gf he’s moving in with another woman, gf says she’s done. Here come the Pickme’s with “I trust my bf but not other women.”God, I hate those chicks who go into threads all "weLLL I would trust my bf to move in with his female best friend/ex fuckbuddy/whatever the fuck" It's like, good for you, but the woman involved in whatever situation is not okay with it. What's your damn point? Humble-brag about how chill and woke you are in your own thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | All the single ladies, all the single ladies! I'm developing a dating app and would love to pick your brain about what you find annoying, helpful, and important when it comes to online dating through this anonymous (3-5 min) survey. Tell me your frustrations and successes! Thank you! 👯♀️That's my point. It's marketing. Hinge was supposed to be for people who are serious about relationships. I bet you there's plenty of men on there looking for something 'casual' or to 'see where it goes' lmfao Ultimately, all of the dating apps and sites are the same. Even the paid ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:45 PM |
| 191 | But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though...From wikipedia: Wade and longtime friend Aja Metoyer conceived a son Men do not have long-term, close female friends and not want to fuck them. That's an even bigger betrayal. It isn't some random chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 62 | These “my boyfriend was terrible on my birthday, am I an asshole for expecting him to not be terrible on my birthday?” type posts are causing me PHYSICAL PAINI read that this morning during my commute! Like, imo she's the asshole for even asking if she's the asshole. How much of a doormat do you have to be. And she's pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 3 | All the single ladies, all the single ladies! I'm developing a dating app and would love to pick your brain about what you find annoying, helpful, and important when it comes to online dating through this anonymous (3-5 min) survey. Tell me your frustrations and successes! Thank you! 👯♀️So, I did your survey. I don't really get how that's supposed to help your app, but you do you. But like, why do you care if people find 'ghosting' frustrating or not? If that scored highest for you in your survey, what do you hope to do about it? You can't force people to not ghost. I just don't see how much of what you focused on is going to help your development. It seemed more like a general survey about online dating, and less to app development. All-in-all, the questions were not what I ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 40 | What I do [27F] with my boyfriend [23M] that start to talk about his ex?Get out. He's a narcissist that is trying to triangulate you with her. Or he's a big baby and using you as a free therapist. He also wanna me to let my hair grows. (looks that he wanna me to looks like her, maybe?) Get out. You seem like a strong girl with a good head on your shoulders. He's going to tear down your self esteem. Even if you think you don't care and that you can withstand this behaviour, it will start to get at you. he cant let go what happened and that she hates him or the things… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:25 PM |
| 8 | FWB StupidityHe is allowed other relationships when she isn't with him but she is with him pretty much 24/7 (can’t keep a job). So, It isn’t working for me. Are you saying he's basically allowed to be with other women but she isn't? Have you talked to this woman yourself to verify any of his claims? I know she is at least highly verbally abusive to him and I am one of his only friends. He chooses to stay with her. He can leave. And he has no male friends of his own? It prob important to say that I love him m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 40 | Do not take him to your favorite restuarant/dessert place/park..etcI mean, I do, but I'm territorial and if some dude I used to date rolls up with his new chick I'mma still stay. If he's uncomfortable he can leave lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Dollface on Hulu for those looking for another FDS film/series.Nice! I've been debating giving this show a try! I'll probably start tomorrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 39 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendThe distinction for me is that I’m not moving in with a man unless he has expressed through words and actions that he wants to commit to me. Yes, and a ring would demonstrate that. I've been with men who are so great with words. The last guy I dated made it sound like we would be serious. He talked to me about getting a place for us, and we looked at places and then I moved in and then he changed his mind and only came over a couple times a week. So I had moved out of my home into a home better … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 52 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendI would move in with a fiance. If there is no marriage timeline set and agreed on then walk after the first year. I want a long engagement, anyway, so ideally I'd have a two year engagement, then marriage, then two years into marriage have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:28 PM |
| 74 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendGod, I asked for advice on a dog subreddit as the guy I'm seeing and I are trying to determine if we're a good fit and I casually mentioned we had talked about him proposing before we moved in together and some chick came in with "well, here's the relationship advice: move in together before you get engaged" First, I was asking about my fucking dog and how that would work with a person who doesn't have a dog. Also WHY? What is the benefit to me for that? If I want a longer engagement, who's fuck… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:24 PM |
| 109 | Trigger warning! I happened upon a disturbing subred...bUT FEmalEdaTingstRaTeGY is litERALly a HaTE sUB whY isn't iT bAnNeD REEeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:33 PM |
| 40 | How Dare We Have Standards...While the purpose of FDS had been women-centric and women-counseling, it seems to be issuing instructions on how women should live their lives and even putting labels on them because of their choices. Oh please. This is a BS argument. Women get labelled no matter what they do. Look at the words the Manosphere has for women - they have something for everyone! If women don’t agree with FDS’ rules or don’t fit the kind of mold FDS would like to put them into, the 54,000 members' strong online commu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:38 AM |
| 63 | Ben Affleck regrets losing Jennifer Garner because of course he does.Jennifer Garner is a classy lady, and I swear she looks better now than she ever did. She's a damn Queen. She did so much for him even after their divorce, when she really didn't have to. She's always put her kids first and I have so much respect for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 50 | Woman (F21) worries that her Boyfriend (M23) will never marry her....9 months after having his baby. She feels anxious and is worried that he will never commit. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT, LADIES!He can have a baby but he can't get married i DOn'T WanT OUr RELaTIonsHip to CHAnge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜So, I took a few days off so I got an extra long weekend. I feel much better than I did the past two weeks. The weekend wasn't bad. The guy I've been seeing surprised me on V-day with a couple gifts, which was nice. Then on Sunday we had our weekend date where he took me to a really nice brunch spot and we hung out for a bit and then went to the movies. Feeling much better about things with him after this weekend. If next weekend is good too then I'm hopeful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Secretive guysOr he's a drug dealer lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:38 PM |
| 30 | We don’t endorse lowering standards to attract men? The horror.https://erintaylorisalive.com/ https://observer.com/author/erin-taylor/ Lots of stuff for sex workers, if this is her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 13 | We don’t endorse lowering standards to attract men? The horror.lol! Yeah truth. What a world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 28 | We don’t endorse lowering standards to attract men? The horror.That's why I am completely against sex work. Sorry I didn't go ahead and specify slaves (which is exactly what a trafficked girl is). Obviously slaves are excluded from being 'sell outs' lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 65 | We don’t endorse lowering standards to attract men? The horror.The Verge reached out to Female Dating Strategy’s moderation team for comment. The moderators said they would only speak to us if we provided “valid government issued ID” as proof of identity, which we declined to do, and they declined or did not respond to other offers for verification. Based. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 52 | We don’t endorse lowering standards to attract men? The horror.I came here to say this. The things she shames us for are the values of third-wave feminists. Posts about sex workers can be incredibly whorephobic (a term used by sex workers to describe hatred toward sex workers that can be both relational, systemic, and societal), with comments on one post saying that abusive men should see sex workers instead of “normal women.” Sorry, but I don't see sex workers as allies. They sold out. Call me whatever you want, but that's some third-wave feminist bullshit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 14 | Boyfriend scheduled a weekend long trip with a male friend instead on spending valentine's day with meCould be. Sis is posting this on every subreddit she can think of. She isn't going to listen to anyone. Welp, we tried. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 13 | Heard we were doing Gone Girl quotes? I present to you my favourite shirtholy shit I need this. Where did you get this, OP? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 18 | Boyfriend scheduled a weekend long trip with a male friend instead on spending valentine's day with meI want to add to this, because the above is true: u/sabthefabk - This sub has a reputation around reddit for a reason. People like to come read what we post here and accuse us of being incels or toxic or whatever other negative word you want to put here. Why do you think so many of us post here so angrily? Because we all know exactly what this man is putting you through. I firmly believe a large part of the userbase that insults this sub is young and naive. Because every woman that posts here kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 20 | Boyfriend scheduled a weekend long trip with a male friend instead on spending valentine's day with mefrom u/traditsh: He's going to Miami with the guy who hires sex workers, rents fancy cars to attract women, and goes clubbing with, right? Miami is also in the top ten party cities in the world. But that doesn't matter. There's prostitutes, clubs, and hot chicks everywhere in the world. You don't trust him. You can't even say you are naive. You are trying to be willfully ignorant and failing because you already know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 22 | Boyfriend scheduled a weekend long trip with a male friend instead on spending valentine's day with meFuckboys hang out with other fuckboys. Do you think his friend would even want him along to Miami if his friend had no intention of participating in fuckboy activities? Don't even text him. Just ghost him. I know you probably don't have the balls to just ignore him, but that would hurt him the most. Men like him only care about their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I’m going to go buy my own flowers. I take myself out on dates. I take myself to concerts. I don’t let myself down.I don't have any exact tips. I just go alone and let myself be myself because the odds of running into those people again and being recognised are extremely low. So even if I ever made an ass of myself, it's not so bad. Girls are really easy to talk to, usually. I just compliment their outfits or their hair or makeup or something, and hope to build a conversation from there. Ask how they're enjoying the event. Sometimes I just outright say something like "hey, I'm here on my own and you seem rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Every valentine’s I’ve said “I don’t care” about the occasion trying to be the cool girlfriend. Don’t we all deserve to be spoilt though?I used to say this when I was younger. And I truly didn't care! Until I realised it's not about getting stuff, it's about being a couple. All the high-performance people I know are in loving relationships where they do celebrate even things like Valentine's Day together. And I work in the medical field, so I know a lot of doctors and business professionals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜fair enough! will be watching for other suggestions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜maybe try femalelevelupstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:29 PM |
| 20 | Okay homie, whatever you say 🤣"I will show you my love and appreciation for you every other day than today" That's fucking hilarious. You take that stance against corporate America! I guess you don't like Christmas or birthday gifts either, homie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 8 | Would you stay as friends with a guy after you slept together ?Never. It's disrespectful to any man I may meet in my future. I don't stay friends with people I've had sex with and I expect the same from the men I date. If I have sex with a man we are not staying friends. If he wants to stay in my future it's as a committed partner or nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 47 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.Yeah, I don't understand this attitude at all. Like, if it's so normal and socially acceptable than surely we are the outliers and they can choose from tons of other women. Doth protest too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:33 PM |
| 73 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesI read the study quoted in the article: “At home, men are more resistant to that change because it really means surrendering privilege,” said David A. Cotter, a sociology professor at Union College who has studied gender attitudes. “This way, they don’t have to do more laundry.” I love it when men call out other men. I am not a naturally tidy person. If a man expects me to work the same hours (or more) as he does and he expects to sit on his ass when he gets home he is in for a rude awakening. C… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 8 | I’m going to go buy my own flowers. I take myself out on dates. I take myself to concerts. I don’t let myself down.I do this pretty often! If I want to go somewhere, I'm definitely not letting going alone stop me. I like eating out alone as it's chill. But for events, I always end up meeting people. The best time was when I went to see Above & Beyond in my city and then met a group of girls who were following the tour. They asked me to join so I ended up in their van for a couple stops until I bused back on my own lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:21 PM |
| 17 | Is this grounds to breakup with my boyfriend or am I being dramatic?Your boyfriend sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 5 | when should I bring up the fact that I'm childfree? (I don't want to have children by choice)Great! Thanks for you guys bringing up your opinions and explaining them. Always appreciated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | when should I bring up the fact that I'm childfree? (I don't want to have children by choice)What's a fence-sitter imply? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 11 | when should I bring up the fact that I'm childfree? (I don't want to have children by choice)Is it really not too early? I used to think that, too, but then when I was 26 I started dating a dude in his 30's who implied I was a creep for bringing things like that up early. Until that point I always thought that one's beliefs surrounding marriage, children, etc, should be discussed as early as possible to ensure you aren't dating someone on a totally different wavelength :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I've wanted it forever! I know it's a huge purchase but I got an incredible job this year, and my pay is only going to go up and my job is very transferable. I am thankful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 52 | When Porn in Life: Driver Was Watching Porn Before Fatal Crash that Killed AnotherINFO: What the fuck?! You can't even be away from porn long enough to drive somewhere responsibly?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 87 | "Does she expect you to read her mind?" Yep, next questionEven after repeatedly explaining yourself multiple times, they won't get it. Then they'll call you a bitch when you finally snap and raise your voice. I'm triggered lmfao this is too accurate and it makes me so sad and angry that this is the collective experience of so many women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 29 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Buying myself this Cartier ring for V-Day as a gift to myself for all the leveling up I've done this year. So even if this weekend is a bust, whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:34 PM |
| 19 | Another ‘Protect Your Finances’ Postimo, that says a lot about how intelligent you are. Marriage shouldn't just be about good feels. It should absolutely have good feels, but if you're planning to shack up for life with someone it should absolutely be treated like a business decision. What do each of you get out of being with one another? If someone isn't adding value to your life in ways that are meaningful to you, why get married? Good on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Why Men with a High N Count are Low ValueThere's no way of knowing if the dude in the OP thread mentioned it to his wife or not at some point. But, that is true. Honestly, I would rather not know and if he manages to keep it to himself that's his choice. But, if it ever does come out, I say run and don't look back. I will say that, in my experience, fuckboys brag about the women they've been with to some degree. I've been on first dates where I haven't seen the man again because he can't keep his stupid mouth shut about it. Any inkling… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Can we let the FWB‘s go please?FWB is mentioned in several places in the required reading. saddleup already quoted the ideology, but it's also in 'becky versus dreamgirl'. I posted as such in a thread yesterday and got downvoted quite a bit lmfao Mods have already stated their stance on the topic in several of these threads. imo these threads are getting really damn annoying. We don't need three a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:30 PM |
| 68 | Why Men with a High N Count are Low ValueYeah, I don't care if a man can become the most faithful thing in the world and never look at another woman again. I don't want a man with a history of cheating and I don't want a man who has a high number. Plus, I don't believe they can change. The post OP linked really demonstrates that. I don't understand how not wanting to fuck strangers is so difficult. The fact he thinks about it the way he does is really gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 23 | GLOBAL REACH: Female Dating Strategy’s Wall Street Journal Article Is Featured in ‘The Australian’!lol it's not paid tho? I don't even have a script blocker on this computer and I can access it just fine. Also, would love to see the positive MGTOW articles because I don't remember seeing any back in the day. Just tell me the approximate year and the publisher and I can probably find it. I just looked through news from 2015 and didn't find anything. Also, why the comparison? You can't predict that because this sub hasn't gone that way at this time, so... what's your point? Should I compare the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:00 PM |
