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Most of us can confirm this is the case. It’s dumb how this keeps women invested but it does. I wouldn’t even reply to these type of comments.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:08 PM
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Haha, I see your point and i do agree.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:07 PM
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Tell a girl you’re “5”, “845” or “Older than the universe”. It’s not clever, witty, amused mastery, pressure flipping, nor demonstrating any value. It’s just pointlessly ridiculous and comes across as someone attempting to be those things but doesn’t know how. If a girl is eating that up, it isn’t because you said that it’s despite it because she perceives you as high value.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:22 PM
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I think your responses need to be toned down a bit. There is no way you have any kind of significant experience with flirting/game if you think some of these sound good. They are over the top ridiculous.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:15 PM
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Why is ugly in parentheses? If he really is an ugly ass dude, just know that girls are passive as fuck and socially stupid but clever at the same time. She could’ve had no interest in your friend but it’s a way to perhaps indirectly engage you and not risk rejection by hitting on you. And if your friend is butt ugly he probably gonna eat that shit up and validate her. It’s potentially a way to be in your space without bruising her ego and gives her plausible deniability. “OMG i was totally hitti…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:22 AM
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It’s AskTrp. He made a post about his behavior and asked a question. Your comment is more ridiculous than you perceive his post to be.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:32 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:26 AM
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I’m an advocate for dudes having self respect and that men in general tolerate too much bullshit from women. For me though, I think the best play here is not to be bothered by this if you are already sleeping with the girl. If it was meant as disrespect she wouldn’t have still fucked the dude. This entire scenario wouldn’t have bothered me at all. It’s not a reason to give an ultimatum to a fuck buddy. I think you just look hella uptight.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:47 PM
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I disagree. All I want is sex so it doesn’t really bother me when women talk to me about other guys they fucked or fucking. “You’re not allowed to talk about other guys you’ve had sex with!” Read that and tell me it doesn’t sound like a bitch. Besides if you ever want to upgrade how does it not benefit you to know whatever is she is willing to divulge about her sexual history.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:11 AM
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I think you nailed it. I think this is what he’s feeling as well.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:26 PM
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Delete this, and don’t ever do anything like this again EVER unless the woman physically or verbally expresses interest. You can be expelled for this and arrested. I hope I’m scaring you because you need to become much better tactfully when navigating seduction.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:56 PM
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I just read your update. I really think this all worked in your favor because you were man enough to walk out the first time. She now sees you as high value because you didn’t just jump through her hoops or play into her frame. Sort of reminds me of those girls that don’t want you until they see you can get other girls. I’m curious though. Did she apologize, hamster some BS, or just pretend it didn’t happen and simply invited you back?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:37 PM
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She only did that because you flipped the power dynamic by leaving. She was teasing you because she didn’t know what she wanted until you left. I guarantee if you stayed in that room and tried to follow her into the shower she would’ve gave you shit. You should’ve been well beyond this BS by the time you guys got back to her room. She took the whole thing for granted and changed her tune when you ejected. I think you made the right call. I’m annoyed just from reading that. I wouldn’t even respon…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:15 AM
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Just talked about this literally yesterday. I hate how some guys try to preach that a woman’s sexual history is irrelevant. You literally just have to act non-judgmental and many will gladly tell you. Also If I have an idea of her previous behavior and she does something that seems sketchy, I may be quicker to cut ties than a guy that is blissfully ignorant. He has no template of her past behavior to refer to.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:54 PM
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How would you know to tell him he’s dating an Alpha Widow if he wasn’t “stupid” enough to tell us what he knew about her sexual history?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:01 PM
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This is useful how?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:55 PM
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Girls don’t have to fuck a lot of guys to be good at sex. We both know that. Some girls with high N-counts are really bad at it. Her sexual history is irrelevant if you just want sex. It’s very relevant for something serious.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:25 PM
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Right? He asked her to do something very vanilla and she was “triggered” or is giving him bullshit to invoke beta traits from him because their dating so he should care about her feelings... No.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:28 PM
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Come on dude. You’d be damn fool to not at least care about the sexual history of a potential LTR. And yeah I know everyone says you never really know but a lot of women are very happy to share their depravity if they feel like they aren’t being judge. Sticking your head in the sand is not “Alpha”. It’s stupid.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:25 PM
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A woman into stuff like that must have baggage you’ve probably ignored or minimized. I think your issue comes down to a lack of abundance. The best she could ever be is your favorite fuck buddy (or plate but I hate using that word). Never a LTR.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:25 PM
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I saw your reply when someone asked you did you ask her out. She’s definitely trying to switch the dynamic, probably because she’s used to guys chasing her. Don’t force your hand. You may have to move her into soft next territory. I had a very similar situation recently. I hard nexted because even though this girl was super into me, she still wasn’t above wasting my time. And this was her on her best behavior.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:15 PM
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Please tell me he was banned for that. His nonsensical post and desire to turn this place into some left side bashing circle jerk, coupled with personal attacks on an EC? People have been booted for less.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 09:48 PM
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Not as much as your delusion.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 03:05 PM
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This shit post got over a hundred upvotes. I expected more from the community. I guess at our core a lot of us still have this Us VS Them mentality when it comes to women. And as you expounded on, most likely the ones that are the most sexually frustrated.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 01:17 PM
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Same. I have been coming here for 5 years as well. This is my second account. This clown thinks everyone who disagrees with him must be some opportunistic foreigner that worships US government. We don’t need that kind of ignorance here.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 01:06 PM
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He is. And he has awakened the ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 06:40 AM
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No. You know damn well this dude wants to just come here and rant about “leftist” and wants an echo chamber. It’s very specific and too specific and pointless to be relatable to the majority. It has nothing to do with the broad way you are trying to explain to me the meaning of politics as a stand in for human interaction.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 04:49 AM
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I guess being triggered isn’t just for “leftist” is it?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 10:27 PM
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I appreciate the effort you’ve put into this post. But not all of us come from the same background so our views about government and society greatly influence that. This post is extremely narrow minded. Part of the reason people say it’s apolitical is because it just used to be a fear mongering hub for a lot of white nationalist back in the day. And there was a lot of arguing and shit posting. Sexual strategy/male and female dynamics has no correlation with politics. There are enough subs and gr…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 09:18 PM
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A lot of girls aren’t going to let you fuck them for nothing for 3 to 6 months. Not even for a man they consider high value. But I agree that if he was calling her a plate a few weeks ago and then discovers this shit, it sounds he missed a few things. They probably just became official and he said GF of three months because it sounds less embarrassing than girl I’ve officially been dating for a few weeks.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:29 PM
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She communicated to you that you weren’t a priority to her. That you had low value or she just took your interest for granted. Which is what girls do. Now she’s reaching out to you because her options are dwindling down as she approaches the wall and she hopes you don’t remember how she treated you before. You could’ve checked on this for her to even have the nerve to reach out to you. At least she’d know you’re not some chump that lets that shit ride. Or you could’ve just blocked her number. Bu…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:34 PM
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You were too kind to respond that. There is no “correct” way. And by critiquing how you handled that, he completely missed the point of the post..
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:52 AM
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I really respect your honesty and introspection.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:53 AM
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It’s always something else. Which you’ve sniffed out. She could be talking to another guy (or guys) and invented a reason to be mad at you so she could look her other options and rationalize it because you’re not a “good person”. This was calculated and she may try to come back after whatever she is trying to do fails. I would’ve already blocked her number. But that’s just me.. In these scenarios I’ve learned to prioritize self preservation.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:33 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. It’s relatable and I’d urge for you to share it on the main Red Pill subreddit but most of our readers there wouldn’t appreciate this. Hopefully some of the women here would, giving that it’s the most common male perspective and articulated so well.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 05:10 AM
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Ironically, i don’t think it’s a good idea to pursue something long term with someone that gets defensive about that. To say how someone lived their life before they meet me is not my business is dangerous. And most people aren’t going ask that like it’s an interview. But everyone should expect some level of candidness or openness if you’re working towards something with the goal in mind as a potential life partner.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 05:29 PM
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Great advice from the highest voted comment. /s
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:47 PM
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This is my life. The girls I have are good to me but I don’t have any smoke shows at the moment. Of course that’s what I want but when you have girls in your life that don’t try to bullshit you and genuinely appreciate your time, it’s hard to tolerate any less.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:13 PM
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You make some good points but why the dig about him posting? It’s fucking ASKtrp. If everyone was perfect alphas and had perfect game, no one would post here.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:00 PM
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I agree with you. But I think someone acting the way this chick was is not worth it. There are shit test and then there are women that are unstable and antagonistic. You can’t pull amuse mastery on a woman telling you to hurry up because she has to leave soon, suggesting you guys eat and then adamantly demanding you pay for her shit. You’re already in her frame. No matter how relaxed and unbothered you feel about it. Just my perception.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:47 AM
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Your take was a much more fascinating read than the article itself.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:30 AM
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You described that shit perfectly.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:08 PM
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Opinions usually split between not tolerating bullshit and never letting anything effect you. From my perspective, trying to be positive and displaying amused mastery to someone that clearly thinks they are better than you is not winning. You just look pathetic.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:06 PM
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Yeah. I think it’s more of the shock that this woman could take such a hardline on not paying considering her profession. And he did mention it was her idea to get food. She sounds entitled and completely audacious about it. I think your suggestion of how he should have handled it would’ve worked with a less shrewish person. Women like the one he was with don’t respond well to wit and banter. Because they just want drama to validate their insecurities. So distort everything communicated to them.…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:16 PM
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I like that you’re giving positive feedback but i gotta disagree with your discernment he isn’t at peace with himself. I think her behavior would’ve annoyed most people unless their own a mood stabilizer. I read his post as his comment coming after the last straw of a bad date. It sounds like you read it as him having a chip on his shoulder and looking for a reason to snap on the woman. I just don’t feel that was the case.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:01 PM
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Haha, no shit right?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:39 PM
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It sounds like you just figured it was going down hill, you were tired of her shit so why not entertain yourself. She sounds unstable and extremely insecure. You really shouldnt feel bad about checking someone that was that rude to you. You couldve done a lot worse. I’m just curious how the hell did the first date go??
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:39 PM
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I hope you’re being sarcastic. There is a happy medium perhaps but that sounds like something someone would say that doesn’t really know much about the community.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:15 AM
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How do you conclude sticking you head in the sand is the best option? You need just be able give off a non judgmental vibe while you assess if shit is a dealbreaker for you or not.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:36 PM
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No problem dude. What a shit show.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:25 PM
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The responses to this post are exactly the reason for that thread a few days ago. Half of you aren’t even trying to be helpful and just come here to shit on dudes. OP I would just sit on this information and don’t make any quick decisions. If you decide over time you aren’t feeling it, don’t confront her with this. Because she technically didn’t do anything wrong to you and she’ll probably make an effort to hide or lie about this shit the next time and make a fool out of the next guy. Think of s…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:38 PM
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So what if he says that he always pay for dinner? I’m sure you’d give him shit about that too.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:31 PM
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Thank you. Not my post but I may do that. I have Ashwagandha, Tribulus, Ginseng, and a few others. I never considered that but it seems smart. It cannot be good taking all of those months at a time every day. And after a while sometimes that kick I get in the gym and bedroom wanes.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:11 PM
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Some girls don't want to have "sex" right away but will suck your dick or let you stick it in their ass. It has nothing to do with them being on their periods. They just think sex is too intimate but they still want to please you. I know it's stupid. How a woman can not want mutual pleasure but think it's less intimate to get on her knees and swirl her tongue around my dick and then swallow my cum....is one of the greatest hamstering women ever do.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:18 PM
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Your are absolutely right. I agree 100 percent. Also, let’s look at this analytically. This chick goes radio silent for a week. Then double or triple text you out of nowhere and expects you to see her like nothing happened. She wants to know why you unfriended her on snap and tries to play some mind game by asking you if you hate her. She knows she was on some bullshit. So what are your options? You can respond immediately like bitch and smooth things out because you’d be desperate to see her ag…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:01 PM
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I think you did right. These comments are pathetic. I call girls out on their shit all the time. And I’m totally ok with never seeing them again. I ghost them, or they apologize or sometimes they’ve even treated me because I had the balls to check them. Women play games like this because guys tolerate them just for sex. But then they have the nerve to talk down to you because you won’t. How the fuck does that work? Dude you didn’t fuck anything up. Keep pushing on.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:02 PM
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Are you living in a major city? Maybe you mentioned that and i missed it. You mentioned seeing black guys kill it. I’m just curious because I’m a black male living in southern small town America. My experiences have been similar to yours honestly. Im doing OK, i do get laid frequently and I’m almost maxed out as far as looks. Im Not getting the girls i really want though. I’m just brainstorming if my issues are more so demographically related or I could just be doing more. Brother you really bea…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 05:33 PM
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What was the point of this comment? She literally said she was distancing herself from her friend because of her poor decisions. And it sounds like she's grown a lot as a person. I don't think you read her post in it's entirety.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 05:21 PM
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Ask multiple successful men. It happens all the time and that above comment was stupid.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:12 PM
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I think this is a very valid question and I don't know why guys are giving you shit for it. For any decent looking woman that's learned to manipulate men at a young age, this is usually the case. Sometimes(maybe most of the time..) it's better to be FWBs with a woman rather than her boyfriend. Sex is given priority and isn't' leveraged for some time of resource, they don't feel judged so they have no reason to make themselves look good. They want to be bad with you.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:15 PM
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She sounds just like the typical girl that will cheat on you if you give her enough plausible deniability. I dunno man. I don't see this going anywhere good. I'm annoyed with her just from reading that.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 06:22 PM
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Is this trolling? If I bang your wife she's welcome to tell you. But I don't want to know you, talk about you, and don't friend request me on facebook.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:46 PM
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It sounds like you’re low on abundance. Because I do the same thing and it’s never worth the bullshit you can get from women when you weren’t that into them in the first place. But anyway, rekindle a little bit. Just a little small talk then call her and set something up. I wouldn’t invite to my place. But I would do something that would be ideal logistics for that. I’m sure you could find something cool or interesting to show her at your place if you guys are vibing pretty good.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:53 PM
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Meh i dunno... With the exception of dudes fucking it up, women ghost because they just wanted attention or they got nervous at the last minute. So unless someone is disrespecting you or your time, I think ghosting is being a bitch.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 01:45 AM
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I am no way trying to compare my shit to yours. But it's just a reminder of how women "love" and how these can serve as teachable moments. They can literally overwrite you like a hard disk. I met this chick a while back and I caught really bad oneitis. I thought things were going really really good. One day she just blocked me. A few days later she unblocks me and tells she wants to be with some dude who is buying her a house. Then she blocks me again. That's the short version. It was legitimate…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:58 PM
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This is the truth and it's something I don't really have an answer to. I am probably as square as they come. No drugs, alcohol, or tobacco. Just never was interested. I could've probably slept with three times as many women as I have if I was into that stuff. I'm not bitter, but it's something me and my buddy joke about because he's the same way. I know a lot of guys that hang out in circles and everyone drinks or does recreational drug use. They have no game but get laid constantly. Women alway…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 07:04 PM
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Please don't take this advice. I am curious about your background, because men expecting more financial contribution from women doesn't sound blue pill to me. I very much understand how this dynamic works best based for both you and his financial situation. Still men want to know that their efforts are appreciated. Broach the subject and let him know how much it means to you that he is willing to spend so much on you. Don't just wait for him to mention it. If he has to then he's already sitting …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 02:59 PM
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I use to be very judgmental of women getting implants but getting older and knowing alot of women that have had breast cancer or nursing, I kinda saw it differently. But I agree. I know a lot of women that have to have them redone and it is very expensive and a life long commitment. And usually the girls I know that get them have unhealthy mindsets. I know 2 girls that got them as graduation gifts. Both came from affluent families. One got them straight out of highschool. The other was very smar…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 03:58 AM
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Curious, how do you feel about women that lose their breast size/shape to breastfeeding or an mastectomy?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 03:36 AM
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You sound like someone that has a healthy mindset. If I were you, I would do the same thing. Go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 03:30 AM
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All those "influencers" looking for followers on tinder are not introverts. They are just women who have no hobbies, and think they are unique and quirky for quoting shows almost everyone watches.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 08:04 PM
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I think a lot of women are like this. Personally I hate it. I think it’s a cop out and makes the man responsible for a woman’s inability to be vulnerable. I don’t desire to be close to someone that constantly needs me to check her. The subliminal message to me is that this person craves drama. And the men I know that like this also seem to crave drama. Most of us don’t look forward to coming home after a long day a dealing with this. We will do it for short term casual relationships though.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 04:19 AM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 09:43 PM
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I understand what you are saying but I always disagree with this thinking. The same girls that are clubbing and pissing you off with their bullshit on tinder, will be shopping at your supermarket and cramming for test at coffee shops. They just respond to you differently based on their environment. You may have favorable odds but it will always be a numbers games.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 09:15 PM
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The fuck?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:20 AM
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Trainers and instructors at the gym get laid like nobody’s business. The two head trainers at my gym have ran through plenty of the married milfs there. And a sad truth to taking the red pill is that taken women make the best plates(I hate that word..). If she knows you can’t give her the life of her husband and knows you have no plans of settling down, she won’t attempt a branch swing. The best situation purely for casual sex is being a situational alpha and being the side dude to multiple wome…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:17 AM
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A voice of reason. Women may want it like that for a little while but in the long run her drive while be nowhere a fit healthy man’s. You’ll want sex when a family member dies. You’ll want sex after losing a job. You’ll want sex just to be able to go to sleep. You could literally watch the most disgusting on tv and right afterwards want sex. Women aren’t like this(usually..)
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:43 AM
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Have you done anything to try and get it back on track or lost cause you feel?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:37 AM
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I don't understand why you are getting a lot of shit. Alot of women that claim to have high sex drive tend to wane after the infatuation period of a relationship. I've had 3 women with very high drives. One was a virgin that married a guy that turned out to be gay. They had sex a handful of times in their 5 year relationship. So it was more of...she valued sex as being an important part of a relationship because she didn't have it before. So when I came along, it was as much as I wanted it. The …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 06:59 PM
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I have no interest in doing this. But I also have no sympathy for the women this works on. I think a better EBook would be your best finesse stories. Sometimes people just want to read about the good guys winnng.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 09:03 PM
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This post was very well put together and was an interesting read. I can tell you put a lot of effort into it. I wish it got more attention. I don’t believe it’s fiction, but even if it was the message is still very valid. Just as people work very hard to be successful financially then live off passive income, this dude did the same thing with women. And now I’m going to re-read the 48 Laws of Power. Which I’ve never read in its entirety.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 01:19 PM
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I liked the post and found it insightful, but what you say is a often over looked truth. I live in a small town and my friends and i always joke that most of the hot girls leave after high school. What’s left are single mothers or girls that have the most ridiculous egos because of lack of competition. A buddy of mine lives here with his wife. He grew up in a major city with a large prominent university. Then move to another big city before meeting his wife. He’s just an average looking dude wit…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 01:11 PM
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It sounds like obnoxious 19-20 year olds who were about to hook up at a party. So IMO this story sounds believable.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 12:30 PM
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True. But I found it fascinating she’d tell me those things and not the other. Girls like that are self sabotaging when it comes to relationships. Maybe she’d rather me be “afraid” of her rather than “disgusted”. Women and their stupid ass insecurities...
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 02:34 PM
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Have you found that they usually have looks as well as brains? I think women like that are very aware of how easy it is for them to secure a mate, so they have absolutely no reservations about indulging themselves. Almost every female doctor or lawyer I know was a really smart party girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:39 AM
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Endangered? I think you’re just hamstering your relief that as far as you know, she hasn’t fucked any brown or black guys.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:28 AM
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I’m from the deep south. I see the worst of the right. But from my dating experience, hard right and hard lift women are both atrocious and worthless.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:20 AM
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Exactly. This is underrated advice and true to the T. If you are not judgemental and easy going, girls will gleefully tell you their secrets. I got coffee with a very professional and educated woman. I gave off this vibe, and within 40 minutes of our convo she was telling me about her bisexual swinger parties she attends twice a month. I also had a couple of dates with a BP chick. Would divulge everything BUT her sex life. She was in therapy for I think the 5th time according to her. She wouldn’…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:07 AM
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I dial it back a bit. But if I were in your situation, that’s what I would be telling myself.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:16 PM
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She’s 20. She hasn’t had a boyfriend since high school. She’s been doing the fuck buddy, hook up thing since then. Her friends party. But it sounds like, despite these things you like spending time with her and fucking her and you are just worried this could bite you in the ass if you commit. I can’t really say. But you do kinda look like a Captain Save-a-Ho.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:00 PM
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How did you find out? I was recently seeing this chick who was slow rolling me when I knew she was meeting and fucking other guys. I presented myself as too stable and reasonable. It ended because I called her out on her bullshit. She was the obnoxious liberal minded type that was prone to self destructive behavior and full of hypocrisy and double standards. Just being honest, she was very attractive and all I cared about was sleeping with her. But the bullshit was intolerable.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:45 PM
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You probably have 4 comments in this whole thread of people trying to actually be helpful... You mentioned that she has 3 exs but an n-count of 8+. How old is she? She has had 3 relationships but fucked about 3 times as many guys. That’s a red flag for me. Also you said her friends sleep around. Another red flag for me. But also, you guys would’ve probably not be casually fucking had she not been this way. It doesn’t sound like you Alpha widowed her. Speaking objectively, not trying to insult yo…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:35 PM
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Never thought about it in that way but damn you're right. I've never known a woman to desire her husband more or appreciate him more after marriage. Not unless there was some type of dread.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 02:22 PM
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Ok dude👍
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:07 PM
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Now we get to the real question and what’s eating at you. I figured it was something like this after that first post you made a few hours ago. I don’t know your age but I’m 35. I was running at this local high school track and I ran into my old college professor. We’ve become pretty good friends as of late. We got to talking and this dude told me he envied me. He and his wife are in a sexless marriage. He said fuck it and openly dates other women. He quit teaching and became a successful real es…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 02:11 PM
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Respect for this post dude. Not everyone is going to come here and admit they got laid more in high school. We all would like to believe that it gets easier the older we get. I’m 35. My game, confidence, and looks are better than they were in my youth. But the opportunities aren’t what they were in my youth. Of course, things like location and lifestyle matter.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 01:15 PM
2

You are exactly right. I don’t drink but if I did it would be shooting fish in a barrel. It’s really not that hard to be well dressed, be fun and be around a lot of alcohol. I personally try to avoid drunk girls and I hate giving women plausible deniability. We all know how that can go south if they regret it.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 01:05 PM
3

It’s great to see a Christopher Walker shout out. Have you had any success following his stuff? He stuff is very well researched.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:24 AM
2

Male celebrities/athletes have the options the average decent looking woman has. Not even joking.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:36 AM
3

I read in the comments that you are fresh out of a marriage. So I can understand why this is shocking to you. But let me tell you, welcome to the land of depravity. One thing you got to do is stop vocalizing your moral perspective to things women tell you. You are letting them know you are judging them. Which is fine, but they'll withhold things like this and worse if you do act that way. Also, most of us here would be considered predators by your standards. I'm 35. Would I rather bang a 35 year…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:13 AM
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This was very insightful. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 02:19 PM
1

Even when you agree with the advice people still downvote you....
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:32 AM
2

OP ignore that ridiculous ass post. It sounds like another 16 year old found TRP.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:21 PM
5

A voice of reason.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:12 PM
6

I done that. It helps at times but the kind of girl OP is describing will just ghost you anyway.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:10 PM
2

I’m very fit and attractive for my age but aging does do natural things to the body. I do appreciate what you’re saying. What I’m saying is that there is no way 50 years old is going to be the average man’s peak. That doesn’t mean that you should ever stop striving to better yourself. You can be realistic about something without having a defeatist mindset. But I also agree about moving the boat. Location matters and I’m working on it. I didn’t mention that because it didn’t seem relevant at firs…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 01:53 AM
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Haha, not even mad at you my guy. For a while I did the shave head and beard. It actually made me look older and was intimidating to a lot of women. Tweaked my diet, started supplementing with vitamins and actually regrew some of my hair. Decided to really fight to keep it. Special shampoos, minoxidil, and supposed hair vitamins. I just look better with hair. How much was the transplant and were you satisfied? Future reference.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 05:48 AM
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My sentiments. I'm 35. I definitely don't fuck like I did at 23. Even though i'm more successful with women. I'm also loosing my hair. There is no way i'm peaking at 50 unless I've gotten hair transplants and running roid cycles. And I know plenty of 20 year olds iffy about banging a 35 year old. I doubt this will be easier at 15 years from now unless i'm living in a third world country. The only thing this accounts for is by that time men have reached the pinnacle of their respective profession…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 07:06 PM
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Why not? Just don't like it anymore?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:51 PM
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Like others have mentioned, your only option is to raise your SMV. Nexting her isn't an option, and nobody here is going to advise men to tolerate disrespect or be a bitch. So there you go.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:41 PM
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If I was in your situation i would be doing exactly what you’re doing. Every successful guy I know always has girls trying to lock him down for commitment to gain status and use of his resources. They use strategy of both extremes. Fucking them as soon as possible, hoping to sex their way into commitment OR Making them wait indefinitely trying to run some “I’m a good girl” shit. I wouldn’t worry about improving on those internal issues. You only have to “appear” to not care and what they divulge…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:31 AM
1

As pathetic as replying to a comment on a deleted post?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:23 PM
1

Yeah just throw something at the wall and hope it sticks.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:53 PM
1

You posted a while back saying you did a lot of online apps for it's convenience and your success rate. Is it still something you use or has it dried up? Tinder's algorithm or whatever the hell they do, fucked me. I wasn't really getting laid much from it but I went from 5 to 6 matches a week to absolutely nothing when I signed up again. Literally the same pictures.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:27 PM
1

Try for what Robin?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:44 PM
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The difference is people get banned that argue with him. It happens all the time. But I’m sure he appreciated your backup on a deleted post. Make sure to email him a fist pump.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:53 PM
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Are you baiting me to ban me? Come on dude.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:09 AM
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Sensational(ism).
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:48 AM
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Hmmm... When I lived overseas, I dated an Asian girl. When her grandmother found out, she did everything she could to end it. She told the girl that I was no good and she didn’t want me to be apart of their family. She told the girl’s dad to put hands on her if he had to. They changed her number and her grandmother even got a lawyer because she wanted to know legal actions she could take to keep me away from her granddaughter. Do you know what else her grandmother did? She volunteered at a commu…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:03 AM
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This sounds like a defeatist question. You don’t know what any woman’s attracted to until you talk to her. And sometimes even they don’t know. But if you want better chances of women of different backgrounds, living near major cities is always better(except Boston or New England..). Women worry about status and acceptance. Dating a black man in LA may not threaten those things, but they will in say Mississippi. But even then it all depends. You will obviously get harsher rejections than your whi…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:47 AM
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Well, it could be more of the numerous things you’ve said on other threads. But It’s not like anybody’s gonna directly check you. We know the drill.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:28 AM
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OP listen to this. And block her on everything. Completely.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 03:58 PM
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Some guys come here and shit on everything. Even the fact that dudes post here for help. Now we are criticizing people for putting effort and organization to post? Ridiculous.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 03:22 PM
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If this is true, it sounds like by all accounts your life is better than his. You could just rub that shit in his with a sense of aloofness. But i understand how irritating it can be dealing with guys like this. When you guys are alone, you could call him out. No need for an audience. Do it face to face. You could just straight up ask him why he acts like a little two faced bitch. Tell him it reminds you of a passive aggressive woman. Be prepared to fight. Not with your fist up. Just understand …
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:50 PM
1

