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7

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:26 PM
1

What? I had no idea this was what y'all were talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:17 PM
2

Ooo, the nerve. I dated a fair amount and can honestly say no one ever dared try that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:59 PM
0

I don't know, maybe I've never had this type of experience and/or we're talking about two different things. What exactly are these guys saying? Can you give me an example? It seems like I'm thinking of something mild when maybe it's something outrageous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:50 PM
-4

Becoming enraged is giving him power over your feelings. I've never felt rage. And by calling him out I meant stopping right there, like, You said WHAT? That doesn't mean he gets to explain it away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:43 PM
-1

I guess I've always had a big mouth and would immediately call out bad behavior. I've never put up with it. "Rage" would not be how I describe it, though. That's giving the guy too much power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:33 PM
1

I've been married to a HVM for decades, so I'd say it's working out... You've said multiple times that you'd "wreck their existence" and "rip his soul out of his body and stuff it down his throat." How is that NOT getting outwardly aggressive? You just say it to yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:28 PM
-5

Are these men you actually like? If so, you can tell them, once, to cut it out and not try it again. If it's some scrote, then give him the heave-ho...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:25 PM
9

Your reaction should be immediate rage. How fucking dare he criticize you for nothing? How dare he put you down? How dare he negatively comment on your appearance? You are beautiful, you are loved, and you are worthy. You have so many things going for you and you are constantly investing in yourself. What right does this little BITCH have to say shit? Rage? That's entering lunatic territory. You can just calmly tell him his behavior is unacceptable and not to do it again. I get the meaning behin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:53 PM
4

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:33 PM
69

I met mine at work. I don't like sharing specific details, but we had one date that went great before he had to go on a business trip. This was before cell phones and the internet (yikes lol), and he called me as soon as he got to the airport. And called me every day that he was away. It may sound insignificant, but it really wasn't. Here was somebody who knew how to show he was interested, instead of being a manbaby whining about how he was "too busy." I'd say that was the start of knowing he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:25 PM
39

MGTOW is just post after post saying how awful ALL women are, and how none have any value. We don't say anything of the kind here. We point out how awful low value men are and why we shouldn't put up with their behavior, but we still believe there are good men out there who will treat us with love and respect. We represent the cream of the crop, whereas MGTOW represents society's rejects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:42 PM
14

I have loved her for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:35 PM
93

She's 77!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:35 PM
124

Red flag here. Sounds like he’s trying to isolate and control you. Even aside from that, he doesn’t sound like a good friend or family member. Don’t label him HV just because he has a few good traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:45 AM
1

He’s a player, and you got fooled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:23 PM
3

Hon, why are you even wasting your precious energy thinking about this guy? You two had some fun online, he said pretty words to you to keep you hanging around, but he doesn’t want to come to Italy and never had any intent of doing so. He wanted the ego boost, that’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:21 PM
2

It's long term? I thought it was long distance? Both?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:30 PM
12

I saw "men's rights" and noped right out of there. Men have always had rights. That's the problem with society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:23 PM
3

Geeze, you're not even married yet and already it's not exciting? I don't know what else to tell you then. Why do you want a guy who you don't even miss?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:18 PM
4

I don't feel anything. I don't feel excited to spend time with him. I don't miss him when he's not around. Look what you've written, and listen to yourself. I'm not sure how it can be any clearer. OK, he's a great guy, but you don't want him anymore. Stop trying to convince yourself otherwise, because you'll never be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:33 PM
87

This fool is basically telling the world that he has to bribe his woman to have sex with him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:21 PM
230

Men always make time for the things they want to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:18 PM
3

Oh look, he wants to try an older woman for the experience. Where do I sign up?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:01 PM
25

with some other feminine qualities still of course- makeup, hair, clothes. Why that part, though? Why can't OP just be herself? I personally love makeup and hair and clothes, but no one has to do those things to attract a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:58 PM
59

It used to be that women's sex lives were tightly controlled by men. Pre-marital sex was frowned upon, and it was absolutely scandalous to have a baby out of wedlock. The only "good" part of it was that men actually put effort into courting women. Then the sexual revolution happened, which was 100% necessary for women to gain control of their sexuality. But now that we can do what we want, it's time to start saying no to these casual hookups (especially with complete strangers), because we are c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:16 PM
29

Aww, I was only joking. That spider is cute as a button.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:48 AM
14

It's like a guy in your DMs, waving his weenie around...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:35 AM
51

