Initially it seemed like it was all going great and she was serious about marriage, but couple weeks ago it seems to have changed. And she says that she wants to wait for 2 year to travel and study abroad. She's said that " its not you, its me" and that "im perfect" which seems like double speak and a lie.

I don't know how to

  1. get to the bottom of what she really is bothered by
  2. how to make her realize that things are not worth waiting for. as a female this should be the most important thing for her.

I'm asking this sub b/c I actually want marriage and to figure out how to do it. I could just treat it like a normal redpill dynamic and try to create dread, but I'm not sure that will work. Just looking for advice to get grounded again.