Feeling hopeless

AscensionExperiments · 2019-04-18T21:19:26+00:00

Cool thing is, all your problems aren't that hard to fix.

You don't have social skills? Practice. Go to places where people are, maybe with themes that pertain to your interests, and strike up conversations. It'll feel unnatural at first but it gets better. (yes, you will fail at first, but eventually you'll make friends)

O- can't seem to think of things to say. I used to have this issue too, start small with "hey I'm Will, what's going on with x y z?" (asking questions is an easy way to start)

Go on facebook or w/e, find local events, go, and kill that defeatist mindset of yours while you're at it

mental_models · 2019-04-19T00:01:53+00:00

read the sidebar

focus on your passion/career and your fitness

CllrBlohjay · 2019-04-19T02:15:35+00:00

Watch social charisma matrix on YouTube

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-04-19T05:22:14+00:00

almost no confidence

This one is the easiest to address so I’d urge you to work on it first through heavy weight training. It’s the best way to get your body; and your mind into the game.

Socially u/wwillrocksize skills take time to hone. Once your confidence is up find interests and hobbies you want to pursue. Then find groups that share those interests and join them. If you’re up for it Social Soccer is always a good way to ease into it. Just find a local comp; approach the organisers and tell them you’re keen to just have a kick around.

When you’re ready then step up your game. Things like open mic nights and Toastmasters helped me so I’ll suggest them but it’s up to you how you want to develop those skills.

Godspeed and good luck!

Title	Feeling hopeless
Author	wwillrocksize
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	April 18, 2019 9:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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