Ever date a girl who isn't that interested in sex? Any way to fix it?

smirk_addict · 2017-04-06T01:00:17+00:00

Problems like these are more so the dynamic of the relationship. Not just her being a woman. Your question suggest that you are uncertain if this is common behavior for a woman. She's leading this relationship and rationing sex to you. You have to totally flip this dynamic. Have ever asked for sex? It is scheduled because of how she thinks about It? There is a guy this woman would love to have sex with. She'd be excited about the thought of it and always make an effort to please him. You got to become that guy.

[deleted] · 2017-04-06T00:41:45+00:00

Delete, block, ghost

[deleted] · 2017-04-06T01:22:37+00:00

The answer is date other women.

YongeArcade · 2017-04-06T03:25:46+00:00

Either she still has her Teen Cosmo lying around that gives out horrible advice of rationing sex to "make him respect you".

Or her girlfriend is giving her bad advice. Most advice women give to other women is to destroy the relationship so they can have better status in the women's circle. ( My girlfriend tried to shove her finger down my urethra while giving me a handjob on the "great sex advice" of her friend).

She might intuitive know to ration sex and control the relationship, don't let her do this, she will manage the relationship till you are unattractive to her and be fucking guys on the side or leave you for Chad.

Break a date or the day you two are suppose to hang out three days before hand and tell her you are going too the movies or what ever fits in with your personality and say you did not think she would be interested .. do not say it is another woman or even hint, she will think it is all on her own. Let that stew in her mind. If she confronts you, put it all on her. Relationships are suppose to be mad passion and ripping your clothes off to have sex the moment you two are alone and she is a cold fish who has to be goaded in to having sex every other week. You want the mad passion she ... hasn't made up her mind. So you are going on some dates nothing serious just the movies. Leave it at that , no threats just keeping an eye out for greener pastures if this relationship goes south, and she is the only one steering that way.

Top_Brazzler · 2017-04-06T02:53:00+00:00

Your question is flawed. You can't fix what isn't broken. You just need more plates and be less hung up on this one particular girl. She owns your balls and it's your own fault.

demote her from LTR to plate
get more plates (3-5 is good range)

FuckerMcFuckingberg · Thu Apr 6 0:26:53 2017 UTC

Yes. Massage her.

Title	Ever date a girl who isn't that interested in sex? Any way to fix it?
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Date	April 6, 2017 12:14 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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