So I’ve been talking to this girl for awhile now and it seems like we were moving towards a LTR. She has a ton of green flags (Christian, good family, low n count, pretty quiet and laid back etc) and the sex has been good. We talk throughout the day a lot and she has come over to fuck a couple nights a week for the past few weeks.

Last night however, we had some plans for her to come over and stay the night after she went out with her friends and were texting/snapping throughout the night when around 12 she stopped responding. I texted her at 1 to come over with no response. She mentioned she was getting really drunk tonight earlier, and I’m honestly pretty sussed out and feel disrespected. She’s never really pulled this before and is usually always texting me when she’s drunk and goes out with her friends.

How do i play this? Im pretty fucking pissed honestly because I genuinely thought of this girl as someone I’d be willing to date unlike 95% of college girls I’ve met but this calls into question my trust for her totally. She doesn’t seem like the type to go fuck some other guy when she’s clearly emotionally invested and she could’ve easily just blacked out or had her phone die but still.