hey guys, i don't normally post because I would say that I've become moderately competent in trp stuff.

I asked this really hot girl in my university foreign language class to coffee a couple weeks ago to study and it went really well and we ended up talking for a few hours. fast forward a few days and I spontaneously invite her to my place to make dinner with me and watch a movie. We ended up making out for a long time on the couch and I specifically told her I didn't want to have sex that night, but we did anyway. It was great and I know she had a really good time so we kept on texting outside of class and made plans to study last valentines even though it would technically only be our third time going out.

Things didn't really go bad, so much as it was just kind of dull. She said she didn't want to walk to my apartment again (where we are it's really cold atm) so I agreed to go to her place. Btw she had work the next morning so I couldn't stay over. She looked tired when I saw her and I thought maybe I shouldn't have walked a mile to see her. But then while we were studying in her room she lightened up a bit and we joked a bit. It was weird though because we only cuddled and watched netflix when we were done studying. She fell asleep in my arms a couple times and didn't seem interested in doing anything. Naturally, that's totally okay. After a couple hours of cuddling I kissed her quick and let her rest.

Last sunday we had plans to go to dinner and a movie but she bailed bc she had a lot of school work. I responded lightheartedly and said she would have to make it up to me and she agreed.

I feel like I'm losing. We don't text as much and she doesn't really seem that enthusiastic. It sucks because I feel an emotional connection after having sex with her, I thought that she liked me. I like her and I can respect what she wants but it feels really confusing. I hardly text her that much so I definitely haven't overwhelmed her in anyway. I guess I'm wondering what I should do, thanks guys for reading this.