Obviously TRP speaks against oneitis but what do you specifically think about infatuations? I've been hit hard by infatuation twice and it mentally / emotionally drained the shit out of me both times for at least 6 months each time. When a girl gives me an emotional response just from looking at her it makes every single other girl uninteresting and unattractive completely to the point where I would just ignore every other girl giving me blatant IOIs. My infatuation makes me think this girl is sooo special and desirable and I always think they're WAY hotter than they really are. Like I'll think she is an 11/10 and my friend will say shes a 7. Are infatuations a sort of a lie? More thoughts and advice? I understand oneitis is dangerous but these emotions are just so blinding.