New to TRP, been in a relationship my whole life, need some advice.

Auvergnat · 2017-04-14T06:12:11+00:00

Get lifting. It's important. If the gym is too expensive, get your ass to a street workout gym or get a pull up bard and do a bodyweight program. Again. Lift. It's important.
Do not marry her. Do not marry at all. It's not about her, it's about the government you would put in your bed by doing so. So stay with her all your life if you want, wear a ring on your finger if you want, tell her how you'll marry her if you don't mind lying to her and ruining her life plans, but do not ever marry her.
Reading the Rational Male will help you make sense of women. You will understand what you did that made your girl into you (dating other girls, breaking up with her, etc. basically making yourself the prize) and what you did that made her repulsed by you (over-invested in her, beta moves, etc. basically making her the prize). Just keep reading RP material and the correct behavior will just naturally comes to you.
Quit the strip clubs. Waste of time and money. If your girl ever asks, tell the truth. Own it. Lying can be a great tool but doing it in order to keep the peace in the relationship stinks of fear of her leaving you, which will slowly infect your mindset and her behaviour.
Redpill aware at your age, you'd be better off single and slaying. But hey if you just need one pussy do whatever you want. However, make sure she's always aware that you're so high-value that you would find a replacement in a heart beat if she ever decides to drop you. Maintain in her that low hum of mild anxiety, that will be more than compensated with her immense joy that you deign staying with her.

jeezydasnowman · 2017-04-14T05:14:18+00:00

tl;dr Boy thinks he spun plates in his glory days back when he was 12, even though he never even got head. The first girl who would blow him did so AFTER he committed. Of the seven year relationship, the last 6 months have been sexless. Although they have promise rings he has been taking the ring off and going to strip clubs, building further tension.

You are pretty much fucking up on everything - dead bedroom at 22 ... you need to decide whether you want to bail, stay with her and let her continue to not put out, or whether you want to stay with her on the condition that she starts fucking you again. Once you have made up your mind, make a MAP if you decide to stick around. Lift and pass shit tests. This is all you should be focusing on the first 90 days - MAP, lifting, and passing shit tests.

[deleted] · 2017-04-14T05:42:52+00:00

You're 22. Quit being a pussy and dump her. She's not providing any value.

[deleted] · 2017-04-14T04:51:51+00:00

Gonna go ahead and skip to the end and just tell you to lift.

There's nothing wrong with you. You aren't broken.

Title	New to TRP, been in a relationship my whole life, need some advice.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	April 14, 2017 4:46 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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