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Girl meets a guy on OKCupid who is confident and dominant. Girl gives him a blowjob... then later decides that it was date-rape because she was "nervous".

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June 10, 2014
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Title Girl meets a guy on OKCupid who is confident and dominant. Girl gives him a blowjob... then later decides that it was date-rape because she was "nervous".
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Comments 3
Date June 10, 2014 9:37 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/27tmqi/girl_meets_a_guy_on_okcupid_who_is_confident_and/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/girl-meets-a-guy-on-okcupid-who-is-confident-and.229630
https://theredarchive.com/post/229630
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[–]redpillshadow2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reported for that misrepresenting title.

OP in the comments

Hey guys.. I didn't mean to start a debate on this. I don't care if it was "date-rape" or not, I know I probably could have prevented it, but the point is I'm uncomfortable now and not sure how to proceed. I just blocked him on OKC. I hope we don't end up working together -_-

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She didn't claim it was date-rape, she even explicitly denies that it was her intention to insinuate this.

One can argue about whether she did a smart thing or not by asking teh intarwebz about its opinion, but the guy did behave like a douchebag, and to me it seems she was equally blaming herself for going along with it as blaming him for going caveman on her.

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

According to her story, he was acting like a douchebag. For all we know, it could and would likely have been very different. If the details of the account were much tamer, would the audience really side with her on it? People with a specific intent will sell you a story that favors them and one that likely wins your trust.

The thing to takeaway: she willingly decided to perform all these acts upon him. At the end, she said she had enough and decided to stop. But earlier, she had mentioned that she was afraid of what he would do. Contradictions.

She regrets the interaction, which is why this story is where it is. Had he been more direct (he was already very aggressive), she would not be complaining about the incident.

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