Tinder shows this situation very accurately:

80% of men ignored by 100% of women.

Top 20% men gets sex and "relationships" from 100% of women.

So the social hierarchy is (including social media and dating apps):

Bottom 80% of men are worse than 100% of women.

100% of women are worse than top 20% of men

*(without internet the numbers would be much different, like 80% of men would change to 40% or even less)

Therefore there are men at the top, not women.

They are born with beauty and with vagina which gives them way to get shit for free and to get through life full of validation and attention, maybe even with well earning naive husband.

And even if not, then probably some guy from tinder or friend from highschool will take her.

I giggled when my last ex thought shes smart if she dumps me for guy 5-10 years older (from tinder as well) who has his life already in place and has more assets.

Because thats best women can do.

They can only hook someone using their vagina. Not with their assets, character, education, achievements, sense of humor, popularity, career, etc.

And they wont even have assets, because they never try to reach any heights. They pick useless degree or dont study at all. They dont start their companies. They dont even go gym. Either lack of testosterone, or some other evolutional differences.

Whenever I do good with life im getting messaged by chicks i know, but when im doing bad, they dont msg. Its more than ridiculous. I secured good job, this opens a lot of relationship opportunities, well poor ladies because Ill only strung them along, they wont get what they want.

To me its clear that women will be only with you if you have success or if you are her best current option.

It's not love at all from her side. At least not to you. But to your assets.