For me it sometimes happens during dry spells or when i’m low on abundance.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:28 PM
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It’s fucking ASKTrp dude. Nobody is going to post here if they are having no challenges with women.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:02 PM
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This always perplexes me about this sub. Sometimes guys post some moronic shit and they need some harsh truths thrown in their face. But I mean, this is a subreddit for guys asking help with sexual strategy/social dynamics in regards to women. If you give little to no info, no one can help you. If you give background and context then you by default have onetitis. You don't want to marry or even date the girl. You find her to be one of the most physically attractive women you've ever interacted w…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:46 PM
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My man this happens a million times a day to young man such as yourself. This is all about power and she has it. Women like this in their prime don’t want to fuck dudes they feel are beneath them. You had your one shot to be forward and go for it and after that, she will now regulate you to just another guy to toy with. There is nothing special about you compared to the other 100 guys she’s talking to and she just wants to know you want her. The only reason she sent you that video is because you…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:58 PM
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Exactly. This is why you remove women from you contacts and social media that you don’t want in your life. If you don’t you are inviting the drama which means he has a part to play in this shit. If someone is not welcome in your house, why the fuck do you keep the door unlocked for them?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:43 PM
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It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, necessarily. It sometimes means it’s getting to the point where it transitions from a fantasy to a reality, and that’s when a lot of girls bail. We tend to forget how much girls only care about being wanted. You can sometimes not tell the difference because they’re figuring out what to say to present themselves as “not like other girls”. I had one girl complaining about guys waste her time and how real and down she is. Blocked me the next day. One said I was the real…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:20 PM
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You sound like an incel.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:39 PM
2

What’s your take on Austin? Thinking of heading that way.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:52 AM
2

Just be patient. A lot of girls are weird about having PIV with a guy they just met. But also, do yourself a favor and don’t ever date a girl that has this warped view about sex. They want you to “earn” that but have no problems putting a dick in their mouth and tasting your cum. It’s the most retarded logic to be casual about that but huff and puff about the idea of putting a penis in a vagina. Have your fun but I wouldn’t emotionally invest in a woman that thinks like that.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:32 AM
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I know you feel bad because you really wanted to bang this girl, but this is pretty typical behavior. Especially some vapid cheerleader. Also, her being underdressed was a power play. By you investing your attention into someone who didn’t put much effort into their appearance, you are immediately in their frame. She just never took you that seriously. It happens man.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 05:14 AM
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The thing about these posts is that everyone assumes if you are asking a girls N-Count, then you are doing it in the most awkward and inappropriate way. So it's like always "Don't ask! Just look for signs." All you have to do is project a non-judgmental free loving attitude about sex. Then girls will gladly tell you. You'll be the guy that "just gets it!" And she will unload her deepest darkest shit to you. This is part of the vetting process and you may already be sleeping with the girl as thes…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 04:09 PM
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You are projecting way too much.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 02:42 PM
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Someone says this every week. But seriously, the problem isn’t necessarily the subject matter. It’s that a lot of people who post are terrible writers. Some of this stuff reads like someone hurriedly trying to tell their best friend a story in a loud room.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:30 AM
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A teacher, a park ranger and a bouncer.... You’ve lived a pretty interesting life my guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 10:42 PM
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Yeah sometimes we forget how little women value male attention. It could’ve been a slow night, or he was the only guy not trying to Netflix and chill her and It gave her an opportunity to dress up and go somewhere. It could literally have nothing to do with you. She was just bored.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:34 AM
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I’m surprised you’re in the south. I would’ve guessed a small town upstate or midwest. There is nothing about your writing that says redneck upbringing haha. I don’t say that to insult your intelligence. I’m also living in the south. You just don’t strike me as someone that masturbates to Fox News.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 04:49 PM
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+1 for sweeping generations.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 12:10 PM
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People have no idea how rough it can get in small towns. When you make it a point to day game and all you come across are single moms, chubby chicks and girls still in high school...sometimes you just want to bang your cute coworker that smells good and wears sexy clothes. I had a government job. I never and would never fuck that up for sex. But life has its twist and turns. Now I’m the admin assistant at a fledgling temp job with no benefits. I’ve fucked two of my coworkers and things are great…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:37 AM
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I dont know if someone mentioned this, but how do you define virgin? I'm asking because a lot of women say that but still perform oral sex or do other sexual activities.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 06:05 PM
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The first thing I learned about social dynamics with women is how they use alcohol or recreational drug use for plausible deniability. I've never had any desire to do either and I've honestly missed quite a few lays because of it haha. It's just something infuriating to me about entertaining a woman's desire to avoid accountability and her leveraging what's best for her post sex. I always enjoy your write ups. It's been awhile.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 05:52 PM
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Troll post.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:03 PM
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It’s really not.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:11 PM
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The best girlfriend I’ve ever had was an introverted homeschooler who first time in public school was going to college. She was very mature, didn’t drink, no drug habits, had weird random hobbies and some quirks. I was the second guy she’d be with. The first was a committed relationship that span years. She had no hang ups about sex, never tried to guilt trip me, and had no problems saying she was sorry. The relationship ended because she was extremely lazy and had no interest in maximizing her …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 08:04 PM
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I stopped reading after the part where you tried to make amends after she initiated a fight so she could fuck another guy. That’s pathetic and whatever your reasoning is to continue to see her is also pathetic. I don’t know what brought you to this sub but i don’t think it’s for you.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:12 PM
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Exactly. Didn’t he even say something about how he refused to help her if she had car troubles? He had no drive in life and treated her like shit because he believed it would keep her wanting him. Two top posts by two pathetic ass men.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 07:22 PM
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You were the first to call that dude out on that post. "I was trying to wife strippers and drug heads..BUT AWALT!!"
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 04:22 PM
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I'm assuming this was inspired by that shit post a couple of days ago that got over 600 upvotes?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 04:09 PM
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Why the Fuck were you downvoted to oblivion for asking a question out of legitimate concern🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:18 AM
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Yep. And to add, she’s trying to qualify waiting to sleep with her. She’s still open to having sex with you immediately. But it means she won’t like you anymore. As opposed to waiting and she still may not like you or she’d expect your commitment once she does. As you can see, there is nothing that actually makes you better than the guys she’s casually fucked. Don’t date her. But if you ignore all of this and keep escalating she just might sleep with you anyway. Personally, I wouldn’t lead her o…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:09 AM
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I am always baffled by the cognitive dissonance of these types of posts. How do you you use your pathetic behavior and experiences with literally the worse kind of women to preach some universal commandment?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:31 PM
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It could be a common thing. I don’t drink alcohol at all. It never appealed to me. I know a lot of people do to get a buzz or just to make themselves more social. I use to be very introverted. Growing up I’ve challenged myself to be charming, bold, direct...etc.. it’s important for me to be able to be that way without alcohol or any recreational drug. I can be in the moment but still be able to pull back or be hyper aware of my surroundings. Politically I’m probably middle of the world. I just c…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 03:34 AM
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I disagree. No one likes smoking cigarettes or drinking alcohol the first time they do it. It’s just a means to socialize until you learn to “appreciate” such things. I think it taste bad and if consume enough of it impairs my cognitive abilities. Nothing about that appeals to me and I’m not envious of anybody who does it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 03:15 AM
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While this sounds like a blast, from what you’ve said about this chick in your posts... it’s too dangerous. She’s not your girlfriend. She’s a bipolar unstable fuck buddy that you had to ghost. You are going to spend TWO FUCKING WEEKS with this woman. I don’t know about you, but I get bothered if I’m seeing a woman 3 or 4 days in a row. You’re going to be a couple for 24 hours x 14 days. She’s gonna create some drama and then leave your ass in Brazil. Don’t go dude.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:36 PM
1

Would you saw your game is more centered around social proof and preselection?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 07:24 PM
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Annnnnnd here we go. It always starts off as sounding like it makes sense then there is some subtle shit about the “uniqueness” of white people that fits awkwardly into your point and isn’t based on any kind of science. Then some purity mantra. Which I’m sure doesn’t apply to you if you bang non-whites. All this because you just want white girls to bang you. And it festers feelings of frustration and inadequacy(that you’ll never admit to) If they find guys from different ethnic backgrounds more …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:18 PM
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As thought out and interesting of a read this was, something told me if i kept reading you would try to connect it to how white people are unique or special in some regard. Thank you for not disappointing.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:30 PM
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Seriously. Women can have such a sense of inflated value. Why would you hang out with someone you have romantic interest in and not be good company? I just cut them off.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:51 PM
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This is stupid. She thinks she has some power over you because you guys had sex. She thinks she can now use it as some type of weapon. This chick isn’t bipolar. She’s just immature. I would block her. I just can’t imagine seeing a woman again that showed complete disinterest when I gave her my time. I know you are probably young. After a couple more times of dealing with women like this, you’ll no longer have the patience for it.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:12 AM
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I'm in a small town in the south. Bars/clubs are a catch 22 for me. Female behavior is at its worst but there are the only places besides the gym where I can meet a lot of attractive women at once. And you don't want to be that guy at the gym. I think for some it's easy pickings to show up late at the bar and game some tipsy girls. But you have to be a bit aggressive and direct. I don't drink and personally try not to ever interact with women that have been drinking or drunk. Even before learnin…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 04:41 PM
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I know a couple of guys that would do this. Just show at a bar or club around closing time. Fresh out the shower, smelling good and just be mental juggernauts compared to their competition. I don’t drink and I avoid drunk girls. But if you don’t give a shit about that and have logistics, it’s the easiest way any decent looking dude can get laid. It’s just an unpopular(and potentially dangerous) thing guys won’t admit to doing.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 03:18 AM
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I found the title post somewhat positive but i'm glad someone pointed this out. Guys really need to come off the "asian girls are awesome" shit. Even if a specific group of women worshiped me or made it easy for me, i'd have the self analysis to understand it's something at play rather than to generalize it being that way for all men. And i've said it time and time again. Asian women can make great girlfriends but shitty wives. Which goes back to your point about commitment.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 09:15 PM
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Correct. Once you get this, hot girls are easy. But the hurdle for most guys is when you initially meet very attractive women you are the one initiating the interaction and be default she’ll look down on you. It seems to me that social circles and group meets are best because you can interact with them casually. But if you match on a dating app and she agrees to meet, being charming and calling her on her shit is an excellent combination. Just my thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 12:52 AM
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It sounds a lot like Austin.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:29 PM
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We are in agreement that it disqualifies them for relationships. But I just don’t assume she is fucking the whole city. That was my point.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 02:46 AM
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Come on dude. Every girl that says “It was just sex” isn’t a rampant cheating ho. You don’t know that. BUT what you do know is that she can have no strings attached sex with someone but still expects more investment from you to do the same thing. It would’ve been different if this was years ago but this literally happened right before you came along. You don’t need to think the worse by judging on one phrase alone. Just from what you know, that’s enough already to dump her.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 02:28 AM
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This is an underrated comment and hardly is this ever discussed. Obviously you want to be living somewhere where there is an abundance of attractive women. But while you’ll find quality in looks, quantity, and generally a higher level of receptiveness....it doesn’t for a second mean anything when it comes to LTRs. That’s going to be difficult no matter what. A buddy of mine with almost ZERO game moved to New Orleans and dated a string of very attractive girls. Nothing like what he could get back…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:51 PM
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Something about your post jumped out to me that the girl in question was kind of a party girl. I've just seen it so many times and i've lived through it myself. They bounce from extremes of wanting something serious to a few days later finding out they blew some guy at a party. Thanks for the extensive write up. This comment in itself could've been another topic that could generate discussion. So many red pill truths.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 03:27 PM
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I've realized that when girls initiate talks like that it either means: 1). They are just expressing how they feel in that moment. As we know they tend to do. 2). She's talking to someone else and wants to see if she can get you to commit to her. Unfortunately, this doesn't always mean she still won't fuck the other guy (or guys) she's talking to. Just at some point she'll expect more from you when she's ready for something "real". But also, i get the feeling this girl may be vapid and impulsive…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 03:13 PM
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But how old was the girl? And could you expand on this conversation? I'm just trying to understand the epiphany that came from that talk. Because biologically you could say each gender is hardwired a certain way.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 02:48 PM
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I think you aren’t being honest with yourself about this post. You don’t want to let her go and you probably won’t even break up with her. This is just a rant and you’ll put your head in the sand after processing this. Dude just go for a clean break. Even if you did have the conviction to just plate, It will get messy and she’ll have some form of validation and power. She was indeed your girlfriend and you will still be fucking her. You’ll also probably play into a her frame as well. It’s going …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:27 AM
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The more I think about the parent post the more I think about how absurd it is. It's basically how a lot of women think. They are so used to male attention that they feel entitled to it. And when men don't bend over backwards for them they somehow equate that to men hating them. Ridiculous right?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 06:56 PM
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I don’t think it’s that. But i guess if you go somewhere and you’re pretty much worshipped as a white guy, then when you don’t see that you assume everyone has a problem with you. I’m a black American that lived in Asia. I observed that Japanese and Koreans don’t always go crazy over white guys. They generally just think of all outsiders the same. But for those that do like foreigners there does indeed seem to be a preference for white guys. Trust me, it’s still going to be easier to game there …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 10:30 PM
1

I have to admit, you make a great point.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 08:14 PM
1

Speak for yourself my man. Some of us don’t live in the best locations. It may actually be an hour. But it could spaced out over a period of days or weeks.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:42 PM
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I use the same tactic. If you are totally prepared to fight (because the guy's frame will be so shattered he'll probably try to escalate something physically), I'll mention something about them wanting me to fuck them. I'll point out something along the lines of them nagging me and trying to get a reaction out of me. A bit of aloofness and sarcasm about how i'm only use to insecure women acting like that because they are attracted to me. I don't say it all so wordy, just naturally in conversatio…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:29 PM
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I swear it’s like I wrote this myself. Every single thing haha
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:36 AM
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I say this all the time and saw it first hand with so many blindsided friends. I know maybe two guys that are in marriages where the wife still wants sex. Asian women make excellent girlfriends and terrible wives. Queens of the bait and switch. There are some distinct cultural differences between Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, Taiwanese..etc.. But this is one thing that appears to be a constant. That and thinking behaving like a child is cute.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:22 PM
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I actually found this an interesting read. To respond to your bold... I don't think this has ever been explicitly said but it seems quite common sense that women do this. FWB or fuck buddies always have an end because after a while they want more than sex. They want resources. Women want commitment, validation, attention, status,..etc.. They don't always want those things from the same men. I think all of these are equivalent to a man wanting sex.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:28 PM
1

Haha there is definitely some truth to that.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:23 PM
1

You said all of that without saying anything.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:06 AM
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I’m assuming being with a woman as fucked up as that is what led you here?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 05:19 AM
2

I understand your frustration, but small towns definitely have their own challenges. It's true that I have made some lifelong really close friends. Guys that will ride or die with me. But while you say larger cities have unlimited options, small towns can be on the other side of the spectrum. I met a woman at store a few weeks ago. She was somewhat attractive. As I got closer to her I realized she wasn't as attractive as I thought. She was very receptive to the convo but I didn't pursue anything…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:58 PM
2

100 times this.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:42 PM
1

I’m trying to wrap my head around how he’s too liberal, but you say he hates Muslims and immigrants. That’s literally all you have to say to be considered conservative.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:38 PM
4

I cringed so hard reading this, I pinched my sciatic nerve.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:00 PM
4

Can Confirm: I know a hair stylist like this. Smoking hot with a tattoo sleeve. Emotionally vomits on social media. Lost custody of first kid. Got knocked up by a real estate agent who actually gave up his rights to the kid because she was stalking him and falsely accused him of domestic violence. Decided to cut his loses. Feel sorry for the kid. Just got knocked up again by a fat lawyer for third kid. Probably never had a hot girl and thinks it's a sign of success or some shit that she's with h…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 09:00 PM
1

In a sense I think the line could work. It's so awful and awkward sounding. Maybe some girls would want to know what the fuck is going on in a person's head to say something like that and think it sounds awesome. Maybe they'd be impressed with how fast they were turned off.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:23 PM
1

haha, figured as much.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:52 PM
4

I struggle with this too. But it's situational. And as I've gotten older I only really hear it from young girls who are still in that obnoxious phase and feel threatened by attractive men and loud crazy girls that gravitate towards abusive men. I just laugh it off or just stop giving them attention. I just lose interest in talking to them because I know why they are saying it and i'm annoyed. How old are you?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:17 PM
1

You should've added autistic. Considering you were downvoted for sarcasm...
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:25 PM
3

Why would you say they are all retards and then back pedal to give a sympathetic hyper defensive stance for the only guy that doesn’t get it? And how is the OP being a weird ass little kid for showing to the degree in which this guy was played? Dude what the fuck. Are you debating yourself?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:40 PM
9

Only one retard. The other two aren’t giving her commitment.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 03:40 PM
5

I think a lot of women’s mental health issues revolve around a victim based mindset. And i could see how it could be perpetual because other women echo chamber and men just “don’t get it”. I don’t know many women that were strongly feminists that didn’t have deep psychological issues and very little concept of personal accountability or responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 05:53 AM
3

Did you sometimes feel as though there is an unwritten role to never show empathy for men? I think that in itself is what makes feminism so short sighted.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 05:27 AM
1

I unmatch a lot. I think your approach is hilarious. I probably get 2 to 3 matches a week. Nothing stellar. But if they don’t reply in a day or reply with some dry ass two or three word response, I just can’t be bothered to engage.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 05:22 AM
1

How long have you been using it? Are you in a major city or college town?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 05:19 AM
3

What was it she said that made you change your stance?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 07:47 PM
3

This is the best advice. So many "meet ups" turn into "hook ups" because of alcohol or some sort of recreational substance. It's honestly a yellow flag to me if someone that is looking for a relationship, socializes like that with a with guys they just met. But i'm speaking from the perspective of a non-drinker.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 08:24 PM
85

How about a little bit more about your dad. That’s a very profound and harsh truth to tell a son. He must’ve had an interesting life.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 06:27 PM
5

This is one of the most interesting post/discussions I’ve ever seen on Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/18 01:01 AM
1

I had bad calves too. Now they are decent because i always stretch them, and I do a lot of time under tension. I don’t ever go heavy on calves. Slow and controlled and with short rest periods.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:54 AM
1

True as Fuck. Really fat people always have massive calves/quads.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:51 AM
3

I guess he’s saying though that White Jesus is the most obvious example. Although it would’ve maybe had less shock value.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:32 PM
1

I thought it was brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:22 PM
0

The only low-t sperg shit is this tangent you’re going on.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:26 PM
18

With the exception of the few years I lived in Asia maybe a decade ago.... It's probably the best it's ever been. I'm nowhere near where I want to be. But part of that is location. I use to not be one for casual sex. This led to years of sexual frustration. Porn was my coping mechanism. I had the very naive view that if I wanted a woman that didn't sleep around, I had to be the kind of guy that didn't as well. Of course I found that while most women may find that "admirable", It doesn't make the…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:34 PM
32

It took me attending meetings once a week for about two years with a group of guys with similar issues, before i felt really strong. This local church does AA meetings. I have no idea why there isn’t more help and support for men dealing with porn addiction. But I was very fortunate to be apart of a group like that at the church. I didn’t agree with everything and one of the reasons I stoppped going was because as new members came and old ones left, I just didn’t really feel close to a lot of th…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:13 PM
2

I think most men fall into those categories.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:25 PM
12

What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:22 PM
77

It took professional help for me to stop looking at porn. Started around 10 thanks to older friends and some uncles. I’m 34 now and this is the longest I’ve gone without looking at it. 3 and a half years.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:20 PM
5

She always ask you to hang out? Y’all have been talking for two weeks and you’ve never took her up on it? She invites you to a party and then hooks up with your friend? Which means you didn’t escalate at all. It sounds like you just want the validation that she finds you attractive. Which is pretty pathetic man. Also, she’s got some glaring issues to pull some shit like that. She obviously has poor boundaries.. You’re both wasting each others time.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:00 PM
16

Well, I can't stand women like this. They say shit like this to get a reaction out of men and they revel in the fact most men will still try to fuck them no matter what they say or do. Also in future if she does something shitty, she's just gonna use some variation of "you knew I was crazy". But she wasn't lying about wanting men to dominate her. She just didn't want that man to be you. This about attraction to her, it was about power. She thought she was better than you. With all of that being …
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:54 PM
3

These are the type of games women play. You matched with her on tinder, they lurked your facebook before she moved in, and it's obvious she knows you're interested. Also, it's not like there were logistics in their favor. She didn't meet some dude around the block and he just bounced her back to your place. It was a 20 minute car ride back to your place for her to fuck in your living room. Hell they even could've stopped to buy fucking the air mattress. She's not even living there. She got some …
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:33 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qUWuaOPUjTI It's funny I found this just now. Exactly this.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 06:14 PM
1

Don't know why you were downvoted. This is really good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 03:57 PM
13

You nailed it. “Intelligent” women tend to be ball busting, condescending, and seem to enjoy some type of confrontation with men. With other men, if there is some type of challenge or conflict it eventually get settled in some way. Be it verbal or physical. With women that isn’t an option. So men are in this weird place where we don’t really want to engage and for most well adjusted men there is nothing attractive about having a back and forth with a woman we are trying to get to know romantical…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/18 05:33 PM
1

Thanks for the in depth write up. I agree with by the way. I do think for a complete form of fighting, learning MMA has its place. But also think they often stress grappling and ground fighting which can put you at a disadvantage at times. I think rolling around with a dude twice my size it’s not ideal. But learning how to throw a good shot to the chin is going to end most fights rather quickly.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 07:51 PM
1

Why do you recommend boxing and not kick boxing?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:47 PM
3

The best advice. OP you don’t have anything to prove to us or anyone else. Just because a girl sleeps with you doesn’t mean you have to put up with her bullshit. I like enthusiastic sex. Women getting lost in the moment. I had one last weekend that was so loud I thought she’d wake my neighbors and then she had a 10-minute orgasm from me fucking her. I would not put up with a woman throwing shots at me for some type of reaction during sex. It’s some type of power play. “Yeah you get to fuck me bu…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:20 PM
1

That has never happened to me. This line of reasoning just seems pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 04:38 PM
2

You are one of the few ECs that always seems to look at things objectively, no matter the subject matter.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:33 PM
4

This is why I don’t fuck with him. People have been worshipping him lately because of his post, but he was always a hate filled little shit. Post like this always trigger him.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:05 AM
7

It’s not hard to make racist jokes. But I have no interest in them or entertaining somebody doing it to me. It’s boring and basic.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:58 AM
1

How is anybody not stomped the fuck out of you yet I don’t know... When someone makes racist banter they are trying to pull you into their frame. Playing along gives them a green light to say the most racist shit they can think of because now you’re ok with it. It’s passive aggressive because when they go too far (and they will..) they will feign ignorance about why you are upset and butt hurt because you’ve been playing along too.. You don’t engage in this kind of shit because people who usuall…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:56 AM
1

I can’t honestly see how, but I guess the majority agrees with your statement.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 04:36 AM
5

That’s not my point. It’s still a red flag detected. And avoiding something like this because of male insecurities is silly. Just stop being insecure. I’ve had kinky talk with women and it hasn’t bothered me if some dude they banged in the past has the biggest dick ever. I don’t care. I’m just trying to learn about her views on sex and making mental notes of incongruency, hypocrisy, and sexual history. In response to the original post i responded to... Just don’t be insecure and have enough conf…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:36 AM
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I don’t agree with this advice at all. He now knows what kind of bullshit she’s on and no longer worth his investment. His post was a very good AWALT example. And here you are posting men shouldn’t be asking stuff like this in the first place? So he would’ve been in the dark about this?? What if they got married and one night during some drunken confession she tells him some shit like this... All one has to do is give off a non-judgmental vibe and assess these things to do decide is it worth it …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:25 AM
2

So on average, how many tinder matches do you get a week? What are your profile pics and profile like? I probably get around 3 to 4 matches a week. But i have no patience. If they take hours and hours to respond I just unmatch. I always go thru a cycle with tinder. I’ll get frustrated with it and delete. Tell myself to do more cold approaches. There are so many challenges with my schedule and living in a small town. After three or 4 months of not much, I’ll get back on for convenience sake....an…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:57 AM
1

You really have a knack for selective reading. Where did i say anything about ugly men wanting hot girls? When did I ask you to explain the redpill to me? Your response and this topic is just you wanting to shame a man that would inquire about a woman's past, hoping to create some echo chamber of quality men not caring about this. A lot of young girls come here and they want to decide what it is men should be attracted to and ok with, rather than what they really are. Your reasoning is similar t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 10:19 PM
1

I'm not trying to insult your parents. It may be that your dad maybe didn't ask not because he was "high value" but it could've been because he didn't want to ruin his perception of your mom and he was ready settle down. Also, men's romantic behavior and professional behavior often don't correlate in positives. Plenty of brilliant successful men just want a woman to share their life with and avoid asking or prying into things that may make them second guess that. It happens all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 09:05 PM
0

Ok. Incel means Involuntarily Celibate. I'm not talking about all the other bitter women hating things associated with that name. I'm talking about men who would like to get laid but can't. What do you think attracts a lot of men to the Red Pill? Besides teaching men to be self sufficient and empowering themselves, the most obvious thing is to teach men to be better with women. You don't know any decent looking guy that constantly gets friend zoned? You don't know any decent looking guy that's t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 08:32 PM
6

It's sad I had to scroll this far down to find this response. I don't think PPD and the like can be used a representation as a whole for the population. Same with here and the Red Pill. These kind of questions always seem disingenuous to me and are insulting to men's intelligence. Either you're an Alpha and you don't ask or you're some socially inept incel or beta and expect a virgin. I don't know any man outside certain religious/cultural groups that expects a woman to be a virgin. Women know t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 06:23 PM
4

I see what you are saying and that does seem to be the case more often than not. But some guys that profess to be MGTOW just don’t invest a lot of time in pursuing women, they focus on themselves and their success with women is because of that. I enjoy women for their beauty and femininity. Yes i love having sex with women. But besides that, there is nothing I find beneficial about spending time with someone that is less rational than me, hyper insecure, and lacking in self awareness. I’d rather…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:06 PM
5

I think there is a misconception about MGTOW. From what I’ve seen and understand about women, marriage seems to me to be a sunk cost fallacy. I enjoy women very much sexually, but the idea of being responsible for a woman long term does not appeal to me. This goes against societal expectations. So aren’t we in a sense MGTOW?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:09 PM
1

You made the right decision. It seems like your relationship is keeping her grounded and she is probably a person with poor boundaries. She doesn’t appreciate your views and if you were a free loving unstable freak she would like you the same or even more. She’s going to eventually resent you and take your views as a sign of weakness. If you had kids she would fight you on every little thing and position herself as being the true authority to your children.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:50 AM
1

Girls actually like having text buddies. They won’t Fuck you, but they like knowing you want to fuck them. Ghost my dude.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:37 AM
2

Very true. And apologies. You definitely know what you’re doing.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 09:53 AM
4

Don’t think it’s a green light for them wanting you to fuck them. At best it means they’ll be open to future conversation. This is actually typical behavior for fit athletic women. They flow in and out between hyper bitch shield and ridiculous cock tease. But both are attention seeking. It’s either covert action with overt communication: “How do I know you aren’t a pervert?” Or overt action (sexually suggestive stretching and showing cleaving) with covert communication: “What? Lol I’m just stret…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 01:38 AM
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Why the fuck aren’t you an EC?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:13 AM
3

Bro there are so many layers to how interesting that story is. LMFAO. The dynamics of that friendship sound fascinating. If I had increased my SMV and learned game, it was would be honest toss up between cutting her out of my life completely or fucking the shit out her every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:00 AM
1

Did your SMV increase or was just about finally having good logistics?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:41 PM
1

I knew a guy that did this from Canada. Young, good looking dude. He and a friend did door to door sells for maybe 5 or 6 months and the dude made like 30,000. He traveled in Australia, Africa, and Asia. He'd take local jobs just careful to never put too much of a dent in his money. I met him while living in Japan. He's annoying as fuck, has mental problems, and socially retarded. But with his looks, always looking for a party and being a foreigner always on the go....he was ALWAYS getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:39 PM
3

I would just break up. That's apparently what she wants to do for 3 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:30 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:09 PM
1

