What do you do when the girl you're dating shows almost no affection?

walawalawa · 2017-04-09T02:10:21+00:00

Withdraw attention, start spinning plates, stop obsessing over one girl.

If she's not showing you any affection instead of worrying about it, find another girl, focus on your own interests and understanding that relationships are counter-intuitive---the more effort you put in, the more she withdraws. She needs to see you as the prize.

That's why the Mystery Method structure is show active disinterest through a "neg", then get her to qualify herself...to create female-to male interest.

[deleted] · 2017-04-09T03:49:58+00:00

I think you're thinking about this more than she is, which is a problem. It's hard to face and easier said than done, but sounds like a good time to move on.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-04-09T05:32:48+00:00

For me the dread helped. And atention from other girls. Then she went grazy on me and wanted to fuck real bad.

Tho it went all down hill eventually. Ahe can and might react to trp stuff like dread but in the end you might just have to move on.

trp333 · 2017-04-09T05:56:19+00:00

If you really like her you can talk to her about it before deciding to next or dump her.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-04-09T06:40:04+00:00

Ghost her

Tiway22 · 2017-04-09T10:01:49+00:00

You date other girls.

I've been with girls who don't show affection, and it sucks. You are getting 90% of the female but not all of her.

Do yourself a favor and date a girl who is passionate for you.

oldredder · 2017-04-09T16:47:59+00:00

What do you do when the girl you're dating shows almost no affection?

1) see if she is a demon in bed

2) dump her

Title	What do you do when the girl you're dating shows almost no affection?
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Date	April 9, 2017 1:36 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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