Tried with 2 different girls in the last couple weeks. With the first one I’ve tried a few times and I will be fine till I go on top to put it in and then just lose it, sort of freak a little and can feel my heart start to race a fair bit. Sort of figured it was mental but also she didn’t do a lot for me either (no handjob or head). With the other I tried just before and just lost it in foreplay, but I feel like I started to get in my head about it before I lost it, and I’m not particularly that interested/attracted to her anyway, sort of just wanted to see if I could get the job done but failed.

Been sexually inactive for probably 6/7 months prior to the last few weeks. Been on nofap seeing if that was the issue for the last 10ish days but i don’t think it’s that, don’t really struggle with porn etc. Have no problem getting and maintaining an erection without porn.

Only other thing was I feel like I went through something similar when I lost my virginity years ago but didn’t have this much trouble, just took 3 or so attempts to get over the nerves with one girl. Failed with another twice prior because of the same thing but haven’t had an issue since I got past it till now.

Just feel as though I’ve gotta get the job done once before I can be consistent again but feel as though I’m at risk of losing the plates if I keep under delivering, and I’m not sure when my next opportunity to amend the situation will be if I lose them. Will be heading to the doctors tomorrow but just wanted to see if anyone else had any other advice.

Thanks.