I feel it's one of those things that you'll know when you see it. It's not so much that he calls, texts, spends, or takes you out X amount of times, it's more of him showing interest and you feeling good about it. You won't need a checklist to know. I always say this, but with a HVM, things start out good and keep getting better. He doesn't disappoint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:26 AM
12

I think the problem is YOU think you’re not good enough. :) You need to change your mindset first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:55 PM
13

Most men are low value. You’re not looking for one of those :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:53 PM
10

Don’t change who you are. If you’re a direct person, continue to be that way and look for a man who thinks that is awesome. Don’t pretend to be a delicate flower, unless you want to keep up that charade for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:22 PM
20

Stop lavishing them with anything, for starters. It doesn’t mean you have to be cold or nasty, but stop with the gifts and the sex and everything else you’re doing to “make” them like you. They like you based on your personality and how you live you life, not what you’re giving them. YOU are the prize. If a HVM is into you, he’ll pursue you, not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:19 PM
1

I was laughing and nodding the whole time 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:09 PM
6

It’s true. We can always attract a man no matter our age, but they just stand there like puppy dogs when they’re older, hoping to be chosen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:34 AM
9

This. A 23-yr-old guy from the US is not coming to Italy to meet you. They can barely be motivated to take a girl out to dinner, much less spend the $$ to fly to Europe. He's just fooling around with you, telling you things you want to hear to keep you hanging on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:17 PM
9

Action. They show you that they're interested in you. There's no ambiguity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:10 PM
10

I meant today! Young beautiful women who have their pick of men don't typically go for the old guys unless they're rich, or famous, or something similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:07 PM
29

Even if fertility is the reason, who wants to reproduce with old sperm and increase the risk of birth defects? Women in their prime reproductive years want the nice fresh guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:54 PM
19

"Limp their way to an egg" ha ha ha ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:51 PM
1

This is much more common than you think :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:16 PM
94

I’m sorry, but how did this notion of older women being worthless, but older men being fine as fuck, even get started? I’m older, and men my age are NOT fine. Sure, there are a few nice specimens, but most are balding, have big fat guts, faces like an old potato, and (I’m guessing) weenies that barely work. They aren’t banging 20-yr-olds, no matter how much they want to pretend. So they want to dismiss older women as useless? Awesome. We don’t want you old scrotes anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:14 PM
4

Guys know how to reach out to women they’re interested in, and they easily find the time to do so. Consider your relationship over now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:04 PM
43

Gotta love the one who is immunocompromised, but has her boyfriend change clothes when he gets there, as if the virus resides only in fabric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:01 PM
12

It would have been fine I think if it wasn’t for the “missing you” bit—both her asking and him responding. That’s not a normal thing you say to a colleague. Seems like there’s a little something there that shouldn’t be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:13 PM
20

It sounds like you’re online friends and that kind of friendship can have its own merits, but you’re making this into more in your own mind. You didn’t do anything wrong, but you’re both young and live too far away from each other for a real life relationship to be worth the trouble. Find a nice Italian boy to date and let him take you out and treat you like a queen. This online guy could be just a player anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:05 PM
10

Do you really think so, though? Say he finds out all the things that constitute high value behavior in a man, including not pushing for sex until there's a commitment. How long do you think he's going to keep up with all the fakery? It's waaaaay too much trouble when there's plenty of pickmeishas out there who will give him a bj after their "date" at McDonald's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:36 PM
15

It's not really clear what you're asking. What does him being a virgin have to do with you sleeping with him on the next date? And why are you a little bothered by the fact that he's a virgin? (Or so he says...) How long have you been dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:32 PM
119

One of the oddest things I've seen since I joined Reddit is the idea that "there's nothing wrong with being a sex worker." It's repeated over and over by young women and I'm always like WTF? How is a whole generation being raised to believe that it's ok? It's not. No one chooses it unless they're desperate or coerced or have something else wrong with them. We should not be encouraging it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:36 AM
6

Every time I read this I burst out laughing again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:22 PM
108

I have a friend who got an anal tear. My god, what she went through. Many trips to the proctologist, and mega weight loss because she didn't want to eat, since pooping was excruciating. A whole summer went by and it didn't heal, so she had to have surgery. One of the results could have been fecal incontinence for the rest of her life, but fortunately she was fine. Don't do it. If your man is not happy with other ways to have sex, he can skeddaddle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:39 PM
4