| 134 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSI did this. Same story. Cleaned his nasty-ass apartment - kitchen, bedroom, living room, bathroom - made dinner, got his favourite beverage for him, etc. Turned out he was cheating on me. Never again. Anyone wants me to contribute like that there better be a ring on my finger and us living in the same home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 27 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Repost with permission: I think I'm gonna let V-day make or break my relationship with the guy I've been seeing. He is handsome, but I feel largely ambivalent about it and based on our date last weekend I'm very unsure about what kind of future there is. I want to be romanced. This guy has known me for a long time, so it's not like we're just feeling each out. I want flowers or a hotel room or a romantic restaurant dinner. So, I'll let his excitement about me take over. If I don't at least get a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I got it because of the bottle lmao it reminds me of Mario! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Oh weird! Fragrantica doesn't seem to compare the notes that way so I never would have guessed. Some people do say 'Cloud' smells very fake so I bet the quality isn't comparable, but that's really cool to know! Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜BCBGMaxazria (the pink one) is so nice! I like it for every day Kat von D Sinner - not sure if you can still buy this, but it's a very sexy fragrance I save for special occasions or nights out Chanel Chance (the green one) - this is a very fresh, unisex scent. It's very unique. I prefer it for summers during the day. YSL Young Sexy Lovely - a fruity floral, good for every day at the office Pink Sugar - a very sweet scent. I get compliments on it all the time. Dior Miss Dior - strong scent, even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZrSrZpX5l8&feature=youtu.be 11:16 Gee, you conveniently sure don't seem to know any of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 169 | And supposedly we’re the ones that are gold diggers.Damn, if I were that woman I would leave that man's ass. They aren't even married and he's trying to get her money. Men only care about money. That's why they project this "gold-digger" shit onto women. I paid a man's rent, $600 a month, for him for several months. I didn't even live with him (yes, I was world's biggest pickme). That plus all the times I bought him cigarettes and food multiple times every month. My most recent ex even knew this dude and what had happened, yet he had the gall to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 61 | Using memes to reply to unwanted messages... it's super effective!"I don't want to speak to you anymore" I cackled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | I see r/vindicta mentioned here a lot...that sub (and all the rateme style subs) are so horrific for women. It bums me out that it seems to be a popular sub for users hereI like vindicta. I like to talk about my appearance and ways to achieve the aesthetic I want for myself. I used to go on beautyguruchatter a bunch before it got super bitchy. I also used to go on the asianbeauty subs before they became kinda dead. Makeupaddiction isn't exactly what I'm looking for. Filler, botox, cosmetic surgery are now things within my reach that I would at least like to discuss the possibilities of. I like the women on vindicta - everyone is encouraging of everyone else's jou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:53 PM |
| 13 | So I gave my no. To strangers on tinderYou gave your number to strangers? Don't do that. You should go out with a dude a few times before moving your conversation off of any apps. And don't be desperate for a man to pay attention to you. If you don't have a sex drive the kinds of men that you will attract will likely just end up ghosting, and you won't even get sex out of the deal. If you are feeling desperate for a man to pay attention to you then you likely just need more hobbies and things to fill your life with*. Get together wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:47 PM |
| 109 | men giving you ''compliments''Negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?...“violent attacks are what happens when men do not have partners, Mr. Peterson says, and society needs to work to make sure those men are married.” Since Peterson has neither refuted nor denied this statement in any of his numerous responses and clarifications on the piece, it seems this does describe his position. Given his subsequent responses and explanations, it is clear that his focus was rather on men being paired up to reduce their proclivity to violence. And that precisely is the probl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?I always liked chaotic neutral characters, myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 95 | Man spends 10 months with a woman while another woman is pregnant with his child.bUt WomEn sHoUlD jUsT sToP beInG sInGle mOthErs or how about men keep their fucking dicks in their pants until they know they're serious about a woman? Oh right, because men are animals and they even hold women to a higher standard than they do themselves. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:36 PM |
| 6 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?Other people have already explained the 'hate'. He also believes all women are doing themselves a disservice by not pursuing having children or by putting their careers first. He literally has a whole thing on motherhood, and that women are denying themselves their true nature if they do not wish to become mothers. He thinks that women being around infants will help cure them of their anger. You can say you disagree with these principals of his, but this kind of view on women seems to make up a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 8 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.Again, the things I quoted were directly from the required reading of the sub. I'm not a mod so I don't ultimately get the decision. But I don't think banning the posts is going to help anything, because as you said we already get newbies posting about their LVM boyfriends or newbies saying "I've gone on three dates with a HVM!" Threads should be allowed, in my opinion, but only on how to obtain a FWB relationship that works alongside FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 78 | Made me smile a little.Right? I was raised to only eat when everyone is sitting at the table. Even my friends' families were like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I think I'm gonna let V-day make or break my relationship with the guy I've been seeing. He is handsome, but I feel largely ambivalent about it and based on our date last weekend I'm very unsure about what kind of future there is. I want to be romanced. This guy has known me for a long time, so it's not like we're just feeling each out. I want flowers or a hotel room or a romantic restaurant dinner. So, I'll let his excitement about me take over. If I don't at least get a bouquet of daisies (my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:13 PM |
| 15 | Kyle has poor spelling and grammar. He also has no idea how to be attractive to a woman. Uber driver fending off gold diggers 😂🤡🤷♀️I want a man that uses proper grammar and punctuation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 29 | Newsweek Calls out ‘Manosphere’ Communities (Including Some Reddit Subs) as Toxic, Nihilistic and ExtremeIt's incredible to me that FDS gets written about for empowering women as all of Reddit's Manosphere 'REEEEs' about it, meanwhile they've recently had yet another terrorist linked to them and all the articles talking about them are like the one linked by OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 21 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.Except even the handbook isn't directly against FWB. If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides you the respect and fun times that you want. From: old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/ideology 'Becky versus Dreamgirl' in the handbook also mentions FWB Make him wait. If it’s tough for you, either get a FWB or just stick it out. Honestly, you will find you being alone is better than mediocre sex buddies 90% of the time anyway. I'm 10… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 61 | Pickmesha insists the 3 women accusing her boyfriend of sexual assault/rape are all making it up for attention.early on in our relationship he had a bit of a mental breakdown Clue #1. In his mind, it was consensual And lots of men have this fantasy that once he starts fucking her she'll totally be into it! I also know the definition of rape can be (to some) complicated. Wow, what a cow. She's been raped twice and she can say this? and since he was never charged or even threatened with charges, if something DID happen, it must have been a mistake again, this girl has supposedly been raped twice. Shouldn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:37 PM |
| 5 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?That is definitely not this sub. I lurked here a long time, and I've been posting here frequently for a while. I do not think the regular contributors subscribe to Peterson ideology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 30 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?I mean, he also says women wear makeup to work to be sexually provocative. Totally ignoring all the studies that state that women who do not wear makeup are less likely to succeed in the workplace (if anyone is arsed they can creep my post history for citations, including proper papers on the topic). He also says that by women wearing lipstick they are telling men to think of their vagina. This is an actual quote from one of his stupid interviews. Because yes, I wear blue lipstick to tell men to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:41 PM |
| 25 | New York Fashion Week's normalising of Pornhub isn't a feminist statement – it's a massive regressionlol I am done. I'm joining an women's intentional community or I'm following my dream of moving my ass to an acreage in the middle of nowhere. I won't be able to afford internet out there. The fuck is wrong with this world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 95 | OLD but FDSBasically. Nowadays even when I'm getting ready to go on a date or go out to maybe meet someone I'm just like "y tho?" Half the time I cancel my plan, or I just start getting ready late and re-schedule for later in the day. So much effort for so little payout. It's not exciting anymore when I'm fully aware I'm more likely to be disappointed than not. That's how you know you've become jaded lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 111 | Ugh... horrible.Okay but why do so many of these dudes think women are banging down their doors for an affair??? Like, are there a lot of women who would go after a man that admits he's married and wants nothing serious?? I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:37 PM |
| 30 | When did you say, “I love you,” and how did it happen?Oh sis, I've been there! I remember, it was so absolutely magical. I don't know when I started feeling it, but there came a point in our relationship that I just felt something. This guy was so cool. I was always amazed he spent time with me. When he would be driving us around, I would just look at him and feel happy. I would look at him and wonder how I got this guy to pay attention to me. Why was he driving me around? Why was he spending time with me? I felt like the luckiest girl in the world… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:28 AM |
| 31 | So, here's the thing....I'm really tempted to start trolling these trash pilesKeep dreaming, buddy. Keep dreaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:20 AM |
| 40 | Don’t commit to a man who chooses other women over you.Porn is an industry that abuses women, turns them into objects, and allows men to have horrific expectations of real-life women. Also it is cheating. You don't need sexual interaction with anyone else, real or on a screen, if you are in a relationship. Fight me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:39 PM |
| 17 | Stop the presses, ladies, this divorced bald man has advice!If experience has taught me anything it's that men have no idea what they actually want lmfao. Eternal children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 5 | What is the FDS opinion on strip clubs?I'm not okay with it. If a man has a girlfriend/wife/whatever, then he doesn't need to be around sexualised women or look at porn. Period. Either he thinks women are objects, or he feels there is something I am not providing him. Either way the relationship should end. I absolutely believe that your partner should be your only source of sexual enjoyment/activity/viewing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 11 | Does anyone know how the SBabes site works?As you know, this sub is anti-porn. Sbabes looks like a cam site. Does it really matter if it's one-on-one or not? You don't know which girls he's watching. You don't know how popular they are. You don't know if he could end up being the only active viewer for a girl at one point. Plus, it's a cam site...? Like, ew. And he'll likely have to pay for something. A lot of those girls run off of "donations" from the men that use those services. You have to make a decision for yourself if you are comf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Scrotes talking about FDS on Reddit.I mean, it's not like he's totally wrong. A woman who knows what she wants is too high maintenance for most of these men. They'd rather be with someone easily manipulated and with low self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 32 | He Didn’t Lock Down Valentine’s Day & 😲 Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter (HVW/FDS traits)I don't like the thought of competing with other men for her time, either. lol You don't lock it down you lose it, homie. She sounds like a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 12 | No HVM will have a “work wife.” That’s bullshit y’all.Imagine being that upset by fake internet points. No one insulted her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:58 PM |
| 7 | No HVM will have a “work wife.” That’s bullshit y’all.The articles in the OP discuss the problem with it in depth. A woman was told exactly that by a relationship counselor and found naked photos of the co-worker in his phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I would just give it some time between replies. I'm a terrible texter. A man who is interested will text you again. Might even light a fire under his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:34 PM |
| 49 | Don’t be fooled by confused menbut backwards so that you can read it in the mirror | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 118 | No HVM will have a “work wife.” That’s bullshit y’all.I read the 'when does a work wife/work husband become an affair' article and became incredibly angry. And so the counselor took the path of least resistance. She said the wife was allowing her insecurities to drive a wedge between her and her husband. The counselor said she needed to "respect" her husband's right to have outside friendships, and even suggested that the wife get to know this female co-worker on a social basis. Relationship counselors are fucking shit. I've read so much of this. E… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 59 | I'm not wrongIt's even worse when female relatives buy them for you x.x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I'm tired and cranky this week. I can't seem to sleep for more than two hours without waking up and I have no idea why. Been so tired I haven't even eaten much because I can't cook anything due to tiredness and I'm so sick of takeout - I don't want to pay that much for food I don't even like. No idea what the problem is but man oh man it's Friday and I am in such a bad mood and it's just because I'm that tired. I'm supposed to go to the movies with my friends tomorrow and I'm like oh god please … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:10 PM |
| 13 | F#ck it! Being literate will do... 🤣😂🤣except that makes it funnier because literate just means being able to read and write lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 24 | Pick me ! Pick me ! I'm better than the other girlsoof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 10 | This podcast by Fresh Air talks about pornsick boys and the general red flags of LVMThis is a good point I didn't consider. I just like flowery language so that got me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 9 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦tHat'S yoUR oPinIon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | I’ve always suspected this: Men with beards carry more germs than dogs, according to studyThat doesn't mean both are happening at the same time. Why are so salty about this? lmao You don't have to make out with your keyboard or let your dog like your face. edit: Most of the bacteria in your dog’s mouth are not zoonotic, which means you probably won’t get a disease from a big old doggy kiss. There are exceptions to this. Dogs that are fed a raw diet are at an increased risk of contracting salmonella, which can be spread to humans, and you really don’t want to share kisses with a dog t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 2 | I’ve always suspected this: Men with beards carry more germs than dogs, according to studyit's gross how much I snuggle my dog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 18 | The level of pick me is over 9000username checks out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 37 | This podcast by Fresh Air talks about pornsick boys and the general red flags of LVMWith boys, it felt like they were being cut off from their hearts What a beautiful, succinct quote. I will be checking that book out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:15 PM |
| 7 | I’ve always suspected this: Men with beards carry more germs than dogs, according to studyI think it's funny because the man I'm dating right now has a beard and thinks it's gross how much I snuggle my dog and when I let him lick my face. It's not that deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 22 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦LOL are you serious? Because casual sex lowers the bar for all women. We have discussed this topic here. Third wave feminism is bullshit that harms women and allows men to shirk responsibility. That's not an 'agenda'. We openly state that we are against that. We are not insidiously trying to get women on one side of an issue. If they disagree they are welcome to not participate here, or ignore those ideologies. I don't follow every rule of FDS in real life - I simply don't argue here about it. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:40 PM |
| 28 | I’ve always suspected this: Men with beards carry more germs than dogs, according to studyThis is majestic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:51 PM |
| 16 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦edit: I creeped your account history to find something to use against you. I found nothing. Maybe you are a good man, but then you should sympathise with what other men are willing to do to hurt women, and how even though there are terrible women out there, their depravity is historically not nearly what men are capable of doing and have done. I truly see nothing about FDS that you would find so offensive as to call us incels when this place is filled with stories of women who have shitty boyfri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:48 PM |
