Men who went from unattractive to attractive, what changes did you notice in your life?

NeedForOasis · 2019-02-17T09:58:33+00:00

I was about one stone overweight when I took the red pill, and for months I’d just game girls when I went out, I’ve always been funny so once I learned how to escalate I started doing well, but my look didn’t change.

Anyway, fast forward to today, I’ve been lifting for 2 years, sit around 6-10% body fat any time, visible muscles and a little vascularity, and I wear better fitting clothes.

I like being able to go about my day-to-day feeling strong and having good posture, I’ve always been confident but even my confidence sky rocketed once my body started looking good.

I wouldn’t say that I get a higher level of girl because I’ve always been able to game the odd 8 into a bang, what’s different in that domain is that I don’t have to try as hard, and the way that girls have sex with me is a lot more intense than it was a few years ago.

wanker7171 · 2019-02-17T09:09:16+00:00

I have a good take on this as I went from being fit to obese back to fit. The main thing I noticed was how much more girls would make themselves available to me. When I was overweight an opportunity for a hangout would be avoided but as I lost the weight it felt as if girls were hoping for more time with me.

An example being when I was going to a group hangout with a girl I had been trying to close on but I got the date confused. I texted the girl asking how many of her friends were joining us tonight and she reminded me it was next week but that we could hangout tonight if I wanted to. Ended up just having her come to my house for a movie instead and closed that night. This is just one example but if I had been overweight the girl would not have jumped at another chance to see me.

BigDickEnergy123 · 2019-02-17T22:25:27+00:00

Girls let me get away with a lot more shit. It's much easier to be a dick to them and have them forgive me/still want me.

I can show interest and they won't be turned off by it. (I know girls like to chase, but if you're more attractive, it doesn't really matter as much.)

I get a lot more sex now.

People are just generally nicer to me/offer me more opportunities and don't avoid me nearly as much.

On the contrary, some guys are more likely to put you down more than others. (the ones who are losers/or insecure do this for the most part.)

renfsu · 2019-02-18T01:23:41+00:00

I'm a lot more attractive in general now vs before but there's also a difference between me just getting a haircut and me two weeks later. I get one, then women are doing double takes, and it's not common that they'll walk past without looking me in the eye. Two weeks later, only the women that know me still seem to show interest, I don't get the double takes, and there isn't much eye contact with passing women. In the past, when I was skinnier and less attractive, I was just another average joe. I don't think I ever 100% felt like a girl liked me or saw me as attractive in those times.

Title	Men who went from unattractive to attractive, what changes did you notice in your life?
Author	kyle768
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	February 17, 2019 8:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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