How would you proceed?

RedLegendx · 2019-03-17T23:48:50+00:00

No dude, no. Stop.

vas_mhtro · 2019-03-17T23:50:10+00:00

The actual fuck? Deport that bitch to whatever crazy house she came from.

Cazken · 2019-03-18T00:04:07+00:00

No. She thinks you’re a little bitch. Girls get very submissive if they actually like you. Idk. Actually, message her “get over here and suck my cock then” and see how it plays out. If she does it then keep fucking her, if no then go no contact.

fantatram · 2019-03-18T00:46:45+00:00

I am assuming you are younger (22 or less). There are roughly 3.5 billion females on the planet, and you have naturally built up feelings for one, who in this case happens to be dominant and aggressive. I can understand why you would still have feelings for her if you are young, as this would be one of the first times your brain has had these emotions regarding an individual.

You need to tell your mind that there are literally milions and millions of other women in the country that are better than her. It will be hard, and your mind will be set on this one. But you need to understand how important it is to move on when something isn't right. You need to respect yourself. If someone is aggressive towards you and hurts you, you need to have enough respect for yourself as a man to step back, and take her out of your life.

Women are a dime-a-dozen. The more women you have in your life you will realize that this is true. Understand that women come and go, and not one is more special than the other. Like I said, it will be hard, but you need to learn to respect yourself.

PolesWithGoals · 2019-03-18T05:31:27+00:00

I wouldn’t proceed with her at all tbh

zxcvb7809 · 2019-03-18T06:32:09+00:00

I would slowly back away from her and keep text messages from the relationship as proof you did not rape or assault her in any way. She seems controlling and we already know how manipulative people can be.

If you decide to stay with her know that if you hit her you are done son. Also if she gets pregnant or claims she is pregnant you need proof you are the father and know that she will use the kid or alleged pregnancy as leverage to control you.

If she threatens to kill herself that isn't your problem and you won't be controlled. Let her close family and friends know what is going on and back away a little bit quicker.

I have been in situations similar and it is one of the few times I cut plates loose.

Best of Luck.

Title	How would you proceed?
Author	11111222111
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Comments	6
Date	March 17, 2019 11:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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