I'm just making this update because someone asked for it.

I went no contact with her til yesterday, when I needed to get the key for my spare place where I usually take my plates.

We talked on the phone for a couple minutes and she complained about how I was a shitty boyfriend and a shitty friend for going no contact and not asking about her well-being.

I acted as nonchalant about it as I could but ultimately ended the call with no date set for me to get my key. She sent me long ass texts explaining the situation and asking to be friends. I refused the proposition and told her to text me once she fixes the situation with her family or changes her mind about us dating.

Fast forward today, got a text asking to meet at x place and y time. I decide to go thinking I was getting my key, we meet and she asks to walk for a couple minutes, I'm behaving as I normally would around any girl. She then tells me she has to go, I give her my hand for a handshake as a joke and she pulls me for a passionate kiss.

That's good and all, but I don't think soft nexting her was enough to made her realize what she did. I'll have to figure out how to handle this in a balanced way meanwhile I'm back spinning two plates already.

I also want the thank all of you guys contribution to my post. Thanks for helping me think in a rational way. And if you have any more feedback I'm more than happy to listen.