| 23 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦Put up them examples, homie. Because 'we both know' ain't shit. What, you have a problem with how we talk about the so-called sexual revolution? So what. Keep your porn and leave women alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 29 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦push the agenda Nice phrasing. You really gave away your true colours there. What 'agenda'? Here, we try to encourage women to have high standards for themselves to find a good man. I dare say, what 'agenda'. Do you think there's some worldwide conspiracy to make women hate men? You guys do that all your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 12 | How regular should texting be before meeting up?I hate texting. I like a check-in text every once in a while, and a good morning text after a nice date to show he's thinking of me and wants me. But I like a phone call most nights. My current dude calls me every night and talks to me for a long time. Sometimes we just sit on the phone together while I play on the internet and he plays vidya. It's whatever you want. If you guys can't go on very many dates, I would suggest asking him to schedule phone calls with you when you're both chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 58 | Update: he still wants to be with me even though after 2 years he doesn’t love meLOLLLL “do it for yourself, do it for your family” I can hear him jacking himself off all the way over here. As if you only ever ate because he came into your life. God, your landlady is a twit. Block him. Never reply to him about anything, ever again. Deny him the reality of existence in your life. He thinks he's amazing having women cry over him. He's lower than an ant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:31 PM |
| 55 | Forever GF (31F) of 10 years is dumped and discarded mercilessly. BF (31M) takes to Reddit to complain about how she won't leave his apartment quickly enough. Daily reminder that this is a typical end to a forever GF situationship and daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men.This is deliciously beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 25 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦lol, it's funny you're asking me for citations when you provided none. Statistics show that rates of domestic violence and abuse are much higher in lesbian relationships than gay relationships. How would you explain that if women are just so much better than men? Easy, I can say the same you did. Gay men are afraid of the stigma. But, actually, here: Similar to incidents involving opposite-sex partners, the vast majority (86%) of same-sex intimate partner homicides over the 20-year period studie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:32 PM |
| 69 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦Ugh, this is so true. I remember standing and leaning on the corner of a building while my friends went into a store. A guy I was dating at the time was with me, but further away as he was smoking. Some man came up to me, didn't say shit to me, and just grabbed my ass. I whipped around and screamed at him to keep his hands off of me. My boyfriend at the time then came running, and the dude was like "I'm sorry, I didn't know she had a man with her!" They are fully aware of their own shitty behavi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:10 PM |
| 27 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦You can't put a blanket statement on the behaviour of the genders Yes, we can. Statistics and science prove that men behave worse than women in all ways. Crime, assault, rape, pedophilia, all of it. Every woman I know has been assaulted by men. Every single one. Ever heard "because not all men, but because all women"? Jesus Christ. If it's a an epidemic of bad, entitled behaviour, it deserves to be called out. Maybe you should police yourselves more instead of enabling bad behaviour and defendin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Thank You All For Your ParticipationWell, no one of any level of intelligence should post shit on the internet if they aren't open to someone finding it. Like, what the fuck even is this? It's a public forum, obviously everything posted here is free game pffttt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Thank You All For Your ParticipationTOP KEK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:24 PM |
| 142 | Update: he still wants to be with me even though after 2 years he doesn’t love meHe texted me to eat and look after myself. Oh, he can fuck right off. How patronising. He can shove his dick into a garbage disposal. Just block him. You deserve a man who loves you. A relationship where you aren't loved is lonely. It is a different kind of lonely than being by yourself. Once you mourn for a few days (take as long as you need), you will start to feel much better than you ever thought you could. Being lonely in a relationship is an icky, insidious feeling that eats away at your s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:20 PM |
| 26 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦And some of us have dated lower than the 'league' we are in, only to be treated like shit. It's been really incredible how much better men treat me when I act like I don't give a fuck about them. Better dates, more compliments, more flowers, better sex. Maybe you should think about that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:10 PM |
| 31 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦This kind of role locking is similar to if I said "I want a women to cook, clean and suck my dick every night. I won't settle for anything less." And you can have that! Check out redpillwomen. You're more than welcome to them, because they don't believe men are capable of wanting anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 32 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦"You're welcome" I kek'd. You read nothing here, do you? Why don't you read some? Oh, because you don't want to. That's all there is to it. You're welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 36 | Why do guys like "hard to get " girls?I used to struggle with this concept as well. I would recommend reading 'Why Men Love Bitches' by Sherry Argov. It doesn't mean literally act like a bitch (she seems to use that term to try to empower pickme girls to wake up to their behaviour). I found it helpful because she explains why behaving in certain ways seems to gain the behaviour you want to see in the men you're dating. But note that you'll have to pick and choose which of the advice you like. I found the book helpful, and I found a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 45 | Devil wears PradaThey were really terrible. You'd think living in New York they would understand having a high-pressure job, but they literally tried to fuck with her work and then laughed about it. Like, okay maybe you don't agree with your friend turning into a workaholic but you have zero right to mess with her employment. Plus, she was doing it for the experience. You'd think they would be able to tolerate her not being around so much for just a temporary period of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 38 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.And I've definitely noticed a large number of new users who have not read the wiki. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:36 PM |
| 27 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.Yeah, I defo blocked a user for being obnoxious about things. Like, okay girl, we get it, go on a tirade but don't attack someone who literally agreed with you lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:03 PM |
| 15 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...Yeah, this was what I was trying to say. Men have their own preferences. Be you and someone will like you for you, and that's better in the long-term for everyone. Because I sure as fuck don't have thin eyebrows but I still get complimented on them lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:35 PM |
| -4 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...You misunderstand what I wrote. He also said I can wear what I want, and I do. Thanks lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...Eh, I disagree. The guy I'm dating right now doesn't like thin eyebrows, and he dislikes mini-skirts and clothes that are super tight. While he never made a comment about it, when I asked him why he didn't compliment my skirt he said he doesn't like that way of dress but I can wear what I want. I really disagree that you should dress overly sexy. I think men that like women who dress that way have a particular way of how they think of women. There are men who prefer women who dress more understa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 30 | Come watch some males call me “porn sick and delusional” for expecting men to be able to last 15 minutes of penetrative sex. 🙄This is true! My ex as well, he worked out often (six days a week) and really cared about me in the bedroom. An average sessions for us was about 45 mins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 73 | Come watch some males call me “porn sick and delusional” for expecting men to be able to last 15 minutes of penetrative sex. 🙄lol, it's sad but according to this study, the average man lasts six minutes But, if you have sex more than once a day, the second time will often last significantly longer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 96 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)LOL! Don't pretend there aren't male-only spaces on reddit. Hypocrites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:48 AM |
| 58 | "I was blindsided!!!"Hey! I love filing for divorce in my spare time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)Thanks for listening <3 I appreciate the words of encouragement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)Oh, I get that. I have no desire to be all sappy ever again. But it's the games. Like, oh if your husband is taking advantage of you leave for a weekend and come back. Things like that. I can't be playing games like that. My job is busy, my hours are long, I have a needy dog that I will never, ever let anyone else be responsible for. My life won't be in a place like that for years. It feels like it's not even worth it. I can play these games while I'm dating, but not in a marriage. Seems pointle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 28 | “I’m only down with FMF threesomes” 🙄This is ALL OVER the non-monogamy subs. I want the tea! Link the most hilarious stories, please! (if you know of some) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)I found 'Why Men Love Bitches' at a thrift store, so I picked it up and I've been reading it. Back in my pickme days I would have snorted at everything in it, but now that I'm older and have been in a few LTRs, the truth of it just makes me sad. 'Men only respond to no contact' is so, so, SO true. I've had guys threaten to break up with me for all kinds of things, but when I finally had enough and threw up my hands and was all 'fuck this, I got better shit to do', suddenly the same guys are begg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 11 | Don't date a man who lives with his lesbian ex-wifeA weird little harem, he'd be so delighted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 50 | Don't date a man who lives with his lesbian ex-wifeYeaahhh... that'd be a 'no' from me. You wanna be all buddy-buddy and do couple-y shit with your ex wife you can find some other sucker. I don't care if she's gay, asexual, a t-rex... this ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 261 | "I was blindsided!!!"I've never been married, but this seems to be how men 'just are'. I ended my last three relationships, and my first relationship ended mutually. Each guy I broke up with claimed to be blind-sided, despite me stating very clearly that I was getting tired of their treatment of me, and stating very clearly what I wanted to change/happen. Not a single one of them made an effort to change. One of them even told me 'why couldn't you have been a little louder' about voicing my complaints. I had been so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:45 PM |
| 2 | My (22F) boyfriend (43M) doesn't want to introduce me to his daughters (10 and 8) and ignores our baby (I'm 26 weeks pregnant)That's not how it works in Canada. It's very difficult to get a doctor to perform an abortion that late if it isn't medically necessary. https://www.arcc-cdac.ca/postionpapers/22-Later-Abortions.pdf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 122 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.Five dates is old school?! Well, I'm a nun! WOW, I haven't even seen his face or met this man and I already hate him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:42 AM |
| 13 | My (22F) boyfriend (43M) doesn't want to introduce me to his daughters (10 and 8) and ignores our baby (I'm 26 weeks pregnant)22 years old, no family around (probably), and dealing with a pregnancy and the doctor's appointments all by yourself. Girl.... What a nightmare. Why do I imagine her giving birth to this child completely alone and terrified? That man is lower than scum. How can he do this to someone he claimed to love? How can anyone be such a horrible, selfish liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:36 AM |
| 9 | Some weird incel rando sent me this just after I made my first post on this accountThen why are you posting it here? This isn't a sub to bash incels. Also, there was a rule made about these posts recently - they should all go into FDSSuperFans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Some weird incel rando sent me this just after I made my first post on this accountI think it's due to your 'upvote if you hate trump' post, not for anything you posted here. But I could be wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 41 | "Where's Hypocrisy?" (The king of LVM.)"discreet new friends" I don't fuck my friends, and neither should you. Asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 11 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.Absolutely fucking bonkers. I'm so tired of people (pickmes and LVM) acting like childbirth is no big deal. Like, the shit I even read on reddit "I have to miss my wife's birth of our child because -insert STUPID BULLSHIT here-, am I a bad person?" Like, yes, you fucking are. There is ZERO REASON for you not to be there/not cater to your woman having your baby. I don't care. No reason is good enough. But because women don't die as much it's not such a big deal! Fuck off. I hate this world. I don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:45 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)lol! Imagine texting a woman you're dating about another woman you're dating. Once again, low value men prove they only have audacity. I'm glad you blocked him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)On the last episode of Bojack Horseman. Goddamn. That's all I can say. What an incredible show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 20 | Young woman being pressured by her pornsick boyfriend to have anal sex even though it hurts. WE ARE NOT BLOWUP DOLLS.Saved this post. Thank you, my friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:41 PM |
| 28 | “I didn’t ask for anything and he STILL didn’t want me!”.. And why it never pays to be a pick me.“tired of being single and looking for a relationship.” This is a line notoriously used by low value men. Especially the kinds that just want notches on their belts. If you hear this, run. It's not true. They don't want a relationship, they just want to 'lay pipe'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Preach. My experience, also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:16 PM |
| 21 | This dumbass scrote has poor reading comprehension. It somehow think FDS preaches women be financially dependent on men. Oh, it also seems to think that its refusal to date a FDS woman is something we care about.I think he has us confused with red pill women. Oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:10 PM |
| 64 | Young woman being pressured by her pornsick boyfriend to have anal sex even though it hurts. WE ARE NOT BLOWUP DOLLS.It's not even the same. It's more likely to be pleasurable for a man than a woman thanks to the prostate. But they won't try it despite insisting women do. I did this argument against the boyfriend that kept asking me to try it. He was like "nope, nope, nope". Then why are we supposed to try?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 8 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)That's fair. My co-worker has a tooth that is fully darkened by a dead nerve and honestly I never even noticed it until she pointed it out. You're probably the only one who notices it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 265 | Young woman being pressured by her pornsick boyfriend to have anal sex even though it hurts. WE ARE NOT BLOWUP DOLLS."Everyone does it" NO! THEY DO NOT! And even if they did, who fucking cares? You don't like it. Shove a dildo up his ass, then. Don't prep him, just shove it right up there. I had a boyfriend try to pressure me into this. He hadn't even put a ring on me. I told him it held zero interest for me. He said, how do I know if I've never tried it? I said I don't have to try it to know I don't want something shoved up my ass, thanks. Why don't we try it on you, first? He said that was gay. I said, actua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:46 PM |
| 14 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Can confirm. I work in dental. Also, sometimes the nerve of a tooth just dies through no fault of the patient. This can cause the tooth to darken. If this bothers you, maybe you can pursue inner tooth bleaching. It can be 1-3 sessions, typically, but that might help! I'm not sure if you are a candidate or not, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 40 | I truly don’t understand all the hate this sub getsand who even cares? It's Reddit. It's not that deep. jfc Go on male-related websites outside reddit, and even on reddit, and they're all "REEEEEE FEMALE GET OUT" Who cares | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 42 | I truly don’t understand all the hate this sub getsBecause they don't read anything here. And the ones that do pick and choose which posts they show, instead of the overall content of this sub. 90% of subs have some horrible content posted on them, but it doesn't represent the overall of every poster on the sub. Plus, we don't have any terrorists linked to us lmfao Edit: we plot to ruin the lives of men, gaiz! Imagine being this full of yourself that not looking to have sexual relations with effortless men is 'ruining their lives'. I think, if t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)There is, in the wiki: https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/flair_guide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)I sort of agree with this. I would argue we should keep the "at-risk" flair, and do away with the pickmeisha flair. If she is here, she's trying to better herself. Unless it is obvious the user has come here for the sole purpose of arguing the ideals of the sub. In that case, the pickmeisha flair should be assigned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Not texting back for long times cause shitty phone/sleeping? Am I a pickmeisha?So, I dealt with that, too, for a long time. I haven't slept since I was a baby and they tried everything. Not all medication for sleeping can cause tremors. Ativan is a good one that is often prescribed even just to help patients with tremors. I used to take it at night only when I needed it. I used the quick dissolves in the smallest dose, and took two on particularly bad days. Temazepam is another good one, and known to cause tremors only in cases of overdose. There's lots of options for slee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Not texting back for long times cause shitty phone/sleeping? Am I a pickmeisha?I have severe, diagnosed insomnia. Sometimes I can fall asleep at weird times without meaning to if I haven't slept much during the previous days of the week. I can go go go for 48 + hours of no sleep and then crash for a few hours, and then be wired again. So, I would just watch carefully for any other suspicious stuff. But if he does have a sleeping problem his reason could be legit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:40 PM |
