I used to see dating as this big scary thing, and I would only go on like one or two first dates a year. I would also always have sex on the first date even if I wasn’t really feeling a spark because I thought sleeping with someone was part of “getting to know them”.

Since FDS, my attitude has shifted so much! I’ve been on 3 first dates in the last 3 months. I haven’t stressed about my outfit or my looks, just put on something cute I’ve worn a million times and I was good to go. I also didn’t have sex with them. I’m currently still dating all 3 men I met.

One of them I’m pretty sure is LV so I’m gonna cut him loose ASAP, the other is HV but I feel no attraction, and the third seems HV too. This third guy hasn’t replied to my text in 2 days, so I think he might have ghosted me. Old me would have been CRUSHED, but new me doesn’t give a f**k. Dick is abundant and low value.

Even my flatmate has pointed out how much more chill and collected I seem.

I owe it all to you amazing ladies!!! Thank you!