I have lived in Japan, and i'm friends with a lot of asians. People are people, and women are women. Discreetly sleeping around, cheating, branch swinging, hypergamy, etc.. All happen. But I think the average attractive asian woman has a significantly lower N-count than her western counterpart. I would say most people from eastern cultures don't socialize like westerners. Often times the men don't really know how to flirt and people only seem to be able to talk freely at drinking parties. Asian …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:57 PM
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I have been waiting to read this since your post the other day. Worth the wait. Empowering as fuck. Brb about to run through this fucking wall at my job.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 04:38 PM
1

Good. You see the whole picture for what it is. Revisit months down the line if you want. Personally though, I'd hard next. She was using you for validation and tried to get out of hanging out with you alone. I wouldn't give her anymore of my time unless she reached out to me. And she probably matched with you on tinder simply because she knew you and she doesn't think you're a complete incel. Girls match with guys on tinder all the time that they have no intentions of fucking or hanging out wit…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:56 PM
5

I think his post and your response were both very insightful. It's easy to see how you may have come off as butthurt but I really understand where you are coming from. If you guys have kissed and flirted before, she is aware of that tension. For her to feign ignorance at you wanting to see her alone is all you need to know. She's been using you for validation and enjoyed the drama and tension of flirting with you when neither of you could really have each other. Now that's its fair game, all of …
/r/askTRP09/04/18 06:06 PM
4

It’s literally the only profession where nobody really gives a shit about that.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:35 PM
2

I worked with a guy that was a manager of a bar/restaurant for years. He fucked nearly every hot girl that worked there. To this day he can still call some of them up for hook ups. 8 times out of 10, girls in that industry are fucking their coworkers. EDIT TO ADD: Also knew a guy that bartended at a strip club. Dude fucked most of the strippers and waitresses.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:32 PM
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Great post but I don't think it's a one size fits all kind of a thing though. I'm a muscular black dude. If am dealing with non black women, going direct works for me once i've established some attraction. Or just having social proof. But i've had some women literally run away or make a defensive posture. So I have to able to "disarm" them first. If people perceive you as non-threatening or you are exactly someone's type then I think going direct is best. RSDTyler from real social dynamics alway…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:37 PM
12

The most underrated comment in this entire thread. Exactly this.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 12:15 PM
3

I don’t think he’s telling the girl this, just us. He can still give off that non-judgement vibe while making his own mental checklist.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 12:05 PM
1

NO. DO NOT take this guy’s advice. He’s worshiping some basic chick that has some glaring personality flaws. Your first mind is correct. You are not special to some girl who is acting this way with you. Don’t let some guy who never got over his first GF convince you to show some special appreciation for this dynamic. Enjoy it for what it is but it is definitely just your turn. Your vetting ability is better apparently a lot of men much older than you.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 08:55 AM
1

That was painful to read...Some young cock tease with “more experience” than you blessed by being your girlfriend and still keeps you around even after beta buxing some clown and you’ve put her on the ultimate pedestal. Is this some kind of joke? What the fuck is happening to this sub?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 08:49 AM
3

He does. I’m still trying to figure out who gave him EC. He went off on a couple of tangents in some older threads about how blacks are sub-human and need to stay away from his white women... But sometimes he culturally appropriates in his terminology. I just can’t take him seriously.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:39 PM
2

You should definitely enjoy her, but this isn’t built to last. Why did you give your commitment to someone like this?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:01 AM
4

It's surprising how many people missed the point of my post and failed to see the bigger picture. Very surprising. Would a high value man write about how devastated he was about being dumped by a girlfriend? They didn't have kids together and she doesnt owe him anything. This article is him trying to make her feel guilty about dumping him. It's how women act. the biggest cognitive dissonance in this sub is its users believing they're so much more loyal than women, when in reality they're just fu…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:37 PM
0

I honestly can't tell if this is redpill or TwoX. All these emotional base responses and failing to see the big picture..
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:22 PM
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Maybe he’s just you guys type. Because I don’t think Tom Hiddleston is more attractive than the other guy. I mean come on, they are both good looking tall actors. Tom may have been “better” because he’s more famous. Honestly this dude sounds very weak minded and probably high maintenance. He can’t get over the loss of the one friend who was the first ever to encourage him in his life? rolls eyes....He describes the breakup as a divorce.. rolls eyes X 2.... He sounds dramatic and women don’t like…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:00 AM
1

Very interesting theory.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:23 PM
10

I just deleted my tinder. I got about 40 matches, got 3 numbers, 2 dates and had sex with one girl. It’s not you. Tinder is attracting more women that have no interest in hanging out. The closest I’ve ever came to an anger phase was dealing with women on dating apps. I literally have zero patience. I was never talking to more than a few women at one time. The first sign of bullshit and I unmatch.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:15 AM
1

Dry spells can do this to you too.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:47 AM
3

A motherfucker could be a professional bodybuilder or football player and this is now the go to response to half of the questions posted here...
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:21 AM
1

I really think he was joking dude🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:40 PM
0

You’re right. I spot read and then OP elaborated more in the comments. It’s on her. I’m deleting my post.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 08:36 PM
1

I appreciate your input as well as a few other posters. This woman doesn’t really sound all that crazy to me. It sounds like she was hoping(maybe wrongfully) for something long term and serious. You played each other, and she felt gutted with the revelation you were fucking multitudes of women. She made a covert contract. You just dangled the idea of commitment on a string in front her. What she did was crazy but it’s not like she got physical or tried to kill you. She just tried to shame or emb…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 04:11 PM
8

Why do you want a bisexual man? How is that relevant to a traditional monogamous relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 05:14 AM
4

As a black man I realize my SMV is often contextual. But I have no interest ever in my life to bang a woman for the pleasure or entertainment of another man. EVER.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:09 AM
15

Your statement is a harsher truth than the original post.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 10:53 PM
1

I follow them too. I'm always curious as to what advice women receive from men. How do you feel about the stigma attached to women giving men relationship advice? It's definitely not there the other way around.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 04:30 PM
1

Didn’t think about this. You have a great point.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 10:47 PM
5

I believe you are correct in your assessment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 10:12 PM
4

It's now always due to women being easier to get. For attractive female companionship to be interchangeable means you've cultivated a lifestyle where you are constantly meeting new people, you have good looks, and you have some status or social proof. That's not most men. We may have 1 or 2, but few have all three. Not to say that the average man can't have success. But some degree of effort and pursue is always required. I think its more that men hold each other to the same type of standard. So…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 09:50 PM
2

I feel you. If I need to dread, I’d rather just end. It works, but I’m not interested in invoking feelings of anxiety and uncertainty in someone just to fuck me. And once i see how basic women are for this shit to work I just can’t rationalize spending quality time with someone of low quality.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:55 AM
1

Pretty decent workout man. Essential and intense.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:03 AM
4

Next anyway you want bro. Your reasons and actions are your own. It doesn’t matter what others think. I’d rather guys hard next than whatever society is telling us to do now. I talked to this smoking hot brunette last weekend. All kinds of IOIs from her. We exchanged numbers and were trying set something up this week. She friend requested me on Facebook. I hit her up the other day. Didn’t respond. Hit her up on facebook hours later, didn’t respond. Even though it she was online pretty much all d…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:18 AM
2

I’m guessing English isn’t your first language? Because you seemed to have completely missed what he was asking..
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:06 AM
5

Completely agree.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 02:40 PM
3

That’s exactly how I took it.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:36 PM
21

Are you guys really upvoting this? OP don’t use this. It’s too corny. Agree and amplify is silly with this. Aloofness and confidence is better. Go with Two_kids_in_a_coats advice.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:32 AM
8

Most men just think nobody cares. And from most our experiences, being open about those things helps to connect with women on a friendship level, but seem to be completely irrelevant for sexual or romantic connections(LTRs included).
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 10:00 PM
2

Your post highlights something that is often talked about on the Redpill main sub. To be honest I think this probably quite normal. I think a lot of women simply do not care about those type of things and are primarily concerned about how a man makes them feel. This happened to my grandfather. He was married and divorced(no kids) before meeting my grandmother. She simply never asked until years later and my dad was like almost an adult, I believe. The relationship wasn't really built on the expe…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 09:52 PM
29

Add Starbucks too. Or I guess most coffee shops. I've lost count at the number of times ive encountered some young opinionated female barista. One even lost her shit on me because I pointed out how she made the wrong drink. Another had the nerve to read the labels and lecture me about how unhealthy the drink I wanted was. I was at a loss for words for her audacity and absurdity....
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 08:04 PM
14

I understand that high school is your entire life right now. This girl knows you want to fuck her but enjoys having your attention and you longing for her. You're afraid to end it because of high school "drama"? One day you realize how utterly stupid this is and how pathetic that it is that you even worry about all of this. Block her, stop responding, or give her an ultimatum. But this simply cannot continue.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:33 PM
2

It’s mostly a western culture thing. I guess our women are the most entitled and selfish. But everyone has their own set of problems. Middle eastern and south Asian cultures often have terrible marriages, they just don’t believe in divorce. That’s why a lot of men who grow up in those cultures become neurotic overachievers who have no idea how to manage their emotions and can only show anger and discipline to their wives and children.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:07 AM
1

If he wants kids, well i don’t know what to tell him. He’ll be a target for any woman looking to settle down and have the status of being married to a doctor(and then divorce him). But if he doesn’t want kids, your advice is excellent.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:37 AM
17

This is the most red pill shit I’ve read in a while. A seemingly level headed woman you’ve been with for 4 whole years got wedding fever watching her friend and tried to pressure you into an engagement. You walked away and now she’s turned into a completely different person and is trying to make your life miserable. You probably would’ve saw this monster after the engagement. You did great. Just ride out the storm. Women always attempt to ruin your social standing because that’s what they hold m…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:22 PM
3

I look at it in terms of punishment and reward. It just seems low value to me to blame a girl if I have trouble getting off if there isn't really anything I could say she's doing wrong. It's the kind of shit women do and its just a needless way to make someone feel like shit and fuck them up. But hearing you talk about it a bit more and reading your other comments, I see where you are coming from. I think i'd wait it out and just invite her out somewhere after some time passed.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:12 PM
3

You had a date with a woman you profess to be beautiful, you had sex that same night, you couldn't get off and you decide to blame her for it... Bro what the fuck is wrong with you? And why you do you need to test to see if someone is attracted to you if you fucked on a first date? And now it's a win of lose game depending on who text first? I want to tell you go fuck off. But I think finding this place has at least stopped you from shooting up a school or workplace...
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:53 PM
2

You summarized it exactly. Excellent.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 12:52 PM
1

I think that whole line of thinking is just an extreme counter to the misconception that women are prudish. But overall no, women in general do not have the overt constant urge to have sex you as a man do. Yes they will Fuck a guy that has a winning score on their personal checklist or a guy she perceives to be outrageously out of her league. But after a while she’ll want more. They all do. Have you ever been around a female bodybuilder, or a woman that has a lot of muscular development? Maybe i…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:43 AM
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“I don’t want you to get the wrong idea. I am a very flirty girl” A typical 19 year old cock tease that led you on and panicked when she actually realized you might want sex. It happens. Not your fault. She probably never planned to have sex in the first place and just took it as far as she could before you wanted to sleep with her. Just act like nothing happen. But I wouldn't give her anymore of my private time.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:18 PM
2

Well I know who not to ask for a job...
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:55 AM
1

Well nothing wrong with thinking it's a waste of fucking time. But most women on it, use it regularly.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 10:26 PM
2

I think you're missing something in your "helpful" berating. She more than likely saw that he snapped her and purposely didn't open it until hours later because he wasn't a priority and she didn't want him to see that she opened it without replying. That happens often. OP she's not that interested(correction, not interested at all). Delete and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:29 PM
6

I agree with this. At my old job I wanted to learn more about how my 401k works and how to make it more aggressive. From there I started reading about investing and stock market metrics. Now my goal is to eventually work in that type of sector. I have a Bachelors in Arts. I have no background beyond my general interest. I've been taking free online courses, reading, watching videos..some times i'm burnt out for days at a time. But the more I learn, the more I want to learn and the more confidenc…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:19 PM
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Run little bro.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:03 AM
1

I never post my relationship status on FB. It isn’t even viewable. I don’t care for people to know and it’s just gossip and people being nosey when things go south. But now, if a girl does have a relationship status and it says “single” it would definitely give me cause for concern if she didn’t want to change it.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:52 PM
3

I think it was supposed to sound a bit playful and bordering on absurdity which is why he went with “super cute”. But to even do that is still being cocky. He seems to be doing cocky funny while yours sounds more direct and intense. Both can work.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:46 PM
3

I would just laugh it off honestly man. You’re overthinking this but your response was good. Why is she going home? Context matters. Vacation?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:45 PM
5

I wonder if guys in China or other parts of Asia realize how much attention and offers an attractive Asian women gets in the West and how much their own SMV shrinks
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:58 PM
1

Did she ever try to make your life miserable or come back?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:50 PM
9

That’s a great quote. I’ve always said women being romantic is bullshit. At best, they appreciate the romantic gestures OF MEN.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:43 PM
1

That was going to be my response to her. How do you make such an analytical long winded post only to come such an absurd conclusion about what men desire. She was upset and this post was emotional based. She probably doesn’t even visit her. She can’t be a regular lurker if she's posting something like that. And now she’s gone.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 10:00 PM
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You admit that you are often lead by your emotions and then even admit that statistically that women tend to be the more emotional gender... But you are wondering why TRP mentions this so much and don’t think it should be gender specific.. Either you are trolling or don’t have as much self awareness about your emotions as you’d like to think.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 01:35 PM
1

She literally did nothing wrong. This is why I hate when kids find this place...
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:21 PM
1

Not really. She could assume he’s compliant with what she wants. She may or may not hit him up again. I don’t think being upfront about what he wants and expects presents himself as having less value. You think saying just “ok” and then not replying anymore is the better option. I think saying what he wants and not replying anymore is good. Either way i don’t think there is significant difference in what she does next. At least there will be less games to play if she hits him back up now because…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:06 PM
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I feel like I’m the only person that read your post. You’re not asking “What to do?”, you’re wondering how you did. With that being said, at least she didn’t pull you into her frame. You stuck to your guns. And she knows who not to contact if she wants a validating orbiter. I think you did ok. You’re not coming off as butt hurt to her. Probably a dick. Which is totally fine. Now i wouldn’t contact her again.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:42 PM
2

Only sensible advice.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:34 AM
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I have a different perception about this than most. I don’t think you did anything wrong. I think you handled it perfectly. This girl was a LTR so more was expected from her. I don’t think you were out of line for calling her out. I think the scenario played out where the past was brought up in some context. You made a mental note. It was brought up again and you noticed there was some differences the next time in what she told you. With any subject, if somenone tells you the same story twice di…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 11:20 PM
3

It’s hard to say as this may all be some elaborate deal to surprise you with something so close to Valentine’s Day. Or.......she’s seeing some other guy and she’s sexing him good now because she’ll be spending Valentines with you. Don’t do anything drastic now. Update us though.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:00 PM
1

Why do you some of you think sounding like a dick adds some validity to your post? OP do the surgery. Stop talking to her and remove her from your Snapchat and social media. If doing this gives you that sinking feeling in your chest, all the more reason.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:41 PM
1

Disagree with this one. She’s keeping it real with you. She offered to reschedule. Most girls don’t say shit. I’ve known that some girls were keeping their options open but still seeing me, and I’m sure the other guy(s) had no clue. It’s not like she’s trying to make you an orbiter. I mean you did finger fuck her.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:09 AM
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I swear the best part of this community is the sheer knowledge of the guys that contribute.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 10:19 PM
1

I'm on it now. I'm in my 30s. I don't drink. So most of my real life interactions as far as flirting tend to happen when i'm shopping or at a grocery store. I hardly ever run into attractive women out and about alone. If I do they are usually too young. I have too many embarassing moments approaching some girl and finding out she's still in highschool...Well I was embarassed. I'm sure they enjoyed it. So that's what got me back on it. I'm also a black man using tinder while living in a small sou…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:42 PM
7

Have fun. Whatever that is is up to you. Also remember that this girl is going out with another and didn’t even try to hide it. She ain’t shit. I’m just saying that in case you try to treat her like she’s special. I’m not saying be mean or a dick. But don’t hide your desires. Try to fuck her.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 03:41 AM
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You have to accept that this is quite normal behavior for the average woman. I wouldn’t even bring it up. She knows that you know. I’d just continue seeing her but also other women. You almost have to. Otherwise you’ll only think of her and it will eat you up that she’s seeing other guys. Eventually you’ll do something really desperate and pathetic. You need abundance mentality. She sure as fuck has it.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 03:31 AM
2

There is no way this woman suddenly became this obnoxious and terrible. You should’ve probably dumped her a long time ago. I can’t imagine dating someone that blatantly disrespected me like that....
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:15 AM
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It really gets out of hand sometimes. I wish the mods start bringing down the hammer.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:11 AM
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You’re not going to find a woman that’s into things like that that’s not going to have a wild past. Meaningful or meaningless sex didn’t effect the quality of the sex. Hence her colorful past. But those men were able to enjoy her without giving away their ultimate resource. Commitment. You’re one of the few “meaningful” relationships she’s had and you also have a white collar job. Please don’t spend your hard earned money on a woman like this. She’s not even a reformed party girl. She’d probably…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:34 AM
2

I see your point. But still, if Susan got to wherever she was going and saw that the OP lied to her, why didn't she raise hell? Surely she'd tell OPs boss about all of this? In these type of fields where people are task oriented and extremely analytical, no one questioned to what purpose this new lady just shows up at their office? Why didn't she just come right back? The more I think about this the more absurd this all sounds.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:08 PM
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“I’m not afraid to talk to women” You could direct it towards a hang out. “Ha! Most girls are too passive to ask me that question back” something along those lines. Of course she’ll tell how passive she isn’t or how she’ll take risk or isn’t shy..etc.. After that you say you guys should hang out or do something right then and there. She’d be down because she has to show you that she’s willing to be spontaneous. Something random and cheesy like you have a passion for reading palms. Just some sill…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 01:46 PM
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I’m confused. You said you made up a reason for Susan to leave. If it was a lie, how did she still have a job whevever she went? Wouldn’t it be obvious when she got there that no one would know why she was there? And why wouldn’t your own boss know you were lying about all of that?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 01:22 PM
1

You always say shit like this.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 06:04 PM
1

This won't work with a girl he hasn't seen or talked to in 6 months.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 06:00 PM
1

Damn this is good.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:18 AM
2

I definitely agree with that sentiment.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:59 PM
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It’s not a policy but it’s definitely a practice and they get removed often. I always find them insightful. A straight from the horses mouth kind of thing. But a lot users see them as “Beta” and aren’t interested in anything a woman says. Especially if the original poster doesn’t have sexual relations with the woman. Just last week it was one where a guy was having lunch with a girl he was teaching about smoking weed. She was hung up on some guy at here job to the point where she was obsessed. T…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 06:45 PM
22

I’m just hoping no one complains about you having conversations with women you aren’t fucking, and then tries to get this post removed.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 08:20 PM
2

Can you elaborate more on how she would be lost without you? Does she have a sketchy past? Also I think maybe you should post this question in that relationships subreddit. I’m not trying to be a dick. But I think most of us here couldn’t fathom keeping a woman as a LTR after this blatantly disrespectful behavior. But it sounds like dumping her isnt something you really want to consider. I personally would’ve let it play out and if it continued to escalate I would’ve just left her ass there and …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:26 PM
1

For someone calling people white knight and faggot, you make a lot of excuses for this woman🤔
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:26 PM
1

That would forgiving if she didn’t stay after class for more “lessons”. That’s unacceptable. She’s got to go.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:06 PM
1

All of that and you missed my point. He shouldn’t care at all about the guy, he should care that his girl allowed something like that. The problem was his gf not the guy. He should then dump her. You said “Why do you care?” If it was in reference to the instructor then you should’ve elaborated instead of that vague question. EDIT: I apologize. After re-reading all of that, you must be 12.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:59 PM
0

Maybe because it’s his girlfriend. Or was, hopefully.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:12 PM
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I'm torn on this one. That kind of shit deserves an immediate ghost. But if you do that she'll probably just rationalize she's the ultimate victim because she was assaulted and then her boyfriend left her. I'm going to go against the grain. I would completely call her out on this bullshit and THEN dump her. She may actually did something with the old school and trickle truthing you. But more than likely she's just a typical young woman that operates on no agency and has a phobia to accountabilit…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:50 PM
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This entire thread was awesome. Go for it OP. You don't have shit to lose. Actually just reading this, i'm probably go approach a few women today myself.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:36 PM
1

Thanks for your feedback.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:45 PM
1

Thanks for you honest response haha. I only post in the redpill subs with this account. I didn’t want to make another one. But you’re right. That’s something I thought about before i created this post.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:44 PM
1

If you are looking for a LTR, you may eventually be frustrated with yourself for accepting someone that doesn’t check all the boxes. And you can make up for a lack of looks in confidence, personality, and social proof. Are you not having a lot of success? It’s going to be a numbers game and can be frustrated. It’s always best if they can come to you. But most of us aren’t at a point in our life where that’s going to happen. If you just want sex, then the threshold of what constitutes attractive …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 04:39 PM
4

How old are you guys? What would you rate her on a looks scale?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:48 PM
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Dude you are triggered like a motherfucker. Its a RED PILL EXAMPLE. Its why we have that fucking flair. He didn’t break any rule. And you have to remember, we are still getting new users and have tons of lurkers. They need to read stuff like this. These type of post don’t bother me.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:41 PM
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You’re forgetting how insecure women are about their looks. Women want to be the attractive ones and most are well aware that looks are the only thing they have to offer. So they are threatened by a man who puts a lot of effort into his body. A handsome face isn’t something you work for. It’s just something you have. So that doesn’t bother them. It’s the same as a man feeling threatened by a woman that makes more money than him but not being bothered at all if she inherited the money. But anyway…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:55 AM
1

I think there has to be some other alternative. And i see your predicament. You’ve still been in contact with her. So to go radio silent now may not have the desired effect. Women can be so delusional and insecure they’ll often just hamster and feign ingorance of their behavior that caused you to cease contact. Or she could indeed just think you’re some butthurt bitch because you don’t respond to her text or her phone calls anymore . You’ll have to at some point reference her being childish and …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:49 PM
1

What exactly does your meditation exercise consists of you doing? I’m 34 and dealing with similar issues.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:45 PM
1

True. I’ve also found that women who have had to become self sufficient through true hardship are also closer to this. Because they’ve basically have had to experience life (at least for a time) as most men do. I was going to post that all of this is our fault as men. But it just seemed maybe I was gonna beat a dead horse.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:19 PM
1

I knew someone was going to post something like this. I don’t expect this. If i did i would never get laid. Women can be this way if we held them to a higher standard. They don’t have to be. And since the dawn of humans there been many examples of working civilizations that wouldnt cultivate today’s woman sense of entitlement. Not saying things were awesome. It’s just there really isn’t a system of true accountability right now for all people. Only for men.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:36 PM
2

Cheers bro. I want the same thing. I want women to have more self awareness and to be able to take responsibility for their actions. And women have no idea thankless and expendable men are.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 05:30 AM
0

Ok, goodnight.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:33 AM
18

No fapping made you delusional and paranoid?
/r/askTRP15/01/18 03:04 AM
3

I’m black but this is a race trolling shit post.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 06:20 PM
11

Ok cool. Bro you’re not a bad looking dude. You could use a couple of pics without the hats. That pic in the water would’ve been better without the hat.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 06:32 AM
9

I’m being serious. Are you self conscious about your hair for any reason?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:33 AM
7

She was never going to meet you. Even if she “felt” she did, she was going to drag it out while she’s hanging out with other guys. Then eventually ghost you. Not your fault. More than half of women use Tinder and similar sites for attention and validation.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:56 PM
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You did excellent. You saw through all her bullshit and you escalated. But I’m curious as to why you are hung up on a woman like this? She sounds flighty and vapid, and used to guys believing her bullshit. This is girl probably used to getting what she wants from men and probably realizes she can’t use or manipulate you. Therefore she doesn’t have much reason to see you. Maybe it’s like that?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:22 PM
2

This is a field report. When you make a post here you have the option to claissfy it as theory, field report, blue pill/red pill example...etc.. Field reports by definition or real life examples of social dynamics. So it’s not like he’s posting hate speech. It honestly doesn’t sound like he was anything but cordial and friendly with the woman and progressed it further. Usually when AWALT is mentioned it means to varying degrees women generally have the propensity to do certain things and often a…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 09:17 PM
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You always have to act like you don’t care or you enjoy women that can be open about their sexuality and like to be bad. Then they’ll happily tell you their dirt.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:21 PM
10

From what I’ve seen, every fucking guy I know that has been in those situations is in denial and has his head up his ass. They are just too desperate for female affection and companionship. Could you imagine committing to a woman and not knowing her sexual history? Not knowing where she is sometimes? There were probably times when she was really short with him. Probably times she seemed annoyed with him. Times where she didn’t reciprocate his feelings and give him attention. Times where she didn…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 06:36 PM
1

If you think a plate is someone you talk to long distance on the Internet, you should be embarrassed for yourself my dude.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 09:31 PM
1

I grew up in church. My dad’s a pastor. My uncle is pastor. My grandfather and his brother were both pastors. But hey, as long as Kara agrees with you. Congratulations on your validation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 11:29 PM
3

Sometimes women set impossible standards for men that they can’t possibly live up to. They do this so that they can say that men in general are beneath them and they can automatically disqualify them before a man has the opportunity to disqualify them. It gives them a false sense of power and allows them to ignore their own flaws. I think you are pretty much doing the same thing. Where in any developed country do you expect to a woman over the age of 25 that has healthy views about sex, is moder…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 09:47 PM
2

Brilliant.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 07:56 PM
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The most telling is that last line. “I’ll never be that married”. Her blatant hypergamy. Which I think was the point of his post....
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:40 PM
5

One my best friends is dating a single mother. Smoking hot. We were all at a New Years party and me and her were talking. She’s got three boys. Because of her jaded experiences with men and her terrible dating history her goal is to raise her boys to be very “respectful” of women and to teach them to be very vulnerable and open about their feelings with them. So basically, the same thing that happened to you. Because it’s all too common. I immediately felt a chill down my spine as knew this woma…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:20 PM
0

My buddy owns his own business. He’s in sales. He has two separate accounts. A business one and a personal. He pays Facebook to run his ads monthly. He’s tall, fit, white and has some tats. He has some professional pics that he sometimes post on both accounts. He post a lot of gym selfies, funny shit, his cars, check stubs..etc.. So people see his ads constantly, and he presents himself as having a cool interesting and successful life. Girls were always sliding in his DMs. He didn’t even have to…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:24 PM
-1

It’s more to it than that. But since you find it weird I won’t go into detail. Don’t want to make you more uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:01 AM
4

I like that strategy. I just want consistent sex from attractive women. FWBs and what not. My friend has had similar experiences as you. Tall, fit, good looking dude. He got hella matches and super likes on tinder but little to no result. Most girls just wanted to talk. He told me in the months he used it he must’ve banged like 2 or 3 girls. But his Facebook? He was murdering it there.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:12 AM
1

You live in a major city? That’s pretty impressive.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:03 AM
11

I really need to do this but I want to cut more weight first. Especially after the holidays. I talked about this with a female friend and it was fulll of red pill truths. At first she said she thinks guys that do that are try hard. Then later she says she wants to be the one to take the pics. Women by design try to discourage men in the sexual market place. Then to have some type of power over me she offered to take the pics. That way she could take credit for my success or tell me it’s because …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:05 PM
3

That hamster needs water. That motherfucker must be exhausted..
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:48 AM
10

You should never take a woman seriously who does “everything” but PIV. Women like that can rationalize (hamster) anything as to not feel guilty and often use sex as a weapon. So this girl won’t let you fuck her until she can branch swing. Also, so she can feel like she didn’t cheat on her boyfriend. But neither one of these things stop her from playing with your dick. Slowly fade until she’ll be willing to sleep with you just to have your attention. Don’t even let her think a LTR is possible. Ne…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:15 AM
3

That’s about where I stopped at...
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:27 AM
5