| 95 | How a LVM dates"Teaches her a lesson" And he's not even going to tell her why he's no longer interested, right? Just ditch and that'll teach her. Teach her what? She's not going to know why you ditched, dumbass. Maybe you shouldn't waste your own time by making it clear that pot is an immediate dealbreaker for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)Sooo..... there was this beautiful, lace, wine red dress in a shop window that I kept walking by every day after work. I looked at it every day, and it struck me because it was similar to a romper I had been eyeing online. I try not to spend money very often, so I did not go look at it. But I kept thinking of that dress even when I got home. And then one day when I walked by the store the dress was no longer in the window. Still, I did not go in the shop. And then, I dunno, I still kept thinking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 50 | LVM really think this. The audacity!omg I hate this, I have actually had this line used on me, even when I would offer to pay. Like, what? I have a job. Do you think I wouldn't eat if you weren't around? Plus, I'm a person who doesn't get much enjoyment out of food anyway - I eat the same thing every day if I'm on my own and it doesn't bother me at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:29 PM |
| 21 | Advice: cohabitating, two year sunset if not engagedInform him that you think the world of him, adore him, and treasure your relationship, but you're discouraged by the pace it's taking and are starting to question his intentions and if this is the right relationship for you. Classy shit. I wish I would have read this/thought of this last year lol. I was so pissed the fuck off in my last relationship over this that I just went nuclear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 16 | The ultimate pickmeishaOccasionally, you see some well-known poster, often one who just recently has been gushing about her pregnancy and how well this man provides for her or something, just disappear without a word and delete all her posts. That hit me in the feels ): | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 09:57 PM |
| 6 | PSA from one of our LVM lurkers 😉Also, if we focus on careers and money we're just going "age ourselves out of the market", and if we aren't aiming for self-sufficiency then we're gold-diggers and how dare we not pay our way! There is so few realities where both of those things can exist at once. Men will never, ever, ever be satisfied with women. The men that hate women will continue to find reasons to hate them. They argue with their own values. Men really have no idea what they want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | The ultimate pickmeishar / redpillwomen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 23 | PSA from one of our LVM lurkers 😉They think women are like them and just do nothing after work. They dumb and low value. eta: and if a woman did not focus on her career what's she supposed to do if she has kids with this dude who is so desperate for a fertile woman and then he bounces | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 13 | PSA from one of our LVM lurkers 😉You sure schooled us! Good for you, sir, good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 34 | The ultimate pickmeishaYep! I lurked RPW for a long time. Not for me. FDS applies largely the same principals RPW does, but in the hopes of catching a unicorn. I have no desire to accept the behaviour that RPW accept as 'normal'. I would truly rather die alone. A RPW would love the kind of man FDS hopes to catch. They just don't seem to believe he exists. And yes, I have and would continue to dote on a man who doesn't treat me like dirt. But the moment he disrespects me in a way he would not disrespect a male friend, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: My ex paid to meet me to hear himYeah, I can see where you're coming from. A LDR takes work. It's lonely for both parties (I did one for two years when my first serious boyfriend went to do military service). He wasted a lot of your time and effort. I wouldn't even think of taking him back if he couldn't prove he had serious intentions. And empty words mean nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 17 | This man just sent me a message in OLD. If you notice in his profile screenshot he says he's retired, but yet looking for a woman who doesn't mind helping HIM with the lawn, gardening and painting... Along with being every woman herself. WTF? I'm about to block 😂Same. To be honest, any man who would leave a woman he had children with is just trash to me. Especially if they are young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:39 PM |
| 74 | Dog The Bounty Hunter proposes to his son’s ex gf Moon Angell 7 MONTHS after the horrific cancer death of his wife (to whom he publicly promised to never marry again)An ex of one of your sons. I don't care how close/not close you are with your family, that's fucking gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 14 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!"The only things that make me happy are things that make me peepee feel good, therefore it must be true for everyone else. Therefore OP gets off with her dog!" - Decent-Specialist, probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 24 | Pickmeisha’s dream guy be likeTriggered at the piece of pizza with "are you gonna finish that?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:22 AM |
| 50 | That’s a no from me, dawg...The fact that he needs to put something like that on his OLD profile screams issues to me. I've never once gone out with a dude who didn't at least offer/attempt to pay for me on our first date, even when I was super into "paying my way". I don't even see the need to put this on a dating profile, especially if you want to meet for a coffee date for the first time. You can talk about how you like going dutch during one your first few dates. Or it can be a line in your profile. Why does it need to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:20 AM |
| 6 | Romance movies without obvious LVM romanticizing?With Anne Hathaway? Doesn't she break up with and then get back together with the chef dude? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 12 | Guy repeatedly ghosts my friend, goes to dinner with another girl when she calls him outHow dare he post on his snapchat about a date he's having fun with! Who does he think he is! /s if you couldn't tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 10:42 PM |
| 24 | My mom is pushing me to get back with my LVM ex-husbandTell mom to piss off. Like, sorry, but she doesn't get to decide what makes your life happy. She stayed in a marriage with a cheater. Stop letting her even engage in the conversation. Say "I am satisifed with my decisions, and happier than I've ever been. This conversation is over," and don't let her talk about it. Hang up/walk away if she tries. Change the subject. Refuse to let her engage. Tell her you'd rather be alone than with a fuckwit. She can feel bad about her own decisions, she doesn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 11 | I got a dog and it’s cured my Pickme-itisAdd that to the list of "things I wish I never googled" Why can't we have nice things without it being a sex thing? Really shows how their minds work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:21 PM |
| 17 | Romance movies without obvious LVM romanticizing?I really liked 'Leap Year'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 9 | I got a dog and it’s cured my Pickme-itisI did this, too! I got a beautiful border collie and he definitely keeps me on my toes. He really is like a toddler, and he made my life so much better. I love coming home now. Definitely cured my pickme ways. I'd rather be giving my dog all my spare time than some dude who has no intention of getting serious with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 9 | How can I use the "single until married" strategy effectively?Yeah, I like the idea but I have no idea how to execute it in practice. Especially when I have so little free time in my life as it is. Like, no way I could be dating multiple dudes even if I wanted to. Which, I actually don't want to. I just want some damn commitment or to know the guy is legitimately on the same page as me. I started dating one guy believing he was on the same page for marriage and then one year later he still wouldn't even talk to me about us moving in together or getting eng… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:40 PM |
| 32 | Guy repeatedly ghosts my friend, goes to dinner with another girl when she calls him outHe literally got bored of and ghosted my friend Your friend cancelled a bunch of times. More than twice is not okay (arguably even more than once). She needs to get her shit together and value other people's time just as much as her own. She obviously doesn't have time for a boyfriend/dating. Was he supposed to sit on his hands forever until she was ready to go out with him? Rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 14 | Guy spends “too much” on his gf, thoughts?It sounds like giving people things makes him feel happy, which is totally okay, but it sounds like they both failed to communicate. She wanted him to dial it back, he dialed it back too much. And then the car thing probably freaked her out. They should both talk about their expectations of each other. If she feels uncomfortable with big ticket items, that's totally okay. Maybe a better gift would have been a trip together somewhere, if he discussed it with her first he could surprise her with e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:34 AM |
| 20 | LVM and man-child Justin Bieber slams car door on his own wife.lol what a disgusting little brat. Looks like he hasn't grown up since he spat on his fans and then claimed he didn't... even though there were goddamn photos. I hope he addresses this with some other lame-ass excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:18 AM |
| 22 | Broke up with a cheating LVM but backslidingDon't go back. I know exactly how you feel. But I went back four times before I learned he would always cheat. Please don't go back. Think of how you feel right now. How hurt you feel. How seeing those texts felt like you got kicked right in the stomach. The world probably felt like it was spinning and had stopped all at the same time. You probably got tunnel vision as you stared at what you found. Right? Imagine if you take him back and he cheats again. It will feel worse. You can't understand … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:36 AM |
| 34 | Not sure if I fucked upI would have denied, denied, denied. Not like he could have proved it was you. And then decline any further contact with him. Like others said, it's weird if he even reads here. If he did read here he would know it was etiquette, or else he doesn't believe in what we tout here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Woman gets plastic surgery after boyfriend’s constant negging. He then tells her he thought he’d fall in love if she looked prettier but he hasn’t.I think this is it. That's why I feel bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:33 PM |
| 27 | Should I tell my fwbIf you settle for FWB it most likely will not lead to a relationship. You need to ask for what you want and not settle for less than that. If he's not interested you walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:20 PM |
| 37 | Woman gets plastic surgery after boyfriend’s constant negging. He then tells her he thought he’d fall in love if she looked prettier but he hasn’t.Well, I mean... why would you alter yourself permanently for some guy? I'm so sorry this happened to her, though. I dated a man like that, and thankfully I never did anything permanent. Men like that can smell self esteem issues a mile away. I'm glad he's her ex, at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Is Keanu Reeves HVM?I like to think so, but we'll never know for sure. But while you ponder this question, please observe Keanu Reeves play with puppies. Dogs are the most precious creatures on this planet, so I've adored him ever since John Wick. So in my head I'll pretend he's the ultimate HVM lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 27 | Well Tweet Tweety twit bitchAnd btw, spoiling doesn't always mean spending money and buying gifts. Words and actions are also ways to spoil someone. Exactly. No woman should ever settle for breadcrumbs. The men that breadcrumb are the ones who think you should 'prove yourself' to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:40 PM |
| 20 | Well Tweet Tweety twit bitchWell, when I was five years old I did say I wanted to be a bird when I grew up. If the shoe fits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 22 | Purple pill debate pickmeisha mod bans me for standing up against a wife beater wtf.It really is the worst sub. It serves no purpose to anyone. Just an excuse for LVM to spout more nonsense. I've seen some truly wonderful comments on there with references and shit, and then someone responds saying that doesn't answer the question asked when I'm like ???? but it does? Or they try to steer the conversation in a completely unrelated direction when someone does slap them down. Politics is all the same, whether it be gender-related or not. There is no point engaging with someone who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 57 | Woman dumps man 3 months ago, moved on after 3 weeks. Man laments that she found a better relationship before him. Daily reminder to take zero shit from men!!Yeah, I don't buy that he was breaking up for her because 'she deserved better'. I bet he thought he deserved and could find better, and now she's with another man who seems to actually appreciate her if she got "everything they were and more in less than a month". I love when fuckboys play themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 10:04 PM |
| 32 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter.and when you say that to them they respond "oh like I haven't heard that one before" Four of them have tried to troll me on here, and they respond that way every single time I ask. They literally have nothing but audacity. They can't back up anything they say without linking to their own propaganda, if they even try to back it up. If you try to actually discuss their viewpoints with them they just go on hearsay and not facts. It's like a hivemind that can't think outside its own echo chamber. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 45 | If there's anything that men have, it's the audacity.Is he giving the camera the middle finger in that pic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter.Here for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 9 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter.I thought the Wall was 30? Isn't she like 37 in the pic on the right? Regardless, though, I still think she looks really good. Even 25 year olds usually have some soft forehead lines. And I like the lines around her eyes - it shows she laughs and smiles a lot. How dare her face move! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Yeah, I saw another user on FDS mention it so I gave it a try! It's a lot more awkward than I thought trying to figure out if I should ask to hang out or not. But it's pretty good! I woke up to a bunch of messages and matches this morning from some cool geeky girls. Try it and report back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Yeah, it's just odd because one girl I really wanted to hang with has been saying she has no friends anymore because she's a SAHM, and I keep asking her what her schedule is like or what she wants to do and I get bizarre non-answers. I'm really only looking to make one or two friends because I don't have time for much else, but yeah... hard to keep a convo going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Guy makes a post about his wife not thanking him for putting away groceries in front of her friends.Yeah, I already have one dog who's incredibly intelligent but really stubborn. Like, a relationship with a human should add comfort to my life, not more work. Ain't no one got time to train a dog and a man. If that's how it is then can I buy a human sized crate and put him in there when I go to work so that I know he can't scamper off and talk to other women? No? That's not acceptable treatment of a human? Yeah, then maybe men should grow the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 6 | ONLYFANSI'm a cosplayer (have been for over twelve years), and now most of the female cosplayers I know do things like this. I don't understand why, because most of them don't make good money doing it, and the market is so saturated that you can't really charge much money for the photos. I think it's a bad idea. Most women doing this probably aren't making bank, and I wonder if some women will regret it when they get older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | (Update) is my boyfriend toxicSpyware with keyloggers made for parents is fine. It can't be disabled easily as it cannot be disabled on the phone itself, for example. And if you have a computer and refuse them administrator access they cannot modify the installed programs. Don't get me wrong, my child would be told they had spyware on their devices. But ain't no kid of mine looking at porn or sharing nasty images on the things I've purchased for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | (Update) is my boyfriend toxicJoke's on them because spyware can only be disabled by the person who installed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 8 | [Discussion] How do you protect from this?And this is why I'm only going to date men who pay big bucks for matchmakers when I am looking for marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:10 AM |
| 18 | (Update) is my boyfriend toxicIf I had a child you can bet to hell that every single piece of technology they have will have spyware and parental controls until they are sixteen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | (Update) is my boyfriend toxicIf I had a child you can bet to hell that every single piece of technology they have will have spyware and parental controls until they are sixteen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 37 | (Update) is my boyfriend toxicHoly shit OP is 14??? OP NO STOP YOU'RE YOUNG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 27 | (Update) is my boyfriend toxicWell, you should dump him for the cheat comment. But yeah, if some female friend of a guy I'm dating touched his arm flirtatiously or slapped his thigh, I'd be pissed. I don't touch my male friends and they don't touch me outside of quick hugs to say hi or bye. edit: OP is 14. I'm out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 286 | They are so predictable.."Plus he has like 7 kids" I died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Been trying Bumble BFF because I think I should focus on friendships over dating right now. And damn, I haven't matched with many other girls but the ones I have really don't seem all that into conversation. I feel like I'm forcing myself on them. Not sure if they have the intention of hanging out irl or not. Oh well, can't say I never put myself out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 20 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?You don't need to prove yourself worthy to anyone. Do what makes you happy for the purpose of being happy, not to earn the love of others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:43 AM |
| 3 | How should finances be managed when you get married and have a dual income?Yes, if both parties are required to sign then that means one person cannot make a large transaction without the signed approval of the other. It means, for example, my mother would have had to co-sign to get that line of credit. My mother thought that because both of them were on the account that it would be required for them both to sign. This was incorrect, either one of them could have made huge decisions over their joint funds individually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 22 | How should finances be managed when you get married and have a dual income?Do not ever fully combine finances. Ever. And make sure any major banking transactions have to be signed by both parties or the contracts with the bank are void. Make sure this is in clear print so the bank can't go back on this. You want it ironclad so if you ever get screwed you can have a lawyer go after the bank. When my mother told my father she wanted to split, he went to the bank and took out a huge line of credit under the house. He told my mother she had no reason to complain because he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:38 PM |
