Beginning of the year I have come across to M's post in a private forum. I have read it and wanted to use it when I get a chance.

My whole post is based on his post so most of the credits belongs to him. I have tweaked and focused on the details that he has not covered as well as going over his tutorial ... Plus I have created an album of photos to show some of my sexts...

I will try to explain Do's and Dont's as much as I can. I will quote Moiser when needed.

Sexting is a powerful tool in our arsenal, and, digital communication is only going to become more popular as we move on.
Everyone has a smart phone on their pocket now, and guess how many of women have dirty photos in their smart phones? Almost all of them! yes if you are in the game for a while you should know that If a woman is attracted to you and If she trusts you; SKY is the limit!

How to start
I found best time to start sexting is late night or when they are alone completely focused on your texts.

A good way to get things going is to use a teasingly playful frame, avoid being overtly sexual right off the bat. Try throwing out some flirtatious threads and see if she picks any of them up. For example, seed a game of naked monopoly, if she reacts playfully then start to ramp things up. If she doesn't pick up the thread then do a little more ground work and take another stab at it.

I usually start with a pout contest, or asking hows their "view" looks like. And send them the first photo and encourage them to send me a photo back to get things going. Then I would try to make a sexual statement to start the sexting fire.

My other method is asking if they are going hell or heaven then commenting if they are bad girls or not! Then I would try to send a photo of me with my top off or I am just in my boxers... This may back fire if you have not set the sexual frame correctly.

Setting the frame
Think this initial phase as foreplay, you would want to warm up your partner and try to get her ready to sexting as much as possible.

Women are sexual creatures, they love sex just as much, if not more than we do, and, they'll be more than happy to share that with you in the right situation.They love descriptive texts and role plays, start slowly, and, avoid using overtly sexual text initially, the idea is to turn her on slowly and avoid pushing her too far out of her comfort zone.

Ramping things up

If you get a positive response, escalate and step things up another notch. calibrate and cool down when needed. Think of it as a fire, it takes a little care and attention getting things started, don't rush. Remember that, just as if you were face to face, you must lead the interaction.

This is very important;

Make your messages interesting, try not be generic, talk about spanking her, choking her, throwing her around, cock slapping her, tying her up or eating her asshole. The point is to stand out as a guy who's comfortable with himself, is non-judgmental and is comfortable with women and sex in general.

To give an example; a girl whom I went on few date, opened up to me after I started sexting her. She told me biggest turn on for her is deep throat and sperm pouring down from her throat while she is choking on her partners cock. At our next date she gave me the best bj and I made sure she is living her fantasy of swallowing my load while choking...

Do's and Dont's
•Avoid using emoticons, and, internet talk.

•I've had my best results being overly descriptive. Describe where you are, the location this fantasy is taking place, the situation you're both in. Describe how her body interacts with the environment, if you're fucking her outside and it's raining, how does it feel on her/your skin? Tell her how what you're doing to her feels, it's the little details that can really make a difference.

•Use descriptive adjectives to amplify your text: soft, rough, passionately, etc.

•You must take the lead, I can't stress enough how critical leading the interaction is, you have to go first. If she gets invested enough, she'll start to open up and play back at you, if this happens, this is your queue to step things up a notch.

•Mirroring - If she gives you any hints regarding her sexual fantasies then take full advantage of it. Calibration is the order of the day here, you need to be able to read whether she's getting turned on and becoming invested in your interaction. Don't be judgmental about anything you get back - If she starts sharing sexual fantasies, you want to avoid breaking rapport and destroying comfort... a little can be ok, but, if you overdo it you'll be dead in the water.

•Use her physical features in your sext so she will understand that what you wrote is unique fro her and you are not copy pasting. If she has blond hair, add a line that you are pulling her blond hair. Once she turns on and starts getting wet she will question herself that you are good at sexting so you probably sending this to other girls which is a good sign because preselection and sexual experience, but also what you wrote is unique for her...

•If you are writing a long fantasy or story dont send everything in one message.Remember it is better if she engages and send positive feedbacks. Plus It is better if she thinks that you are typing your sext and not copy pasting. So even if you are copy pasting you need to make her think that you are typing. If you ever copy paste your fantasies follow this steps;
-Divide your long story / fantasy to smaller pieces.
-If both of you has iPhone and iMessage when you type something receiver can see you are typing like this, so wait few mins before sending the divided piece of the story

•When there's no doubt in your mind you've got her turn on and invested, you can switch from story telling. Don't be afraid to tell her how turned on you are, how you wish you could touch her. Tell her you want her to send you a picture of her touching herself, if you get one, great! If you don't then don't make an issue of it, leave it awhile before telling her she owes you one. You stand a better chance of getting on when she's already turned on, so avoid asking her when she's cold the first time around!

Avoiding anti-slut defense

Unfortunately some of this girls will sext to you but they may flake later because they feel like sluts. They may concern that you turned on the heat way too much before actually meeting them so you are seeing them as just holes.

I dont have a bulletproof solution for this yet.

If she raises her concerns about your conversations being overly sexual and she is not that type of girl. Amplify what she says and give it back to her. Also assure her that you are interested in her, not only her vagina.

My go to lines in this case are
"Sorry if I gave you wrong signals but actually I flirt a lot I dont put out"
"I have a rule; I meet up with my dates in a public place get to know them to see if we click before doing any of this."
"I am not looking for a hole, I am looking for someone I can bond, someone make me feel butterflies in my stomach and someone ca make bad decisions with me...plus I am not a piece of meat either I have opened up my fantasy world to you because I feel like we can click"

You get the idea amplify and mirror.

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