I got through the first paragraph and then shook my head in disgust and disappointment. I hate when guys like this find TRP. They are so desperate for a girlfriend they stick their head in the sand, and then complain how they should handle a woman they shouldn’t have LTR’d in the first place. OP TRP isn’t for guys like you. You don’t have any self respect.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:16 AM
3

My family is deeply religious. I went to a Christian college. People do indeed think and talk like this.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 03:50 AM
17

Man you sound pretty chill for a guy whose story sounds worse than most. Respect. Also, the way you set that shit up.. I’m on the edge of my seat like I’ve just watched some epic movie trailer.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:46 PM
43

Wait...so she stopped fucking you to be a better Christian but she started fucking randoms? How did you found out? How did she rationalize this? Dude your comment could be a post on its own.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 07:39 PM
4

Struggle with this too. Maybe it’s good because it means there is a sense of pride. It’s already an uphill battle because the girl is full of herself and any match/message validates her sense of entitlement. I’ve gotten around it with being cocky/funny but it’s hardly worth the effort. They ghost, flake or uninstall the app and I’ve wasted some of my best material..
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:29 AM
0

I’m assuming he doesn’t want to fuck other women...
/r/askTRP24/12/17 06:04 AM
7

This is by far the best answer. This is looking at the big picture. I actually call women out on their bullshit. But when I do, it means I’m at the point where I don’t care if I see them again. It sounds like you’re almost there. And it sounds like she has done this shit before. Are y’all long distance? If so, she seems to be the one running dread game....
/r/askTRP23/12/17 05:18 PM
0

No. She did that make him jealous. He got mad because it was stupid.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 04:20 PM
3

It’s interesting that OP did this. No offense to him. From my experience, it’s always girls that text like that. I’ve also found it also seems to coincide with them having annoying personalities...
/r/askTRP23/12/17 03:10 PM
-1

It sounds it’s some recurring bullshit with her though. Like she does shit like this to get a rise out of him and he’s tired the games. At least that’s how I took it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:51 PM
4

You got downvoted but I like your perspective.... Reading about these guys saying play it cool or dread while his LTR attempts to blow off their plans to party with her vapid friend?? Yeah ok. It’s either a terrible shit test or a cover to meet another guy. I’m not even entertaining that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:45 PM
-2

How was he needy by calling her out on her games? And it’s not like he begged or pleaded for her to come. He doesn’t even want her there now. That’s not being needy.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:37 PM
0

I think scenarios like this depend on you personally. Calling a girl out on her bullshit and stupid games isn’t a bad thing IMO. It sounds like this friend is toxic and this may not have been the first time your girl has tried something like this. Now she knows where you stand and she has to do something to make this right, because as of it right now you don’t even want to see her. Sometimes for dread to work you need the girl to hamster your behavior. Giving her vague short responses could pote…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:26 PM
1

I had a similar thing happen to me....twice. Funny enough, one of the girls was also middle eastern. Basically she’s just bored at work and likes having some male attention to pass the time. That’s it. If she’s attractive enough she has other guys giving her attention when she’s not at work. So she doesn’t need you for that. You’d just have to run into her outside of work for her simple minded ass to associate you with things non-work related. It’s just the same as a girl trying to regulate you …
/r/askTRP20/12/17 05:09 AM
-1

“I’ll make other plans. Take care.” Fuck I’m stealing this. I disagree with other users. I like this. She didn’t want to commit and you had no time for that bullshit. Now she needs to know what you’re thinking. I wouldn’t say anything else. Or just respond the next day with minimal text.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:56 PM
1

Soft next. The vine thing wasn’t terrible. If she was really into you, she may have thought that was hilarious. But it sounds like she has other options. And this has nothing to do with you not fucking her yet. Sometimes logistics are just bad for that. She’s just not that interested. I see nothing that suggest you need to nuke your whole game/strategy. Carry on.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 01:27 AM
3

I’m convinced that dude posts here drunk..
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:10 AM
6

Really dude?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:23 AM
2

That was hilarious, disturbing and thought provoking all in the same.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:09 AM
2

As a black man, fear not. Most white women do not in fact have a black guy festish. Most white women are very aware of their perceived status in society. So they won’t tank it by being caught with a black guy. Even if they are physically attracted to black guys, the loss of status or the risk of people thinking less of them is like a death sentence to women. The sweet spot though is adopting black kids. They get to indulge their narcissism by taking in some under privileged kid like some Mother …
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:53 AM
1

I'm going to try that. I'm experimenting with my dieting. I cut pretty good with a high protein and carb cycle, but I'm thinking of doing something more consistent and with more whole foods and higher carb intake.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:12 PM
6

You got downvoted but you’re right on all points. I’ve done really well chatting girls up coming to or leaving the gym. But it’s timing. You may randomly catch an opportunity every few weeks or months.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:37 AM
2

He was legit serious with that shit🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:19 AM
1

Ok I got you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 10:11 PM
1

I didn’t read his post but I’m just curious. The OP specifically ask if a Red Pill man would think it’s a red flag to do FMF. Wouldn’t she want to know what a man who reads the Red Pill thinks, besides getting female feedback?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 09:46 PM
1

He did it at least twice.. So she did in fact let him do it. The fuck is wrong with you guys?
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:37 PM
11

Dude some girls just don’t like getting fucked in the ass. The second time she may have just faked it for your pleasure but now she has a complete aversion to it. You mentioned that you guys already have kinky rough sex. If that’s important to you, just bang a girl that likes that. “Am I being beta for letting her deny me ass?” I don’t even know how to process how absurd this is.. It kind of reminds me of letting kids operate heavy machinery.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:51 PM
7

This probably went over so many people’s heads but this is fucking hilarious.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:42 PM
3

I agree. A lot of women take their looks for granted and only learn about make up. Many don't care much for diet or exercise and think running or walking a few times a week is enough. But unless extremely overweight, many women can put just the minimal effort and with avoiding certain foods/habits they can maintain they looks well into their late 30s. One of my best friends lives in Austin Tx. There are a lot of mature very fit attractive women. He is very naive about women and at times pathetic…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 07:06 PM
3

I just checked your post history. You have no idea what’s going with a guy who you hooked up with but keep seeing, you seem to be extremely into astrology and think this has a very prominent factor into what guy you’ll be with, and I think you may have a lot of self confidence issues.. This post is the only thing you’ve contributed to this sub. How did you find it? I think this place can really help you but I think you have much bigger issues going on than your current post. You could most defin…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 06:06 PM
2

Sooo...you hooked up with a guy you met a bar and now you have trouble with what exactly is the nature of your relationship. He uses dread as an attempt to try and play on your insecurities to keep you being with him. Yet you are adamant about making this work? Do you not think you can do better than this? How do you usually meet guys? For what I gather the only value he seems to offer you is the fact that he's there. So companionship. I think your issue is you don't seem to have a feel for what…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 03:51 PM
27

This should be added to the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 02:53 AM
1

I told her after the fact in texting. We had history and nothing we’ve ever done would have gave off the impression I was into stuff like that. Besides I feel like if someone is really into something like that during intimacy, it may be dangerous to raise criticism during the moment or immediately after. They are doing things like that with the assumption that you like it and wanting you to hurt them is a headspace that can’t be reasoned with in that moment. It was also a sign of other issues. S…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 11:13 PM
5

Or.... he could just dump a girl that he’s caught texting other guys on multiple occasions. I think your advice applies to fuck buddies/FWBs. Not to a LTR.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:52 AM
1

How did you find this and why hasn’t any major news outlets picked up on this?? This is blatantly hypocritical. Someone should tag these videos and images to her Twitter. She lives for attention...
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 04:58 AM
2

I’ve read much of the same. All a woman has to do is say she signed it under some type of mental duress and a judge will throw it out.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:31 PM
1

I feel you man. I just don’t think nothing can match the crazed sex driven mind of a man in his prime with a healthy level of testosterone.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:32 AM
1

Dude never answered my question and deleted his thread. Cuck.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:30 AM
2

It all sounds good to me. As long as she has a decent body and a cute face.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 11:32 PM
5

All of that is relevant when assessing people. Given the right circumstances all of us have the propensity to do anything. But it’s stupid to ignore things like that if you actually want commitment with a woman.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:59 PM
1

What kind of personality would you say she has? Is she more of an introvert or extrovert? Does she drink a lot? Does she like to party? Does she use drugs for recreational purposes? Any tats?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:34 PM
13

It's not like she's going to a slumber party. We all know why people go to places like Cancun. The relationship is still new enough to her that she doesn't feel like she's disrespecting him by going on this trip. I think OPs in a tough spot.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:33 PM
7

This was the realest thing I've read on this site in a long time. Talk about putting things into perspective.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:31 PM
1

Think about it anytime you’re out and about. Anytime I go grocery shopping or to a clothing store I’m always looking for opportunities to chat girls up. Sometimes you can just say one thing and girls won’t shut up. The coffee shop I go to, I hardly see any hot girls there. And If I do, they are often way too young. Living in my rural small town I see a few attractive women here and there but there isn’t one place I can go to see a lot of them. I’m excluding bars though. And maybe it’s different …
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:58 PM
1

This happens a lot. You had status and now you're just the average joe in a large city. Guys can often lose or gain status based on location and people's perception of you. First get your mind right. Because it sounds like you're stressed. Secondly, i'm guessing you never had to learn game because it was all about fun and girls were just falling into your lap. Do you ever actually approach women? I just can't imagine living in London and not meeting women. But i've never been a college athlete a…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:59 PM
13

Are you upset about a girl sharing her sexual history? That's something that says alot about a woman. Case in point, this girl had a very casual view about sex so I think it's no surprise she's done things like that. It's a sign of impulsive and self destructive behavior. Hence her getting wasted and becoming a drunken shrew. What do you do? Enjoy them until you get turned off by their history or behavior. You don't owe them anything. I know TRP often preaches about getting all the sex you can. …
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:28 PM
2

I understand the point you are making but lets not over exaggerate dude. Girls often use sex to leverage some type of commitment or resource. And if they think a guy is hot enough or has enough status, they'll bang him for validation. Yes women like sex, and some have an insatiable appetite but the average woman doesn't think about it as often as the average man.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:17 PM
5

LMAO! At least you were honest about that. I know people preach the importance of condoms and safe sex. As we should. But whenever i see a woman I’m greatly attracted to it immediately crosses my mind the idea of raw dogging her and cumming inside of her...
/r/askTRP25/11/17 09:06 PM
17

Reading your original post and some of your replies, man your level of instrospection is astounding.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 04:19 PM
2

I can’t believe that got so many upvotes🤦🏾‍♂️. I would just use amuse mastery, pat her on the head like a kid and tell her her flirting is terrible.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:51 AM
3

You didn’t do anything wrong. She wanted some type of investment and you made it clear you just wanted sex. It happens.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:47 PM
3

Ah, yeah you’re right. I don’t know why I assumed you were with a group of people. Still though, you did for sure demonstrate higher value.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:53 PM
4

Unless a girl already has an active lifestyle....some type of physical activity she’s passionate about(or just enjoys clean eating).. this shit is damn near inevitable. I broke up with a girl because she was just lazy and lethargic. She was skinny only because she became a waitress. But I knew once we settled down she’d get big as a house. She hated any physical activity. One of my best friends was the same. His ex gained 80lbs in a couple of years.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:59 PM
37

A sad sad truth...
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:31 PM
14

It appears you were the “situational alpha”. Knowledge on a particular subject, attractive enough, and it seems like you played your cool enough to wear she didn’t know where you stood. It’s the reason why women who are dating rich successful men cheat with their personal trainers or teacher for whatever hobby they are pursuing. It doesn’t matter how great the relationship is. Combine all of that with the infatuation you have about meeting someone new is like crack feels to a lot of women.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:30 PM
4

I agree with you, but anytime a girl says “Awww..”’ it’s never a good thing. It’s either condescending or you’re in her frame. Also it’s the response people give when a child or small animal does something cute. It’s not something you say if you genuinely appreciate a man’s comfort and sensitivity.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 07:03 PM
1

This was too vague. Did she fuck the guy or was she trying to fuck the guy? You snoop through her phone?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 10:07 PM
1

Haha Exactly. She's hung up on the captain of the football team in high school, some frat guy or college athlete in college and some big shot who lavishly spends money on her in her 20's.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:10 PM
1

If you asking if a girl who puts alot of attention into her look, has an amazing body and wears clothing that accent her figure goes month without sex...This I doubt. I do know a lot of introverted, conservative girls that have gone a while without. And sometimes people become bogged down with school or work and if they don't have an active presence on social media they aren't getting constant dick offers. Also, girls that don't drink. They don't have plausible deniability and they don't want th…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:11 PM
5

Kudos to you for asking this question. Intimacy is the right mix and I think people tend assume the more wild the better. I recently stop seeing a woman because of this. She was giving orders, she kept grabbing and hitting my face to the point to where i couldn’t concentrate on the sex, she almost broke my glasses, she kept biting when we kissed and busted my lip. It was some of the worst sex I’ve ever had in my life. A lot of guys actually do prefer more sensual sex. We just want your enthusias…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 01:23 AM
1

Do you think she has cooties?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:39 PM
8

I’m guessing she’s reasonably attractive and that chump doctor thinks he’s winning because he locked down some hot girl he meet on tinder. That sounds like a spot on example of AF/BB.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:29 PM
5

Good point.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 11:01 PM
-1

How does it scream oneitis? He blocked the girls number.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:31 PM
1

You shouldn’t have even wasted your time replying to that.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:28 PM
2

Great advice on this. OP I've made similar mistakes. Sometimes I just call the girl. It's probably worked about 70% of the time when girls have flaked. That is if they answer the phone. If they don't and never call me back, delete. Btw, when she made plans with a friend over you? Shit should've been done man. I would've deleted and then blocked her number immediately. Who turns down a fucking date to go drink shitty ass wine and get white girl wasted. While I can understand the urge to tell her …
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:38 PM
2

Please do. Because it sounds like you did absolutely nothing wrong. You were honest and straight up, and it hurt her feelings. You “coming on strong” was her fucking you rather quickly without getting what she was expecting and you “working harder” is you chasing her and then offering commitment so she can once again feel like a prize. Like she probably thinks she is to every guy. Don’t change anything about what you did. It sounds like you have no problems shooting straight. All in your head br…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 05:02 PM
2

Yep. That’s exactly what it is. Dude this has nothing to do with you opening up to the girl. So stop beating yourself up about it. She fucked you without gaining your exclusivity or commitment. But she knows sex is on the table if you hang out again. And if you’re only texting logistics(which isn’t a bad thing) that she can read between the lines. It’s the same as how some girls hookup with you once or twice and ghost you. After a while they just want more than you’re willing to give.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 04:40 PM
7

I think you are missing the mark. It may just be gossip. But even if it’s true, it’s pure projection. I think you have some insecurities about opening up because I don’t know how you correlate what she said to you being a sensitive pussy. I think this girl really fell for you fast. She may have actually even appreciated you being open about shit dude. I think with that she was hoping to become something serious. You basically told her she would have to work for your commitment and all she did wa…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 02:59 PM
6

Why the fuck were you downvoted?? That’s exactly what she did.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 02:50 PM
2

Yep. I was running at my local track and this girl starting talking with me. We shook hands and she held it firm for a extended period of time. That was definitely enough for me to know she was into me. The fuck I look like just trying to hug a girl I just met on a track in the middle of a workout...
/r/askTRP12/11/17 04:29 PM
8

The only sensible answer in this thread. We all know hugs are better than handshakes. Dude was just asking if there was something to be discerned from how girls give weak ones. Have my upvote man.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:13 AM
6

Yeah, sneak and cheat behind her back and never tell her. That will show her. Dump her. If you believe in monogamy and value a relationship just end it. If you need to be in a relationship so bad because you are lonely and need someone, yeah just cheat on her to "get back at her".
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:15 PM
18

She knows your time is valuable. Maybe you fucked the equality into her.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:47 PM
43

I know you are not trying to humble brag. But damn dude, you did excellent. My scorecard is 10.0. At this point you can do whatever you want. Because you’ve established that she can’t get anything out of you unless she’s willing to invest something. Has she texted you since?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 09:20 PM
1

No brainer my dude. Do your thing. From what I gather, she was initially very into you. Your fumble at the goaline my not have completely killed that. But you definitely need to stop investing. You need her to rebuild some interest in you. Just go on like that didn’t happen. Meet other women. If she shows interest again, keep your interactions short and positive. Gauge if she appears to want more or tries to come around more.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:17 PM
12

I agree. No demographic of people, male or female, has it easier. Yet they are the most vocal feminist. Women are women, don’t get me wrong. But I’ve never heard a black or Hispanic woman talk about some belief in a gender wage gap or rape culture. Of course I’m just speaking from my small sample size.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:09 PM
3

I wasn’t trying to insult your intelligence by saying that’s something you could have saw coming. Just saying it happens often.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:37 AM
2

Cool.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:34 AM
25

She sounds like your typical cock tease.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 04:02 AM
2

Confidence bro. Own it. Girls that I’ve been with know i like feet and sucking on toes. They let me do it because they know I like it. Sometimes they even get pedicures just so I could do it. I just can’t imagine being with a hot girl and not sucking her toes. On the flip side, a girl that does take care of her feet is a dealbreaker for me. I’ll stop seeing her.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:58 AM
2

You could’ve recovered the second night. The timing was off and you made it more awkward with the comment afterwards. Girl often just mirror your mood and mental state in those scenarios. Since you were awkward, so was she. And then you became kind of needy with your texting and trying to see her again. Relative to her, you’ve shown that she has much higher value than you.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:50 AM
2

Is it possible to give advice without trying to be an obnoxious dick?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:42 AM
2

Most guys think this is great. But it’s not. That’s some Jedi shit for you to have caught on to this. I think “we’ll see” is great or “I’ll let you know” with a positive vibe. I think it communicates that you may be interested but not committing just yet. Also, you’re playfully letting her know you’re a challenge. Question. When they flake is it usually a ghost or just cancelling? In this scenario I’m not always sure if texting for logistics is best or comfort building. Keep her guessing or stay…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:36 AM
-2

That post didn’t really read like you were looking at it from both sides.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:17 AM
309

You did that dude a solid. Sometimes it’s really hard to watch a woman fuck over a decent guy. Before learning more about women and coming here, I just couldn’t fathom the depraved and fucked up shit women do while still stringing a guy along like their something special. If it’s no detriment to you, I think it’s admirable stopping a guy from being a chump.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:08 AM
1

Guess you should be honored then...
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:47 PM
2

You don’t want anyone to tell you to dump this girl...I read both of your messenger exchanges, and I remember your other post. I don’t think TRP is for you. You’re dating a girl that wants attention from other guys, and you know for a FACT she used to hook up with a lot of dudes. Yet you’ve offered her commitment and seem to be adamant about staying with her. You didn’t need TRP to do something like this.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:40 PM
1

I don’t think we really live in a society were this is applicable. The strategy assumes there something desirable about younger women besides sex. Often times there isn’t. And if you’re a much older gentleman, that leaves you with mostly 30yo+ single mothers or chicks with crazy N-counts.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:02 PM
2

I’m removing my post. OP, please listen to this guy.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:49 PM
62

After rereading your first post, I’m 99.9% sure your EX-GF was cheating on you. Congratulations man. Remove that cancer from your life.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:40 PM
11

That’s what he tried to do. Then he gave some self analysis as to why it failed. Come on man...
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 04:27 AM
2

I know exactly what you mean. I had a girl come over to my place a few weekends ago. We were sitting on my couch and she tells me she told her mom she was hanging out with a guy at his place. It stopped me in my tracks.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:41 PM
1

ZMA, or just them individually?
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:18 PM
2

This thread has a lot great feedback. But not masturbating didn’t help me with anything. I had less stamina when I had sex and I had lower standards. Cutting back is one thing, but cutting it out completely to help erections is bro science.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:16 PM
1

The latest variation, extreme or intense... i can’t remember. But i like it a lot. Seriously OP, go to a local department or outlet store. They sell those cologne gift boxes. Usually for cheap. You can get different fragrances of the same brand name. Kenneth Cole, Polo, Calvin Klein..etc.. I have a few I like. I don’t like wearing the same fragrance all the time.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:03 PM
6

She’s a child and then two years later she’s a consenting adult. He’s 19. She’s not 4 and he’s not 29. Calm the fuck down dude..
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:30 AM
2

I think you’re making broad generalizations though. I’ve talked to smoking hot girls that have been receptive and I’ve talked cute girls that haven’t been receptive at all. And men who are lazy and lack confidence don’t approach girls AT ALL. You’re trying to insinuate that if we prefer a girl to really be into us rather than trying to turn around a negative attitude it is somehow a detriment to our character. That kind of attitude is why simple minded men do stupid shit to prove themselves to q…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:38 PM
48

You’re already sleeping with a guy without knowing if you are in an actual exclusive relationship... This is how girls become plates..
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 08:35 PM
0

You should cross post this to Two X Chromosomes.. EDIT: Guess no one caught the sarcasm...
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 06:08 PM
4

Laziness. Never cleans up. Has old expired food in fridge. Doesn’t take trash out. If you are crazy enough to live with her, that’s what you will have to deal with.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:08 PM
1

Don’t know why you got downvoted. It’s the same for girls in law school.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:14 AM
1

Without saying you guys were freshman, I could’ve guess from your post this girl was somewhere between 17-19. I don’t think honestly you really did anything that bad. The poking boob thing can be considered as playful and you could use it to gauge how she feels about you touching those parts of her body. You can escalate to full groping with a fun vibe and If you’ve built sexual tension. Now then, with all that being said it’s possible this girl never had any intentions of sleeping with you and …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:37 PM
10

You should make this a bit longer and have the mods flair it as an announcement. I’ve always said this. Anyone whose an avid reader of history knows all this shit goes in cycles. And I’m not smarter than any motherfucker that discovered the world is round or developed mathematical theories at a relatively young age. Internet porn and comics took my best years..
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:50 AM
1

Did he have to do jail time?
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:46 PM
1

I think it’s very fascinating how different our communication styles are. Of course this is discussed all the time. But it’s hilarious how clear an example this is. I’m trying to speak to about why I have logically come to the reasonings I have and i think you are trying to speak to my feelings and emotions that may cause that reasoning.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 09:44 PM
2

I appreciate your optimism, but I do live in the real world. I have only met two women from tinder and I do not drink. At all. I also avoid sexual encounters with women that have been drinking. I don't live in a major city or a college town. I'm just trying to make it clear that I don't associate with a lot of vapid party girls. I understand very well that world is much more diverse than that. I also like attractive women. And for most attractive women growing up in this era, It's just too easy …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/17 09:25 PM
2

My post was about why a woman with a lot of sexual partners in her sexual history bothers men. I didn’t say anything about my life being terrible. Where did the rest of that even come from? Even though you did agree that it is much easier for women to find sex, how does that correlate to your need to lecture me? You seem to be working from the assumption that because I gave a analytical response to this I’m by default bitter and angry. Or maybe you’re just trying to bait me into being defensive …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 07:03 PM
2

I never really get a response whenever I say this in these type of discussions.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 04:02 PM
4

I think it’s much easier for a woman to get laid than a man. And in the age of the Internet, social media, and dating apps it’s even easier. Men need charm, charisma, status, humor, and some level of social intelligence. A woman doesn’t need any of those things. Generally speaking, I think for men to have a fair amount of sexual partners he learns what works, how to talk to women, how sometimes women say no but mean yes and how sometimes they say no and mean NO. Even for a woman interested in se…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 11:57 PM
55

Just today a female coworker commented on how my jeans fit and even told me...and I quote “Make that tight ass jump for me”.. I’m still quivering. #metoo
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:00 PM
8

I’ve always been curious of what a dissertation written in emotional vomit would look like.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:55 PM
2

A long time ago I got butt hurt and got banned from match.com. I noticed something and it started to infuriate me. I honestly don’t drink at all. So I would specify girls that don’t drink or drank occasionally, for my search criteria. After having some convos and just looking at their pics, most of them were drinkers and drank often. So I was calling them out on that shit. Obviously in bit of a anger phase... They were just putting they didn’t drink to sucker some chump into thinking they were g…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:42 AM
5

Can relate 1,000 percent. I hate online dating but sometimes it’s 10pm at night, you don’t feel like going out and you just go “why not?”. More often than not they ghost. Most just want attention. One thing you may consider, some girls will self sabotage just to get out of it because meeting an actual human ruins the fantasy and that’s what they really want. Was on a site for discreet sex. Most of the women weren’t looking to meet. They just wanted to post nudes of themselves and have guys lust …
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:29 AM
11

Dude your dad must have been with a lot of women to come up with something as exact and smart as that. Get him to write here haha.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 09:44 PM
1

If you want to get her alone and confront her, you should have it seem as though you guys just happen to be alone. Rather than you pulling her aside and telling her off. If you make an effort than it looks like you’ve had this on your mind and your butthurt. If it “seems” as though she just catches you alone then it’s more so like you don’t give much thought to it but since she’s there and asking you about it, might as well. Just something like that greatly effects her perception of you and your…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 05:05 PM
3

Dude what is your deal? It's common sense that what's top tier is subjective. Not all women have the same preference. The only genetic trait that's universal as for as what's attractive is height. In Korea, top tier is some gender bending faggot wearing blush and eyeliner. You think a dude like that is going to be crushing it in rural Mississippi? We see posts all the time about guys having their pick of women, moving to a different location and essentially becoming invisible. And vice versa. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:14 AM
1

I've been where you are. On multiple occasions I've lost as many as three girls in the span of a week. Lining shit up for a weekend and everyone goes silent by Thursday. That stuff makes you strong though man eventually. It's not like we can go backwards. You know too much. You got the best mindset.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:18 PM
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You're thinking with your dick. Which is understandable. But step back and look at this objectively... Dude these girls are running hella game on you. They got a chaperon for when they party. And you seriously believe that a girl would be too embarrassed to let you pay for her shit? She doesn't want to be alone with you. And she doesn't want you to think its a date. She just wants your attention. And wants everyone to see that. Girls sometimes need emotional spikes that they create shit like thi…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:53 PM
9

Just when you think there isn't enough autism here.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:14 PM
1

No problem bro.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:52 PM
1

As satisfying as I can imagine that being, it's something you should say if she initiates that type of convo. And don't be so wordy with it. You want to just have this amused mastery vibe and just be short and vague with her. If she keeps pressing you, smirk and tell her this in a direct tone but in away that conveys you think of her as a silly little child. Then go about your business as if you didn't give it another thought. Always be fun and charming with your friends, and just treat her like…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:29 PM
1

Do you want her back in your life or are you just wanting to navigate interacting with her in your social circle?
/r/askTRP15/10/17 08:50 PM
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You were fucking some girl while she was dating someone else, she openly tries to disrespect you in front of other people, and she acts like you should just be her friend when she sees you. It's how girls create conflict. She's waiting for you to bring up shit again so she can tell you you're being weird or whatever and have you in her frame. You think this girl is GF material?? You may indeed be beyond help dude..
/r/askTRP15/10/17 08:05 PM
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You got to ghost this one. Don't block her or anything on social media, because then you just look butt hurt. Since she didn't purposely or directly do anything to you. DO block her number though. And don't reply to anything else she sends you.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 07:50 PM
2

Wow. I think girls have done similar shit to me in the past but I was too oblivious to notice.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:29 AM
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Meeting girls in public is always a much more effective strategy than any dating app. I think it's interesting what makes guys use apps though. At least me. I live in a small town. There is my mall, a few grocery stores, and a bookstore. Those are the places I try to meet women. I don't drink or go to bars. I shoot pool sometimes. The last time I went to shoot..there were no attractive women there and I left after some guy hit on me... Every place you go requires driving and 90 percent of the ho…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 10:07 PM
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You made a post a while back about a girl you were seeing talking to a guy she used to fuck when she was living abroad. If this is the same girl, that makes two guys that used to fuck her while you're trying to be her boyfriend. Which makes you look somewhat emasculated and you probably give off that vibe. Which is why that dude doesn't think it's a big deal to tell you stuff like that. If it isn't the same girl, you have a tendency to give your commitment way to easy. Either way, you should do …
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:50 PM
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Sometimes it's like that. And yes, it's usually for validation and attention. I'm only disappointed when I'm particularly witty and direct, text game is on point and they ghost anyway. It's like doing this crazy ass dunk and the refs waiving it off and telling you it doesn't count.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 11:07 PM
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Dude, tell me you have a story.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:53 PM
6