| 78 | A little reminder about not telling a man what you're looking forbut not before our heroine swoops in, cleans floor-to-ceiling, and re-decorates his place into something out of his dreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:41 PM |
| 136 | A little reminder about not telling a man what you're looking forlol, it really is amazing that a man looking to get in your pants is the ultimate "yes-man" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 18 | I just saw a post where some guy started complaining about girls preferring Asians. So I decided to post my response to a similar message. Don't know why he stopped responding tho 🤔🤔Actually, it's really not. Most women will engage even with people that deserve to be blocked. Denying someone the satisfaction of existing is truly the best way to get back at anyone (although on the internet if I'm not interested in engaging I don't block, I just don't respond). I'm a former internet troll, so I engage in insulting back and forth if the person messaging me is interesting enough. So likely I would have done what you did. But, ignoring and blocking is actually pretty uncommon in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 38 | Parrots vs LVMsMy heart. Nature is beautiful <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 33 | Comedy hour: PPD theorizes about the kinds of men who will wait three months for sexNonono, they want us to be offended that they would leave us all alone to die alone. Women are supposed to be afraid of dying alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 23 | Comedy hour: PPD theorizes about the kinds of men who will wait three months for sexYeah, I've had a couple dudes on reddit say I should go into PPD but I was like "why? No one there is actually interested in debating". That whole sub is a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 105 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.Ha! I read that one expecting to feel slightly sympathetic to him because I know wedding dresses can be insanely pricey. But immediately when he said the cost I scoffed - imagine thinking $1500 for a dress with the alterations is expensive. He deserves it if she leaves him. He probably thought he had the jackpot - a lady so much younger than he was, making good money. But he didn't appreciate it. As usual. I hope she leaves him. She probably let so much shit fly. And now she's gonna be gone all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 10 | Speed dating, other ways to meet single men? Your thoughts? I’m over OLDSpeed dating isn't bad. It kind of depends on where you're located, but often there's more women there than men. I find it helpful to look on google "YOUR CITY speed dating events" and look at all the events. Check regularly and look for ones where it says "men sold out". Organisers should update the title of the listing when this happens. It can get kind of repetitive and boring, so to get the most out of it maybe think of some less common, more entertaining questions to ask the men there. If y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:51 AM |
| 30 | What FOO (family of origin) issue created your current and/or former pickmeisha behavior?My parents had a shitty marriage. Pretty much ignored us growing up unless they were angry. Father was extremely abusive to my sister and I, and my mother. My mother allowed it to happen. Straight up had a friend ask me when we were seven years old if my parents ever told me they loved me. I realised that no, not really. Friends recall never having supervision when they came over to my house as kids. My father would always go on about there were three women in the house so he shouldn't be expect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:48 PM |
| 12 | More salty male tears over lopsided result of “open relationship”.Me too, I always get the popcorn ready | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.I'm so happy to hear good things about Bumble BFF. If I were to join and just do the woman side, would my profile show up for dudes at all or just other women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:19 PM |
| 33 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.The behaviour is all the same. And it's even worse for a less conventionally attractive dude because it's even more of a numbers game for him so he's just fishing (aka swiping on every girl) to see what catches. Finding a good man on a dating app is like looking for a four-leaf clover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:54 AM |
| 31 | It's not Men vs. Women. It's High Value vs. Low Value.Same. I came for the lulz and stayed for the facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:52 AM |
| 17 | How to spot a player while datingI don't really know how to answer this for specifically online dating. Serial cheaters will often talk about all the women they know during even the first few dates. They talk a lot about women friends, being on good terms with their exes, and regularly talk about all the plans they have with other women. One dude straight up bragged to me about being on such great terms with his last gf and he was meeting up with her after our date and blah blah blah. He showed me photos of him and her doing so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:50 AM |
| 7 | FDS Movie suggestions??I rewatched this a few months back and it's actually pretty great. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:40 AM |
| 25 | Riddle me thisAccusations of ingroup wrong-doing, as in the case of a man’s sexual harassment of a woman, may pose a threat to men’s sense of their gender group as moral. To reduce this threat, men may afford male perpetrators the benefit of the doubt and interpret events in a way that is biased toward that perpetrator’s perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Don’t let the Narcissists & Fuckbois break your goodness.NOOOOO! John Wick Keanu is best Keanu!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:40 AM |
| 7 | How could I have been so blind??Yeah, I've definitely learned to just cut and run as soon as I start noticing these patterns. I'll ask them to cut it out once. If they repeat it or get salty in response I'm done. Not letting fee-fees fuck with my decision making ever again. I'll die alone before I let some man disrespect me or my time again. Life is too short to let anyone bring you down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:39 AM |
| 8 | How could I have been so blind??The last few episodes are gonna be wild! I'm so excited | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Her Husband literally moved to another state without telling her, her family thinks he’s toxic, and sis still can’t let him go. 😭And it's interesting that it's usually the wives who pay for their 'trauma', but these guys can be normal human beings around everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 40 | Don’t let the Narcissists & Fuckbois break your goodness.Is this an actual Keanu quote? Because goddamn I love that man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:59 PM |
| 26 | Reddit: home of the most disgusting porn and menReddit has tons of depraved content. Which is why I think it's hilarious when males and pickmes on Reddit post about how bad this sub is, when we have only 48,000 subscribers. Like, fuck off with the "how can Reddit allow /femaledatingstrategy to exist! So sexist!!" Call the goddamn waaahhhmbulance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 26 | How could I have been so blind??Ew. You don't get to say 'take it slow' and then expect sex. What the fuck. Their stupidity continues to astound me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 28 | How could I have been so blind??Thought so. Been there, done that. Keep on keeping along, you're fine as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 9 | Can a guy who makes significantly less than you be a HVM for you?This. And if he worked less than me, great, he can clean the house and keep my dog company. Win-win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 36 | Man wants to cheat on wife with nanny after she gives him "permission". This is what being a pickme will get you.lol I love how he's dumb enough to think her statement on cheating means she'd openly allow him to get with their nanny. How delusional do you have to be to interpret that at all. I interpret it as meaning she'd take him to the cleaners if he got another woman knocked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:04 PM |
| 99 | How could I have been so blind??Don't let it get you angry. Men like this pull shit time and time again. I bet he'd do something stupid or disrespect you. Odd comments. You'd let them slide. Because you just started seeing each other, right? You were probably being too sensitive. Then, as time went on, you noticed a pattern of behaviour. You'd think "Okay, this isn't right, is it? Why is he doing this/talking to me like this?" and you probably made a soft comment, "can you please not talk like that?" or "I really don't appreci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:54 PM |
| 22 | Want to have high standards but I also miss sexYou just left a relationship a few days ago. If you wait a while the feeling may pass. I don't mean your drive to have sex, but it won't feel as desperate if you wait. Give yourself a few months to get your head right, and see how you feel then. Your head will be clear again and then you may be in a better position to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:49 PM |
| 9 | Want to have high standards but I also miss sexYou can also go on cuddling websites to cuddle What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 13 | We are all looking for HVM and that term is suggestive and subjective for us all but here’s an idea, do we think that being a HVM comes with age such as dating older or you can obtain it at any age?This is a great, succinct response and I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 14 | We are all looking for HVM and that term is suggestive and subjective for us all but here’s an idea, do we think that being a HVM comes with age such as dating older or you can obtain it at any age?I know one man that I can confidently, 100% say is HVM. He is younger than I am, early-mid 20's. He is polite, kind, considerate, hard-working, loves children. His family is lovely and he is close with them (not a pre-req for me, but I can appreciate that). He loves his sister and his mother, but not in a weird way some guys do. He helps his family out all the time, and regularly does work around the home for his grandparents. We're in a tight-knit friend group. He is the only man I've met that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 38 | “I don’t chase women, women chase me”Oh yeah, because your arrogance is sooo attractive. If women are chasing you, why are you on an app? Idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 17 | Her Husband literally moved to another state without telling her, her family thinks he’s toxic, and sis still can’t let him go. 😭"He would pack my things and leave them by the door." She's probably better off. Controlling men do this. My dad would do this kind of shit to every woman he dated after my mother. He'd beg them to move in with him and then he'd use it to control them when they fought. One day he put all of a woman's things on our front lawn. He's a coward. I bet he gets off on her trying to get him to come back because he keeps playing hot and cold and lying to her ("oh yeah baby I'm gonna come back I'm just vi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 15 | Marriage Ruined Because of Threesome and Sex PositivityYeah... makes me think it's fake. I didn't even finish reading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here not actively dating/hooking up and not planning to ?I will update! She's also a psychologist, so I am using her to get some advice on what I should improve for myself. I'm pretty happy with where I am in life/appearance, etc. But I keep falling to the same patterns with the men I date and would like someone with her experiences to help me figure out why this is and what I can change about myself to prevent this in the future. I am considering her services for dating as well, as she will set women up on dates for free if they meet her criteria. So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 30 | Gay man now terrified of women because of FDS. 🙄 He doesn’t even date women but he’s still mad, because, you know, scrotes gonna scrote.gay men sexually assaulting women, which is horseshit Not true. I had a friend of a friend grab my breast without asking me the first time I met him. He claimed to be gay. He also grabbed my ass another time after that. All without warning. I stopped hanging around her when he was around. Like, why would he think he was welcome here anyway? A gay man is still a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:47 PM |
| 45 | Freinds with benefits is over!I had a discussion about this with a male friend recently. He was curious about my dating perspectives as he knows I spend a lot of time on subs like these (but I did not name the subs). He agreed when I said what you said - that this 'forever-girlfriend' shit didn't used to be a thing. I mean, there's a lot of things that are gone from that time period that we can do without. But with the 'sexual revolution', commitment is much harder to find. Granted, he lived with a woman for years that he ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 10 | Freinds with benefits is over!I'm surprised it is to this degree. I pick and choose which parts of FDS I utilise to help me keep my boundaries in check, but I really thought 'casual sex' would be mostly admonished here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 29 | Freinds with benefits is over!Glad I'm not the only one who noticed that. Sounds like manspeak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Freinds with benefits is over!Truth. It's when I started doubting myself that I started fucking up. If I'm missing out on shit because of it I don't really care. I can't miss what I never had! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 13 | A true strategic genius- the story is even better: https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XA0ligfGL/?igshid=16jnp0m3mvtbuTrue, I know Korean and Chinese families like this as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Found this load of utter hooey online. This is straight up TRP teachings.LOL my dog pouts when he doesn't get what he wants. He will turn his head and avoid looking at me and huff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Freinds with benefits is over!hahaha omg I didn't really notice that either. Like Oscar Wilde said: "Everything in moderation, including moderation" I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 17 | Freinds with benefits is over!100% black and white thinking is really unhealthy, regardless of what it's about. I kind of disagree with this. All my life I've been told to compromise what I want, and it made me deeply unhappy. It wasn't until I said to myself "Fuck everyone else, it's my life, only this will ever be acceptable for me". Sometimes it is good to be black and white, because it allows you to keep the boundaries that are truly important to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 15 | A true strategic genius- the story is even better: https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XA0ligfGL/?igshid=16jnp0m3mvtbuI don't think so. From what I saw, she seems to be doing fine with men in spite of it. She did an interview as well and owned it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 115 | Freinds with benefits is over!I don't understand FWB. I can't separate sex and love. If I like him enough to call him my friend and sleep with him and call it good sex, then why isn't he my boyfriend? Whatever works for other women, but I do love sex. I do have a high drive (twice per day would be my perfect world), but I'm not interested in sex without love. I think some of these comments here from women with FWBs are disregarding that some people view sex differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:17 PM |
| 21 | A true strategic genius- the story is even better: https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XA0ligfGL/?igshid=16jnp0m3mvtbuAh, then that makes sense why she wears gyaru fashion. He's dumb. Of course a hostess club worker would put money first. Like, maybe a bait-and-switch would work in a world where divorce isn't a thing, but... hello... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 43 | A true strategic genius- the story is even better: https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XA0ligfGL/?igshid=16jnp0m3mvtbuMen can't do anything wrong, ever. It's always our fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:07 PM |
| 42 | A true strategic genius- the story is even better: https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XA0ligfGL/?igshid=16jnp0m3mvtbuIs she a gyaru? Anyway, I think she is right in that he mislead her. I wouldn't marry for money, but she made it clear that was what she wanted. He shouldn't have behaved one way while dating and then expect things to change once she married him. It's not like she was pretending. Maybe he wanted to believe she loved him, but somehow I think he wanted a trophy. Neither of them married for love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 7 | The audacity? Lol idek with this one but it screams LVM negging childless dog owners 😲Wow what a winning dating bio! How about you be a normal person and focus on what you do want, and just ignore women who are obsessed with their dogs? Like, she's not going to look at her dog and be like "oy vey, if I didn't love you so much I could be with a charmer like this guy!" Women obsessed with their dogs would be incompatible with you anyway so who cares. Date someone who doesn't have a dog. Signed, a woman obsessed with her dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 4 | The REAL clingy sexHoly fuck your post just made me realise what a hypocrite my ex was. He'd rarely text me back within a reasonable time frame but if I didn't text him back or answer his call right away or stayed 'too long' at the grocery store I was 'being shady'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:40 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else here not actively dating/hooking up and not planning to ?I'm not looking for anything right now. I tried but I just... nah. My life is almost perfect right now. I'm very content, comfortable, enjoying everything. I'm really obsessed with work right now - I love my coworkers, I love my patients. And I do a lot around my job because I'm completing my certification, so I'm trained to do a lot of things in case I can't assist with other things. I can't say I don't believe in love. I do. I really, truly believe I had it once. Things fell apart there for ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:57 AM |
| 34 | TF is going on tonight; their ways of saying casual is evolving. Wasted my daily OLD 20 minutes!Your response was Queen level. Beautifully said. Very classy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:47 AM |
| 19 | And he was doing so well until this point.ohmigod I think I'd rather never date again ever than deal with this shit. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | For those women who believe in the 3 month wait ruleI have mostly removed myself from the market. I do enjoy intimacy, but I am tired of being burned. I don't enjoy being intimate with someone who is probably going to cheat or start treating me badly. I have a good job, a house, a dog, great friends, great hobbies. I would rather remove myself from the market than spend time with someone who will disrespect me in the future. I'm okay with that. You think most of us aren't aware of what we are doing, but we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | For those women who believe in the 3 month wait ruleThen you aren't high value and your opinion doesn't matter. A HVW wants a man who wants her for more than sex. You think a HVM is all about money? That says how daft you truly are, and I see that you would provide little to my life in turn. I don't see your inherent value, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 45 | [Rant] LVM get SALTY when you assert yourself... even if they don't want to sleep with you smhomg yes. Going into a video game store or an electronics store to buy something (that you have already researched/chosen) for yourself when you are a woman is especially a total pain in the ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:35 PM |