Aww, I'm sorry you went through that and hope you can learn to value yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:27 PM
7

I dated a man I wasn't sexually attracted to so I was stalling for time and trying to sort out if I could actually go through with it. I was mortified at the idea of seeing him naked *shudder. Is no one going to address this part? Why on earth would you continue to date someone like this? Bad hygiene and bad breath, to top it all off. (And if he ain't washing his body, you know the peen is going to stink too.) Ladies, some of y'all are crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:59 PM
19

Does he realize we can see him? Because this scrote doesn't have women lined up to sleep with him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:10 PM
5

"Favorite colors" is throwing me here. How is that even a thing to care about when it comes to compatibility? It's more telling that you're at a loss for words with him. If you can't have easy, basic conversations with a guy, you're definitely not compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:06 PM
3

See, this is what I could never understand when I was single. A new relationship that has already gone stale? You dump him and move on. But I would see so many continue on with it, for years. What on earth for? Stop wasting your time. When you meet a HVM, things start off good and keep getting better. You don't run out of things to say and the relationship is exciting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:02 PM
13

"I didn't know if you were going to answer me or not." This is just a ploy to make it seem like he believes you're such an in-demand Goddess that you'd never notice a lowly peon like him. He doesn't believe it. He wants you to fall for it, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:46 PM
26

I've never sent a man flowers because I think most guys would think it was a weird gift. But in the right circumstances (ie, they treat you awesomely and it's not a new relationship), there's nothing wrong with getting your boyfriend a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:37 PM
164

How about stop talking to them when they demand to know your bra size...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:07 PM
5

Women should be educated and have skills that allow them to support themselves no matter what, so they aren't dependent on/held hostage financially by a man. But beyond that, there's nothing wrong with going for a successful man. Why not go after the "best" that's out there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:57 PM
22

Aww hon! You liked him more than he liked you. That’s really the gist of it. That doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. You just weren’t “the one” for him. I know it hurts, but you need to accept that this relationship didn’t work out and that you are still fabulous. He didn’t treat you that well anyway, so maybe focus on that aspect rather than your fantasy of how you wanted things to be. Plenty of other guys out there, trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:21 AM
5

What did you really expect when you post on this particular sub that I LOVE POLYGAMY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:07 PM
2

Well I WAS asking you to explain—the part about sharing the man, in particular. You just kept ignoring that part, which is the basis of polygamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:05 PM
3

You haven’t explained the point of sharing a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:37 PM
4

So if you want lots of kids without giving birth to them, you could adopt or foster. If you want playmates for your children, you could become friends with ladies with kids. What's with all sharing the same guy, though? You don't even want to marry for love, so why marry at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:23 PM
9

Can you explain what value you see in it for the women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:49 PM
8

You have that 100% correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:48 PM
20

I choose neither of these, thanks very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:48 PM
7

It's all the same scrote. The same scrote with a very big problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:45 PM
42

Gag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:42 PM
18

I just burst out laughing, ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 01:22 AM
9

Why should you cut your losses? I don't get that part. It seems like things are going well for the relationship so far. You know, the FDS philosophy is a way of approaching dating that you tailor to your own individual needs. It's suggestions and things to think about, not rules. You don't have to act any way other than the way you want. That's what makes you a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:09 PM
11

She married her rapist, poor girl. Nothing good can come out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:56 PM
209

"Very attractive man seeks hottie, 19-24, for fun times."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:43 PM
59

And quit having babies with "boyfriends." A man won't commit to you and you decide it's a good idea to have his child? These lazy, low value scrotes should get nothing. No babies, no making them a nice home, none of your precious youth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:50 PM
5

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:22 AM
3

What does that mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:01 AM
10

At some point, a constant stream of young women on your arm when you're 40+ just makes you look pathetic, not cool. What's wrong with Leo that he can't commit to anyone? It seems like a joyless existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:55 AM
8

Men going their own way. Which is fine if it meant pursuing their own interests and leaving women alone. But of course it doesn't. They're whiny babies who can't get a good woman, so they sit around with the other scrotes telling stories of how inferior women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:52 AM
54

Works on men too lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:45 PM
38

You'll never want a man after you've tried one... heheheh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:06 PM
54

Like men, there’s always a stronger and better version out there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:54 PM
53

I hope another brave soldier steps in to take his place...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:40 PM
76

Don’t throw yourself at a man. If you’re at least halfway decent looking, they will invariably take you up on your “offer” because they might get some easy sex out of the deal. Remember that you’re the prize, not them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:58 PM
50

