Her Husband literally moved to another state without telling her, her family thinks he’s toxic, and sis still can’t let him go. 😭

jalapenopancakes · 2020-01-18T18:06:36+00:00

Hey I mean, if this dumbass is gonna keep paying all her bills, sis may as well keep that up, go to school, get a job, and start rotational dating on his dime.

If I were her I’d keep up the act, but gain financial independence on the side while he’s being a twit. But I’m not the most moral so idk 🤷‍♀️

Snugglyy · 2020-01-18T18:03:15+00:00

a “DeprEsSeD” guy who can somehow stealthily orchestrate an entire move across state lines with no support system 🙄

Edit: well his wife and mommy are technically the support systems here, but my point is his actions aren’t really reading as depression.

Dudes like this want the self diagnosis for pity, but are actually terrified of going to a real doctor and getting diagnosed with Bipolar

Scotsburd · 2020-01-18T18:08:04+00:00

Honey, he's already gone.

thewetdog_ · 2020-01-18T18:03:11+00:00

Not only is he toxic but he’s an asshole pos. I mean, at least some toxic people act nice. Leaving her own stuff out of the house? Jfc. Poor chick. At least it sounds like she has a solid support system.

Wonder if the guy is forcing her hand because it has some financial implications as to who files the divorce first?

Also, what kind of family does this scrote come from that wouldn’t straight send him back to at least face his wife and divorce her like a man, if he doesn’t want her anymore? Imagine just everybody condoning him just running out like a coward.

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-01-18T18:23:44+00:00

"He would pack my things and leave them by the door."

She's probably better off. Controlling men do this. My dad would do this kind of shit to every woman he dated after my mother. He'd beg them to move in with him and then he'd use it to control them when they fought. One day he put all of a woman's things on our front lawn.

He's a coward. I bet he gets off on her trying to get him to come back because he keeps playing hot and cold and lying to her ("oh yeah baby I'm gonna come back I'm just visiting"). This kind of behaviour will make someone crazy.

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-01-19T00:28:38+00:00

"army"

"depressed"

Yeah, another LVM who was trained to kill who will use pseudo traumas to justify why he is being an asshole🤮

JoyJonesIII · 2020-01-18T18:19:07+00:00

Yeah, hang on to this gem...

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-18T21:27:45+00:00

She is going to look back on this and be so horrified. 😰

Title	Her Husband literally moved to another state without telling her, her family thinks he’s toxic, and sis still can’t let him go. 😭
Author	CoolMelonade
Upvotes	45
Comments	21
Date	January 18, 2020 5:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eqjq7w/her_husband_literally_moved_to_another_state/
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