The title is somewhat a TLDR.

Moved into a new housing complex. Made friends with my fat neighbor so I could get into the social circle and close the hot friend she had. The plan worked great and quickly. Got invited a few days after meeting the fat friend to have beers with the group. Friended the hot friend on FB and we started messaging, then got the phone number and started texting. We started setting the mood with some hot sexting.

A few days later, told her "Hey you and I are getting beers in 30 minutes at [name of bar], see you there." She showed up (actually earlier than me). We hung out had a great time, came back to my place, watched some TV and then it got heavy. We had sex all night long and it was awesome. We're both into each other, she's hot, major compatibility.

Next few days we continue texting, still sprinkling in sex references. I got to schedule a second meeting...we both love the same baseball team but I can get it on TV and she can't. I set up a date to watch the game and have dinner.

Then she drops it on me:

"I had a good time too, I'm just having some girl code struggles about it." The fact that the fat friend has a crush on me is making it impossible for the hot friend to move forward with me.

I'm so frustrated by this and have no clue how to frame it. Right now I haven't responded to that and am using the silence (I think) to my advantage.

Tips? Tricks? Advice?

Thanks in advance bros!