Right, she has to be getting something out of it. And no, ED and saggy old man balls would not be it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:33 PM
263

On the MGTOW sites, the old scrotes always talk about how women hit the wall at 30 (lol) and how they easily bang 20-yr-olds. It makes me laugh so hard. I was once 20, and the thought of having sex with someone my father's age was so vile it would not happen in a million years. No normal young woman would give them a second glance. It only works when the man is rich and famous, so the gal is getting something out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:27 PM
71

I would say not to categorize everything. It was a nice gesture that doesn’t have to have a particular meaning. You thanked him and that was enough. It’s not like he laid the Crown Jewels at your feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:27 AM
22

He’s 6’ tall, 130 pounds and he has the nerve to criticize her body? I wouldn’t want to see that twat naked...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:21 AM
53

When I was single, my strict rule was no men with kids, or an ex-wife, for all the reasons stated above. And also remember that if he wants to see his kids regularly, you can never live where you want. Nope, you have to live where the ex is. No way would I put up with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:13 AM
14

I know. You make the affair a thousand times worse by having sex with your mistress in the marital bed. Imagine getting into bed after your husband fucked someone there earlier? Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:53 PM
18

Whaaaaat? In her own house?! Oh good Lord, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:06 PM
6

I agree, they could have illustrated the lesson better. The guy was scary and unless they were trying to say the woman was afraid and abused, she was pretty weak. She could have spoken up. “Hey buddy, I do plenty around here and you had better start to appreciate it.” We need to teach women to use their voice and not put up with nonsense. If my husband ever tried something like that? (He wouldn’t.) Holy cow, he wouldn’t need a stranger on the street to set him straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:42 PM
30

Oh puhleeeeze, what drivel. He went out of his way to be nasty and vindictive by putting those cards in gift bags, just to hurt her. And then poof, just like that, he does a 180. I would have thrown that Mickey Mouse crap in his face. Too late, sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:14 PM
3

Doing good deeds doesn’t necessarily make someone a HVM. He could be horrible to women in his personal life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:44 PM
1

For some, yes. They want to be humiliated for their tiny, worthless penis. But I'd say the majority think they have something special down there and you'll swoon when you gaze upon its naked splendor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:12 PM
11

But they fail to realize that we women could see as many dicks as we wanted, with little effort. We could have men lining up for sex, with little effort. Everything they dream about, we can have in the blink of an eye. But because it's low value, we (generally) don't want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:49 PM
16

Now you would, but back then? He would be all you had to get through life. When you depend on someone 100% for support, your options are limited. You'd have to sit there hoping you didn't get stuck with a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:44 PM
26

It wasn't until the '60s that things began to change for women. Imagine having no choices in life other than to get married, stay at home, and have children? You had to find a man as fast as you could, and just put up with whatever you got stuck with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:24 PM
1

It's not you, it's him. Think about it.. take the hottest, most accomplished women in the world and somewhere in their past, men broke up with them. Find a new guy who treats you like a queen and never beg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:04 PM
79

There is no wall for women. With a little effort, we women can look great forever. Ever notice who's saying older women are worthless? Fat bald old guys with a beer belly and hair growing out of their nose who want to pretend they only date 20-yr-olds. Ha ha, as if a young fresh girl would even give these trolls the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:00 PM
23

Oh good Lord, no. I was in my prime in my 30s. I looked great, if I do say so myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:55 PM
27

It’s always the ones with the ugliest, misshapen dicks who send the unsolicited pics. Like dude, it’s not in your best interest to lead with that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:18 PM
6

I once casually mentioned on Reddit that I get a new leased car every three years. Well you would have thought I confessed to being a mass murderer by the way people reacted. You see, you're only allowed to have a 15-yr-old car that's falling apart and how dare anyone waste money like I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:38 PM
48

I'm not even sure how much it benefits us individually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:57 PM
30

I bet that guy wouldn't think twice about "wasting" $$$ on a car or something else that HE liked, though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:39 PM
94

I feel that sleeping around just creates more and more lazy low value men. And makes you low value too. Ladies, you’re the prize. Someone should work to have you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:47 PM
14

I’m not assuming anyone is pretending. I’m talking about when they ARE pretending. Not everyone likes jewelry. Not everyone likes diamonds. Not everyone likes something costly on their finger. I get that and it’s perfectly fine. But threads on this topic get totally ridiculous. Anyone wanting a fabulous ring is materialistic and pretentious and must be immediately dumped. Everyone brags how cheap their ring was in some sort of moral superiority and all the LVM and pickmeishas sit around in a cir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:22 PM
26