| 21 | How do y’all feel about this?A girls feeling are almost ALWAYS right. There lots of reading online and psychology behind cheating. Do you have any recommended reading on why women are so good at detecting it, even when the changes are very subtle? I would be very interested in reading it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:55 PM |
| 113 | How do y’all feel about this?She's right that everything in the dark will come to light eventually. But every time I've had a 'feeling' that a guy was cheating, I was right. Something about their behaviour changes, and I can't quite name the changes but they are there. If I ever get that feeling I'm certainly not ignoring it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:59 PM |
| 31 | Red flags on tinderMy insides curled up and died after I read that. Nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:49 PM |
| 63 | Save your motherly instincts for your family, friends, or children, NOT MEN.This is a good point. I haven't really felt the need to 'mother' a boyfriend since I got my dog. A fact my (now ex) boyfriend pointed out shortly after I got him. I wanted to live together, he didn't, so I got a puppy and lost the man. No regrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Can a guy be HVM if he still lives with his mom?I know you're only just talking now and not even in a relationship at this point, so it's up to you how you would like to proceed. But if a long-term, monogamous, live-together-relationship is what you want and what you are trying to achieve at this point in your life, these are things worth considering or else you are wasting your time. Best of luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:40 PM |
| 16 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.I guess if that's what you're into, but I wouldn't want some guy I didn't give two shits about getting a good look at me like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 28 | Met this dude on a dating app and he won’t straight up ask me out, what’s the deal? Low effort or what? I’m not chasing anyone 💁🏻♀️Awww cute, he wants a penpal /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 19 | Can a guy be HVM if he still lives with his mom?Okay, but his mom doesn't work. Who's going to pay her bills? Do you want a husband? Do you want your husband paying that forever? Like, what is the long term plan for this? Do you want kids one day? What if you need to take time off work to recover/bond with the baby? How will bills be paid if he's paying for his mom's household on top of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 52 | How to stop being the insecure/needy gf?Basically this. This is the only thing that helps. Between working 50-60 hours per week, looking after my dog, my hobbies, my friends, and cleaning/cooking/trying to get proper sleep I just don't have the time or energy available for people who make me feel bad anymore. Nothing pisses me off more than someone who wastes my time. I look forward to weekends of nothing because they are so rare. When you get in that mindset, LVM ain't shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 53 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.But how are you going to engage in casual sex with men who can only make you orgasm? How do you know Stanley Joe Bob III is going to do it for you if you've never slept with him before? I think casual sex of any kind is bad, but that's my personal choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 33 | Pickme’s at it again with their nonsenselol no. If I was paying I want to be the one physically paying. What the fuck kinda logic is this? If you don't believe in gender roles then why would you hand him your money to make it look like he's the one paying??? ?????????????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 45 | They Always Come BackDudes always try to come back. No matter how bad they treat you or how things ended. I don't even reply to them. I think it's funny when they treated you like shit and they send a wave of apologies and you don't reply and they just keep texting. Especially when they start alternating between kissing your ass and insulting you. Really shows their true colours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Porn culture attracts LVMs. You heard it here.I have sex for money and let men from all over the world see my naked body get fucked for money! And sometimes they probably steal my content and save/share it on the internet where I don't get any money! So empowering! /s Support of pornography is not feminist, it supports the degradation of women and allows men to buy you with their money. And your boyfriend doesn't value you if he's okay with other men fucking you/seeing you naked. Pride is more important than money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 58 | Friendly reminder that LVW can be just as toxic to your life as a LVMWomen who view other women as competition, are jealous, say "I don't like being friends with other women", make excuses for men treating women badly, are unfortunately not allies. Women should consistently put other women up, not try to bring them down. Real queens fix each other's crowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 23 | I feel so defeatedYeah, for a second meetup. Not even after a second date. That is a lack of respect. She refused a kiss from him on the first date as is reasonable, and he is unreasonable to try to weasel his way into sex like that. Gross. That's not picky. And if that chick's husband thinks it's picky then that says more about him and how he views women than about the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:27 AM |
| 26 | This is why I don't date.lol from what I've heard most men swipe right on every chick and see what matches, so it's not like it's a huge compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 48 | Study: Men Divorce Their Wives in Sickness More Than Vice VersaAnd in other breaking news: Study confirms that fire can cause burns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20No ): | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | I pay $3/mo for an app that gives me their real name with their phone number. 100% worth it. Never met a murderer but lots of catfish.DM please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20How do I bite the bullet on clothes I've been looking at? How do I know if I'm going to wear them often enough to justify them? I've picked all these cute things. Ugh I really really really hate shopping for clothes. But I need to upgrade my wardrobe. I just don't know what I want ): | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 62 | Doubtful. Somehow still surprised by the scummy things men say when behind a keyboardThey really treat OLD like it's free prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 71 | Anyone else getting spammed by incels lately? I think it's from posting in this and similar subredditsImagine wasting your time messaging random women on the internet because Becky and Stacey won't pay attention to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 50 | LVM wants an entrapreneur girl to build a business with but he is scared she might be too independent. DO NOT BE BECKY THE BUILDEROmg this comment: I don’t remember who said it but, it is believed that when a woman abandons her “nature” calling of being a caregiver and mother and goes on to be self employed or a top CEO she then feels very depressed and empty or something is presumably different in her chemistry. I wish I had the book or video of where I heard it, but basically it’s confirmed by sciences as well as several examples. CoNFirmEd bY teh sCiences Citation needed, dork. I back up everything I say with research. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 04:15 PM |
| 166 | FDS is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnaturalGod men are fucking stupid. The amount of times I've said I want to get married and they go "buT NO mAn iS jUSt gOinG to jUMP INto mArrIAge" like you want to marry the first man that asks. Fuck off, idiot. And take your 'casual' bullshit with you. Also, great gif reply. I literally lol'd. Hope you blocked his ass after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Queen kicks out her deadebeat ExHe really wasn't. But I played 'pickme', and he kept acting worse and worse and just thought I'd take it forever. 'Pickme' always loses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 12 | Men say they can't bang a paycheck yet they complain if their GF is low earnerThat's where this myth with women being 'hypergamous' comes from. It's men who are predisposed to hypergamy. How many men have starter wives and then ditch their first wife for a hotter, younger model once they have more? How many men are like this dumbass here wondering if they can 'do better'? It's all projection. Men are way more likely to engage in 'hypergamy'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:16 PM |
| 25 | Queen kicks out her deadebeat ExHe'll be fine. An ex of mine ended up homeless (we never lived together but he expected me to keep fronting him rent money even when he kept cheating on me). There's shelters. He'll figure his shit out or he won't. Not her problem that he's a dumb fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 57 | Another day, another old man who marries a much younger woman from the Philippines who wonders why she doesn’t want him for who he is and is eager to start a family. Men are hypergamous.Not just that - he says women and girls. WTF?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:33 PM |
| 12 | What a patheic attempt to troll. His post history is normal stuff...but still giving you Ladies some warning about this creep!Counter-offer: He can pay you $100 to suck your rainbow one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 12 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.I don't get it, either. People act like blocking is so extreme but... why? If you have no reason or desire to communicate further who cares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:49 PM |
| 29 | What do you do if the guy doesn’t confirm the date until the day of?If I arranged the meeting place and time with him prior, and he hits me up to confirm that day of that's all good. But if a time and location hasn't been discussed before then, it's a no from me. Mostly because I like to hermit and if I don't feel like going out anymore I'm not going to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 130 | Another day, another old man who marries a much younger woman from the Philippines who wonders why she doesn’t want him for who he is and is eager to start a family. Men are hypergamous.Wow. Imagine being in your sixties and still this delusional. Also, this line is gross: Perhaps there will be women, girls, on my path at some point. But also also, I thought you were going your own way. Leave girls alone you dirty old man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 31 | Men say they can't bang a paycheck yet they complain if their GF is low earnerAlso this from his post history: "I'm concerned that if I leave things up in the air much longer there's a chance she could walk away from it or at least question what's up. I think I'm going to define what we are/ask her next time we catch up. The only doubt in my mind is I've got the mindset of 'but what if' the next person I meet is even better. " What a trash human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 40 | Is porn cheating? A sweet answer.The way I see it, if a dude can be satisfied with porn he doesn't need a real girl around. It's a gross habit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:53 AM |
| 2 | This is what I grew up withThat's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:21 AM |
| 19 | This is why you have to set a timeline for marriage and dump him if he doesn't propose by then!!!I legit had one dude say I would be no fun to date because I 'just want marriage'. This guy had never met me ever. I was baffled. He was mid-30's, I'm almost in my 30's. Like, if you don't know if you want marriage yet at that age or not you're a forever manchild at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:59 PM |
| 65 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢They think that a 'HVM' is a guy with money. That's why they cry and rage about us, because we're supposedly all gold-diggers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢Sounds legit. I hope he's very happy : ^ ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I know I have a 'clock' going on and a timeline but... I just can't bring myself to want to date right now. Now that I'm living fully on my own and I've separated myself from my family I'm just... so content. I think about dating again and I feel a little bit of excitement at the thought, but mostly... I don't want to put the effort in. And then I think about what if I did start seeing someone again, and then I let myself get attached, and then slowly, slowly they start all those behaviours that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:46 PM |
| 63 | This is why you have to set a timeline for marriage and dump him if he doesn't propose by then!!!I love all the comments saying it's not fair she's pressuring him to get married, when he states right off the bat that he knew that was something she wanted. Like what the fuck? Is she supposed to sit on her hands and just wait and wait until he decides what he wants? She's not pressuring him - she needs to know for her own damn future. Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 27 | I feel for this guy, started using porn at age 9 and developed a full blown addiction. I hope he gets help, but ladies this last line red flagged me. Women are not here to make men feel better about themselves and emotionally caretake them. Let them feel bad. Let them feel the consequences.Good riddance. Men who think the abuse and objectification of women is an acceptable and enjoyable thing to view need to be wiped from the gene pool. Maybe he's so pornsick he'll never have the opportunity to reproduce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 06:44 AM |
| 3 | How to meet a HMV while studying abroad?You can try language exchange meet-up groups. Those are good ways to meet local guys and girls. I used hipenpal over there, and was able to meet people that way, too. Some of the guys were interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, but I was dating already at the time. I'm not sure if things like Tinder are popular there now or not. I had a friend that was using it and it was mostly expats from what I saw. This was a couple years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 6 | How to meet a HMV while studying abroad?Yes, we tried to work through it but it was too much stress for him. I broke off the engagement to the other guy because he tried to cheat on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:12 PM |
| 8 | How to meet a HMV while studying abroad?So, I did an internship in Korea and lived there for almost two years. I've talked to girls who have worked in Japan, and a couple who worked in China and Taiwan. You need to be careful with the men you meet there. Some of them 'hunt' for white girls, because white girls have a reputation for 'putting out' easily. A lot of them will also have no intention of a serious relationship with you because their parents do not want them to settle down with a white girl. I was with a Korean man for five y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I've been one of those girls. She has to want to leave on her own. Being told to ditch your loser boyfriend can make you double-down harder in an attempt to see that he's not a total loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 16 | Short pickmeishas who shame taller women who want taller menlol, I'm a short chick who's dated tall dudes and heard the same thing. These men dated me because they like short chicks. They won't date tall girls, anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 30 | What are some of your dealmakers?Genuinely liking dogs. My border collie is my little prince and he's needy. It's just me and him all the time so he is always with me on my bed, cuddling with me, etc. He has so-so boundaries with other people, but not the best because again, mostly he's just with me. Any guy I date has to be genuinely okay with my dog being all up in his business. Also, liking to talk about things 'just because'. I like to talk about the news, weird things I read on the internet, 'what-ifs' like what would you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:31 PM |
| 17 | Why are peoples considering kylie Jenner a downgrade compared to her baby daddy?That doesn't negate her deep-seated feelings of loneliness. Trauma is trauma. It is good to be able to feel empathy for all people. I grew up with very little, and I built up everything I've had on my own without any help. I've been without electricity and water because I couldn't pay my bills when I first left home. Loneliness is painful, too. My comment only expressed sadness for her loneliness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:09 AM |
| 42 | In case u were following my Victoria series... this was both hers and his responseStop talking to him. Seriously. He just wants attention. Just block him. He was already freaking out about being blocked by that other chick. He's never going to care. He's always going to be a cheat. There is something fundamentally wrong with him - just block and move on with your life. He thrives off of this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:44 AM |
| 19 | What Onision and Kai/Lainey says about polyamory, grooming, and the trouble with being open-mindedI always thought poly men were more predatory. When did this line of thinking that poly is magical come to be? Maybe I'm too old for all this, but when did being poly become something cool? Also... Onision with movie star good looks? Maybe when he was starting out, but have you seen him the last few years? Greasy as fuck with nasty skin. He ain't cute. The internet has been onto Onision for ages. And all this recent negative press is a good thing for him. He's eating it up. He's a narcissist - h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 96 | Why are peoples considering kylie Jenner a downgrade compared to her baby daddy?I felt really sad for her when I read a quote of hers: "I had the easiest pregnancy ever. You never feel alone—I was really sad to not be pregnant anymore.” I really think she wanted a nice family for her own. And even if Kylie were an 'immature clingy bitch', it's never okay to cheat. People defending cheaters are also garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 11:20 PM |
| 70 | Advice on /r/WhereareallthegoodmenOh, well then he aged like a fine wine. Why is he whining about 24 year olds who sleep around? Shouldn't he be draped in like, ten of them right now? I thought all 20 year olds throw themselves at these silver foxes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 49 | Advice on /r/WhereareallthegoodmenA man who sleeps around is a stud. A woman who sleeps around is trash. smh And then they say it's because women carry babies and men don't. But these same dudes cry foul if they knock a chick up and aren't ready to be fathers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 55 | Advice on /r/Whereareallthegoodmen"Throw yourself on the guy's mercy. Do whatever he asks or expects of you. Accept whatever conditions he puts on your relationship. Offer him a prenup waiving alimony forever. Include in the prenup an adultery penalty, and give him primary custody of any children you have in the event of divorce. " Well, being that men are bigger sluts than women could ever be (I mean, most of them wish they could be), I agree with this. Put that in the pre-nup and if he cheats you get everything. Edit: They're … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:26 PM |
