The title says it all. I cheated on my fiancée. Twice. Within a month. With two different girls. She found out when she went through my phone and saw the pictures I took, and the text correspondence between myself and the other girls. I explained to her the biological and sexual impulses men have, and that it in no way reflects on her as a woman and as my future wife.
I love this girl, I do, I really do. I want to spend my life with her. At this stage, she's agreed to take me back and work through her feelings on the matter. I, in turn, have promised not to do so again.
My problem is she's depressed. She will be loving and adoring one minute, then the next she will be weeping on the kitchen floor, or having a panic attack in the corner. I do not know how to deal with this. She is isolated from her family due to distance and has no friends in the immediate area.
Has anyone else is a LTR had a situation like this? How did you work through it? How can I fix this, if it can be fixed at all?
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