Bravo. My husband got me a ring that made me happy. The act of him wanting to please me said something about him and how he viewed me and my desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:15 PM
13

I wear my diamond ring every day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:42 AM
30

You aren’t a pickmeisha if you’re getting what you want and it makes you happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:41 AM
31

It’s fine not to like or want a diamond. It’s fine not to like or want jewelry. That isn’t the point. The point is really wanting a beautiful diamond ring but accepting a piece of crap and pretending it’s your preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:39 AM
41

Right? Like it’s some moral high ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:47 AM
58

Oh yes, on Reddit you must brag about how cheap your engagement ring was, and if any woman wants a costly one, she is materialistic and should be dumped immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:45 AM
6

So I’ve heard. Nothing I want to see for myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:20 PM
33

Yup, it gets buried in the fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:40 AM
8

I love this one! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:54 PM
8

Hope it didn’t sound like a lecture :) Don’t doubt yourself. Level up to someone who will think you’re as fabulous as you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:20 PM
31

For whatever reason, you weren’t the one for him. Stop trying to find fault with yourself, or compare yourself to other women. Maybe your ex likes “lesser” women and to him it’s not really a downgrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:17 PM
21

“You have great hair, too bad about your face, though.” “Pretty dress, but your calves look fat.” An insult surrounded by a compliment is still an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:08 PM
66

Scrotes (love that word, btw) think you’re flattered that they talk to you, when it’s actually an insult that they think you’re on their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:02 PM
41

Sadly, all women are doing is creating more low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:39 PM
36

No normal man uses the word "cuddle."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:52 PM
85

I'd be blocking this one as fast as I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:50 PM
13

Dependent on him for sex? Sis, you can do without it and you won’t die. Imagine if you accidentally wind up pregnant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:31 PM
28

When I was dating, I always noticed that the men who didn’t have sisters were kind of ... off. Like women were such a mystery to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:22 PM
212

Wait, you haven’t even been on a date and he thinks you’re going to come over for a booty call? The serious nerve on these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:19 PM
12

Boyfriend of 5 years is not looking for an apartment to live together with me and I can't see the reason why Girlllll, can it be any more obvious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:43 PM
33

Enough of this engaging conversation, WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT ME?? Hurry up with your answer and stop wasting my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:53 PM
42

Aww isn't that cute, so worried about what other men think. Have fun with that when you find out that nobody cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:51 PM
38

You don't need to follow anyone else's timetable. Both partners should take their time to be sure. But I can tell you this: with a HVM, things start out great and keep getting better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:40 PM
3

I had to look him up, as I had never heard of him. He's 83. I don't care how rich he is, imagine having to touch his wrinkly old balls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:37 PM
3

Maybe the problem is ... you? I mean that in the nicest way possible. If it keeps happening, perhaps it's because you let yourself fall deeply in love with men who don't deserve it. There has to be warning signs that you miss or subconsciously overlook in your rush to be in love. Be careful with your heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:29 PM
18

But then he still kept insisting, forbidding things to your daughter is bad parenting ​ That's a red flag right there. I'm a parent, and yours have given you good advice. He's trying to break down your defenses, by acting like your parents are controlling you. He seems nice and respectful? Goody, anyone can pretend at first. School projects should be done in a public space. ​ but also what if he starts disliking me? Yeah, so? There's thousands of guys who WILL like you. No need to grovel for thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:22 PM
16

This is the same fake headline we've been seeing for 20+ years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:05 PM
140

I never understood why SHE was the bad one, though. It’s so easy to be manipulated at that age by someone who is very powerful. But no one ever granted her even a tiny speck of understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:09 PM
274

I’ve always felt bad for Monica Lewinski. She was a young single girl and the president of the United States was all up in her business. I’m sure it was thrilling and exciting, especially when he was giving her presents. Then she gets ratted out by a “friend,” a media storm ensues, and in the end, married Clinton is forgiven and she is forever vilified. Really disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:42 PM
3

I was going to say that. If you have to ask, he isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:36 PM
6

But it’s her own doing, really. Why the heck did she have kids with a man who doesn’t feel she’s good enough to marry? This is just more of the same behavior. Doesn’t want you as a wife, doesn’t want to own a house with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:11 PM
5

