Talking to plates about plates

daswunderwaffe · 2019-03-18T04:06:39+00:00

I prefer not to talk about other girls in order to make jealous. Instead, I give the implication of other girls. If possible, a hint/proof of another girl is much more effective. If this hint has a plausible deniability, even better.

Don't point her, don't tell her. Let her think that she herself realized there are other girls you're seeing. Another girl's hair in the shower, movie tickets for two on the counter. You telling her is one thing, but her realizing other girls in your life... You can't imagine the effect. This kind of stuff works better if you want a jealous attention. She can't even shit test you with that kind of jealousy, she'll know she's not the only option.

Don't be obvious. That's called the Dread Game.

Moreover, talking about another girl is a sign of admiration to that girl. Sign of weakness. Demonstrates low value. YOU DON'T WANT THAT! Remember, you don't give a shit about the other girls either. They are just there to please you. Don't let her think that you feel a necessity to mention other girls' existence.

Also don't overdo it. The Dread Game should be played only when necessary.

Group sex is an exception. They should be fully-aware about each other to group sexy you know.

mrmaldoror · 2019-03-18T03:44:53+00:00

I don't bring it up unless they do and play it off casually. Making them jealous isn't my intention either.

Most of my plates don't ask.

gregoire_ · 2019-03-18T04:28:21+00:00

If she asks if I’m fucking other girls, I ask if she wants to have a threesome and focus on that. That immediately let’s them know I can get another one any time I feel like, but it doesn’t outright admit I’m fucking other women.

I don’t get into detail about other girls I’m fucking. I see it as an invasion of the other girls’ privacy.

bluefingerblue · 2019-03-18T14:18:47+00:00

Bad game. Let her find out on her own. Necklace on your bathroom counter, bra in the corner of your room, getting texts from other girls, etc

You shouldn’t want or need to tell her you’re seeing other girls. It should be implied through your actions.

And if you actually are seeing other girls, there will be enough clues for her to find out on her own.

Title	Talking to plates about plates
Author	jbpostv
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	March 18, 2019 3:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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