Ghost girl is 30 I think. Pokemon catcher is 24. I actually saw her at the bookstore the other day. She's really fat now, but still has orbiters....
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:48 PM
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Came here to comment the same. She sounds immature and why are you giving your commitment to someone that was content to be somebody's else Fuck Buddy/FWBs? Even if you are one of those guys that doesn't care, it doesn't sound like she's grown any.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:31 PM
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I'll post my same response: I have seen two very recent examples of this. I was having a conversation with a girl the other day that's seeing one of my best friends(they probably won't last). She's cute. Average looking. She was telling me how she would ghost dudes for anything. Ghosted a guy because she didn't like his preference in drinks, ghosted another guy because he had tickets to a concert but she didn't like the artist he wanted to see. No explanations or anything, just ghosting over tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 10:01 PM
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I dont always agree but I find your post be insightful. Although, I have no idea you knew this much about game. Damn dude impressive.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:58 PM
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Thank you! OP this girl admitted she used to cheat in the past, and she wants you to be proud of her because she didn't on you? Like its special that she's being faithful. That's the basis of any ltr. Do you expect someone to be proud of you because you could've broke the law but decided not to? Only someone who breaks the law all the time would. Think about that.... This isn't the perfect girl at all my dude. Fuck no.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:43 PM
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Right on time. I have seen two very recent examples of this. I was having a conversation with a girl the other day that's seeing one of my best friends(they probably won't last). She's cute. Average looking. She was telling me how she would ghost dudes for anything. Ghosted a guy because she didn't like his preference in drinks, ghosted another guy because he had tickets to a concert but she didn't like the artist he wanted to see. No explanations or anything, just ghosting over that shit. Secon…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:24 PM
2

I see your point.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 08:32 AM
1

Dude how did you paraphrase that and miss the part where he said he was a pregnant person? It's obvious he was joking with her and didn't really take that to heart.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:59 AM
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i thought you were spinning plates? Based on your post history.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 11:47 PM
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But he's ghosting them to teach them a lesson. If you are looking for a LTR and you're out with a woman that acts like this, what other option do you have? She isn't going to be your girlfriend, and you aren't going to see her again. Why do you disagree with what he's saying?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 04:15 PM
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Hmm.. There is some truth to that. Two "good girls" that I know both told me they wish they had it in them to be loud and be able drink and party like other girls. They admired that shit. What a waste.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:30 PM
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I have always said this. Women don't like responsibility for anything that could possibly make them look bad. That's why they like being victims so much. You can never blame a victim for anything. You're either a hero, a survivor, or people feel sorry for you. I also don't like girls that like to consume alcohol for the exact reasons you listed. Sadly, alcohol is instant plausible deniability for women and they are not going to give that up. Even for the ones that "rarely drink", they feel they …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:25 PM
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Why are you still Facebook friends with someone that did that to you? She knows why and you know why. And girls pay attention to shit like that. You should've unfriended her. If she hit you up she'd either try to gaslight you or act like nothing happened and possibly ask you to hang out. If it EVER gets that far and that's a big If(not insulting you but we're talking about an attractive woman that uses social media..) then youd have to be an arrogant smartass that's not afraid to call her out on…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:37 AM
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It means she's not interested enough yet to give priority to communicating with you. Basically you're in a uphill battle. "It's not a big deal that you can contact me" is basically what she's saying. How was the interaction? If it was just a little chit chat, that's good but sometimes you need a bit more to hook girls. Lots of energy, kino, forwardness, directness, emotional spikes, making her think..etc.. I would've said something like "sounds like you're flaky and waste a lot of people's time.…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 06:21 AM
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Underrated post. You nailed this. I'll also add, this is why some men find the idea of a celebrity crush silly. Status doesn't usually mean anything to us, and I can show a woman that's just as hot as any celebrity/model that works at a store in my mall or works out at my gym.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 03:28 AM
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Welcome back. It's been a while since you've emotionally vomited here and sought validation. I'm guessing whomever was plating you just dumped you?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:08 AM
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I've never been there but that's impression I get of it. High notch count attractive entitled self destructive women living in this fleeting fast lifestyle. There is just too many opportunities to meet women to not get laid. But you'd be a fool to offer your commitment and resources to the lot of them.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 12:12 AM
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Why did it end? She was too clingy/available?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:45 AM
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I one time had a girl grab my hand and shove it deep up her butt. I touched a turd. I wasn't really turned off. More so thought it was funny how she was trying to be freaky and didn't realize that. If I was really into that Asian girl I don't think something like that would've deterred me. I would've been like "forgot to clean your ass? Naughty girl..." Was this girl westernized? I've found Asian women that haven't really grown up in the west don't really prioritize hygiene the way we would. Was…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:33 AM
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Preach it bro. Some want to talk on the phone/text for days or weeks and then end up ghosting you anyway. Like some time sucking vampire.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 03:15 AM
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I'm surprised you haven't got endorsed yet.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 05:18 PM
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I know. They are fucking 4 years apart. When she's 20, he'll be 24. She was 18 and he was 22. Come on, dudes not a pedophile. You want people saying that about you when you're 30 and banging sorority girls? Don't spread that trash.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 05:16 PM
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That's exactly what he is doing. I once spent all day helping one of my friends get a girl. Coaching him, telling him what to text her...The next day he tells me he deleted her number because she didn't text him first thing in the morning. I told him I'll never again in my life help him with women because he was a coward in self denial. And I haven't. OP this woman needs a man who follows through with women. That's not you. You're a self sabotaging coward. And I'm not even trying to be mean when…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 12:08 AM
2

If you are half black why did you say "your men" instead of "our" in your other post...while at the same time making sweeping statements about black men. And why did you only mention you are half black to qualify some racist post. You aren't really half black. But i see what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:25 AM
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Says the guy that replies every few days..
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 08:44 PM
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OP said she's 24, does this all the time and I'm assuming they grew up together. She is who she is until she does some self reflecting. It's not like she's a kid that needs guidance. And we've all beat the dead horse of trying to help loved ones that didn't want to help themselves.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 06:03 PM
1

Not as much as Colin hurt your asshole.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 08:47 PM
1

And that bitch fit you wrote shows he has his dick up yours.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 09:35 AM
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That was very insightful. Thank you. I'd like to add that when guys pursue...we have the same worries, frustrations and disappointments.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 09:36 PM
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You've dug yourself a bit of a hole by looking sensitive and butthurt. You started off strong though. Props for that. You should have used amused mastery and then looked at the girl you were into, said something like "let's go somewhere less noisy" took her hand and led her somewhere to isolate her. Then after that just ignore everything else that dude was saying. He would've looked needy and pathetic as he attempted to be desperate for attention. The beach would've been perfect for that. Then y…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:37 PM
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How did he disrupt the game though? It's a peaceful protest and it's not happening DURING THE GAME. Also, he's richer than most people in general, not just whites. You yourself don't have to personally have it bad to make it a point to bring awareness to an issue. I do agree that he's just the puppet of his girlfriend. But post like this are just some raging triggered faggotry.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 02:57 PM
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Keep doing what you are doing man. Good field report. You're smart and you were unfazed by seeing the used condoms. You get it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:59 AM
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NO. Never ever follow this advice...EVER.. For women who fuck like this it could've had nothing to do with OP. You don't need sex this bad to have this kind of reasoning and you definitely don't need it from a woman that thinks this way.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:56 AM
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I don't drink either. It's challenging because without alcohol you remove easy plausible deniability. "Let's have drinks at my place" isn't going to be what you are saying so you'll have to be more creative. Where do I meet them? Stores, coffee shops, every now and then the gym. Basically anywhere. Just start chatting them up. Make sure you look, smell good and have a bit of wit. It will be a numbers game. I feel things move a bit slower if there isn't any alcohol involved. Expect flakes. It's g…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:55 AM
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Delete this rambling nonsense dude. You haven't been through anything. Some girl "you never really fell for" unfriended you over some butthurt shit you posted because of something that happened to a friend of yours. You must be really young, autistic or both.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 11:19 PM
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This is why women are often your worst enemies when you are on a journey of self improvement. It's all about them. If you have better or more attractive qualities than they assumed, it means they were wrong about you. Consequently, they are upset with you because in their warped view it means they are liars or they made a mistake in their assessment of you. The more and more you improve the more you "insult" them. Then they see the consistency in your behavior and watch as you gain social proof.…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:10 PM
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You're not wrong, and I can relate. I dated a girl almost 10 years ago that was like this. Whenever we had sex, she always made me put my dick inside of her. She never reached for it or grabbed it. I think it's a type of manipulation to be honest. It's so they can always say sex is your idea and they don't ever want the responsibility of initiating it. I think a lot of times "submissive" women just act that way because it allows them to distort things in a way that benefits them if you are the o…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:14 AM
1

I have a best friend like this. It took some time but he finally opened his eyes to the monster that his ex-gf was. But it doesn't matter. They have a kid together and he'd go back to her in a heart beat. I just think of it as my friend having some type of mental illness or disability. I can't write the dude off because he's stood by me when many others wouldn't. I don't talk about red pill with him and I share my philosophies and perspectives when asked. My friend is just really pathetic when i…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:36 PM
1

I was going to stop reading there but my curiosity got the best of me.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 06:45 PM
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This isn't really red pill IMO. Even if it's true it is a humble brag of the supposed perks of your open relationship. I'm not the slightest bit interested in a marriage with that kind of dynamic. Now a FWB or a fuck buddy, maybe. Drunk women aren't that hard if you're fun. And having a woman already with you gives you social proof. They were in town for the night looking for fun if they're staying at a hotel. So you had logistics.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 05:54 PM
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That's a tricky one though to be honest. But I think it's hilarious that you agreed and amplified.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 03:57 AM
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I'm in my mid 30s. There has been a decline for sure. It could be medically related though. I hoping its that. I miss the old me.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:43 AM
2

For someone whose been at this for probably much longer than you, I'm going to be honest with you... I COULD NOT have pulled this off. That was impressive. You were the party, you had great frame, you were clever, quick witted and gave great plausible deniability. I took away a lot from this post. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:45 AM
2

Whenever I want upvotes for validation I know shit, I'm just going to post "Read the sidebar" to every question someone post here.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 05:06 AM
4

That was a fantastic response.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:34 AM
4

There's nothing beta about engineering. It's just most guys that go into it are usually socially awkward.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 04:34 PM
2

You're probably not doing anything wrong. Most women using those apps have no intention of actually meeting anyone. They just like the attention and validation. Plus younger tends to be vapid and flighty. I think if anything would help it would be drugs, sadly. I can't tell the number of times I lost a younger girl because I wasn't into drugs or pills.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:36 PM
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Its a movie about a young get away driver. And in the love story, at least he's smooth and direct about his attraction to the woman. They didn't do the whole awkard shy guy around cute girl thing. I don't know the point of your rant but I think this movie wasn't the best example to justify it.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:05 PM
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This place is much happier than TRP. Most of the guys there are angry about other things besides women. Everyone is trying to give advice in the most ball busting and "shocking" way as possible. I'm guilty. If we did meet ups there would probably be fist fights. They did finally start banning the racist...while others get endorsed contributor..go figure.. I actually had realized hadn't come here in a while. Pop up today and see this post. Well damn haha. To look on the bright side we aren't as b…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:00 AM
3

Maybe you're upset because you're looking to have more success with women and she is presenting herself as an option but she doesn't really mean it. You desire something. She's telling you she has what you desire only for the entertainment of how you may respond to it. I would cut her out too. I like the way you responded. Nothing butthurt. Just matter of factly.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:12 AM
0

So?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:07 PM
0

So.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:06 PM
0

So?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 03:17 PM
0

So.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:57 AM
1

This is an excellent post.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:37 AM
2

Exactly. It works all the time. Some faggot whose never had the attention of an attractive woman can't wait to "court" her. Her past is her past, he's getting her best. She doesn't want to have sex with him because all those men hurt her in the past. Spends decades in a shitty marriage because he doesn't believe in divorce. Then she leaves... I struggle between trying to help those dudes and slapping them as hard as I can across their face.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 12:56 AM
1

Dude what are you talking about? You've made post about how you think black people are inferior and you'd never touch a woman that's been with a black man. I even asked you specifically if you would rather a woman been with one educated successful black man or like 30 trashy ass white dudes... And you said white dudes no matter what.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:52 PM
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Dude I think the best bet is to move to some boring Midwest town where some girl grew up on a farm. You'd just have to show her about manicures and pedicures. Maybe perfumes. Then maybe become sheriff or some shit.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:45 PM
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Man I see this all the time. It takes ALOT for anyone to be able to see and be understanding to challenges specific to other people. To have people attack and discount you when you only want to be helpful? No one would blame you if you gave a big FUCK YOU and was done with people like that. Sometimes when people see that I'm not some angry loud aggressive black man, they feel like I'm "safe" to unload their ignorance and prejudice views on. They don't appreciate that I don't embody all these neg…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:37 PM
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I can never get over that some girls think sucking dicks isn't as big of a deal as vaginal sex. "Yeah let me taste this penis and have him shot his cum all over my face and in my mouth...BUT he has to wait to put it where it's anatomically designed to go and which I receive mutual pleasure from". Just keep looking dude. A girl that thinks like that is not worth dating. It's NEVER going to be a healthy relationship with a woman that thinks like this. You are just finding out that most girls aren'…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:36 PM
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It depends on your location and other factors. I'm black and It comes up with a lot of white people around here. I live in a Republican state though with a lot of hard right wing conservatives. I have to shut it down or call them out on their ignorance. It's a divider, when i'm most interested in commonalities. I used to hang out with a group of supposed Christians. I was the only black dude. Everything they said to me was always some reference to me being black. Some people would even come up t…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:04 PM
2

That's not what I meant.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 01:41 PM
11

No clue why you got downvoted. Maybe your idea is too reasonable and understanding...
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:45 PM
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Man you are a absolutely right. I guess i just get tired of it. Especially when people mean well or have genuine insight. I think a lot of it is the type of guys that find this sub. They are usually angry about other things besides women. And I think it's very easy to confuse being "Alpha" with being obnoxious.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:31 AM
1

Of course. I do ok man, but I'm more of a day gamer and don't have much experience in clubs and bars. I'm doing more of that because my town is small and I think i'd probably do better in social and high energy environments. Small town day gaming is just...exhausting..
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:26 AM
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A lot of dudes are busting the guy's balls. That was the context of "you guys". He came here because he realizes that feminism is BS. But a few posters are giving him shit. If people come here looking for answers, help, and information why be a dick to them? I didn't see you guys exchange. I just saw a few people grilling the dude and then your posts. Apologies.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:19 AM
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Dude he's here... This isn't about who is more redpilled. It's not a pissing contest and he doesn't owe any of us anything. He's trying to come to terms with this stuff. You guys do such a great job of welcoming people to the community...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:05 AM
2

Never thought about this. Thank you so much dude.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:38 AM
1

It doesn't matter who mentioned what first. She has gone on other dates. She ghosted him. She now wants to talk to him because she thinks he has money. You're trying to correct something that is not even relevant and offer no other insight about his post. Stop being a faggot.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:09 PM
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He never said she was down to fuck. She just came back around because she thought he had money. Hence mentioning the sugar daddy site in the first place. He's not interested in paying for sex. Her mentioning other guys means she is down to casually fuck but she is obviously raising the price for him and she expects him to be okay with that. I didnt take it as him being butthurt. I took it as him not being a chump.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 01:39 AM
1

What's the reason you're fucked up? Your ass didn't come here because you're awesome. Should i use some negative statistical prevalence in your race to make a sweeping assumption about you personally? You fucks think you are the only ones allowed to be individuals but use studies and generalizations to classify everybody else.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:28 AM
1

Pulling all that shit out of his ass and stating it like facts. And the little faggots gobbling it up. Like they are part of something great because of their skin tone...
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:21 AM
2

I don't know how he got endorsed contributor...
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 09:34 PM
1

Thanks. Totally out of the loop. My bad.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 09:05 PM
1

This was inspirational. You did this perfectly. I'm also working on social circle. I don't mind day gaming and I used to get a lot of attention from younger girls. But since going bald, I just shave my head and wear a full beard. It makes me look older i've been told and now it's been throwing my game off. Plus it could be the scary black man thing too.. I don't drink and I hate they way women act in clubs. For the exact reasons you listed. Sadly, where I live it's like the only place you see an…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 06:43 PM
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ooooh shit.... That's even worse than I thought. My bad for the misunderstanding. She's emasculating him on youtube while people are laughing at him. That dude is pathetic. You have done your good deed for the year posting this shit. Im more disgusted at him for tolerating this than anything she does. Edit: I went to her instagram. She's had blue hair at some point. Never a good sign for a LTR. Also I bet you that faggot legally adopted her kid. He just seems like the type. Like it's his honor o…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:17 PM
3

I know a fat girl with a cute face that's banged like 4 guys in the last month. She uses tinder and other dating apps. She never meets guys off of them. She just uses it for attention and validation. She's fucking guys she meets at clubs and bars. If you met her, you would think any of this. Cool, fun, and very intelligent. Still aint shit. She had some job years ago at a restaurant. She would let a few guys who work there fuck her behind a dumpster on breaks.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:13 PM
2

Where did you live? What kind of things were they into? I think location, ways people socialize, and hobbies plays into high n counts.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 06:05 PM
0

That's not the same couple. Still educational though.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:46 PM
13

Any dude who lifts and knows game could take her away from him. Not to keep, of course... This is awful. Geeky Asian guy that's so happy and ecstatic to be with a hot girl. She wishes he was dead but she has the security of the relationship and being youtube famous gives her enough attention and validation to stomach him. Thank you for sharing this.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:28 PM
1

Dude none of what i said was about your post.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 12:46 PM
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Exactly. I shouldn't have wasted my time but it's the absurdity of some of these posts as they attempt to dance around something when it's obvious what they really want to say. They can't be blatantly racist anymore because the red pill started banning them. So they have to make it sound better.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 11:53 AM
1

No, I'm just sleepy. Don't wait up.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:25 AM
1

People living poverty tend to be short sighted. It's not a race issue. If you think I would call you racist for that, you missed my point.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:24 AM
1

Dude you are white and believe you have some superior genetics. Just own that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:41 AM
4

Some guy just tried to make a long ass about black people inferior based on the origins of civilizations and you try tell me that I'm the one suffering from Dunning Kruger? What he said isn't grounded in fact. There is no superior race. You can't look at the success of other men and take credit for it just because you are of the same skin tone. You need to believe this so bad it's pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:19 AM
-1

Dude I wasn't referring to any of that. I was referring to the guy that wrote an essay to explain blacks inferiority that he feels is somehow rooted in their origin.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:05 AM
2

No. Quote and respond to my entire post rather than taking one sentence and going off on a tangent to perpetuate your view.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:02 AM
0

You missed the point. Only autistic white men believe that shit anyway.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 03:58 AM
1

It's not. He's just presenting it like it is. It's just intelligent racism. Basically some people thinking of some supposedly "objective" way why they are better than somebody else. People have always done that to justify needs for feeling superior. Maybe this makes more sense to you.. Each political or religious group could argue why they are the best group by giving examples that can be explained logically but still rooted in their opinion. They just state it like its a fact to give it an auth…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 03:50 AM
-3

Everything you say is biased speculation. TL:DR There is scientific evidence for me to feel like I'm better than black people.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 02:23 AM
1

Solid advice man. I'm prone to back slide. If I'm having sex with a girl and I enjoy her company, I tend to get in my feelings when they suddenly go cold. And sometimes I give them "closure". Which almost guarantees they don't want to see me again. It takes a while to internalize that mindset you have. But I've made progress.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 12:50 AM
1

This has got to be some sort of epic trolling..
/r/askTRP20/07/17 06:52 PM
3

I fucking died.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:12 PM
2

Dude you sound like the only loser with this kind of post. You triggered or something?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:11 PM
1

You misjudged the situation.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:06 PM
-1

She's not a fuck buddy, she's your girlfriend man. Communicate. Tell her don't disrespect you. If she does tell her you'll find other ways to spend your time. This isn't something even worthy of advice. It sounds like you treat this sub like some type of bible if your fretting about the likes of this.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:50 PM
3

I didn't get that vibe at all. He didn't say the girl wanted him because he had high SMV or good game. She was distant and completely disconnected the whole night out but still expected him to fuck her. Since so many posters here stress getting laid at all cost, I'm guessing he was curious about people's criticism of this interaction.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:09 PM
2

I've thought the same thing as your buddy.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 10:41 PM
19

I'm going bald. I just shave my head or keep it low. I have a funny shaped head and sometimes get dermatitis in my scalp. So going bald was the fucking last thing I wanted to do. I tried rogaine. It slowed it down but I just got tired of applying it twice every single day. It can cause dry skin. So having to apply that while using creams, gel, and shampoo for my dermitatis definitely was handicapping the effect. Took biotin and lysine. Dont know if they did much. Took betasisterol and saw palmet…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 10:36 PM
7

You must be Chinese. They always drill into their people's head how terrible Japan is. Like China's some kind of utopia...
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:17 AM
4

She was probably seeing you and three other guys. She "thinks" she got a better offer. I say think because it doesn't mean any dude is better than you. Girls dislike and like men for very fickle reasons. Maybe some dude slept with her on the first date and so he became option number 1. Don't sweat it too much bro. Happens to the best of us.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:07 AM
2

It's sad you got so much flack and literally no upvotes for this post. Most guys here aren't at a point where they can appreciate this advice. They just want to hurt women and fuck over them any way they can. I always shoot straight with the women I'm seeing. Its for me. I just feel like a faggot, when I'm lying and sneaking around just to get sex. If that's what I want, I just tell the girl. Some of you are too chickenshit for this.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:00 AM
12

I disagree. Me and my best friends compete at everything. Competition builds comradery. We dont hate on one another and we want to make the other better. Women don't have the courage and can't make the effort to evaluate men on their own judgement. So they just mate poach.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 11:18 PM
1

You need to cut this woman out of your life bro. As if you need that drama. No wonder she is your EX. That chick probably has more red flags than a Chinese army.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 03:47 PM
1

Question. Were you a virgin until marriage or did you decide taking sex out of the equation worked best for you?
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 12:11 AM
1

Thank you so much for this response. That's exactly how I feel. And no you are not extreme. You have humility and at least try to understand what it's like for men. Most women don't. I would've expected more of that from this sub at least but I digress. I appreciate you chiming in.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 12:24 PM
3

Based on your posts, you are clearly very young and a bit naive about people. A man paying for you has little to do with whether he is rich or not. You keep saying that. I think you understand it's more at play than that. It's just your way of taking a shot at guys that they should spend money on you just because you are a woman. I have a lot of dating success. Fortunately, I actively avoid women that think the way you do. And why do you keep thinking you are going to get some rich guy? It's lik…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 01:10 AM
5

You have such an entitled and passive aggressive tone, I have no idea how you think you any man would see you as high value. How do you equate a man being broke just because he doesn't want to just throw money at a woman on date? I bet on dates you do that thing where the waiter brings the check and you reach for your purse. Knowing very well you don't intend to pay for anything. Then if the guy expected you to pay your half(because you reached for you purse..) you'd give him that fake cheery sm…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 06:17 PM
2

I was posting here before you were. I know all about that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 03:40 AM
2

You go girl.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:51 AM
1

I'm sure there is a post someone about the importance of not nagging...
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:08 AM
3

K
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:07 AM
6

Dude leave me alone before you get me kicked out of here. Have a nice day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:59 AM
2

I honestly don't find women to be that put off. And of all my LTR the only woman that was bad was the one that expected me to spend money on her. The others treated me as much I treated them. Red Pill or not, most men I find tend to spend money on women. It doesn't really seem to be of benefit to them. If you feel like a man is disqualified becuase he doesn't pay for your date than that's cool. Red pill woman or not, I'm just not interested in someone who expects that. Unless we're in a committe…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:57 AM
5

Like I said, if you feel that way then you shouldn't have engaged me in the first place. You were passive aggressive towards me and now you tell me talking to me is futile? How do you think that makes you look?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:42 AM
3

They why did you start one with me?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:39 AM
5

You must be really young if you equate men not wanted to give you a free meal as being poor. And I'm not a feminist. If I was I would humor entitled women. I don't. Men have always been traditional. It's just that we've realized that chivalry has little value. You should only expect common decency and respect. I don't expect to have sex with you because you show up for a date and you shouldn't expect to not spend your own hard earned money.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:29 AM
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Nice backhanded insult. If I'm leading, what is it you will be doing besides existing? It's not an honor to make yourself somebody's responsibility unless you add value to their life. What value will you add If you don't want responsibility though?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:23 AM
11

I feel you. But maybe OPs vibe was chill and non-judgmental enough to where she felt like she could tell him those things. That's definitely a good thing. Because you need to know shit like this If you are potentially trying have an LTR with a woman. Now the next man may be screwed though.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 07:38 PM
5

Thanks. I find my question is still valid though. Most women expect to be whine and dined and expect the man to be leading the entire interaction. If a man is spending his money and making sure you have as little responsibility about the whole thing as possible(even giving you plausible deniability if things get physical..) What is it that you will do to make sure he will want to see you again? The point I'm trying to make is.. If it's a great date it's up to him. He's going to lead the interact…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 06:41 PM
3

I'm kind of disappointed. This thread has showed me that a lot of you ladies are just as entitled as any other woman. I could've read that same explanation on twoXchromosomes. Here are some attractive traits that seem to elude ALOT of women. Humility and practicality. Some women don't even know how much they like a man or if they want to see him again, but they still expect to not pay for anything. I'm sorry, but no. I honestly have had more success with women calling them out on that stuff. Whe…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 06:09 PM
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I'm curious. What is that you will bring to the relationship if you expect the man to always fit the bill and expect him to have more responsibility than you in the relationship, and be willing to protect you? That mindset gives off the vibe that you feel you have more value than he does. Surely you don't expect being sexually available and having a sunny disposition is enough...
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 05:13 PM
9

I upvoted his post and yours. I think you guys both made good points.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 08:04 PM
4

I think when people have complaints about feminism they are referring to what it has become now. Young women not wanting responsibility for their actions, and victimizing themselves for convenience and attention. Do you feel like no one is allowed to point this out or acknowledge that?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 08:29 PM
1

How frustratingly accurate. I even knew a girl that admitted as much. She told me it makes her day to see her phone light and know someone is giving her attention. But if the ever actually try to set up a date she just stops responding. SMFH..
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:02 AM
10

Where I live, they was actually a murder of a "unlicensed massage therapist" very recently. She was about 24, gorgoeus, fit, in some sorority and just graduated with a degree in in early childhood development I think. Facebook was nothing alarming, just pics with her friends and boyfriend. She was completely living a double life. She was a legit prostitite with ads on multiple sites. She was murdered because the guy got angry with her for not doing what he wanted and overcharging him.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:33 PM
1

K
/r/askTRP26/06/17 05:56 AM
1

Yeah, I think your exactly right haha. I bet you could totally fix though when you see her in person again. If you even care that much.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:31 AM
1

Women in a work place have influence, like it or not. So it doesn't matter how little of a shit you give about what a woman says, someone will. And sometimes your faggot of a boss will want YOU to make adjustments to appease a woman's complaints about you. Hopefully only that. So yes, sometimes you do have to be cautious of these situations. And that is my point. You can't always just shrug it off and everything will be fine Mr. Motivation.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:27 AM
1

How much time has lapse between when you first deleted her off snapchat? She could've just been looking for a reason to block you to feel like she had some type of upper hand. At first she was chasing you, but with you directly stating you want to fuck her you lost leverage. Now the ball is in her court and she may feel like she "won" something or got even with you by blocking you. Girls do shit like that.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:21 AM
1

I think you purposely missed the point. Nice.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:05 PM
2

Except she's not random. She's a coworker. She also talks like this infront other people they work with.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:03 AM
79

