Hi guys,

I am about to visit a girl in Italy that I met on exchange and we were kind of dating during the exchange, so we wanted to take this further. On the background she just broke up with her boyfriend of 7 years.

Now that the day of me going there is coming closer, she starts saying that she misses the past and doesn't know if she is ready to move on and that she thinks that I have no real feelings. I told her that I am going there anyway since I am free and bought a ticket and I don't accept that her behavior has changed so suddenly and I say that there is no discussion. So she accepts this but tells me that she can't promise anything while I am there.

What should I do if I arrive? I stay in her house during my trip. I guess if I realize that she is not testing me, and the situation is serious, I will just leave her house and go around on my own or take a plane back home.