I’ve been getting pretty good at approaching lately. At least a lot better than I used to be.

I was out last weekend with some friends and I noticed a flaw in my game. Most of the time when we are in a group with girls we are on the dancefloor area. Here- it seems the only way to pull is to dance with girls.

I have no problem dancing with girls, but I find that my game is a lot better when I just approach and start taking. I’m good at talking, I’m good at conversing, I’m good at “charming” if you will. However- when the girls are just dancing it’s hard to approach and talk to them.

Of course there are areas of the bar where there are girls who aren’t dancing and they’re just mingling and chatting and drinking etc. Maybe stick to those areas?

What are your thoughts on this?