| 26 | Notes from "Get the Guy" by Matthew HusseyAnd who even wants a man like that? Being married and having a family should be something someone chooses because they want it. Not something they have to be coaxed into. Fuck all that noise. I'm not going to be anyone's 'ball and chain' and no woman should ever settle for that because 'that's how men are'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:53 PM |
| 18 | Notes from "Get the Guy" by Matthew HusseyToo right. Exactly how I feel reading all that stuff from most authours. I ain't about that life. I got other things to do lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 41 | Notes from "Get the Guy" by Matthew HusseyThe way all these books talk about men makes them sound like scared wild animals lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | “If I can’t have sex with you, I don’t want you in my life”That's fair and good if it works for you. I just have no desire to be friends with people I've had sex with, and I'm uncomfortable with the men I date doing that so I would never do that. Everyone has their own boundaries! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 6 | “If I can’t have sex with you, I don’t want you in my life”All of this. I don't want to be friends with someone I'm interested in that rejected me, or friends with my exes, or be friends with someone who doesn't see me as just a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:59 PM |
| 5 | if you want your partner to take you seriously and invest in you or put effort in solving your relationship problems and to stop treating you poorly then listen to this ladyI agree with the general idea of this, although it isn't something I would want to do. I don't think this kind of behaviour would be necessary with a HVM, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 31 | and then there's this assholelol what the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:06 PM |
| 32 | What's the intial red flags you ignored from past relationships?My most recent ex: "My dream is to become a personal trainer and train all of my friends' wives." This man was a workaholic, had barely any free time for me as it was, and I was supposed to share that with a bunch of random women? I made it 100% clear right then that he would not be doing that if he was in a relationship with me. He got pissy, went on a rant about how he's known his friends for years and how dare I be weird about his GASP sisters. For the rest of our relationship he would be wei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:08 AM |
| 4 | Only abusers pick pickmes. If you had an abusive father, your mom was/is a pickme.I literally want everyone I care about to leave me so that I can stop worrying about it. Wow, that hit me like a ton of bricks. I think this is me. I can't handle it anymore when I bring up something in a relationship that makes me feel bad and it doesn't change. Then the stress of 'oh, I don't like this thing and I brought it up and now I'm a nag and now I'm in trouble and I'm going to be punished for it'. Alone is easy. Being with someone is hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:30 AM |
| 18 | HELP! Polyamory + HVM (Long, but I really need help here)Polyamory: the practice of engaging in multiple sexual relationships with the consent of all the people involved How are we misunderstanding? Just because it isn't for us doesn't mean we misunderstand the very basic aspect of it. And all of us have told you that if the arrangement with him doesn't work for you (ie: never getting married), then drop it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 29 | HELP! Polyamory + HVM (Long, but I really need help here)None of us can answer that question for you. But, in my experience, you can't be okay with something you aren't okay with. IMO you're only setting yourself up for perpetual disappointment. I think polyamory is stupid because I am monogamous. I have no desire to fuck other people when I'm in a relationship, and I expect the same of my partner. I don't understand people who want to sleep with more than one person, and I don't care to. That's that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 29 | Only abusers pick pickmes. If you had an abusive father, your mom was/is a pickme.My father is controlling and abusive. You can't have discussions with him about anything. He enabled male family to rape my sister and I, and when we told him what happened he refused to stand up to his family about it. Somehow it was our fault. I was four years old when I was molested. My sister was 12 when our male cousin held her down and let his friend rape her. I blame my mom just as much. She did try to leave him once, but my dad woke my sister and I up in the middle of the night and took … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:14 PM |
| 84 | "Man" hangs out with tinder girl, has 3 dates with her, fails to establish exclusivity, smashes, and is upset she's hooking up with others. Daily reminder that you don't owe them shit and daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!!!!!!This is why I dislike hookup culture. I used Tinder for about two weeks after a breakup a few years ago, and a couple (not all) of the guys I went out with on there got weirdly possessive of me even though I'd only hung out with them once and had said I wasn't ready for another serious relationship. It's scary, and there is absolutely a double standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:31 PM |
| 48 | Women: Birth Control Causes me agonizing ongoing pain both physically and mentally. Men: BUT HWAT ABOUT MUH PENIS?!! CONDOMS SUCK. YOU HAVE TO MEET US HALFWAY!!😡😡🤦♀️ (Scrotes mad about my last post)Yeah, they legit seem to think this whole sub is about taking advantage of men and using men and getting as much tail as we can. Or they think we're all obese, ugly, hairy, etc and that men don't want to touch us. Either or. Personally, the latter is my favourite interpretation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 01:10 AM |
| 23 | Women: Birth Control Causes me agonizing ongoing pain both physically and mentally. Men: BUT HWAT ABOUT MUH PENIS?!! CONDOMS SUCK. YOU HAVE TO MEET US HALFWAY!!😡😡🤦♀️ (Scrotes mad about my last post)The point is right here ------> . Their head is right.... . . . here ----> . They're too stupid to read, and if they know how to read they don't understand reading comprehension. Also they don't care lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Star Wars: Another Reminder That Popular Culture (written by men) teaches women to normalize abuse as “love”.Slight off-topic, but yeah I remember watching 'Girl With the Dragon Tattoo' and that scene was immensely upsetting to me. I didn't expect it either and I was pretty pissed off about it. imo there is no reason to ever include a rape scene that graphic, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 10:16 PM |
| 21 | Star Wars: Another Reminder That Popular Culture (written by men) teaches women to normalize abuse as “love”.Hahaha I'm seeing the movie tomorrow and I called it. I knew this was going to happen. No way they were going to let Kylo just be a villain after all that familial love they were showing with Han, Leia, and Kylo. Fucking Disney. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Male friends?I have male friends in one of my friend groups. We all share a hobby and it's a good mix of guys and girls. Occasionally they make slightly inappropriate remarks about us girls, but they are good dudes and are always supportive of any of us dating. Two of our friends are married and their husbands have come along and I think have had a good time. One guy brings his girlfriend along sometimes. Idk if there's feelings there or anything with any of us, but I feel lucky to have them. I've had guy fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 12:24 AM |
| 6 | It needs to be done from time to timeraises hand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 09:21 PM |
| 11 | Snap from a convo I had with a friend who saw her guy with someone else. NEVER let him bleed you dry!!!She needs to listen to some good ol' Tove Lo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Fascist Dating?You are entitled to an opinion, but no one is entitled to an ignorant opinion. Conservative, right-wing women get abortions, too. That's what I took issue with. I do agree, though. I move on if it isn't dating related (usually, I've probably taken bait before though tbh). I didn't read the full extent of what went on. I was just pointing out that one comment was little rude. But I've been rude before, too. Thanks for the comment on my username! I do like me some Spongebob memes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 09:00 PM |
| 8 | Fascist Dating?I saw that thread, and while I don't remember every comment you made Leftist pick-mes prolly getting prego by the men we exploit here, hahaha don’t act like I didn’t hit a nerve due to personal history babe That one was a little rude and presumptuous, be real. It isn't only lefties who get abortions, see: The Only Moral Abortion is My Abortion And it's just a flair. You can still carry on enjoying the content you like here and ignoring the content you dislike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:46 PM |
| 4 | How do you verbally set expectations that you want a relationship?LOL that's a great reply. Especially considering I've known many guys who think I've had sex with every man I've dated, which I find incredibly offensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 17 | Husband gets wife a vacuum for Christmas in 2019 and doesn’t understand why she’s mad.I guess. Maybe he can train it to clean bathrooms, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 48 | Protip: Swerve any man that treats you like a porn categoryYou're my heaven on earth, my H.O.E HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA so funny. Not. I can't believe any dude would think a girl he's hitting on would find that endearing. Even* if she were interested in sleeping with you NSA it's incredibly demeaning. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 110 | Husband gets wife a vacuum for Christmas in 2019 and doesn’t understand why she’s mad.It doesn't even matter if other people think he's the asshole or not in this situation. His wife, the woman actually involved, did not appreciate the gift. That should be all that matters. He can look for justification all he wants but that isn't going to save his marriage. If they divorce or separate, he'll be on his own with no one to cook and clean for him. But hey, at least he can feel like he was right! What a petty fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 43 | Lowwww effort FWB I recently ended things with never paid for food/drinks/gas, only wanted to hang when he was drunk, doesn't text me for two weeks, then sends me this (he's referring to his dog). That's a NO from me lol. Do I even respond? 😂 The sex was good while it lasted but WOW...Dog daycares are a thing. He can board his dog there. So rude to ask for 'this weekend' from someone he doesn't even interact with regularly. Poor planning on his part. Don't even reply. If you do: he should have asked earlier as you have plans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 05:12 PM |
| 13 | Dating guys who have dogsSo, I have a dog. He's really high-energy and pretty needy. He's young. If you want to be able to have sleepovers regularly, you may be stuck going to their place. But it honestly depends on the dog. Some dogs are able to be alone for longer than others. But even with my crazy boy I was able to have a sleepover away from home once a week. But I definitely can't spend entire weekends away without notice, as I need to be sure my dog can go to daycare. You can ask men with dogs how they feel about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 04:56 PM |
| 16 | I rather be with the "asshole" 🙄/b/ is one of the boards on 4chan So it was a joke that the 'nice guy' was attending a convention for people who frequent /b/, which is not a place where an actual nice guy would hang out. Edit: third frame on the right side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:49 PM |
| 55 | I rather be with the "asshole" 🙄I fucking lost it at /b/ con I literally spat out my coffee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Pick Me Says What?I did, was prescribed birth control, obviously. I have had zero problems since and my iron levels are PERFECT. You can't get birth control OTC where I live. My point was that birth control is for more than not having babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Pick Me Says What?I did, was prescribed birth control, obviously. I have had zero problems since and my iron levels are PERFECT. My point was that birth control is for more than not having babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:26 PM |
| 99 | Is it normal for your boyfriend to masturbate to your friends? How would you react to finding out?Is this one of those things where guys just have fucked up thoughts and you have to let it go You don't let it go. "Boys will be boys" is a poor excuse for bad behaviour and is not acceptable. Respect is respect regardless of genitalia. Your boyfriend straight up told you he has thoughts of fucking your friends. He told you this. What the fuck would he say if you said you thought about jumping on his best friend's dick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:53 AM |
| 42 | Come watch r/Tinder collectively roast a 42 Year Old Man who “wants kids some day” but wants to break up with his girlfriend because he “doesn’t want to date a single mom”.Oh damn, he also talks about sharing inappropriate pics with internet chicks while he supposedly has a gf. A real stand-up dude. Oh and that other post where he stopped having sex with his now-ex and just cheated on her instead. So she cheated on him and then they had a bad breakup. A total loser. A serial-cheating loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:01 AM |
| 21 | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futureIf we marry it will be paid off within a year or two It sounds like she's not going to start paying it off until they are married. I hope. If this chick has any common sense she will get a pre-nup with him that states that if they separate/divorce within 'X' amount of time (her choosing), he has to pay everything she puts into his debt back to her. I bet if she even suggested this that he would show his true colours and she can run for the hills. If men think men can't be gold digging, two-faced… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:47 AM |
| 93 | Come watch r/Tinder collectively roast a 42 Year Old Man who “wants kids some day” but wants to break up with his girlfriend because he “doesn’t want to date a single mom”.When was he planning to have children? When he's 50?! Good lord. This is what commitment-phobic fourty year olds sound like. "Oh, maybe one day...." BRO, 'ONE DAY' PASSED FOUR YEARS AGO WAKE UP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:34 AM |
| 45 | Pick Me Says What?Well, I am so very happy that the idea of growing a medium-sized watermelon inside of you to push out through your vag doesn't scare you. I am so very happy to hear that you are willing to have your vag sliced open and torn up to your asshole to give life to something that will kick at you and make you uncomfortable for nine months. I am so very happy to hear that you are willing to have your stomach sliced open just in case you have labour complications and cannot give birth vaginally to your t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Potential quality guy wants to fly me out to meetI'm sorry, but I don't see anything in any of those screenshots that suggests he's a "potential quality guy". Everything in his bio is pretty standard for a man's dating profile. Nothing he says is particularly well thought out. I don't know the scope of your conversations, but has he asked you anything thoughtful about yourself? Has he said anything unique or interesting about himself? How soon did he invite you out? To me it looks like he invited to fly you to him pretty quickly after chatting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 29 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?Nah, dating sucks. And I know not all guys suck. I have friends who are married to/living with some very wonderful dudes. My male friends are decent guys, too. I've just got a 'picker' that isn't very good. I think being comfortable being alone is wonderful, healthy, and totally fine. And sometimes it's good to just go into one's self and focus only on yourself and the things that you enjoy. The dating world will always be there should you want to return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:52 AM |
| 76 | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futureI was going to comment exactly this. Fucking gross. He can't spend $500.00 on something that will make her happy, but she can pay off his debt? What a loser. I can't believe she's even slightly okay with that arrangement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 2 | WTF is up with TINDER guysA good idea, but I am not religious. I was raised extremely Catholic (school and home life) so I still maintain some traditional values, but I'm happy being religion-free now. I have noticed that there are more options for religious people, though. There is a matchmaking service in my area that takes some female clients free of cost on a case-by-case basis, but I have not applied to it. The others seem to have extreme variance in cost. I'm really curious about your experience with the match make… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 05:30 PM |
| 35 | Ladies, don't let any man, make you feel guilty for not being his reab center. The post said : "ladies it's not your job to fix a man, that's his job". Then this guy commented thisy not fix him if u can Because an adult is the way they are because that's how they want to be. If you wanted to be "fixed" or "change" you would do it on your own. No man or woman should get involved in a relationship expecting their SO to be their saviour. That takes all the motivation off of you and puts it onto your SO, and then you'll both just end up resenting each other for different reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 25 | Do you all have sex timeline?3 months, at least. I don't trust my own judgement anymore. If I do date again and this doesn't work, then I'll push it to 6 months. Idgaf. This quote really explained a lot to me about my feelings. It becomes very hard for me to detach from the man I am involved with once I am sleeping with him. “Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.” ― Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 28 | Challenge my View: I believe men are incapable of truly loving women for who they areAt this point, men are so fucked up with their perversion, possessiveness and unending entitlement, I’m not positive WHAT is going on in their minds. This reminds me of the "Raising Gazorpazorp" episode on Rick and Morty lol. I think the Gazorpazorpian females had it right. Summer: What is this place? Female Gazorpazorpian: Paradise - We built it during the great passive-aggression, when the females separated from the males due to their increasingly destructive behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Ladies - all day, every dayREEEEEEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 40 | How a HVW handles a date requestThis is a perfect analogy lol I was trying to place why - when I so badly want a lasting marriage one day - I just don't want to date anymore. This is why. I'm exhausted. I'm tired. I'm sick to death of all the bullshit. I'm raising a puppy and it's almost the same feeling. My plan was to get another puppy in a couple months and I'm like "NOPE". Raising a dog is hard work - but at least there's a payoff. I've put so much time, money, energy into these dudes and I'm always left worse off than bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 07:50 PM |
