26 FA, no friends, etc. Met girl at work December 2017. She worked 2nd shift I worked 1st shift in same area, she would take over for me. We got along great I make her laugh I feel like she likes me. Third week of knowing me she gave me her number she said incase I needed to know something work related. We start texting, eventually she even starts hugging me when she sees me, big hugs too. She even text me that she loves hugging me. Around June she is moved to different area to do more complicated work, I also change to night shift and different area on other side of building because of school. We still see each other when she is leaving work in break room, everything is good. But then the fall semester starts so I start my shift earlier but still in night shift, so we dont see each other anymore but still text. I should also mention that I think I am friend zoned because she would text me stuff like "good night friend" "hi Buddy". But I'm FA so idk.

This is when my first mistake happens. Im texting with her and mention that I got a good raise. She text me this "Thats good now you can take me out". What do I do? I reject her by saying "I would take you out but I'm so busy, when I have free time for sure". In my defense I was super busy work 40+ hrs and full-time school. But I panicked, i got insecure because I have no experience, I wouldn't even know where to take her.

So after this we still text occasionally but we both are busy so not much. The last conversation I have wit her we texted like we normally would friendly. Then like 2 weeks later my brother took a cute photo of me holding my cat in a blanket like a baby. This girl likes cats, so I text her "You want to see my son? ", planning to send her the pic after she said yes, but she never responded. I was like whatever, if she wants to talk to me ill let her text me first. She never responded. Then like 2 months later on New years day I decided to take another shot, and sent her a happy new years text, again she never responded.

This whole time we still work same company, but haven't seen her in person like for 4 months. Still work different shift and I have never run into her. Until this past week. I was in the break room by myself , around this time her shift is already gone. I was filling up my bottle in water cooler, when I hear behind me the door open, it took me a sec but when I turned I see that its her. But she had turned around and left I was able to see the side of her face thru the window in the door. So she opened the door saw me in there and just turned around and left. I was like wtf, why would she avoid me?

I know you guys are gonna roast me, I know that I have oneitis, I know I should move on and I have 0% chance now. But I want to try and text her one last time just to ask her and find out why shes doing this. I would prefer if she told me to go fuck myself instead of nothing. What should I text? If is should even do it.