Reading that made my fucking day. I know we talk about enjoying the decline, but that really does give me a glimpse of hope.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 11:48 PM
5

You outed him! LMAO! Dude I used to watch that channel all the time. How did you figure it out?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 02:28 PM
1

It wouldnt be a dealbreaker for me. A lot of people like to record themselves having sex. I've dated a few girls into that. I hate it. For the reason you made this topic. People hold on to that shit and show it around. Do you both still live in that town?
/r/askTRP24/06/17 12:30 PM
2

You're trying to make sound it like this woman is some kind of drag. She wants to hook up with you, but you've been out of town for a month. Why didn't you just tinder with women in the area you are visiting? Since you'd be leaving town anyway it would be the best scenario for things that are fun and short term. You act this is the only woman in the world. And how did she "approach" you by sending you a message? You are all kinds of try hard alpha-wannabe virgin.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 12:19 PM
8

I appreciate you putting yourself out there. You're a better man than me. This good content by also, you give guys hope. I mean this with only respect. You're not some 6'4 muscle bound chad. I watched a few of your videos. You present yourself as a man with a lot of charm, charisma, and intelligence. No limiting beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:44 PM
1

The situation isn't as dire as you think. I'm probably in better shape than you. I have a six pack and I'm 210. I just no longer have visible veins in my stomach. I guess your first post was meant to be motivational, which I appreciated. But if you think I aspire to wear some faggot ass sandals and a loin cloth, you're on your own with that one.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:50 AM
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Haha damn. How ironic it is to receive motivation from someone with a name like that.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 01:46 AM
11

Dude I work in a kitchen part time... We have it all.. Ice cream, cookies, cakes. I've had to increase the intensity of my workouts so I don't become a fat ass. Now I'm dealing shin splints, abdominal strain, and tendonitis in my elbow. Just because my dumbass can't stop being a glutton.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 10:26 PM
153

No sugar? Dude that's probably harder to quit than porn. I'm going to look into this though. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:09 PM
2

Similar experience. Ex girlfriend of mine could only orgasm if we had anal sex and she masturbated.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:23 PM
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Your best bet is some introverted girl who learned responsibility at a young age and has no idea she's attractive. They aren't usually big into social media and can be uncomfortable with a lot of male attention. Girls like this are probably 1 in 1,000. Not even exaggerating..
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:32 AM
1

Wtf?! Hahahaha!!
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:07 AM
2

How did you she go from not wanting you to fuck her ass to begging you to do it? That's so fascinating to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 06:37 PM
4

What is the opposite? I have a lot of stamina but sometimes just become disinterested during sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:46 PM
7

This. If you need this type of strategy than you don't need that type of woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:43 PM
2

All great advice, but you did you really ruin some other dude's life because your manipulative ex-cheerleader wife couldn't keep her legs close? Faggot.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:21 PM
1

No your response was perfect. Don't listen to that dude. You were confident and direct. All good.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:10 AM
9

This post is brilliant and the OP didn't even comment or reply. How I hate that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 12:26 AM
3

I don't necessarily assume it's Chad. Although, I assume it's a red flag. And any time a girl tells me something along the lines of "I'd rather not discuss it", I pull back a bit. I take it as an defensive and authoritative tone. I don't like giving my time to people who act like that.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:31 PM
1

You overcome it with hard work. As mentioned, I had basically that type of childhood. Really shy, overweight, getting beat up at school, women being indifferent to my existence..i think I was even suicidal for a time. Probably a lot of guys that post here can relate. Since you're not a "winner", you'll have to develop self belief in the face of constant adversity. It's something a lot of people can never do. But if(when) you do it, things just fall into place.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:11 PM
1

Dude how in the world did you know that? I'm aroused by the idea of being humiliated by a woman, too an extent. And my childhood was basically that.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 02:42 PM
2

Thank you. Everyone is patting the dude on the back and I don't understand what the fuck was the point of this. His friends hung out without him? What the hell does that have to do with female loyalty..
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:27 AM
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Come on guys. People shame him? It really sucks to be a traditional man?? He's passively trying to get affirmation and validation. It's that fake manipulative fake nice guy crap. You ladies shouldn't even be entertaining this.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 07:40 PM
9

It was nice of you to respond to this but this has nothing to do with RedpillWomen. And his post history tells me he may be a troll.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 06:31 PM
6

I think some of you guys are looking for a reason to lecture someone to indulge some feeling of self-importance. Lay off the dude. His life sounds fine.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:06 AM
1

It's just the insecurity of a lot of posters here. If you are in a situation where women offer you insight to their true behavior, guys can't wait to blast you if you haven't fucked the girl. They are hypersensitive to being seen as some type of orbiter. It doesn't matter that you mentioned multiple times in your post that you were there with your fucking girlfriend. This shit is so annoying. Your post was very insightful.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:03 AM
1

It happens. Some girls are just uncomfortable with making eye contact with strangers. I had similar situation. Caught a girl staring at me out the corner of my eye at a coffe shop. We exchanged glances in between my reading a book. After a while, she gets up and changes seats and then position her purse to where I can't look at her haha. But I've also made laser eye contact with girls and they showed interest in me because of this. I've had a few try to initiate conversation afterwards. Just kee…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 09:02 PM
1

Haha, you too brother!
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 02:40 PM
3

I'm glad your "blessed" thinking allowed you to summarize how my life is because being overly selfless to someone in hopes of gaining a life partner doesn't appeal to me. I'm fine with the way things are. And I have other things to worry about right now than that. You obviously didn't write that with the intent of being helpful to me. At least by replying to my post you had a good reason to humble brag. You're welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 10:20 PM
5

True. I'm the same way. I can be very charismatic and charming. But I like to do things alone. I don't like feeling obligated to entertain people or them feeling obligated to entertain me. Self preservation and equivalent exchange are very important to me. I think in the general courting process a lot of women prefer to be pursued. It's gender dynamics I get it. But I'm always asking myself "Is this fair to me?" "What do i gain from this?" It's just hard for me rationalize how marriage would ben…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 03:49 AM
1

I didn't say they couldn't tell. And I guess you have to be one of the lighter skinned Indians. I dunno.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:23 AM
5

I also like Millionaire Teacher by Andrew Hallam. Practical and safe investment advice that anyone can follow.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:04 PM
10

You have a date tomorrow. You are complaining about a woman that no longer wants to take 1 hour bus rides to see you. Your rationale is that your friend met a girl that does the same thing so what's this girls problem? You went out with this girl 3 times and you feel like she is one of the most special women you've met in your life. Now you feel like you are a joke to women and this all constitutes that your life is terrible... I'm not even going to try to uplift you. Fuck you.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:33 PM
1

I don't think you're over thinking. Every girl that I know that wanted to sext seem to have no intention of meeting up. Now sexting after sex, I don't think is a biggie. I don't sext at all though.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:34 PM
2

Exactly. The guy was a legit tough guy. Grew up in a really shitty neighborhood. Wasn't afraid of shit. He's been shot at, been in a numerous fights..etc.. He meet his wife in church. Thought he found the one. She's extremely conservative. Doesn't entertain male friends. She always wears dresses and doesn't show any skin. Hardly even wears make up. She's naturally an attractive woman. Still, she was a manipulative little shit. He used to tell me everything. She would use sex as a weapon. They al…
/r/askTRP19/05/17 10:25 PM
5

I know a guy that had this happen to him. Had 3 kids back to back to back. He never intended to have any. He's broke and has 3 young kids. He's desperate for any job that always pays a little bit better, no matter how shitty it is. He couldn't understand why his wife kept getting pregnant while on birth control. She followed that script 3 times in a row. He found out when his oldest was like 4.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 06:40 PM
4

These are some of my favorite types of post. When a woman can be honest about the fact she doesn't have to try but still makes an effort to, for herself. So many women never admit that. I really appreciate that. One of my female friends once said "I'm a skinny decent looking white woman. I have no problems getting guys and I can have all the sex I want. But I still need to make an effort to find a quality relationship and quality man." It's just real talk.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 08:06 PM
11

So many of us know guys like this. Isn't that sad? Carlos sounds like one of my best friends. Whenever I try to give him advice he tells me I'm depressed. His ex girlfriend cheated on him for years. He tried to date a girl that flew into town to fuck a friend of his that was in a band... Now he's seeing some single mom whose ex-husband is jacked, rich, and parties all the time. The first night they met, she grabbed his hand and put it around her throat and wanted him to choke her during sex.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:51 AM
1

"Let me downvote and then make some basic sarcastic comment to feel like I won something."
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:16 PM
6

This is one of the most accurate and insightful ways I've ever seen anyone explain this. It makes so much sense.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:13 PM
9

As a black man living in the deep south, I must say you are over selling the tolerance. By a lot. A clean cut Indian guy with western style and little to no accent is just giving tall, dark, and handsome vibes to white girls. They don't have the fear of having their status tanked by being seen with guys like that. Most white women across the board despite their political leanings are conscious of their social status.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:24 PM
2

You admitted to be biased and having poor boundaries, but you're defending a girl for leading a dude on? You're behavior may actually be worse then the girl he's talking about. Why should take advice from someone like you?
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:44 PM
7

Cosign. I didn't obtain any sort of enlightenment or anything when I started Nofap. I was desperate for sex and terrible when I actually had it. Porn is the problem with most men. Not masturbation.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 05:33 PM
18

To be honest I just think you were really bored when you wrote this. Is this something that's even worth debating? Who else is going to be the first mate? Obviously its not the pet or the children..
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 03:52 AM
1

I think you will get a lot of interesting perspectives with this post. Obviously both men and women have their own set of challenges. But men don't want women to be men. They want them to be responsible. A lot of women don't like responsibility, they don't like making decisions(which is why men lead..) they prefer passive communication, they like to be pursued, they need men to create plausible deniability even if they want sex just as bad. Sometimes women detest logic and rational and give thei…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 05:58 PM
19

I know right? What attractive woman doesn't have her pick of men... My kid sister has thousands of followers on social media. She doesn't need fame or success. Men need that do what women can do. Not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:18 PM
15

I think doing well in that field correlates to masculine behavior. One of my female friends who has a genius IQ and loves mathematics can't stand the way most women communicate passively. I've also observed when women complain, she speaks to them directly and offers solutions to their problems. If they continue to complain, she shuts them up.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:19 AM
1

It honestly just sounds like you have game. But you've just chosen to use your powers for good.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:59 AM
3

I'm exactly the same way. I'm good at connecting to people and I can be the life of the party. But I'm actually an introvert. I need time to recharge. And if I'm around people 24/7 I feel suffocated. Like you, I can be charming with people and still be on the fence about how much I like them. Then they see the other side of you and tell you that you are "distant". Really just want to be in my head for awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:57 AM
2

I think it's mostly this. My dad has become extremely sensitive over the last decades or so. He's also uptight and seems to have no sexual thoughts. He's pushing 60. My mom told me they went to the hospital years ago and he had extremely low testosterone. He doesn't seem to be doing anything about it though.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:15 PM
0

I don't think you did bad. Sometimes girls respond late because they are waiting on a better offer. They don't want to commit until they are sure they have none. I dont think you needed to say less. I doubt it wouldve made much difference. Sometimes this shit is a numbers game. And girls are fickle and flaky if not completely sold on you. The problem could've been with your actually interaction before getting the numbers.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:38 PM
3

Exactly. It correlates to other types of extreme behavior. I'll just take my boring nasty sex. The pain and degradation can miss me. My buddy was just telling me about this girl he just met on a dating app. They have been talking for a little over a week. He thinks shes the most special girl he's ever talk to. Literally.... She came to his house and wanted him to choke her during sex. They didn't even have a sexual conversation. That day was their first face to face meeting. I warned him. He's a…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 08:17 PM
2

This is a great post. Thanks for elaborating. I also think it's true from my experiences. Black women make me the most angry. They have given me the most infuriating shit test. But white women seem to be the most entitled and the most likely to avoid any responsibility for their actions. I also think that to a lot of white women a millionaire black professional athlete has the same SMV as the average white guy making about 70,000 a year.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 07:05 PM
2

Can you elaborate on your last point? I'm curious.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 06:02 PM
2

Dude I know so many guys posting about their businesses or just crazy shit they do all over social media. They get laid more than if they were actually going out to meet women. It's definitely not like that for most of us but I can't agree with you about deleting it entirely. Your other point. I agree 100%.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:59 PM
2

Nah. It may turn into a pissing contest with dudes trying to out-Alpha each other. Especially with women around. Not everybody who comes here has the same philosophies. I'm not interested in meeting an Aspie, awkward and uptight Indian dudes, or the racists who frequent this place. I seriously think red pill meet ups would turn into some cliquish high school shit and maybe erupt into a big brawl.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:22 PM
5

You my friend. You absolutely nailed it.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:18 AM
36

When she pushed for a date, my thought was "but she was already into you!" Which you did address in your closing. One thing for sure though, you were definitely in her frame and you definitely broke out of it by being less available. The old me would've been giddy if some girl put her fingers on my lips and told me "another time." Now I'd feel like a fool, especially with me paying for everything on our date and driving her around. Nah..I'm going to keep it real.. Sometimes when I have no abunda…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:09 PM
1

Actually he's on the other side of the spectrum(which is just as bad..) He doesn't care anything about vetting. He likes any girl that gives him attention. He thinks he's the "bigger person" for the shit he's put up with. He's lived in major cities. He'd go out and drank and meet girls that are just in town to party and he'd try to have relationships with them. He actually wanted to date a girl that his friend met online to hook up with. I can't even talk sense into him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:53 AM
1

They discovered TRP and now all of a sudden know everything. Last week they wanted to die bc they couldn't get laid now they're life coaches. It'd be laughable if it weren't so exhausting. This kind of reminded me of one my best friends. He was in a abusive dysfunctional relationship for 4 years. She cheated and lied about him constantly. He still wants to be with her. It's sad to see what he has become. They have a kid. The kid basically lives with him while she dranks and parties all the time.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 09:02 PM
3

Two of my favorite types of posts are: 1) Guys posts about women doing something they don't appreciate or disrespecting them, and they just calmly walk away from the situation. I like that. I like a guy saying he has some self respect and he is not jumping through hoops for sex. Most upvoted comment - Why didn't you bang her anyway? You missed out on sex you idiot! 2) A guy sharing an insightful exchange he has with a woman relating to sexual/social dynamics. Most upvoted comment - Why are you t…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 08:35 PM
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I like the positive vibe this sub has. Like I feel like if you ladies had a meet up it would be trading recipes, beauty tips and some frank but positive conversations. If we did big meet ups at TRP it would be fist fights and probably a few murders. I come here to get away from the cattiness of TRP at times. I think some male posters make statements but don't articulate or explain their viewpoint. They feel don't have to. That's a lot of the frustration. That and the humblebrags. Guys have to re…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 06:01 AM
2

I don't classify people as conservative or liberals. I like to think people are more complicated than that. Just because you aren't some insecure white dude perpetuating narrow minded views to protect his ego, I didn't by default assume you were liberal.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:51 PM
4

There was some guy that posted on Return of Kings. Racist as a motherfucker. Proud White Nationalist. Yet he lived in Asia and made post about fucking tons of Asian women. How can anyone take somebody like that seriously I do not know..
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:23 PM
2

Dudes a hyproctrite. Based on his user name he's obviously a Fresh Prince fan.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:35 AM
8

I was suprised to see this post and to have a few endorsed contributors cosign it. There are so many white nationalist that post here, I just assume the big guns are with that bullshit too. Very well written post.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:30 AM
5

The second point isn't accurate either. I live in the south too. It doesn't matter if you watch Fox News with white families and voted for Trump. Some will still disown their daughter for talking to you. And they'll say really ignorant shit around you because you're one of the "good ones", so it's not directed towards you.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:16 AM
9

You and your brutal honesty...
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:08 AM
5

You mentioned she refuses to do anal but wants to stick her fingers in your butt. It seems like some subtle power play. Not exactly the same scenario.. But I once dated a girl and I was the first guy to make her squirt. She didn't appreciate it. She was mad that I knew something about her body that she didn't. After that she became obsessed with trying stick stuff up my butt. And she would mockingly repeat stuff I said about being able to please her. I just can't help but think that some women i…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 12:57 AM
7

You approached some girl at a coffee shop, she tells you she does nude modeling and you get her contact information. Have this upvote my brother. Photography is really great plausible deniability. Some girls enjoy the rush of getting naked or semi naked infront of you. You immediately pull them into your frame(no pun intended..) and sometimes they'll look at those photos and remember you and your "professionalism". The only photographer I know that doesn't get laid is this socially awkward guy t…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 12:41 AM
1

I don't care how little or how much you value sex. It's never going to be as easy for you to get laid as it is for a woman. You can't hold people to the same standard when they don't have the same challenges. That's my point.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:32 PM
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You don't get to decide. They do. You just want think you do to protect your ego. And I wasn't saying we raise our value for women. But by raising our value we also have more success with women. Be it status, increase in looks, or confidence. Sometimes when we do that women chase us, only then do we decide. When you initiate, you don't decide shit. Also, how did you connect my post to quality of sex??
/r/askTRP20/04/17 07:38 PM
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Great post. What I like about this sub is that it pushes politics aside and looks more at character and accomplishments. TRP is admittedly filled with hard rights and less objective about these things. I'm independent. But I just don't know how some people can objectively think more highly of Melanie Trump than Michelle Obama.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:25 PM
1

One of my favorite post of his.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 06:55 PM
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Good for you. But It isn't about how much either one of us values vagina. Its never going to be as easy for you to have sex as it is for a woman. That's why we learn how to be the best version of ourselves. We can't just put on some tight ass shit, walk outside and have people offering us sex like sticks of gum. Even for ONS, you're the one having to engage and initiate. My point was that isn't not about the result. Its the effort. There is little if any for women.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 06:54 PM
10

You're not a gatekeeper to sex dude.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:49 PM
3

It's like you tried to find something to give him shit about.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:02 PM
1

Damn! It sounds like that dude has game. Or maybe women gossip about him and he has social proof.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:17 AM
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I think what he's saying is that if a girl has a dating history for a certain kind of guy, and now wants to be serious with you... She's playing you. You aren't what she wants, she's had what she wants but now is ready to play boring housewife with the guy that is deemed the most "socially acceptable". If a girl of my race hooked up with a bunch of Indian dudes, but wanted to settle down with me I wouldn't be disgusted that she hooked up with Indian dudes. But I would know what she likes and she…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:12 AM
9

Wasn't she just telling you how she uses guys and leads them on? And now she's lecturing you for being in a mutually agreed upon open relationship? Why didn't you call her out on being a hypocrite? I think you ended it very well though.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:35 AM
5

She wants attention. Whomever she's fucking right isn't fulfilling her in some way. But she'll continue to fuck him and just try to snag an orbiter. She still had your resume on file and pulled it. EDIT: You could probably hook up with her again. But it would be a slow frustrating process. Any initiative you take is going to make her pull back. Just showing interest in her gives her validation. She thinks you're a loser. She likely invited you to the concert because she thinks you worship her an…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:29 AM
1

I stand corrected. You should keep partying with college kids. You completely missed my point and you're too obnoxious for me to feel compelled to elaborate. You sound like you're 18. Your personality is perfect for banging annoying young girls. I guess that's good.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:52 AM
1

You nailed it about having no tribe. More guys should embrace the lone wolf mentality after they discover the red pill. I just want sex with beautiful women and financial freedom. I have too many personal goals to be looking for peer groups.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:38 AM
1

One thing I've learned is that if you are looking to live in the moment and have a bunch of noncommittal sex, outside of college you are going to have be involved in a lifestyle that promotes that. Or cultivate it yourself. What is it you feel like you are missing? I'm in my 30s. I find the younger the girl the more likely she is down for casual sex. I'll add that it sounds like you got your shit together. But if you're looking for people a bit older that just want to have fun, more than likely …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:27 AM
2

It's always about context. I don't expect to meet a virgin. Especially being in my 30s. But I'd like a woman who was responsible about her sexual partners and needed some type of investment. Otherwise, I'm not investing.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:19 PM
1

He made a post about how some girls think they're better than him. So members of his own "tribe" don't even want him. Yet he thinks his skin pigmentation grants him superiority over a black dude no matter their status, education, or financial success. You can't reach someone with that kind of hate or delusion.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:17 PM
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Damn this is a good post. What's your state of mind when you hear these shit test. Do you expect them? I once approached a girl at a bookstore. She looked really serious but she was cute. I was expected her to give me some shit and I was prepared to push through it. I asked her a question about her boots. She gave me the most giddy smile and seemed upbeat. I kid you not. I was so suprised about how well that went that I went blank...
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 05:18 AM
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No. It's not about that. You did good. Don't let someone tell you a girl getting shitfaced is an invitation for you to ass fuck her. Even if that WAS the case, you found her behavior unattractive so you didn't act on it. Some guys here put getting sex above anything else. But if you have standards of what you are willing to accept for a woman's behavior don't ever abandon that. Ever.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:22 PM
1

You'd seriously rather have a slutty girl that banged a bunch of nasty ass trailer trash white guys than an educated black professional?? You would wouldn't you...
/r/askTRP15/04/17 07:04 PM
1

Would you rather she fucked a bunch of white guys or one black dude? I recuse myself from your defense.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:12 PM
2

I hate post like this. You gave no details about her being a "slut". She probably didn't do much of anything but you're mad because she's no longer chasing you. And you want to just bad mouth her here and have us validate your anger.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:49 AM
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He has a problem. Never let anyone tell you its ok, just because it's common. He can't stop and most men can't. So they don't even want you saying anything about it. I struggled with this and most of my friends did too. Men are visual and our sexuality is very direct and overt. Most of us discover this stuff during puberty and by the time we are adults it's like a habitual necessity. Although some are definitely more frequent viewers than others. Personally, I don't feel porn has any place in a …
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 04:01 AM
1

This seems a bit trollish to me...
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 01:36 AM
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A LOT of girls think sucking dicks isn't a big deal. It is the biggest fucking deal. They honestly think they are modest because they only let "special" dudes enter their vagina but have no problem swallowing the cum of randoms. I seriously think women that think this way have a mental disorder. All of that shit intimacy. She ain't shit bro. And in the future anytime a woman tells you she wants to "wait" for sex but blows you and let's you finger bang her, don't take her dumbass seriously for a …
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:19 AM
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Keep doing what you are doing bro. I'm just looking for a woman that doesn't drink. I don't mean a recovering alcoholic, someone that has no interest in alcohol. You eliminate a lot of red flags with just that one.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:09 AM
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Fuck that. If I'm looking for a serious relationship, I need to know what this woman has done and what kind of boundaries she has. If I'm disappointed I just don't consider them a relationship prospect. With that being said... Most women aren't relationship material. That's life.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:06 AM
1

There are always read flags. ALWAYS. People just don't see them. Only someone desperate would be seeking marriage and commitment with a woman that he had drunken sex with for days, hours after meeting. Did you read where she said she does coke? Im honestly upset with him for being such a fool.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 04:12 AM
1

She's had a string of impulsive behavior. Someone else even noticed this and they had to stop her. 8 to 12 is big difference and she can't even remember. A tool shed, a fuck buddy, and now..you.. Her boyfriend. She can't even own or explain her behavior. Which means she'll likely do it again given the chance because she doesn't have the introspection or self awareness to determine what prompted it in the first place. Don't shame her for it. I'm sure if she is like this, there are other things ab…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:28 PM
1

Perfect answer.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:24 AM
2

I'm thinking to try something like this next time. Agree and amplify in a matter of factly but non confrontational way. Then say nothing else. It may reset her interest and then get her to invest more. If not, then no big deal. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:46 PM
3

You've given the most reasonable advice and some faggots downvoted both of your post. Damn man..
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:38 PM
1

Polarizing too quickly.... I've been so guilty of this.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:34 AM
2

I don't know why you got downvoted for being honest and recognizing your shortcomings. Every mistake you made, I felt like I was there with you because I've made all of those mistakes as well. I I still do. Also, I've had hot girls ghosts because the interaction wasn't strong enough to hook them. It's getting to the point though where I actually enjoy it. As before, it gave me tons of anxiety. Voice cracking, heart beating fast..etc.. You are doing good though dude. It's a numbers game for sure.…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 04:33 AM
1

I don't think she is cheating. But I do think she should leave you. You've probably fucked up your kids too. Your dread game is Jedi level though.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:21 PM
1

I get the feeling that you had a few women you were seeing, you wanted something serious and she was the best option in your rotation. That may not be seeing much though. She doesn't sound very trustworthy. She actually sounds sketchy. You probably weren't the only guy she was fucking and she doesn't sound like she's that into you honestly.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:15 PM
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Most girls that give you a Facebook want to curve you in a non confrontational way and don't even accept the friend request. This girl friend requested you, and seems enthusiastic about seeing you again and your ass complaining because you don't want her all in your business... I swear some of you guys man.. Facebook has the option where you can restrict what your friends see and how they interact with you. Just use that.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:08 PM
2

He's not orbiting the fucking girl. They have mutual friends. Wouldn't it be worse to stop hanging out with people you know just because of a woman?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:19 PM
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Yeah. Any attention he gives her she is going to take as her winning. Women shit test hard. But she tried to push him to hang out with her brother while she did something else. Women don't want to fuck guys they do that too. The game is getting your attention and then having you supplicate to her. She's not offering sex. She's not offering anything. OP it's not worth it. Continue ghosting or just be a complete aloof dick.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:16 PM
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This woman wants to have sex with other guys for fun but expects your commitment. She doesn't even sound like she cares that you called her out on what she was doing. She feels entitled to your time and attention anyway. There is no way she magically became this shitty person overnight. You've probably been putting up with much more than you should for a very long time.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:59 AM
2

Downvoted for sarcasm? Wow.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:50 AM
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Dude! You should have added this. This changes everything. You and her have history and she has a history of this type of behavior. She is manipulative and passive aggressive. She knew you were expecting sex and this was all orchestrated to shame you and embarrass you to give her a sense of power. Her making you wait was probably on purpose too. Ghost hard. Like block her number. She'll do this again. My friend's EX-Gf does this to him all the time. Start hanging out with him and have a lot of p…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:45 AM
5

This place is turning in to a ball busting arena. Maybe some of it was warranted. But I thought this was a good post. I'm totally stealing the one about the girl not getting any younger.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:01 AM
1

I don't have to imagine my man. I can relate. There is a post someone made a while back that maybe resonates with you. I'll PM you. Couldn't put the link in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:19 PM
2

I feel you. Even if you have a niche group, it's only a matter of time before you exhaust your options with that. And a few hard blow outs with that and you're known as the guy that hits on all the women.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:09 PM
1

You still are going to have to work a bit harder than some guy working around college campuses. You asked me a stupid question, didn't like that I gave you a stupid answer and now you want to tell me to leave you alone? I can talk to you as much as I like bitch.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 07:51 PM
0

College has an environment conducive to short term mating strategies. And did you expect a serious answer to such a silly question? Most colleges no matter where you go are like this. Most places you live in the US are not big cities. So most people are going to find it more challenging to have an abundance of casual sexual opportunities.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 06:56 PM
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Same. I approach when I can. But it's hard to have abundance mentality when you don't have an abundance of women to talk to. I probably approach in a month what some guys approach in a day.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:39 PM
0

I can no longer use magic. So I have to do this weird shit where I have to be patient and make the best of things until I can change them.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 06:30 PM
0

Dude I agree with you 100%. Like you said college just gave you sheer opportunities to meet attractive women. Most girls know NOTHING about fitness nor dieting but they are still hot. Those same girls in there late 20s or thirties just completely let themselves go or just have been ruined by life. Also, everyone is living in the moment so a lot of girls don't really expect to be in some relationship after sex. They feel like everyone else is doing the same thing. I'm in my 30s. Even when I make …
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:55 PM
2

You didn't do anything wrong dude. You hooked up with a chick that wanted you to rough fuck the shit out of her. If it's not you, then don't worry about it. If you are not in to that stuff than it's just annoying and unsatisfying to be with a woman that is. Yes ALOT of women like that. I don't care. I've been in similar situations.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:20 PM
2