Are you actually happy? At least they're not telling you to quit smiling (I hope).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:54 PM
198

"I love him so much." Well he obviously doesn't love you or care about his family if he wants to make sure you get no interest in the house while paying half the mortgage. Ladies, please don't be stupid. Don't make a nice home, or have kids with, a man you're not married to. If you're not good enough to marry, don't reward him for Pete's sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:51 PM
3

Oh, I knew why. It was just a rhetorical question, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:37 PM
7

Why would you even say that to someone? I get that in certain circumstances you might say that playfully in conversation, but to just shout it out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:34 PM
29

I’ve never had a woman tell me to smile. Countless men have, though. And never once has it worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:45 PM
45

I always found that no reaction was best, not even a glance in their direction. They WANT a response, so give them nothing. At least they look stupid shouting at a woman who doesn’t even give them the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:25 PM
146

Oh I hate that. In my younger days I worked in a big city and men would admonish me to “Smile!” all the time. It may sound harmless, but it’s just another way they feel entitled to harass women. Pretty sure they never yell SMILE at men passing by... We don’t owe men a smile. Or beauty, or conversation, or gratitude that they chose to acknowledge us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:51 PM
8

Nah. Just the fact that you’re asking this question means that “it” isn’t there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:10 AM
44

You’re just not that into him, that’s all. While he sounds good “on paper,” and has positive traits, trying to tally up these traits to convince yourself that he’s a catch is silly. He can be a great guy, but not for you. Chemistry is a thing! If he doesn’t make your heart soar, he’s not the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:30 AM
3

I would say you did a lot of things wrong here. Slept with him right away, then after he told you he was romantically interested in someone else, you continued to see him. Got upset when he wasn’t that into you, groveled, played silly Tinder games... That’s low value behavior. Toss this fish back in the sea, hon, and chalk it up to a lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:44 AM
40

Well hon, you don't want to be "that person" and you're too shy to tell your fiance you want a bigger center stone? If you don't learn to speak up, you're going to be constantly disappointed your whole marriage, and your husband won't even have a clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:15 PM
120

To hide his baldness, no doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:48 AM
200

And what's he offering in return? Obviously not good looks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:47 AM
179

I was on a first date with a guy once when he started telling me about all the women he worked with that he wanted to "do." I was incredulous. He's probably still wondering why he didn't get a second date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:18 PM
18

With a high value man, things start out good and keep getting better. Of course, it takes time for the getting better part to play out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:43 PM
2

Good! They get the pleasure of your company and that's it, until you deem them worthy of more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:42 PM
9

You don't OWE men anything. Sex is not payment for a date. I think this behavior by women creates a lot of low value men. They have no reason to step up their game, as they get everything they want by, what? Taking you out to dinner? And by giving them sex so soon, you make yourself low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:16 PM
90

That's great! Really, women need to stop having sex on the first date. This is exactly why men make no effort nowadays. Why should they, when everything is handed to them with zero work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 09:59 PM
2

And now she made things even MORE convenient for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:45 PM
3

And now she made things even MORE convenient for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:44 PM
16

After describing her 16-year-long horrible relationship, she then asks if she’s been wasting her time. Gee, ya think? He enhances her life in ZERO ways, yet she can’t let this gem go...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:43 PM
28

No, this is weird. He could mean well, but it doesn't sound at all safe and it's good that you're not doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:28 PM
6

Yeah, hang on to this gem...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:19 PM
24

Did you notice that he's married but will "tap in" every once in a while? I bet the fool woman is giving him sex whenever he calls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:23 PM
11

“Women your own age don’t even want you.” Slow clap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:33 PM
43

Those men who talk about women hitting the wall (at 30! ha ha ha) believe they remain buff Adonises their whole lives, and will talk about how only 20-somethings are worth dating. Meanwhile, they're bald, fat, trolls with some mundane desk job and no one is looking at them with lust, especially gorgeous young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:58 PM
87

She didn’t “set him free.” He dumped her and that’s the story she’s spinning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:32 PM
14

Women really need to wise up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:48 AM
42

They have audacity and entitlement because women pack for them, give them money and sex, and put up with bad behavior. Give them none of that and watch their attitudes change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:27 PM
63

Why was she even packing HIS stuff in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:26 PM
2

What an awful experience!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:22 PM
48

Yeah, I'd be stopping the handjobs/blowjobs for starters...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 01:15 AM
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