Been on tinder about 2 months now, 2-3X weekly,- have matched with about 10 girls in total. I'd rate myself a 5/10 on average, and have pretty low self esteem. Anyways, talked to maybe 3 out of the 10 girls, but none seem interested in meeting up yet. Working on 1 girl now whose been responding to some messages, but no luck yet. So I also heard about Bumble before, and downloaded it last night. Was Surprised, literally 8/10 girls would be HB7 or higher, whereas Tinder, maybe 2/10 would be Hb7+. Matched with 3 chicks before i went to bed. 1 Chick messaged me, and since i didn't know I could view more than 1 pictures on Bumble before swiping right, (I didnt know, we had to scroll down to view other pics), so based on the profile pic which was a face shot only, i assumed the 1 chick was a HB7. Turns out after viewing the full profile, all pics were face shots only, 1 pic had a partial body pic where i could see she had some weight, but couldn't tell how much, but guessing 200+lbs.
Anyways sorry for the long winded post, but she was the only one interested in talking and meeting up. I didn't say yes or no yet, but wanted the opinion of you guys, how should i play it? I've prob only been on 3 days in my life, sad, and had 1 LTR. If i saw her full pic, i def would of swiped left, but i feel bad now if i just ghost or unmatch her, but i def have no interest. But i've been staying home the past few weekends, so wondering better to stay home again or go out with someone with much lower SMV? thanks.
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