21 here. At bars older people are depressing and out of shape. I’m not having a very good youth. I’m definitely not gonna be able to find time To live like I’m young until I’m much older. What’s it gonna be like as a 30s guy at a music festival? 40s? What if I’m on TRT? Older guys I see on TRT still date older women. Older guys I know are not risk takers. How do you become a risk taker as an older guy?