She is your best friend or your girls bestfriend? If so, why is your girl best friends with a prostitute?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:29 AM
2

Wouldn't have made a difference. Probably half of the white guy's that post here are like this. They try to make their racism sound intelligent but they are hate filled paranoid zealots. They are the counter to hyper liberal women that engage in high risk self destructive behavior but have a victims mentality. Two sides of the same coin. One can't come to terms with having to share and thinks they are losing everything. The other wants everything but responsibility and accountability. If there w…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:47 PM
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I remember how confused I used to be by all of that. Now it makes so much sense. But the simplicity of it shows me how most women really aren't worth your time. I just couldn't imagine getting a raging hard on for a woman because she was well liked and popular. I'm trying to figure how and why the fuck do all these people know her.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:37 PM
1

Funniest comment on this post.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:32 PM
1

The thing I've noticed is that the same woman is either one or the other depending on your status, preselection, looks, etc...
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:25 PM
2

Really? Do tell.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:14 AM
2

Thanks for the pic. It helps a lot. That angle and with her using a filter for effect..she is manipulative and attention seeking. Even has a little nip showing. Maybe sex, but absolutely nothing else. Sometimes it's hard for me to talk to girls that post pics like that. I know how they think and the red flags just keep hitting me in my face as I try to talk to them.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:52 AM
1

I'm just typing. I got your ass hunting pictures and shit to impress me, talking about all the "cool shit" you do.. 0/10 Master Race.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 03:22 AM
1

Of all the beastiality I've seen, it's always been white people that enjoyed this passionate hobby. Thank you for sharing it with me. I was just trying to smash but this cultural exchange means so much more to me than pounding your tight little red ass. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 02:39 AM
1

You're so fiesty! Ok it's settled. Definitely not pulling out. Now PM me so I can get dat ass.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:36 AM
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You'd still let me fuck because my dicks big and all your white friends like me.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:59 PM
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I like that you call me Snowflake. I think you're cute too.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:38 PM
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You guys need a flair for the white pride post. So everyone else can avoid this stupidity. You are just as absurd as the SJW you hate so much. You pretty much said everything is bad but whites. And you feel like everyone is saying everything is good but whites. I guess victim mentality isn't just reserved for the "leftist".
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 06:13 PM
2

True. But it's all intimate. If you don't want to do something because it hurts you or makes your feel degraded, that's one thing. But to say you are saving something for someone special but still being sexually active, it looks like you have unhealthy views about your sexuality. I think you want to feel like you are giving something to someone be allowing them to enter you with their penis. No one is going to think that if you are ok with pretty much everything else. And if don't mind giving bl…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:28 AM
2

All of that is sex. All of it. And for some guys, performing oral sex on them is more intimate than them putting their penis inside of you. You'd let a guy's finger or tongue enter you, but it's only considered sex and special if it's his penis? You want to be nasty and sexual but hang on to something and "save yourself". It doesn't work that way. It actually looks worse that you'd rather suck dudes off than receive some mutual pleasure.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:56 AM
3

Problems like these are more so the dynamic of the relationship. Not just her being a woman. Your question suggest that you are uncertain if this is common behavior for a woman. She's leading this relationship and rationing sex to you. You have to totally flip this dynamic. Have ever asked for sex? It is scheduled because of how she thinks about It? There is a guy this woman would love to have sex with. She'd be excited about the thought of it and always make an effort to please him. You got to …
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:00 AM
1

Your girl can't seem to articulate what she finds attractive about you, and only likes that you want her. She's basically vocalizing that it's just your turn. You can't pry or force her to give a "better" answer because it makes you look insecure. I honestly think it was a flag. Not red. But yellow for sure.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:21 AM
2

Counter? Man you were flirting with me first. And i think you missed my point in the first place.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:54 PM
2

Didn't you post this bullshit on another thread you got ran off from? I never advocated getting a woman pregnant nor unprotected sex. You keep going there because you need something to argue against to feel like you are making a point. A woman is vulnerable whether you are putting your penis, finger, or tongue inside of her. Women who think that sucking penises and getting finger blasted with their fluids flying everywhere isn't that a big of a deal as PIV have unhealthy views about sex. They ar…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:42 PM
1

Besides pregnancy, what else? You can get STDs from oral. Did you assume I was advocating unprotected sex? And she isn't talking about getting pregnant. She's talking about PIV sex being "special".
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:05 PM
4

My thoughts exactly. If I was just looking for sex, none of those things would bother me. But I would never consider LTR with a girl that was into threesomes and prostiution. It's just too easy for a woman to get laid. I'd just feel like a chump trying to attach the value of commitment to someone to do something they do casually. I'm overpaying.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:16 PM
1

There was some really good advice and insight given on this post.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:50 PM
3

The thing that gets me is a lot of women know they have no rational reason to be this way. This person will have done nothing to them and holds no ill will against them. Yet, they hate the person anyway. How can you have the introspection to know your feelings are misguided, but still be like that? It says a lot about someone as a person. People like that are the most dangerous because they invent reasons to not like you. Any interaction you have with them, no matter how pleasant you try to be, …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 07:04 PM
2

You were a bit too forward but I like your style. I don't think you can be good with women without making some women feel uncomfortable or looking like a creep. Sadly. Because going for polarity is what makes you stick out to women. I also have had strong IOIs from women and had similar experiences. Caught a hot girl checking me out at the mall. I even over heard her and her friend talking about me. Went straight up to her and went direct. She giggled and then walked away before I could even fin…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:57 AM
4

You have an illogical hatred for someone simply because they got married and will have kids before you will. You have the self awareness to understand its misdirected, yet you choose to have negative feelings towards this person any way. You want to be stable for 6 months. I'm sorry but I dont think you've been stable for a day yet if you struggle with things like this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 03:53 AM
2

A voice of reason.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:56 AM
2

Am I the only that cares that he is in his early 20s, has no sex drive, and doesn't seem to know or care how to please a woman? I bet you come off as aloof and that's probably what attracted her to you.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:12 AM
1

How did you meet your last two LTRs? Social circle?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:29 PM
1

I could see your point. But if she's not communicating with him, he can cut it off anytime he wants. It's good she doesn't seem to invest so much. And yeah from my experience, young girls seem to be brazen and don't even try to hide their attraction for you if they think you have high SMV. Messing with them can blow up in your face. I'm older than the OP and this high school senior that works at a store near my place has made it no secret she wants me. She will give me laser eye contact as soon …
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:26 PM
1

You think a girl is "perfect" and then you are disappointed when she isn't. A sketchy past and STDs is one thing, but you are literally nexting girls because they fucked dudes with big dicks? You are insecure as shit. I have dated girls that have been with millionaires. I'm broke as fuck. I had a girl try to throw it in my face that she was dating a dude that had the biggest most perfect dick she'd ever seen. Me and her used to sleep together. I was unfazed. Later, she told me she'd drop him in …
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:00 PM
7

Do me a favor and go fuck off. Also, California is not a accurate representation of what's happening all over the U.S. A lot of white women wouldn't be caught dead with a black dude. They feel like it tanks their perceived sense of status. The one's that generally have a black guy fetish seem to be unstable, and broken. You think everybody has it easier than you? You ever approached a woman and had her grab her purse or think you want drugs? Ever had a girl say she'd be disowned for seeing you? …
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:07 AM
2

You said you haven't had sex yet, but then you've said you gone to third base on a comment. And you've done that with other guys. So you're basically one of those girls that doesn't mind getting fingered and giving a dude head...tasting his cum and shit....but get all weird about him putting his penis in your vagina. Like it's supposed to be special. But everything else is fine👍. Most guys think girls like you are retarded. You want to do nasty shit but then get all apprehensive about basic stuf…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:54 AM
1

Nah man. I know a few that hide it well. Only people that party with them would know. One in particular I know is a school teacher. Very sweet and social media has nothing at all sexually suggestive. If you daygamed her you'd have not idea the monster she is. Alcoholic, cheated on BFs, Numerous ONSs, even had STDs. Vet hard.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:08 PM
2

I said nothing about disguises. My point is that some guys think just because they didn't meet a girl at a club they assume her to be a better prospect for a LTR. Girls that club and party do things everybody else does during the day. Chances are higher you'd find a decent woman but you should always be vetting carefully. Were you waving your finger when you were trying to lecture me?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 09:44 PM
2

From what I'm been reading, you can apparently include Toronto as well.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 06:46 PM
1

You guys are going to learn to stop responding to his shit. Just look at his post history...
/r/askTRP02/04/17 03:54 PM
2

Whenever someone wants to do things like that without you, they want a break from the relationship. A relationship is a compromise. Your GF wants to have significant experiences that have nothing to do with you for a period of time where you will only know what she is willing to tell you. I just think if you need to do something like that, you should probably be single. OP how is your girlfriend? Extrovert or introvert? Personality wise? Does she like to drink? How is she when she drinks?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 03:47 PM
12

When you find them shoot a flare. Speaking of, I always find it funny when guys say if you want to find quality women you have to meet them at coffee shops, bookstores, the gym, and grocery stores..etc. Those loud wasted girls you see at the clubs and bars? A LOT of them love coffee, read books, workout, and shop at whole foods.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 03:36 PM
1

This whole thread is why we can't have redpill meet ups. A lot of white guys that post here drink and do drugs way too much. I would never LTR a girl that was into that shit. It reminds me of those girls that do porn..gangbangs...getting peed on and shit but draw the line at banging a black dude. It's not about self esteem. You'd be cool with kicking it with some girl that smokes weed and pops pills but God forbid she banged Steve Urkel.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:38 AM
3

What were some of the red flags? It's crazy that a woman could spend all the time with you and still be planning something like that.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 04:24 PM
1

I never thought about that. Makes so much fucking sense.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:32 PM
0

So if a girl flakes on you, you just keep talking to them? For how long? I'm curious about this approach.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:31 AM
36

Dude you have the greatest mindset for all of this. Unless a woman lost her breast shape to breast feeding, breast cancer or just weight loss...fake boobs is a red flag to me. It wrecks of insecurity and every woman I've known that has gotten one has branch swung. Some as quickly as weeks after surgery. Had this one chick at the gym that got them and was showing them off and letting guys touch them. She wasn't single.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:26 PM
1

Perfect my man. It means what you've been doing is working. Just try not to get butt hurt if she's not in the mood. Don't even let it phase you. Sometimes that's enough to turn things around. And chill with the sexting. You're better than that. That's for guys not having girls beg them to fuck them.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:35 PM
1

I would go radio silent until the day of her birthday and then simply text Happy Birthday. Unless she reaches out before then. I kind of get the feeling though that she's used to having the power in the relationship. Is that correct?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:21 PM
3

Well don't listen to guys telling you to fuck other women. She didn't cheat on you or lie to you. She just didn't meet you for sex because she wasn't in the mood. You have to find the balance between keeping a good sexual relationship but never presenting yourself as being needy for it. If you said things are improving because you are taking charge, you're on the right path. Have you guys talked at all since this happened?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:59 PM
2

He's a troll. Don't take him seriously.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:46 PM
6

"Oh she didn't want to sext with you OP? Start fucking other women!" Really guys? Dude maybe she just wasn't in the mood. She probably didn't want to sext but knew you wanted some type of sexual attention. Honestly you should've just turned that dumb shit down and not made a big deal about her not wanting to come over. She's your GF, not a plate. You hit her up for a quick booty call and then you are so desperate you accept fantasy sex. Never do that unless you are going to sleep with a girl imm…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:02 PM
2

Drugs and alcohol are great for logistics and plausible deniability. Alcohol especially. It does make getting laid easier. I think anybody could assume that.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:41 AM
3

Some guys will do the craziest and manipulative shit to have sex. Just to get a notch. I've had girls come over that were visibly nervous. And things sometimes just ended in a kiss session. And I've had girls shit test so hard I was too turned off to keep trying. Also, a lot of these dudes bragging on bangs usually involve drugs and alcohol. It's probably much easier with all of that. I don't do either. I've honestly lost a few girls because of it. It was for the best I feel.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:47 PM
1

I got a different perspective on this. I can relate to what you did. You've slept with this girl before. You have sexual history. You know she's fairly easy. So you did "lazy game". You were even logical and matter of factly about her having sex with you. You should have went back to square one and seduced her like she was a girl you just met. Got her in the moment and give her all those positive and sexual feels. It probably would've be easy, just not as easy as you assumed it to be. Sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:14 PM
5

I kind of read more into it. This dude is saying that he has a lot of sexual experience with women, and because he is Asian some Asian girl tried to play him. Some Asian women AF/BB the shit out of Asian dudes. They'll bang the most basic white guys brains out but be all weird about being sexually liberated with Asian men. I bet this girl would've jumped his bones if he was white or just wasn't Asian. He did the right thing. I think he gets laid enough to not put up with that. Screw that.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:06 PM
-34

Congrats. But you really sound like you're on the spectrum. You seem to just be learning about the worst of female nature. Which you were oblivious to for 3 years. Yet because you got a new haircut and clothes, you expect to get laid tonight?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:49 PM
6

Ha! Me too.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 07:41 PM
7

Are you Asian? That mindset seems to be very typical in Asian cultures.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 07:25 PM
4

I enjoy your posts and agree with a lot of things you say. I'm curious though. It sounds like you are ready to embrace the chaotic lifestyle marriage can bring and want to consume yourself with being a wife and mother. You don't think that will burn you out? How do you feel about having quality time with your husband. If it's too much, do you feel like he should be doing other things?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 06:26 PM
4

What do you mean by not being around BP men? Agreeable men with weak boundaries? How did they frustrate you when dating?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 06:22 PM
1

I probably would've just blocked the number. But I get the feeling you haven't dated much since the break up. So no new women to occupy your time and thoughts.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:44 AM
1

I wanted to appreciate you giving an alternative perspective and attempting to put a positive spin on this, but you need to stop encouraging this kind of behavior in young men. It's not something young women appreciate. He should value his time and not waste a second on a woman who plays these types of games. Because it is a game.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 01:38 AM
2

One guy made a post about being out with his friend and some girl that his friend knew, butted into their convo, talked to his friend about something and then walked off without acknowledging him. Maybe it was a little rude, but he wanted advice on how to deal with that. Can you imagine something like that ruining your night and you wanting help? Like really?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 05:48 AM
1

Guys who realize it's not going any further and don't want to sound butthurt.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 05:43 AM
10

Yeah. Cognitive dissonance at its finest.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 05:35 AM
3

That's kinda where I am. All of that stuff is work. And it's always about them. Being dominant like that is so they can turn off their brain and enjoy a roller coaster of psychological and physical spikes. They don't won't any responsibility during sex because they don't want to be responsible for their own sexuality. I'd rather they do more.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:09 AM
3

Key word is probably "girlfriends". It's usually just not a good idea dating a girl into that shit. It bleeds into other parts of the relationship. I prefer woman that don't need to be degraded or "play raped" to enjoy sex. It just makes my life easier.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:24 PM
4

Im kind of the same way. I don't really like all of that shit. It seems like theatrics and i get nothing out of being that way with women. I just do it because they want it. I wish it was just enough to have my penis inside a woman, some kissing and she was good with that. I don't really need to attach some trauma or pain to sex to enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:07 PM
3

That girl sounded crazy. How did all of that end? You did the right thing trying to understand why she wanted that, rather than just doing it. A lot of guys wouldn't. When understand why girls want things you can calibrate to giving them what they want without always putting yourself at risk.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:00 PM
3

Dude you were horrible and she checked out. Why in the hell are trying to salvage this?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 06:34 AM
1

It's just not a big fucking deal dude. She was probably a little tipsy. The convo was brief and you may never see this girl again. There much more important things to stand your ground on.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:42 AM
3

Exactly. I read all of that and when he said she was caring and trustworthy I knew he was lost...
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:37 AM
1

For me, it's not necessarily one type of very attractive woman. Eye color, hair, color, race are things that are completely irrelevant to me. I care more about proportions, style and figure. Curvy, thin, athletic..etc..can all be HB8/9 material to me. Now when I say curvy, I mean big legs, and a slender waist. Think softball player. Confidence is also attractive in women. Some women can pull of looks that other women can't. Also I see potential as well. Girls who are hot but seem to have no clue…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 08:31 PM
2

It's something you come to terms with. When dealing with non-black women I may get some pretty harsh rejections. Physically, women often tell me i'm attractive. It's more of a status thing or ignorance. I can't be as forward and touchy with women as maybe other guys can get away with. Unless i'm for sure they are into me. It's like anything I do is considered worse than when someone else does it. Even if girls are into me, if there is fear of someone knowing they are talking to me some will turn…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 08:08 PM
1

Yeah, wrong place dude.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 08:46 AM
1

What do you mean? I think I know but I just want to make sure I'm answering the best way.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 11:32 PM
5

Correct. I'm a black male. Based on where I am, I'm either the last thing a woman wants to be seen with or "cool to date".
/r/askTRP24/03/17 10:40 PM
6

You nailed it. I lived in Asia for a few years. After coming from a small town in the U.S. with rampant obesity, I found the average Asian woman to be very hot. But after some analysis as to why I felt this way, I realized that what made the Asian women hot was there their sense of style and cultural diet which lead to them having better skin and the women have slender figures. I think any woman can do this. I don't see a lot of attractive black women. But that's because a lot of black women I s…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 10:36 PM
1

Post like this are a green light for a lot of white guys who post here to be as harsh and critical as they want about other races. This isn't like RPW where people look beyond race and politics. You'll have to expect these types of responses, I'm sorry.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 10:16 PM
3

You sound like my kinda guy. I agree with this 100%. I had a buddy that always ask me for advice about women. We would talk all the time and I would help him on what to say to them. One day I spent all evening pretty much writing his text for him for this girl he just met. When it became clear that she was down to meet he chickened out and got nervous. Even deleted her number. Then was in self denial about it. I told him that we're friends but he completely wasted my time and efforts and to neve…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:09 PM
1

That's true. I have indeed ghosted for my safety.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 05:08 AM
3

I think you handled this perfectly. I don't agree with other posters telling you just cease contact. When you do that, you have that annoying time frame where that person reaches out to you or still tries to be chummy with you. You act all short and distant until they get the hint.. To me, that's just some faggot ass shit. If you don't want to communicate with someone anymore, it's best to be direct about why and just straight up tell them you no longer want any kind of friendship/relationship w…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:50 AM
2

Ok Yoda. I guess you misunderstood my post. Have as much sex as you want with as many women as you like. But learn how to calibrate to women and understand not every woman responds favorably to men being overly aggressive. Learn this before you have some serious legal consequences.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:26 AM
1

Are you fucking dumb?? It doesn't matter if she's laying naked beside you. If she feels regret or finds the whole experience to be negative... Your stupid ass is going to jail. Because you are guy and she's a woman. It's that simple. Be smart. Show tact.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:09 AM
1

I think society grooms attractive women to become naturally sociopathic. They don't have to take responsibility for their actions, but at the same time they are constantly put on a pedestal. My friend used to be a cop. He said there was one case about this high school couple. The girl was hot and was just overall a little shit. Apparently she dumped her boyfriend...just cause... He went completely nuclear beta and begged her to get back with him. She started tormenting the dude for attention unt…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 11:16 PM
6

Some of you fuckers are going to get arrested doing this bullshit. You can't just push through everything and hope the girl just goes along with it. Yes it can work. But you are so caught up in strategies and techniques you don't take into account how comfortable or turned on the woman is. DO THAT PLEASE.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:28 PM
5

It's not really a number for me. It's more about life decisions. I'm not interested in a girl that's had a "wild" phase. If she's always pursued sex in the context of a committed relationship, that's good enough for me. Unless it's a bunch of short term relationships. She's either sabotaging them or obsessed with that feeling you get when you first get to know someone. I also don't like girls that drink or party. If she sometimes needs that, she wants to take days off being in a relationship. I …
/r/askTRP19/03/17 07:21 PM
15

The only thing I have going for me is looks. I'm fit and stylish. It doesn't seem to do me much good unless i'm exactly someone's type. I remember years ago, I use to hang out with this large group of people. Volleyball, park events, eating out together..it was pretty cool but some of the people starting getting on my nerves. There was this one girl. She's a strong example of AWALT. A devout christian that would do "missionary" work overseas. She was just going there to fuck foreigners and party…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:26 PM
6

Dude.. are you having a conversation with yourself? You seem very intelligent and analytical. But your posting is getting a bit obsessive. You've made like 5 topics in 2 days.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 02:58 PM
9

LMFAO!! Number 2 deserves all pussy he gets because he friend thinks he's a fucking nigger.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:17 AM
5

It totally depends. I'm not purposely being vague. Race, culture, hobbies, income, are all relevant. Generally speaking I would say bigger cities and college towns are best just for sheer opportunities to meet people. It can be a bit of a conundrum though. You don't want to base life decisions around opportunities to meet the opposite sex. At the same time, if you are in a location where you can maximize your value it definitely increases quality of life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 09:32 PM
8

Whatever you feel like you lack in looks, you obviously make up for it with humility and practicality.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 05:32 PM
3

I think the wall refers to women indulging themselves with validation sex and taking male attention for granted. Everyone is just living in the moment and I don't think it occurs to a lot of women until much later that the type of man that will sleep with them and the type that will commit to them is much different. Not everyone hits the "wall" at the same age. It's just when someone is willing to have some self reflection about the decisions they've made and the type of relationship they want. …
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 04:33 PM
9

I agree but i think women always have a relatively large amount of options for sex. Not necessarily commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 04:01 PM
8

We say all the time at TRP. Location matters haha.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 03:57 PM
1

Well I apologize. I think what I'm describing doesn't really apply to your situation. Amazing post. Respect.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:00 PM
3

It basically sounds like you are demonstrating higher value. My friend does something similar. He goes out with girls and when things get physical, he stops and tells them he doesn't want sex. When he see them again they always try to seduce him and then they don't feel used because they're in the drivers seat. I think it's a lack of instropection and insecurity issue. I think many women don't conciously think about what they can offer to a man besides sex. So him showing restraint makes them so…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 05:49 PM
1

I think most people who grow up in that situation have resentment for the absent parent and usually have toxic views fed to them by the other parent. How were you were able to see everything for what it was at an young age? Or did this all come later in life?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 04:55 PM
1

How are things with your father now?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:44 AM
4

This has to be fake...
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 02:25 AM
5

Well damn! It's great to get a feel good story from this subreddit every now and then. Sometimes we run into girls like this and think we did something wrong. But more often than not, it's just a character flaw on the woman's part and they are doing us a favor by running away from male decency.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:52 PM
5

It honestly sounds like you dodged a bullet. You could've dragged this on indefinitely if you were a selfish asshole. Like why can't we just have great sex and it be ok for me to be fucking nice to you?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:22 PM
2

It is location based. I'm in a small town in the U.S. This hardly ever works if you are doing day game. You have to approach the girl, sell yourself, then convince her to just come to your place without you taking her out. Very low success rate. This is for dating apps, social circles, or if you have some type of status. Just take the girls out and don't be boring. Then do the plausible deniability thing(I hate doing that shit).
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:09 PM
2

Exactly. It's about presence. I'm 5'10. I'm very well built and when I wear a flattering shirt or dress business casual women often ask me how tall I am. It's just that my appearance is striking.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 08:27 PM
5

When posts like this get downvoted, especially spoken by someone who contributes so much to this subreddit... it tells me that a lot of women who come here are still in denial.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 06:37 PM
1

She was a type A entitled brat. I had no blue print for dealing with women like that. Even know, it's just not worth trying to have sex with those types unless your value is so high that they are chasing you. But I guess that's the best strategy for women in general.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:20 PM
9

Some dudes like the ego boast of dealing with manipulative unstable women, and getting sex out of them while keeping them at arms length. It's behavior we expect but it's not something I enjoy. I find it exhausting and annoying. A woman being honest about what she wants and her agenda is something I can appreciate.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:25 PM
35

I'm so fucking relieved by a woman that can honest and direct about her intentions. You think it's a trap but you have no problem screwing highly emotional and chaotic women? What's the trap? That the logical women turn out to be highly emotional and chaotic?? What are you even saying.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 02:24 AM
14

I have this little chest filled with tales of blue pill wonder and faggotry. This one comes to mind.. About 14 years ago, I took this girl to a college ball. We'll call her A. A and I had talked for months on AOL instant messenger and even had a few phone conversations. A was a tall and fit pre med major. I thought the ball was my chance to make a move. I bought her a necklace and wrote her a letter. After the ball my plan was to take a drive somewhere we could talk and I give them to her. Cring…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 09:15 PM
1

I've never thought of that, but it makes so much sense.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 08:16 PM
2

I can relate to this. And I agree. I've shared about my experiences. But no one wants to see these posts because they pop up once a week at best, and it just comes off as whining.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 11:01 PM
1

Exactly. If you establish attraction first, snap chat is great. Otherwise it is a waste of your time.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:15 PM
0

She wanted to make you a fan. She's 18, she wants attention and validation more than anything. Don't ask her out. Just say you're going to do something and tell her she should come. Girls like this either chase guys or trample them. With this strategy it shows that you want to see her but you are not putting her value above your own.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:04 PM
2

Underrated post.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 02:56 AM
13

I'm going to go against the grain. This woman seems to be submissive and likes for you to lead. She'd probably just straight up admit this shit if you asked her. Im just speaking from my experience, but from what I've observed women who seem to be the most open and vulnerable to male masculinity don't really like rough sex. They usually prefer something more sensual. They've conciously decided to submit to you and sex is more about connection and not you being dominant. In the context of the rel…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 07:33 PM
2

I have the same build as you. I have small joints and bone structure and my frame is a little lanky. I've completely overcome this. My physique is very good. I'm 5'10 and 205lbs. I have a had a few challenges specific to my build. . Overall strength is one. I can't squat or deadlift a lot. It puts a lot of stress on my joints and its taken years of stretching to be able to do a deep squat. I'm also flat footed which makes my hips turn in, my quads tight and my calf doesn't really engage when I w…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 07:26 PM
1

I don't understand why he hasn't been removed yet.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:36 AM
16

It doesn't sound like he puts you on a pedestal. It sounds like a normal healthy relationship to me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 09:15 PM
3

That's all he ever says. Look at his post history.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:31 PM
3

You post the same shit all the time.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 03:20 PM
1

This girl isn't naive. It's not like he dragged her to lunch by the hair. This isn't going to end well. I agree with you. They pretty much went on an instant date. She's going to see him again and you telling her not to is only going to give him more value in her eyes. Hard next. This is the path to frustration and anxiety. You can't recover from this. The disrespect is too great. What are you going to say down the road? "Honey! Remember when that guy had a girlfriend and wanted to fuck you, and…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 09:06 AM
1

Did you read the part where I said you just became the kind of man women wanted? Or the part where said you weren't doing those things for women??
/r/askTRP05/03/17 07:41 PM
1

True. But usually when that happens, it's because of your looks, status, etc... You just became the kind of man that women wanted. Not to say you did it for women. I still see that as work.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 06:33 PM
1

I agree, but I still think it matters. It's about context. If a woman has had sex in committed relationships as opposed to a string of ONS, that's about what kind of person she is. Not just about the number. Someone's sexual history says a lot of about them and it's dangerous to tell guys to not care about that. Women should care too. But most don't. When it comes to sexual dynamics we have to have some type of status or social proof, look as good as we can, be confident, be charismatic, read bo…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 04:38 PM
2

Even though he was responding to my post and I'm 5 days..late.. You answered this better than I could've. Thanks. This whole thread has shown me I'm not alone in my small town struggles. It doesn't mean anything, but it just feels good that other guys can relate so well.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 09:55 PM
2

Exactly. I've been to some really wild clubs or house parties. I just look around and say "nope". And get up and leave. No one is entitled to protect me nor do I expect them to.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 08:01 PM
1

I'm confused. You are having a bunch of one night stands within your small college town and small social group, and that's cool. But you are worried about your reputation if you DON'T sleep with a girl?
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:36 PM
3

It's going to hurt you in college. As you move away from that, not really. If you are fit, well dressed and well groomed but are confident and charismatic...it doesn't hurt you. If you go to a bar to socialize, just shoot pool or play darts and get to know people that way.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:32 PM
1

