LTR's family wants us to get married?

itiswr1tten · 2019-02-21T19:40:38+00:00

Two things:

You answered correctly. A man makes his own choices and you don't owe anyone shit.

Two and most important, this DIDN'T COME FROM YOUR LTR. I have a strong suspicion mommy and sister are aligned in their selfish desire to see you married and mommy is lying.

Seems like your LTR is rock solid. Mention it to her and ensure you're still on the same page. United front against the bullshit just like always. You're good buddy

chazthundergut · 2019-02-21T18:46:49+00:00

Do you make major life decisions based on the desires of someone else's family?

HurricaneHugues · 2019-02-21T23:41:07+00:00

Are u not a man anymore. Tell them to please stay in your lane, and you will make an appropriate decision when the time is right. Then finish off by telling them that you don't police their relationships, and to stay out of yours.

So fucking what you're keeping an "easy way out" as the sister put it. Rightfully so, you should have an easy way out. See that's the first thing that came to her mind, the exit, the divorce. The commitment itself is not important to them. It's the opportunity for financial sodomy in court, psychological warfare, and divorce. She wants your exit out ofbthe relationship to be perilous and dangerous, riddled with mines, booby traps, and surprises. Your exit just cannot be clean. You must shackled so that escaping is a misery for you. It just can't be easy.

Fuck them man. Has your girl been pestering you about it? Tell her family to focus instead on their own relationships and not to worry about yours. Then tell them that's the last time you'll allow this being brought uo by them because it concerns your life and not theirs. Be a man.

LondonChad1999 · 2019-02-21T23:58:29+00:00

Haha dude run. Trust me you will regret it later.

lilgoatedboy · 2019-02-21T18:58:24+00:00

I think you should be honest with your LTR, you've been together 12 years? IMO that's shitty if you know she wants to get married and you have no interest in it. It's obvious that she went to her family about this situation. You're a big boy now if you don't want to get married tell her, if you do tell her.. but make your intentions known you aren't 22 anymore. It's not very redpill to be so selfish that you're hurting someone else.

MisplacedSanityP · 2019-02-21T17:59:49+00:00

Who cares what her family thinks? As for if they pressure your LTR, and she becomes a problem, next her. Simply tell her you aren't getting married if she brings it up. Or brush it aside and fuck her instead to avoid the topic. I don't really see the problem here.

[deleted] · 2019-02-21T18:33:50+00:00

Demote to plate

MorpheusSwag · 2019-02-21T18:53:34+00:00

Wtf? It's only been 12 years? So weird that they'd want you to make a decision about her so soon. Nah bro keep spinning plates like a rational male would. Hard next.

LTR's family wants us to get married?

Comments

"It's just that I would hate to end the relationship because my LTR gets brainwashed into marriage by her mother and sister."

"But I'd hate to be forced to do so, especially when she's just getting pressured into it by her mother/sister."

Title	LTR's family wants us to get married?
Author	tenxs1
Upvotes	2
Comments	24
Date	February 21, 2019 5:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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