How does one become charming? What things in a person charms you the most?

ironrape12 · 2019-02-26T00:03:39+00:00

“Charm” is really just making a situation more enjoyable for everyone.

I like to include random people in my conversations when I go out.

Last week while I was paying for my woman’s makeup, there was a female cashier listening in on our conversation about how pineapple does go on pizza.

I started talking to her about our conversation and asked her to decide if pineapple DOES in fact go on pizza.

She gave us her answer and I teased both woman on how wrong they were. It was a great couple of minutes of fun conversation. I left both my woman and that cashier with smiles on their faces.

Hope this helps!

dukes1998 · 2019-02-26T03:23:02+00:00

Make people feel good. Make them feel at ease and not judged and they’ll tell you anything. People just want someone to genuinely listen to them.

That and lighthearted witty humor if that’s your thing.

Big_Red_suppository · 2019-02-26T01:11:12+00:00

Charm is a side effect of having all your ducks in a row so to speak. You add to an interaction because you arent trying to get anything out of it. Creepy people pull a chainsaw out and charming people have a chainsaw available if its needed, but if not it doesnt matter because they arent providing a tool rental service. They just happen to have a lot of tools, most likely from experience, but it isnt how they butter their bread. It's an allegory of course dont purchase a chainsaw unless you really need to.

Battletoad101 · 2019-02-26T01:51:37+00:00

Define charm, IMO the most charming person can get away with anything.

Title	How does one become charming? What things in a person charms you the most?
Author	AFK707
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Date	February 25, 2019 11:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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