There are many posts in here and in afTRP about ex(s) and 90% of them can be summated under one of a few similar buckets:

  • How do I get back with my ex

  • my ex wants to . . . (meet etc...)

  • how do I turn my ex into a FWB

  • how to deal with my ex.

Chances are that in each case she's an ex either because she dumped you, or because she did something that forced you to dump her, something like cheating, moving far away, asking for an open relationship and the likes.

In a parallel world there are many posts about guys who's girlfriend is either close, too close, or utterly fucking one or more of her ex boyfriends. Well in these cases you can rest assured that it was the boyfriend who dumped their sorry asses because either he was tired of them tired of their shit, playing dread games, or did something that forced the gf to dump them something like cheating, moving far away, asking for an open relationship and the likes.

Do you see a pattern there? A patter that is reversed?

So, if you're not playing by TRP rules, don't come to TRP to fix a situation created by Blue Pill behavior. Something fucked up happened? Learn the lesson and move on, take your invaluable experience and apply it to the next plate.

TL;DR: If you want to turn your gf into a FWB dump her for no reason when everything is great. (Not really, better read the semi-wall or text.)

http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes/