How many of you had a moment in your relationship when you found out your GF lied about her lay number....How did you find out?

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T09:32:54+00:00

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rebuildingMyself · 2014-09-29T11:06:34+00:00

My recent ex fed me the three partner count lie gave me shit about my give partner count (telling me that's kinda high).

Fast forward a year and a half and she blurts out one confession after the other. First was she cheated on me, second her count was probably higher than 10. Obviously I dumped her lying ass because she's not marriage material to me anymore.

In her desperate hamsterriffic attempts to win me back she said her count really was seven, she never cheated but was "testing" me to see if I'd sleep with another woman (was working on it), and that I'm am asshole for not forgiving her since she confessed.

Burner1701 · 2014-09-29T13:33:21+00:00

The girl I ended up marrying said she was a virgin when I met her, and a while later we moved in together and had sex for her first time. A few years later we got married. 17 years later we're still happily married, and yes she has never done anything with any guy but me. They aren't all sluts and liars.

rpmanwithaquestion · 2014-09-29T13:03:16+00:00

It was my first love, the one that taught me that women aren't perfect creatures and to never believe anything they say. Actually it didn't teach me that, a few confused years later I found TRP and that taught me. The relationship just left me broke and confused.

She'd told me her number was 7, I guess she was going for a believe number that was still below 10. One of my friends asked her while she was drunk and it jumped up to 9.

Now I know it was probably around 30, luckily I have nothing to do with her any more and have nothing but pity for her current boyfriend. I'm sure he has no idea about her whorish past.

[deleted] · 2014-10-01T21:39:57+00:00

The girl I'm with told me she had been with THREE. Two before her husband and then her husband (yeah, she's married. Hang on... it gets better).

I had disclosed my # before we got together. After the deed was done, she whispered in my ear: '18.'

It took me a second to see what she was getting at... but I said back, '4.'

I was her fourth.

Fast forward a few months. She was working one night out of town and in the hotel with a co-worker (female). She likes to call to let me listen in on what she's up to. She'll drop little lines or hints for my benefit and stuff like that.

Anyways, the talk of sexual partners came up. Her friend said she had only been with her husband. When she was asked, she said 4.

No wait... FIVE.

Now it's one thing if you can't remember if you've been with 95 or 96 people, but you can't confuse THREE or FOUR.

So I played it cool. It did get brought up a day later. She back tracked and said it had always been four. On the defensive scale of 1-10, she was a 1, but still a defensive nonetheless.

Fast forward a month later, the issue was brought up AGAIN. I blow it off and joke about it. Why? I'm LAYING THE BAIT. I laugh it off. She says something to the effect of, 'What difference does it make?'

And this is where women get in trouble. They can't remember what bullshit lies they told to begin with and they can't keep their stories straight.

Another lie? BS story?

When we first hooked up, she said she had NEVER let anyone go down on her and only recently had let her husband do that. During that act, when she was all wound up, she was telling me how good I was... the best... so much better than her husband.

If it's really a two man race and I get the gold, that's ok I suppose... but it's nothing to brag about if you're 'better' than one other guy.

Fast forward a few months... and after the act she's raving about how great it was, I am, etc.

'Well, better than him, right?'

Uhhh.... no. She had this confused look on her face. No, LOTS of guys have done that!

I have no problem with that. Who cares? But if you're going to tell a story, STICK TO IT.

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T05:52:10+00:00

When I was fourteen, I dated a lass of the same age for three months. She stated that she had only had sexual relations with one guy...the crater left between her legs indicated that it had indeed been a lie, and a mass extinction of femininity had actually taken place; akin to throwing a sausage down a hallway.

[deleted] · 2014-09-29T09:33:30+00:00

I think 3-4x the amount the woman tells you gives a fairly accurate number (for the average woman).

gt35r · 2014-09-29T19:48:34+00:00

I suspected my LTR of lying about it (didn't bring it up with her though). What's funny is she claimed she was a virgin but had about 4 boyfriends before me during middle school and halfway through high school. I never got a for sure answer but I can tell you I knew the guys and had a feeling they wouldn't have stuck around unless they were doing some type of horizontal tango. I have 0 solid proof so I didn't call her out on it but it certainly felt unsettling to have that in the back of my head the whole time. I didn't bother ever asking her about it. She was a little too experienced to be a virgin IMO.

SeekingTheWay · 2014-10-15T09:15:26+00:00

why trust her saying she is not hypergamous. hypergamy is unversal truth. can't deny it, can't hide from it. you might just as well accept it and learn to live with it AND use it for your own selfish purposes (read: drenching your cock in pussy until it gets wrinkles)

thereddespair · 2014-10-22T19:25:06+00:00

I think its a fair assumption that any woman who even looks remotely worth it has had more than the same quality in men.

Have you ever tried a 3some?

[deleted] · 2015-01-26T18:28:29+00:00

ITT: People date girls that lie about the number of partners that have been with.

I am guess i am lucky, in the fact that that has never been an issue for me, i.e. no one has lied.

martypete · 2014-09-29T08:52:56+00:00

When I first met my girlfriend, she said she slept with 3 other guys and a couple of girls before, but a year and a half later I find out she was actually a virgin (the girls don't count). She told me when we got really drunk together and was very noticibly embarased about telling me this secret. So sometimes a lie about a girls number can turn out better than expected.

[deleted] · 2015-01-26T18:24:12+00:00

So i can see breaking up with some one becuse they lied to you, which she admitted latter. i personally would of looked at it the greater scheme of things. and see if it was something i could work past but thats me.

and srsly?

I also had this feeling like that she got to have her fun and I didn't I'm the man and should have more lays then her

Holy shit man. were one of the kids that threw a fit when some got something you didnt?

grow up.

Title	How many of you had a moment in your relationship when you found out your GF lied about her lay number....How did you find out?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	10
Comments	20
Date	September 28, 2014 9:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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