How to become more decisive?

SirAttackHelicopter · 2019-03-12T15:37:36+00:00

Just make a choice and follow through with it. Stop being afraid of potential scenarios that you imagine in your head, and accept whatever consequences come. Never look back. Keep doing this and you will train yourself to make decisions. There is no such thing as a good decision, because you can NEVER account for all the variables of the future.

SimplyFishOil · 2019-03-12T15:55:33+00:00

Stop thinking to yourself "Ready, Aim, Fire"

Instead, think to yourself "Ready, FIRE, Aim"

Too many people get stuck going "Ready, Aim...Aim...Aim..." And they never fire. Unless you know 100% the outcome, just fire and not only will you have done what you're so indecisive about, but you'll definitely learn something afterwards. Then you can get back up and try again

AJ_KG_JG · 2019-03-12T18:15:52+00:00

You're spending so much time making decisions because you want to make the smart (right) choice. Recognize that the smart strategy, in the long run, is to make decisions (relatively) quickly and then move on. I.e., it's the smart choice.

XT3M3 · 2019-03-12T19:46:27+00:00

make the choice that has the best end game for you rather than ones that appease other people. most people who struggle making choices are trying too hard to please others rather than themselves. and or low self esteem as well

get in the mindset of , its my life and i control this, no one else

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-03-12T16:08:02+00:00

You have to build self confidence.

Title	How to become more decisive?
Author	packerswoop
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	March 12, 2019 3:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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