I don't drink at all. Just never had any interest in it. I guess I did have people perceive me as higher value. I honestly never thought about that. I just knew it felt weird when interacting with tipsy girls. But in retrospect, It probably came off as stoic because I didn't hate on other people if they wanted to drink. I even had someone say to me at a party once, "Whenever you talk I feel like I should listen." This was all later in life though. It wasn't really like that in college. Most peop…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:53 PM
2

You aren't being completely honest. You made a post two months ago pretty much saying the complete opposite. You also made a post about stalking this girl. Now you are angry at yourself like she did something to you, because you were too erratic and unstable to make rational decisions. Dude you need a therapist. Or maybe just somebody to punch you in the face.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 03:20 PM
1

haha, I can totally see that!
/r/askTRP03/03/17 10:44 PM
1

Dude it's just a matter of time before you get endorsed contributor.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:17 PM
33

There is no definitive description of "fuckboy". It's just something girls say to bring guys into their frame. This girl immediately started shit testing you. And you are confused because you think she is a good Christian girl. She is SHOWING you who she is. She also thinks her value is higher than yours.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:15 PM
2

Thank you articulating these fears and worries. This is what you have to think about when dealing with someone that's had these kind of issues.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:40 PM
23

I laughed too fucking hard at this
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 04:25 AM
6

A woman you are not in a relationship with, went out and got drunk with other men. You didn't want her to sleep with you and she slept with your best friend. She's not yours. If your friend wants her let him have her. She's better at this than you.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:06 PM
8

It's sociopathic how quick it is.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 06:59 PM
13

i lived in Asia and LOVED it. But slowly I started to notice everything you said. Every foreign guy I knew thought he married a unicorn and ended up in a sexless marriage. In Asian culture I've noticed the women do EVERYTHING they can to be the perfect girlfriend. But once they get their ring and kids, you no longer exist. Just your money. Some of them will literally push you to fuck other women just to leave them alone.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 06:56 PM
0

Dude that's happened to every guy that post in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:48 AM
2

You fix your image by changing your behavior. You change your behavior but trying to understand why you need to act this way in the first place. Guys probably don't come to you because they feel you are a waste of their time. It honestly just sounds like you want attention more than anything. And other people see that. I don't get the feeling you want to change what you are doing. You just want to change how people perceive it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 05:13 PM
1

You understood just fine. You just didn't like what I was saying. It's fine though. Have a nice day.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 04:43 PM
3

I don't want to sound harsh. I'm just going to shoot straight. How attractive do you think you are? You may not be able to get the attention of the guys you want, and other guys don't exist to you. You also sound like a extrovert. Also.. You are virgin. Or so you say. You are on tinder. You message guys you think are cute on Facebook, and you admit to being a touchy. People don't think you are slut. They think you are an attention seeking cock tease. You probably tell guys you think they are att…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 04:22 PM
2

The average woman is getting 50 to 100 messages a day on any dating app. None of those dudes want to take your friends out??
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 04:02 PM
4

Talk to people when they are bored.. MAYBE go on a date.. Great. Many people use dating apps just for attention and validation. Please don't waste people's time like that. Facebook is perhaps a better alternative.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 08:18 AM
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This is so well put together, my mind is blown. I live in a small town in the U.S. You have described exactly all of my struggles and observations. Exactly. It's crazy how universal these issues can be. I do cold approaches but not a lot because you keep running into the same people. Indirect is key in small towns. It's the only way to go unless you get obvious IOIs. And it never fails that if some girl is smoking hot and i've never seen her before she's going to be way too young for me. Walking…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 09:56 PM
2

I feel you man. You just have to keep doing it until it's not the biggest deal. It makes it better if you have no problem talking to strangers in general. You don't even have to try and get the girls, just be open to talking to new people. I think most guys aren't really terrified of talking to women. They are afraid of making women uncomfortable because of the social implications that may cause. Just go indirect. If you try to engage a girl that is short with you or seems preoccupied, no harm n…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 04:14 PM
2

Before you said her age I thought this girl was like 18. If you have other options and you keep putting up with this, you only want her because she's not giving it up. It's not worth it. And why is she being "conservative" with you if she knows you are seeing and sleeping with other women? It's not like you guys only spend time with each other and this is leading to something serious. She's laughing at how desperate you are and how hard you try. Go back to your "wife" and those other women that …
/r/askTRP26/02/17 01:33 PM
1

Yeah, they throw confetti at you and everyone breaks out in song like a Disney movie. Forgot that happens.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 12:25 PM
22

Great post. I read the link where you mentioned your dad. Your dad is great. Mine tried to bestow the same wisdom and I responded just like you did. I remember being 11 or 12 years old and my dad telling me how women like a man to lead and how relationships don't work with women if you try to make everything 50/50. He even told me the importance of kino and not asking a woman's permission(of course at the time he didn't use that term). I thought he was the worst guy ever. No wonder I was getting…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 05:09 AM
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Great strategy. It seems to have a higher success rate. So many guys try to have sex within the first hour of meeting a girl. That's not doable without proper logistics and even if you succeed there's a lot of Buyer's Remorse. Genuinely, if I find the girl attractive enough to sleep with the first time I like to keep sleeping with her. You make sure the encounter is very sexual, you create build up by working the girl up and calming her down. Then you ease off. She wants you because you are bold…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 12:52 AM
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Translation: "You have to get me drunk so i don't have to consciously decide to fuck. Otherwise, I'm not that type of girl and you have to think I'm special". Go to this party. Be fun, talk to people, be flirty. Acknowledge her as little as possible.. But this isn't a bad a experience. Now you know how she is and how she thinks when isn't wasted. This woman is pathetic. If I were in your situation and that happened to me, it doesn't matter how hot she is my dick would've fell off a cliff.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 11:03 PM
1

That's a fine line. Don't center your life around women, but don't be afraid to approach women. For a lot of guys having the life you want has very little time for women. You are going to have to put some effort into it.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 09:49 PM
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You'd have to watch a few of his videos. Sometimes It's not really about getting women, sometimes he likes to make a scene or he enjoys having an audience. One video of his he was begging people for likes. Also, with all the approaching he does, rejections still get to him. Even though he acts like they don't. All and all though he shows you how easy it is.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 09:33 PM
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You don't have to come up with something amazing to say. And no pick up lines. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp_3ZnE5OjPbQCO_LbhObGA This guy has some good stuff. I think he does have validation issues. But he's not doing anything groundbreaking. He's just not afraid to talk to strangers and makes his interest clear.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:27 PM
6

Daygame is always the answer to this question. But it's the one thing nobody wants to do.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:45 PM
1

Great advice. I think though at some point you'll have to branch out. Because even as your SMV rises, the girls who know you and seen you grow in that social circle may see you as try hard or phony. You'll have to grow, go, and then come back. But this shit is months or maybe years of a process.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:36 PM
1

Women will do this too. If women place you into a category of unattractive they will actually be angry with you for making yourself attractive. As if you lied to them, and they don't want to reassess how they should perceive you. Either that or they will lie and say "Oh i've always found you attractive" Sure ok..
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:32 PM
1

I love being alone. It makes it so much easier to judge what value people add to my life when i'm not so desperate to be around them. Equivalent exchange. It makes friendships and relationships better. It makes it easier to speak your mind when you feel disrespected or bothered by something. It makes you fun to be around because you are own best friend and can make the most out of any interaction. It's because you are always finding ways to entertain yourself. It makes your connections with peop…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:59 PM
2

If a girl is attracted to you, she won't care how old you are. Just talk to her as you would anybody. Be fun, be interesting and be attractive. I'm in my 30s but can pass for early 20s. I've been trying to approach girls closer to my age, but younger girls respond to me the best. And once the attraction or interest is established they don't really show disinterest when I tell them my age. I've had two 18 year olds and a 20 year old show interest. I didn't know their ages, and 2 which pursued me.…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:03 AM
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I've made similar post. Same struggles. You're just going to have to develop thick skin and start approaching attractive women in public. And no limiting beliefs. Make sure to always be looking your best and wear clothes that show off your physique. Until you can change your location, just do everything you can to increase your SMV. And younger girls tend be more receptive than you think. Just look good, chat them up with small talk, make them laugh and be honest about your attraction towards th…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:33 PM
1

Wonder who would downvote something that makes so much sense.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:37 PM
4

I usually don't pay unless we are in a relationship. Or we alternate. When you are getting to know someone you are just two people giving your time and attention to each other. No one should feel obligated to spend money on the other. If a woman expects me to pay she is telling me her time is more valuable than mine and I find that kind of entitlement unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 02:21 AM
2

I agree with what other users have said. I stopped fapping and I had no stamina and it lowered my standards considerably because I was so desperate for sex. All that time and effort seducing unattractive women because I was so desperate for an orgasm...and then being a two pump chump... Never again.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:29 PM
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Fucking preach it dude. Its not about the numbers. It's about effort and degree of difficulty. There is none whatsoever for a woman to get laid.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 07:43 PM
1

The closest city is about an hour and 15 away. It's something i've considered. I just work a lot and i'd have to make a day of it. As for being used to black guys? Well I don't know. But day game is a numbers game. And there would be much more attractive women to approach. Small towns aren't all bad. I just need to go somewhere where I have a higher SMV and perhaps lower obesity rates.. I have a buddy, a black bodybuilder, that moved for a job to some nowhere town in Oregon with maybe 6,000 peop…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:29 AM
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I liked /u/MattyAnon format. Fitness: I'm in pretty good shape. It's probably my best asset. I always dress nice and make sure my clothes show my physique. I always turn heads when I walk into a room. Finance: Just getting by. I lost a great job and an opportunity to make 6 figures a while back. Poor life decisions. I'm still getting back on my feet but its going to be a loooong road. It's not something I dwell on. It's just a task to be completed. Social: I have a lot of great friends and peopl…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:34 PM
4

You accurately described my experiences. Not all of us are in prime locations. My location is similar. It's very hard to find a decent looking woman passed the age of 20 that isn't single and or doesn't have kids. Some of us just make due guys.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:03 PM
1

It's the same in law school. You don't even need game. Just go drinking and clubbing with them.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:01 PM
7

I would've entertained myself but asking what her problem was, if I noticed she was pissed. We should make a thread and have everyone post their "good girl" stories.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:29 AM
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OP could you elaborate or give more backstory? I find field reports/ examples like these to be the most helpful and informative. One of the worst offenders I knew was a school teacher. Her social media was full of spiritual memes and uplifting posts. Nothing trashy or sexual. She slept with 3 of my friends. One she dated and cheated on constantly. She called him over for a hook up like a year later and gave him an STD. At one point she went through like 10 guys in 2 months. Now she's dating some…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 02:50 AM
2

You can borrow my cards.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:30 PM
1

What did I do with card? Are we dueling like Yugioh?
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:23 PM
0

I'm black and we have similar experiences. The only women that bold enough to approach me are fat or just overall unattractive. Too bad you hate me because I'm black. Have a nice day.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:08 PM
2

I don't personally see the benefits of nofap. I tried it. It made me desperate and really bad at sex. I didn't have any stamina. I just stay away from porn.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:59 PM
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You have a victim's mentality and you are looking for attention and validation. I can literally see the crazy in your eyes. Maybe other guys can too. That's why they don't approach you. Gold post.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:34 PM
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Some girls fuck rather easy and then use that to try to leverage you into some type of relationship. Never take any girl seriously that does that. You just met and had sex in your car, not even a bed.. And now she wants to pull back.. No you can't go backwards. She should have had the self restraint to not do that if she wanted something more. You made the right call dude.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:14 PM
1

Any time I see a girl playfully slapping a guy, I know she's attracted to the guy. Some people just don't like being touched in the face. It's like a boundary thing. But IMO you are thinking way too much into this. Girls I know playfully hit me all the time.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:49 AM
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I don't know why you got downvoted. Dude cheated on the girl, never makes sure she enjoys the sex and got so mad at her that he got physical with her. She's a dumbass for even staying with you bro. You have a lot of self reflection to do. Maybe you should just do fuck buddies. You are shit for LTRs. No sane woman is going to put it with that, and if they do they deserve what they get. She was probably planning to branch swing back to her ex for a while though. I'm sure they've been fucking behin…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 07:00 PM
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TL:DR, Wore a chick down with alcohol.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 09:28 PM
2

You're not being a child. You feel like you have to put up with this and you are somewhat relieved when she isn't around. You act like this is normal and every other woman will treat you the same. You're whole mentality is opposite of the red pill. You are the prize my man. You don't need to take this shit from any woman. From any body.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 11:38 PM
2

I wasn't expecting to read this, damn! Screaming at you over the phone, throwing in your face failures of past relationships, wanting to go out drinking with female friends AND telling you she can cheat on you anytime she wants? And that shit about the coworker... Man remove this woman from you life.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 11:33 PM
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We have a winner. OP this woman is probably manipulating the shit out of you. You talk about how great you life is and successful you are. This woman broke you and is trying to bring you into her frame. I bet she does this all time.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:32 PM
2

Thanks! A good example of femininity would probably be your sensitive reaction to my post. I do appreciate that. I feel alive now. And fedora tip for the info about Aspergers women. You saved me so much heartache with that serious response to a humorous statement.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:01 PM
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I was talking about errors in my judgement and what I learned from it. I felt it was relevant to the main post. No need for your profound words.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:46 AM
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This in a nutshell is why I don't think I'll ever get married. What do I gain when I'm with someone that is so caught up in their emotions they can't appreciate logical and rational discussions? Also, don't care much for fairness. Women need a rock. They like a man that can take control and make decisions. What the hell do I get? Responsibility and liability. I'm just going to vet for women with aspergers. Fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:37 AM
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I noticed this too, but after the fact. I had an ex gf, we dated some years back and we always had thought provoking conversations. Or so I thought... Really, it was me being in deep thought about things and sharing a point and how I analytically came to a conclusion about something. Every now and then she'd add some input and i would take what she said and factor it into my point. It gave the impression that she was deep but I was guiding the interaction. We've stayed in touch. She's told me sh…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:08 AM
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I don't know why you got downvoted. Women can be logical and rational, they just fucking hate to do it. They think their emotions are more important than any type of critical reasoning. Women mentally have the capability to hold any job a man can minus a job that is physically demanding. But many don't want to make the mental effort and commitment to obtain these type of jobs. But they feel they should have it anyway because their feelings about wanting that job trump rational understanding of i…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:57 AM
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I struggle with this all the time. I like logical thought provoking conversations. Girls only want emotions. They don't want to think. You chain together positive emotions and sexualize the interaction and you are good. Sometimes I don't get anything out of it. The only logical woman I know works in mathematics. She's borderline genius but completely unfeminine. I would totally sleep with her anyway but I don't want the fallout. I was talking online to some pianist that played at professional ve…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:59 AM
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Don't know you dude, but proud of you and I'm inspired reading that.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:28 AM
2

I think you are just as bad as her OP. You just want to have sex so you got into a relationship with an emotionally unstable woman that causally fucked 10 guys in one year and was cycling 2 at a time. Now you want to ghost her? Pathetic. She didn't do a fucking thing to you. I don't think she is relationship material at all, but no need to fuck her up like that. Just tell her you don't feel like this is working out. She'll probably keep sleeping with you and you won't have the obligation of bein…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 07:40 AM
1

Exactly. Women treat their perceived status like life or death. If they feel like you can tank their status you are literally a threat to them. And usually the more attractive the woman is, the more hyper defensive she is about people's perception of her.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:09 AM
2

Damn dude, did you write this for me? I live in a small town in the Deep South. I lift, dress well, can be the life of the party and quick witted. I'm also black. When I talk to girls, some have literally been offended that I approached them. My country ass, tobacco chewing, white buddy that works off shore is killing. He's in the triple digits. He's pulled girls that were out with their boyfriends. He talks terrible. But he's jacked and funny. I can't tell the number of times I've seen some smo…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:04 AM
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You did great. They always want to come back around the holidays because they are feeling particularly desperate. Had a girl ghost me and then contact me on thanksgiving some months later. She said she wanted to apologize. We had seen each after she ghosted me but didn't speak. But after she texted me and I saw her, she expected me to speak to her. I told her I'm not interested in giving my time to someone that acts the way she does. Ceased contact.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:05 AM
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I think what you are going through is normal OP. I have a female friend that is in EXACTLY your shoes. She wants a committed relationship. But she is either meeting guys that are socially awkward and turned her off, or guys that are confident and attractive that just want to sleep with her. She has a hard time saying no to those guys. Even when she tells them she wants commitment, they dance around it, ignore or just tell her they don't want that. And her ass can't help but be turned on when guy…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 04:07 PM
5

Have some guy your just fucking during the week, while you meet a dude for conversation and coffee on the weekends? But he's potentially Mr. Right? What self respecting man is trying to be that fool?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 03:51 PM
3

Thank you for saying this. I thought the same thing. After his first wife, he was connected to a string of party girls and Instagram "models". He wants some woman with a sketchy past that he can "save" to boast his ego and give him some white knight complex. I mean Ciara was with 50 cent and Bow Wow. No..
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:49 AM
3

I seen that myself. But I'm not interested in the "reformed" girls either. You had a few one night stands, that's fine. I see things in how you value them though. What I mean is.. If something is of little importance to you, don't give it to me in hopes that it means something. Then you play me as a fool. So if a girl is very casual about sex, then why should I value something that you don't value yourself? And why do you suddenly value it with me? Personally it seems like the recipe to be someb…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:35 AM
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I really don't have much problem with what you said. And I appreciate your articulation. But I think people's past matters for risk assessment and behavioral patterns. Also, I like for people to be able to explain their actions. Why they do what they do, and how they felt. I don't ask them for this. But being introspective is something I value if I'm looking for a serious relationship. Otherwise, I could care less. Also, many women never learn anything from having multiple sexual partners becaus…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:58 AM
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I don't know if any what she said is true. But you look like a angry little faggot with this post.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:59 AM
13

I think you may be in the wrong subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:56 AM
1

I honestly believe based on where you live and some social groups, the women get laid more than men. I'm guessing this woman is at least moderately attractive. I don't know any woman that went out to get laid and failed. Dudes fail all the time. It's just part of it. I think at any decent sized college where people party every weekend, women are fucking all the time. And for those in that type of clique, you can probably apply an 80/20 ratio. 20 percent of the guys are fucking like 80 percent of…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:35 PM
1

Because you should feel like you are getting the best a man has to offer. And he should try like he would for any woman. And vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:17 PM
0

Exactly. That's how you have to think.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:30 PM
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What does it say about you when a man acts likes this and you still show interest in him? What incentive does a man have to treat you as a priority when he can periodically ignore your text, only text for logistics and you still see him?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 03:51 AM
2

Ok
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:11 AM
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What are you like 16? What is it with young people wanting everyone's snapchat? This girl is testing the waters. She's young and you are her test subject. You guys are in a controlled environment where there isn't any worry of you physically escalating with her. And if you were probably a forward and aggressive young fella she wouldn't even make eye contact with you. She's getting an ego boast and practicing her flirting with you, while enjoying pushing boundaries. Your not going to stop this th…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:13 PM
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Do this. There is nothing wrong with stating what you expect. Women like men that can be direct. As long you as you are not hostile or needy. Sometimes giving short vague responses just comes off as annoying and you look like a troll.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:39 PM
2

Exactly. Sometimes I just like to be direct, and cut through the bullshit.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:33 PM
1

Your friend sounds like my best friend. He was with a woman for 4 years that was one of the worst people you could ever meet in your life. She was cheating on him a month into the relationship. In his face. She assaulted him all the time. One time she sprayed air freshener in his eyes and when he pushed her away from him she flopped on the ground like Lebron James. He's gone back to her so many times. And even tried to recently. I just accept that he is a faggot. And now i no longer have disappo…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:24 AM
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Fantastic post. I was going to say that it is one of the qualities I dislike the most in women. Then I saw your username. NAWALT? hahaha The women I trust the most and depend on are the ones that can own their shit and take responsibility for their actions. I think society has given women multiple "soft landings" where they can be absolved of their mistakes and blame it on some type of system. Maybe unrelated, but a few years ago I met these two privileged turkish girls. One was absolutely gorge…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:29 PM
1

Location really does play a role. I've always known that, based on my experiences. But for now I have to make the best of what I have. There is a larger town maybe 1hour and 15mins. from where I live. There are lots of things to do and they have a good size college. I've been thinking of driving up that way on the weekends and day gaming. It just seemed silly to me to put that kind of effort into this. But I have to remind myself, how bad do I want this?
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:09 PM
2

Yeah. This seems like a relationship advice. It would be different if he was sharing some kind of theory. You can't open the flood gates with dudes posting stuff like that here. Then you'll have validation seekers and the humble brags coming. EDIT: He's also posted about this on 3 other subreddits in the last month.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 01:11 PM
1

What's the most consistent way you have of meeting them?
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:51 AM
1

I guess it's just about vetting. One issue I have is, if girls know you don't drink then some calibrate to you. They have no problems doing drunken hook ups, but with you they expect more comfort building and something more serious because you don't enjoy being wasted. I try to be careful of that trap.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:50 AM
1

There ya go OP.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:42 AM
1

Thanks for your feedback. Do you not deal with a lot of plausible deniability? Or just different types? Do you do a lot of cold approaches?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:35 PM
1

K
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:14 PM
2

A lot of times it's just about status. Women don't want to be seen associating with men that her peers and loved ones may have unfavorable views towards, even if she finds you physically attractive. Tanking a woman's perceived status is like death to them. You have no idea how much it means to them. I once had a woman tell me she would rather date a closet homosexual than a black man. I've heard a lot of bad things about Italy. I'd cautious about the Irish too. But for the most part, as long as …
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:38 PM
1

It took me a very long time to be able to make eye contact with random attractive women. And even now, sometimes I have to concuously put myself in the state of mind to do it. But state of mind makes all the difference. If you force it, people can tell. Just practice doing it until it feels natural. And you may even enjoy it. Once that happens, you will come across as confident without seeming creepy.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:46 PM
2

You were. No matter how good she was to you. She was still giving you sex in exchange for commitment when before she was giving sex away for nothing. It's like a really wealthy guy blowing money on a ton of stupid shit and being completely irresponsible financially. But then when he wants to give you a few dollars and expects you to be gracious and appreciative. He wants you to value something that he himself has no value for. And he feels like he can do that because it's much easier for him to …
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:54 PM
1

You said you guys had drinks. Some girls just get touchy feely when they drink. Which is why some guys take it as an IOI and still get nowhere. I'm just saying. It's still stupid. Next her anyways. Either she was too tipsy to not know she was giving off "I want you" signs to your friend or she wasn't and was just doing it conciously. She got to go, unless you just want sex.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:36 PM
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Objectively, you guys may be the same in SMV. If you dress well and are very physically fit, as you say. But I'm leary about you saying she's a former cheerleader at a big 10 school. She could be some reformed party girl approaching the wall. Does she know how much you make? Also, it doesn't really sound like you seduced her. She had already decided she was going to fuck you. I'm guessing she has done that a lot. I think you have to work on internalizing your own value. You go for 4 to 6s becaus…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:06 PM
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No problem.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:18 PM
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You'll have to cut your losses on this one man.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:19 AM
1

Underrated post.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:31 PM
1

She thought you were going to dump her when you came over. That's why she was saying that pussy was yours and made that statement about her bullshit. It was her way of making sure if everything was ok.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:12 PM
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It depends on her background. But from my experiences and what I've observed, a lot of Asian women don't like public displays of affection. Especially the ones not really westernized or strictly associate with other Asians. And they generally take no initiative in the romance besides being in your presence. You have to work slow. That alpha male shit frightens a lot of them. But when they are alone with you, they can be very affectionate. But still never really sexually aggressive. You can get m…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:17 PM
1

True that. But I hate that BS where some time passes and maybe you see the woman out somewhere and she comes up to you with that fake crap about how it's good to see you and pretend you guys are friends. She feels like she won something by pulling you into her game of fake niceness and if you refuse to play she'll make a big deal about you being sensitive or feigning ignorance of her disrespect of you. So if I'm cutting ties, sometimes I'll call them out on their shit. So that way if they see me…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:37 PM
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True. If you apply this to everyone, not just women, it makes your life easier. People will also respect your time more. I even do this when people ask for me help and don't appreciate it.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:28 PM
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Trying this. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:24 PM
1

A lot of Asian girls act this way with a guy. Just so you know, it won't get much better than this. A lot of vanilla duty sex, while being uptight in public and being friendly and fun with everybody but you.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:22 PM
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I love it. Cancels your date, doesn't offer a different time, but still expects your attention. It depends for me. Sometimes I just delete the number. Sometimes I'm bored and ask them why would I continue talking to them? Sometimes I like for women to know you can't act like that and still expect to receive a man's attention. But thirsty men don't help that case...
/r/askTRP29/01/17 07:28 PM
1

It sounded like he does. Well..until he deleted his post.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:08 PM
1

You should've been more direct and escalated in person. It seems like you didn't give off much of a sexual vibe. It also it sounds like she is just one of those touchy feely girls when she is tipsy and you took that as an IOI. You guys changed to a new environment with new people to interact with and you no longer existed to her. And she didn't verbally give you her number or ask for yours, she gave you a business card. Her interest level was never that high and you were already in a uphill batt…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:06 PM
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Is she an introvert? Do you know anything about her dating/sexual history? Dude this girl sounds asian.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:47 PM
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OP, this woman won't fuck you because she doesn't want to feel used. She's sucking you off. She's already being used. She isn't your "typical slut" but you've never taken her out on a date, and she swallows your load while you've been some stand in gynecologist. And she's totally ok with drinking and coming to your place... These are the type of women that give you rim jobs and let you stick up their butt be make you wait for "regular" sex. This girl is not conservative. She's in denial and imma…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:05 AM
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Her date was near my home. We made out after the convo. She gave me a blowjob a few weeks ago. I didn't think any of this was relevant but I guess I need to prove I'm "Alpha" with every post. Go find something else to get a hard on about.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:06 AM
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You hit it on the head. I have a female friend who tells me EVERYTHING. She was going to fuck this guy. They have been talking for a few days. She'd just gone on a date with him ran into me(really small town). She told me about him and then me and her started talking about life shit. We got a lot of history. She texted me a few days later and told me she decided not to fuck the guy. She said our convo reminded her how much she enjoys thought provoking conversations. She said all the guy wanted t…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 01:50 AM
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The tension dies when someone orgasms. And all of that is considered sex to me. A woman is just as vulnerable if your penis or finger is inside of her. And it says a lot about a woman if she thinks tasting a penis isn't s big deal but her vagina is sacred. It's almost like she's working backwards. Would it make feel better if woman had PIV sex with a bunch of guys and received mutual pleasure and felt like sucking them off was a big deal... or if she got on her knees and made it a point to swirl…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:04 PM
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What are you asking exactly? I never take girls like this seriously. I mean enjoy this but I would never pursue a relationship with this type of girl. Maybe something more casual. There is something not mentally healthy about a woman that will put a penis in her mouth, taste your cum, ALSO let you put your finger in her vagina but then insist you guys don't have "sex". rolls eyes This woman isn't conservative/prudish. She's retarded.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:45 PM
1

Why did you dump her?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:50 AM
1

That's what i would do. She's obviously just using him for validation. It may be a long play to get her out. Its just not worth the effort for me. But each to their own.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 04:28 AM
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I think you are right. Trying to get you to reply on Tinder...telling you she likes your confidence and then cutting at you for changing your bio.. This girl is entertaining herself with you chasing her. She thinks she has pulled you into her frame and she honestly thinks you are beneath her. You have to flip the dynamic and appear to be less invested than she is and be ok if she stops responding to you. How about something like "Thanks for you support. I keep matching with women who want attent…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 04:24 AM
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Me too. But there could be some validity to what he is saying. Women tend to let their current state decide how they feel about something. If she attaches you with high emotions, she may no longer feel the need to see you when you are out of site. And generally cold approach is about polarity to create attraction and often little comfort building. But if you give off those crazy vibes but then control the interaction and bring it down yourself, it's like it feels more genuine to her. It's just s…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:38 AM
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