I'm a young guy. Moved a few days ago to a foreign country to attend university here.

I've known about TRP for half a year, and in my country I've had success with women. However, after moving here I can't help but feel sad and uneasy. I guess it's that I don't miss the girls I've had, it's the ones I didn't have before moving that I miss. Inbound for 17 year old experts screaming "sperg scarcity mindset" before going back to jerking off.

The people here are different, almost judgemental on first glance, everything's 3x more expensive than where I used to live and I'll have to work 10-15 hours as a student to make ends meet without burdening my parents. Spoke with my brother and dad earlier, holy shit was it difficult holding back the tears. Call me a beta faggot pussy niceguy™ (Uncle Vasiliy don't copystrike me),️ but as soon as I hung up I cried a little.

On the other hand, men today are used to everything being available and they don't have to do crap because their parents will ensure they have all their wishes met and so the men become lazy and emasculated. Men are in need of a rite of passage to differentiate the boys from the men. And maybe this is my rite of passage, sure is hard enough lol.

I'm not sure if this is supposed to be my purpose, but I do think about making it one day after I've put in the effort, earning money, having a strong work ethic and then... then I'd visit my home country. I'd become something and someone and would be able to do all the things I want. And I'd do them all. 😉

Older guys with enough experience and guys that had to work to earn a living or moved away young like I are free to share their valued opinon as I need advice on how to proceed.