| 13 | Women aren’t the only ones who lose fertility with age. Older men 35+ are more likely to have kids with birth defects. If you want kids, don’t settle. Go for someone who is young and still fertile!lol I know so many dudes irl who don't even hang out in the manosphere of the internet and they believe they have no biological clock. It's both depressing and funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 28 | WTF is up with TINDER guysI've totally looked into this and would do it in a heartbeat if I could justify the cost. I wish there was a dating site for marriage-minded people only. I paid for Match at one point and it was just as bad as all the free sites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 07:31 PM |
| 9 | How a Man Should Treat a Woman by Otto WeiningerI actually didn't even look up the authour right away - I went and read the text, then after rage-posting this thread I looked him up. I had a good ol' guffaw over it when I saw his photo, but then realised he commited suicide about six months after writing said book. Then I realised his book is rather infamous for being misogynistic and anti-Semitic, and I was unable to figure out if I just got trolled into reading it or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 24 | Side Chick Cautionary Tales: Sidechick gets pregnant, has miscarriage. Sidechick is mad he just wants to walk away from the whole situation and wants to know if she should tell his fiancée before they get marriedShe is trash and the dude is trash. Very unfortunate he left her, because he deserves her. I hope the fiance is told and gets as far away as possible from both garbage humans as fast as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 08:27 PM |
| 13 | This is why men must always pay for dates.Do you think SK-ii is worth the price? I have really wanted to try some things from that brand, but it's so pricey. Do you recommend a particular product(s) worth trying? I use a few of the same brands you listed in my own skincare routine, and my routine is basically the same sans a few steps you seem to take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 111 | This is why men must always pay for dates.Men don't understand that it is just generally more expensive to live as a woman. Women pay more for everything (inb4: BUT MUH TAXES bro shut the fuck up I don't get a tax benefit because I'm not a single mom). Also: In 1994, the State of California studied the issue of gender-based pricing of services and estimated that women effectively paid an annual “gender tax” of approximately $1,351 for the same services as men, the DCA noted. Source: Being a woman costs more than being a man And: Things … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 4 | On tumblr--Could be - clever either way, imo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 20 | Men wearing body-cams and recording usIt's progress, though that doesn't say much. When I was in Korea there was a girl who was gang-raped. She went home really drunk, and some dude offered her home. He watched her enter the security code to get into her apartment. He left and came back with a friend and they raped her. The title of the news article was "Why Women Shouldn't Go to Clubs". That same month I had someone spike my drink, and I got really sick and went to the hospital. My male Korean friends said I shouldn't have gone out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 09:10 PM |
| 13 | Men wearing body-cams and recording usAnd those male kpop stars who just got charged for doing that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 08:21 PM |
| 10 | Strategic help for attending the symphony soloAlso mind your own drinks, you are alone after all and safety first! This. And don't accept drinks from people you haven't met before. I made this mistake when I was out alone and something truly awful happened. Get your own drinks, and watch them. If you ever leave your drink alone, get a new one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 24 | On tumblr--Hahahaha, like ohmigod he really couldn't have come up with a better analogy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 23 | Strategic help for attending the symphony soloStalking this thread because I bought a fancy, sparkly outfit for New Year's and will also be attending a show alone. I'm so jelly that you thought of going to the symphony, though. I wanted to buy a sequin gown but I just bought a sequin dress because I wasn't sure if I could pull off something so formal by myself. You the real MVP, OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:14 PM |
| 99 | On tumblr--Y'know, dude isn't wrong. Hot dogs provide little nutritional value, just as most dudes provide little added value to a woman's life. A good comparison if I ever did see one. In addition to being high in fat and sodium, the processing of hot dogs may increase your risk of developing serious diseases. https://www.livestrong.com/article/495833-what-is-the-nutritional-value-in-hot-dogs/ Yes, I am pedantic. Thank you for noticing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 25 | Men wearing body-cams and recording usYou may be right. Some of the more infamous imageboards get this kind of content posted on them, more regularly than one might expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 30 | Alexandra Grant having her natural hair is big news apparently...Why is Keanu literally perfect I love silver hair on classy women. It's stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 01:35 AM |
| 57 | Man wastes 6 years of a woman's life in a "situationship", wants to know how to string her along some more while fucking other women. Daily reminder NOT to waste time in "situationships" and LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO FUCKING SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!!!I aM AN atTRaCtiVE MALE and i WAnt TO ENjOy my suCcesS I think I'll just type like this when I address idiotic, narcissistic men from now on. I can't help myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 01:34 AM |
| 46 | Remember, ladies. As Eartha Kitt has once said, "A man comes into my life and I have to compromise? We must think about that one again. A relationship is a relationship that has to be earned, not to compromise for."Compromise is for when I'm choosing which political party to give my vote to, not my personal life kthxbai | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 25 | Lesson 👏 Learned--Know Your WorthonoeZ seMeN iN mY dNA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 11:00 PM |
| 59 | Lesson 👏 Learned--Know Your Worth...all the semen in my DNA and pair bonding and evolutionary psychology... The hell did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 10:17 PM |
| 34 | PSA: If you don’t like what we have to say...Because if a chick is so done with her dude that she's posting a screenshot of a text he's sent her and asking for internet opinions, it's probably not the first time he's made her feel bad. And probably not the fifth time either - more like we're into double digits and she's wondering if she deserves sub-par treatment. Every time I've gone to the internet for advice, that relationship ended anyway and it probably would have been wiser if I'd just cut the cord when I first started feeling that w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 08:48 PM |
| 48 | Posted this on another community. & i couldn’t cross post it here. Do guys really think this will get me to swipe right on them with this intro? The last part...? Hm maybe that’s why people don’t answer you. It just got me so heated like who has the audacity to send that?Prove to me you aren't shallow like all the other girls. As if he's not shallow. If he wasn't shallow he'd try to find something in your profile to comment on and ask you about to make him get noticed. But as usual: low effort and baiting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Don't be the Girl Who Settles for an Almost RelationshipI'm not crying, you're crying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 57 | I saw this on Facebook, and it makes me upset. These dudes are literally relying on a woman being broken to even stand a chance with her.A woman who does not have a narrative for her life mapped out will be easily disrupted by the plethora of males with a more vivid narrative than hers, who are more practiced at maintaining it in varying situations. Mind. Blown. Idk why this simple line just explained so much to me but damn. Thanks, fam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 02:34 AM |
| 17 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!We’re just a team, we get shit done and I’m as excited to get home to see her today as I was the first time we went out 10 years ago. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 11:12 PM |
| 25 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Also, sperm banks are a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 13 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Lurk more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 16 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Bruh, I don't get none of that there fancy tax money. The hell you on about? I'm up to my ears in student loans and paying for a house and utilities by myself. Where do I sign up to get some dude to pay my electric bill, 'cause that sounds like a sweet deal to me, homie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 17 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Do you believe the 'red pill' to be a misogynistic way of living/thinking? What does a woman have to gain in her personal life if she involved herself with a man who subscribes to that way of thinking? Why do you subscribe to red pill philosophy, when largely a lot of the issues red pillers complain about are things that feminism have all tried to address in the past? Eg: child custody, military conscription | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:51 PM |
| 71 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!You realise this is a dating sub, right? It aims to help women become high value, and it aims to help those women find suitable mates. HVF for HVM. Lots of men will take advantage of women. Financially, emotionally, physically. I've tried everything, because I really want a committed partner in my life. I've tried paying their rent, for their food, their cigarettes. I've tried "going with the flow" and never asking for things. I've tried nicely asking for what I want. The truth is, most men just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 08:18 PM |
| 11 | Men who are bums know that they are bums. They don’t respect women who settle for bums even if they are the bum.ICE was looking for their most wanted: Mexican Joker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:37 PM |
| 14 | This guy kissed me but he warned me he has a complicated thing going on-do I even text backThis. He'll use your obvious affection for him to make himself feel better while he sorts out whatever "complicated" thing he has going on, but that'll be it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 62 | Men who are bums know that they are bums. They don’t respect women who settle for bums even if they are the bum.This stuff really scares me, and it's why I started coming to this sub and taking in the information here. I have dated broke-ass dudes and supported their asses and they treated me like I was nothing but dirt on their shoes. I don't want a man to pay for my dates and shit, but in my experience being the provider doesn't work out for women. You don't get respect, you get used and abused. They think (I guess, know) they can take advantage. If MRAs expect the tables to turn, maybe they should targ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:24 PM |
| 86 | What happens when you marry a MGTOWI don't understand this. No one forces a man to get married. If you got married it's because you proposed. Maybe if these guys would be upfront about what they actually want they could have lives they're actually happy with. Imagine being married to a man who thinks you're a bitch. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 75 | How dare a women deny his mediocre coffee and boba date?!Yea good luck with that Charming. I'd just ghost after that. His strategy may be a quick initial meeting, but imo that doesn't work when you're looking for something that isn't casual. Dinner conversation is likely to be more extensive than a bubble tea/coffee date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I made a mistake....It sounds like it wasn't a bad date so long as you had fun, per se, but I don't know if you should expect much from this dude even if he does want to see you again. It's not difficult for a guy to be nice to you in the first date, or even first couple dates. But you should consider: 1) He's a Tinder guy - most dudes off Tinder are going to try to sleep with you right away (most of any guys off any OLD site, tbh) 2) He went out with you specifically for drinks. Probably because of 1 3) He kept sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:41 AM |
| 14 | Men are regarded as 'rational' thinkers, women as 'emotional' thinkers, when the opposite is true.This is from my favourite blog. The author is a gender critical lesbian, so not everything she says would work for every person. But I find she writes well, she is thoughtful, and her works have gotten helped me work through a lot of the things I dislike about being female and the way I was brought up. Not sure if this fits here. Feel free to remove if this is not appropriate reading for this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Just wanted to get everyone's opinions about staying friends with an exWork-line border collie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Just wanted to get everyone's opinions about staying friends with an extl;dr: there's no reason to be friends with an ex I don't believe in being friends with exes. I work full time, I have responsibilities outside of work, and I have a couple hobbies that are time-consuming. I also really like my alone time, and I have an extremely high energy dog breed as a pet. With all of that, I barely see my close friends as it is. Why would I want to spend time with an ex? I don't have time for that. The only ex I have that I could be considered acquaintances with is a man I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 28 | My Husband is Abusive to our BabyY'know.... she better leave him. I feel empathy for women who get themselves in with bad dudes (been there, done that), but when you have a child it's another ball game. No more excuses. Figure it out, or you're just as guilty. My father was like this. Apparently sweet-as-pie to my mom until she was married and preggers. Then his real colours showed. My little sister and I were called bitches all the time, so was my mother. We were children. He beat us, cheated on my mom, bought himself new toys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:42 PM |
| 16 | Men can't meet basic expectations in a relationship, blame women for demanding too much. At the same time they blame them on wasting their youth on losers.Exactly! I just - broski, how can you not connect the dots? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 08:16 PM |
| 113 | Men can't meet basic expectations in a relationship, blame women for demanding too much. At the same time they blame them on wasting their youth on losers.Women judge you dating a young chick because it's obvious why you're dating a young chick. You have no intention of being serious with her because you want NSA. Duh. You just said it yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 07:49 PM |
| 68 | This is why even high paid men are LVM ... Dont be this chickAbsolutely. Read about what Elon Musk did to his first wife. https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5380/millionaire-starter-wife/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:08 PM |
| 39 | (His new girlfriend is involved) Trying to not contact himWhy he cheated on me the whole time. He's trying to triangulate you with her. That's why she's following you on Instagram now like a damn weirdo. Ask yourself - why would some chick who's in a happy relationship follow her bf's ex on social media? She could be a psycho, but more likely he's making her feel crazy and jealous. Block her on everything and absolutely block him on everything. Do not respond to him. Your complete and utter disregard for his existence will hurt him more than anything e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 12 | “Sir, this is a Wendy’s.” This sub was created to help empower women and mangry Redditors call for it to be banned. Meanwhile, dorky “dark triads” like this openly monetize and plug their shitty ebooks and seminars in the Manosphere and subs like TRP to spread misogynistic filth.This dude out here thinking he's got hair like Fabio when... no... no, you don't. At all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 05:24 PM |
| 11 | Never take a man back.Needed this today, thanks luv <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 06:03 PM |
| 39 | Stop telling men about your birth controlThey've been working on male birth control for a long time, and studies on what's been developed continually get halted because of side effects. Side effects like lowered libido and depressive mood disorders. So they don't pass trial. Because of side effects. The same damn side effects women experience with their own birth control. Here's an example: https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/101/12/4779/2765061 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 27 | The actual nerveSomeone in the comments asked what turned her off. Really? He had her walk to an ATM when she only had her card. That's so tasteless. I'll pay for a friend before making them walk to an ATM. Also mommy and daddy give him an allowance. But y'know, he's got that BMW. And bitches love BMWs, amirite? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 09:19 PM |
| 15 | Stop telling men about your birth controlYour friend is gonna have a bad time with that dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 45 | Low Value Men Be Like...I'm confused about why porn makes him feel less guilty than playing a game or reading a book ??? ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 10:48 PM |
| 136 | So We’re At War Now, I guess 🙄The equivalent of the Allies cracking the Enigma code Bruh, it's not that deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Have you successfully broken an addiction to a fuckboy? Tell us how you did it, please!Me too. It's really bad. I got a dog, though, and he helps me a lot. Plus, because of my dog I can't spend that much time out with dudes now even if I wanted to. But when you do get out of the fog, you'll feel a lot better. I promise. Everything gets better with practice and time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 32 | Went on a date with a dude I met last weekend. He complained about spending money on a date that went nowhere and implies I should have cut it short. Lol I’m so done dating.Does he think attempting to guilt you over the cost of the date is going to change your mind? Dating is expensive. Such is life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 34 | This guy has 2 wives. He's mad at the idea of a woman having 2 husbands.I knew a dude from another country that was working in my country. He'd worked in multiple countries, and had a wife in every country he'd worked in. He found out his wife in his home country was cheating on him and he lost his mind. When I pointed out that he was cheating with multiple women he said it was okay for men, but not for women. His guy friends all agreed with him, that his wife was dirty. These kinds of dudes literally believe women are of lower status to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Have you successfully broken an addiction to a fuckboy? Tell us how you did it, please!I totally understand where you are coming from, as I really struggle in relationships when I start to get feelings. I have a lot of childhood trauma and thus I put a lot of myself into my romantic relationships as I don't have a family. I understand it's really hard to do. But: Block, delete, and do not respond if he reaches out. Seriously. It will be really, really hard at first. But after the first week it's not so bad. And it gets easier every passing week. I hermit away in my room and binge … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 07:57 PM |
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